Sometimes Cultural differences can make relations

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Communication skills with foreigner
Sometimes Cultural differences can make relationships
difficult. If a person speaks in another language or a
different way altogether or has different irreconcilable
stands on moral and some global issues. Although it is daunting
task to learn western languages for us ,it will open a new
world of communication. No matter when, we can always learn
the simple greetings and expressions in another language.
Surprise other people by saying "Hello" in their language! Here
are some suggestions, for example:
First step: Understand relativism: some things are
relative to some particular frame or reference, such as a
language or a culture. Understand that people from other
cultures might have entirely differently value systems than
yours, but still not be explicitly wrong.
Second step :Give proper personal space: Different
cultures have different norms regarding what personal space
is public (in which other humans can stand and converse with
you) and private (reserved only for your dear ones). For
example: Arabs do not share the concept of "personal space"
that Americans have. It is considered offensive to step or lean
away while talking to an Arab! Make sure you create proper
distance between others when you talk. If you're unsure, you
can always ask the others what they would like.
Learn to recognize physical cues: The gamut of cultures
contain a physical-gesture kaleidoscope. Often when people
visit other countries, they get lost and miss subtle cultural
cues, which leads them to misinterpret others. The use of irony,
the implication of a laugh, are many times visible only
through the squinting of the eyes, the shaking of the hand,
which a cultural outsider might miss
Know relationship differences: Many foreigners think
American relationships are superficial (with a brief "Hi,
john", and never a backward glance). Americans might think
relationships in other cultures are too sentimental. So, know
that if a person strikes you as too voluble or withdrawn, it
may be considered normal in his culture.
Learn about their culture: Learn about the greetings, the
goodbye rituals, the before-meal ceremonies, the food, the
clothes. If some catch your fancy, you might even try them!
This will help you understand people from other cultures. Do
not belittle their religion: Remember, most people believe
passionately in their religions, and what strikes you as unreal,
may be his constant truth. If you have trouble dealing with
it, you may wish to skirt the topic of religion altogether.
Accept there may be lapses in communication: Even the best
communicators fall short when jumping across the vast cultural
chasm. Humor and non-defensiveness are the best bridges at such
times.
Ask: There is no better tool for effective communication.
If something strikes you as funny or inappropriate, if you feel
the other person is neglecting you or is offended, simply ask
him what you can do to remedy the problem. Grievances are like
silence- broken when they are spoken out.

NAME :Angela
CLASS: (B) 7
STUDENT NUMBER:1218960178