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真心真意过一生
真心真意过一生
看世间忙忙碌碌
何苦走这不归路
熙熙攘攘为名利
何不开开心心交朋友
时时刻刻忙算计
谁知算来算去算自己
卿卿我我难长久
何不平平淡淡活到老
真真假假怨人生
不如轻轻松松过一生是非恩怨随风付诸一笑聚散离合本是人生难免
爱情也许会老
真心永远年轻
有我有你有明天
人生短短何必计较太多成败得失不用放在心头
今霄对月高歌
明朝海阔天空
真心真意过一生
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时时刻刻的提醒自己的个人自我总结6篇篇1在过去的一段时间里,我时刻提醒自己,不断努力,不断追求进步。
通过不断的学习和实践,我在各个方面都取得了一定的成绩。
以下是我对自己的个人自我总结:一、思想方面我始终坚持以积极、乐观、向上的态度面对生活和工作。
我深信,态度决定一切,只有保持积极的态度,才能在面对困难和挑战时,保持冷静、理智,从而克服一切。
同时,我也时刻提醒自己,要尊重他人,尊重每一个不同的意见和观点,以包容和开放的心态去面对这个世界。
二、学习方面我始终把学习放在首位,不断充实自己,提升自己的知识水平和业务能力。
我深知,学习是进步的阶梯,只有不断学习,才能不断进步。
因此,我不仅注重专业知识的学习,还涉猎了多个领域,以拓宽自己的视野,提升自己的综合素质。
同时,我也积极参与各种培训和学习活动,以不断提升自己的业务能力和工作效率。
三、工作方面我始终以认真负责的态度对待工作,尽职尽责,努力完成每一项任务。
我深知,工作是锻炼和展示自己的舞台,只有用心去工作,才能取得成果。
因此,我时刻提醒自己,要保持专注和耐心,注重细节和品质,以精益求精的态度去对待工作。
同时,我也积极参与团队合作,与同事们共同解决问题,共同追求卓越。
四、生活方面我始终保持健康的生活方式,注重锻炼和饮食,以保持良好的身体状态和精神状态。
我深知,身体是革命的本钱,只有拥有健康的身体,才能更好地投入工作和生活。
因此,我时刻提醒自己,要保持良好的作息习惯,加强锻炼和运动,以提升身体素质和免疫力。
同时,我也注重社交和娱乐,与家人和朋友保持联系,以丰富自己的生活内容和社交圈子。
五、总结与展望总体来说,我在过去的一段时间里,取得了不错的成绩和进步。
但是,我也清楚地认识到自己的不足之处和需要改进的地方。
因此,在未来的学习和工作中,我会继续保持积极的态度和努力的精神状态面貌;同时也会加强学习和实践;不断提升自己的综合素质和能力水平;以更好地适应工作和生活的需要。
第30卷 第3期 牡丹江大学学报 Vol.30 No.3 2021年3月 Journal of Mudanjiang University Mar. 2021 文章编号:1008-8717(2021)03-0057-05醒悟,抑或是困顿——《时时刻刻》中弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫之双面人生解读贺毅娜(淮阴工学院外国语学院,江苏 淮安 223001)摘 要:电影《时时刻刻》以弗吉尼亚的意识流小说《达洛维夫人》(Mrs.Dalloway)为线索,巧妙运用蒙太奇的电影手段和非线性的叙事方式,跨越时空,讲述了弗吉尼亚、劳拉及克拉丽莎三位女性人生中一天的故事,是一部非常成功的女性主义题材影片。
本文通过对游离于现实生活与小说创作之间的弗吉尼亚的双重生活状态进行论述,活灵活现地展现出三位女性因所处时代不同而经历了不同的境遇,进而以更深的笔触揭示和披露了当代西方社会中女性的生存困境和面临的文化、精神困顿。
关键词:双面人生;女性主义;精神危机中图分类号:I106 文献标识码:AAwakened or Fatigued-The Double——Faced Life Interpretation of Virginia Woolf in The HoursHE Yi-na(School of Foreign Language,Huaiyin Institute of Technology,Huai’an Jiangsu 223001)Abstract: The movie The Hours is based on Virginia Woolf’s Stream of consciousness novel-Mrs. Dalloway.It is a very successful feminist film, telling the story of one day in the life of Virginia, Laura and Clarissa across time and space with the ingenious use of montage and non-linear narrative.This paper discusses Virginia's dual life state, which is separated between real life and novel creation,It vividly shows the different situations experienced by the three women due to their different times.Then it reveals the survival dilemma,cultural and spiritual difficulties faced by women in the contemporary Western society with a deeper touch.Key words: Double-faced Life;Feminism;Spiritual crisis收稿日期:基金项目:作者简介:2020-10-152020年江苏省教育厅高校哲学社会科学研究一般项目“基于云课堂的大学英语‘线上线下’混合式教学模式研究”(项目编号:2020SJA1805)贺毅娜(1981-),女,陕西西安人,淮阴工学院外国语学院讲师,硕士,主要研究方向:教学法,英语语言文学。
"T H E H O U R S"Dearest,I feel certain, that I'm going mad again.I think we can't go through another of these terrible timesand I shan't recover this time.I begin to hear voicesand can't concentrate.So I'm doing what seems the best thing to do.You have given me the greatest possible happiness.You have been in every way all that anyone could be.I know that I'm spoiling your lifeand without me you could workand you will.I know.You see I can't even write this properly.What I want to say is that I owe all the happiness of my life to you.You have been entirely patient with meand incredibly good.Everything is gone for me,but the certainty of your goodness.I can't go on spoiling your life any longer.I don't think two people could have been happier than we have been.Virginia."T H E H O U R S"Morning, doctor! -Mr. Woolf.A little worse, I think. -I see.My thing is to keep her where she is.Good morning, Leonard.Good morning, Virginia.How was your sleep?Uneventful.Headaches? - No, no headaches.Doctor seemed pleased.It's all from this morning? -Yes.This young man has submitted his manuscript.I found three errors of fact and two spelling mistakes and I'm not yet on page four.Had breakfast?Yes.Liar.Virginia, it's not my insistence but the doctor's.I'd better send Nelly up with some fruit in the parlour.Right... lunch then.Proper lunch, husband and wife sitting down together...soup... pudding and all.By force if necessary.Leonard, I believe I may have the first sentence.Work then.Then you must eat.Mrs. Dalloway saidshe would buy the flowers herself.Mrs. Dalloway said that she would buy the flowers herself.Sally, I think I'll buy the flowers myself.What?What flowers?Shit!You're never gonna be a big boy if you don't eat your breakfast.You're gonna be the big brother - it's a very important job.Happy birthday.Good morning, honey.Oh, Dan!Roses on your own birthday - too much, really...Hope he'll eat it now you're here.It is your birthday, you shouldn't be up buying me flowers.Well, you were still sleeping - So...We decided it would be better if we let you to sleep a little, didn't we? Good morning, Bug.You need to rest, Laura. You're only 4 months away.Don't, I'm fine... just tired.I was telling him he's got to eat his breakfast!That's true.So, it's a beautiful day!What are you two going to do?We've got our plans, don't we?What plans?Well, it wouldn't be much of a party,if I told you every detail in advance?I'd better stop asking questions, ahah?!.Look, the time - I'd better get going.Have a good day.You too!Dan, happy birthday.Thank you.You need to finish your breakfast.Well, I'm gonna make a cake.That's what I'm gonna do.I'm gonna make a cake for daddy's birthday.Mommy, can I help?Can I help make the cake?Of course you can, sweetie.I'm not gonna do anything without you.No, of course, you have to come.Of course.Well, I always wanted you... And everybody involved in the ceremony.I don't know it. Around sixty?Well...it will...it'll mean so much.The whole occasion.It's the least I can do - have a nice dinner and say thanks to everybody. You have made so much for him.Oh, take that as a "yes".He'll be thrilled! -Oh, my god!I'm thrilled, oh, good! - What if nobody comes?This is Clarissa Vaughan.Yes, I'm just confirming that you are sending a car to pick up me first. Hi, Clarissa! -Hi, hi, Brenda!And then going over to 679 Hudson at 9:40.Then you will take me uptown and you will wait for us...It'll be over at 7 o'clock.Oh, flowers!What a beautiful morning.Hello, Clarissa.How are you?I'm having a party.My friend Richard has won the "Corroders".Wow, that's just terrific!if I knew what it was...It is a poetry prize...for a life's work.It's the most prestigious.For a poet, it's the best you can do.Oh, very good. So, what do you like? The lilies are perfect.No, too morbid.Hydrangeas, I think.And...oh, oh, let's just have buckets of roses! And...I think I'm gonna take these with me.Rodney.Thank you.I actually tried to read Richard's novel...You did?Oh, I know.It is not easy.I know. It did take him ten years to write.Maybe just takes another ten to read.It's you isn't it?In the novel. Isn't it meant to be you?Oh, I see!Yeah, sort of.I mean...in a way.Richard's a writer that's what he is...He uses things which actually happened. - Yeah... And years ago he and I were students, that's true. But, you know, then he changes things. -Oh, sure!I don't mean in a bad way.It's more like...he makes them his own.A woman's whole life...in a single day.Just one day.And in that day...her whole life.This is what we need, shortening.Mrs. Dalloway.It's you! -Yes.It's me! It's me!Come in.Oh, Richard, is a beautiful morning!We should let in a little more light.Is it still morning?Yes, it is.Have I died?Good morning, my dear.Any visitors?Yes.Are they still here?No, they've gone.How do they look? -Today?Sort of like black fire.Sort of light and dark at the same time.There was one that was as an electrified jellyfish.It was singing.May have been Greek.So, the ceremony is at 5.Do you remember?And then...the party is right after.They did bring you breakfast, didn't they?What a question...of course.Richard, you did eat it?Well, can you see it?Is it here?Do you see breakfast lying around?No, I don't see it.Well, then I must have eaten it, mustn't I?I suppose.Does it matter?Of course it matters.You know what the doctors say.Have you been skipping pills?Of course, I can't take this.Take what?To be proud and brave...in front of everybody.Honey, it's not a performance.Of course it is! I got the prize for my performance.That is nonsense.I got the prize for having AIDS and going nuts...and being brave about it!I actually got the prize for having come through! -It's not true. For surviving! -It's not true!That's what I won it for!Do you think they would have given it to me if I were healthy?! Yes, as a matter of fact I do!Is it here somewhere?What?The prize?I'd like to look at it.No, you haven't gotten it yet.It is tonight.Are you sure?I remember the ceremony perfectly.I seem to have fallen out of time.Richard.Richard.It is a party.It's only a party.Populated entirely with people who respect and admire you. Ha, small party, is it?Select party, is it?Your friends.I thought I lost all my friends.I thought I drove my friends crazy.Jesus. -Oh, Mrs. Dalloway...... always giving parties...to cover the silence.Richard...you won't need to do anything - all you have to do is appear... sit on the sofa.And I will be there.This is a group of peoplewho wanna tell you your work is going to live.Will it be this way?Is my work going to live?I can't go through all this.Why do you say that?I can't!Why?Because I wanted to be a writer, that's all.And?I wanted to write about it all.Everything that happens in a moment.The way the flowers look when you carry them in your arms. This towel - how it smells, how it feels...it's thread.All our feelings - yours and mine.The history of it.Who we once were.Everything in the world.Everything mixed up.Like it's all mixed up now.And I failed.I failed.No matter what you start up with, it ends up being so much less. Sheer fucking pride!And stupidity.We want everything, don't we?I suppose we do.You kissed me on a beach.Yeah.Do you remember?How many years ago.Of course I do.What did you wantCome closer.I'm right here.Come closer. Would you please?Take my hand.Would you be angry...Would I be angry if you didn't show up at the party?Would you be angry if I died?If you died?Who is this party for?What do you mean who is it for?Why are you asking? What are you trying to say?I am not trying to say anything.I'm saying I think I'm only staying alive to satisfy you.So that is it we do.That is what people do - they stay alive for each other.The doctors told you - you don't need to die.They told you. You can live this for years.Well, exactly!I don't accept this.I don't accept what you say.Oh, and it is for you to decide, is it?How long have you been doing that?How many years...cleaning for the apartment...What about your own life?What about Sally?Just wait till I die,and you'll have to think of yourself.How are you going to like that?Richard...it would be great if you did come to the party,if you felt well enough to come.Just to let you know that I am making the crab thingnot that I imagine it makes any difference to you.Of course it makes a difference, I love the crab thing.Clarissa.Yes...I'll be back at 3:30and will help you get dressed.Wonderful!Three thirty.Wonderful.It's on this day,this day of all days,her fate becomes clear to her.Excuse me, Mrs. Woolf.Mr. Woolf said I was to come and speak with you.Nearly finished, Nelly. Wait for me in the kitchen. I'll be done very soon. What happens isshe says she wants something then it turns out she doesn't!Well, she never does, does she?She never wants anything!But when she wants something in particular...it's a sure sign.I wish I've been thereI wish I had tone!If you give that look!I said "madam"Yes, Nelly, tell me. How can I help?It's about lunch.I just had to go ahead on my own.I understand.You chose a pie...I chose a lamb pie.That seems suitable.You being so busy with your writing...I'd no instructions.You do remember that my sister is comingat four with the children?Yes, Madam. I had not forgotten.China tea, I think.And ginger.Ginger, Madam...I'd like to give the children a treat.We'll have to go to London for ginger, Madam.I haven't finished this, and there's the rest of lunch to get ready.The 12:30 train, Nelly, will get you into London just after one,if you return on the 2.30, you should be back in Richmond soon after 3.Do I miscalculate?No!Well then, is something detaining you Nelly?I can't think of anything more exhilarating than a trip to London.Good morning, Mrs. Woolf.Good morning.We shall publish no more new authors.I have to tell you I've discovered ten errors in the first proof.Less bad than there are them opposing."Pasandale was a charn錶-house...from which no min return"!Do you think it's possible that bad writing actually attracts a higher incidence of error?If it's all right, I thought I might take a short walk.Not far?No, just over there.Go then.If I could walk mid-morning, I'd be a happy man.She'll die.She's going to die.That's what's going to happen.She'll kill herself.She'll kill herself over something which doesn't seem to matter.Let us think.You greased the pan, mommy.I know I greased the pan, sweetheart, even mommy knows that.This is what we're gonna do.Flour.Bowl.Sifter.Can I do it, mommy?Can I sift the flour?Yes, you can sift the flower,baby, if that's what makes you happy.Isn't it beautiful?Don't you think it looks like snow?OK. Now...the next thing...the next thing I'm gonna show youis to measure up the cuts.Mommy, it isn't that difficult.I know, I know it isn't difficult, it's just that I...just wanna do this for daddy.Because it's his birthday?That's right.Bake him the cake to show him that we love him. Otherwise he won't know we love him?That's right.I got all stuff!I'm going right out again.My God, what a zoo!Why do people have to talk about dry cleaning?What is it there to talk about?I bought you some flowers.Where are you?In here.I got someone at work to cover me. I'll be with you all night. Are you all right?Sure.I guess you saw Richard.That's right.Well, of course...I bet he said: "Oh, by the way, honey, can I skip the party?" Don't worry, he always shows up...Oh, sure!...in the end.What?Richard missing a chance to talk about his work?I don't think so. He'll show up.You did the seating?I did.I don't believe it - Louis Waters! Is Louis coming?!Richard's Louis?He is.You put him next to me...Why do I always have to sit next to the ex-es?Is it some kind of hint, sweetheart?Shouldn't the ex-es have table of their own,where they can all "ex" togetherI'm off.Try not to pass out from excitement.Clarissa, it's going to be beautiful.Thank you.You're welcome.Why is everything wrong?It didn't work!Damn it!It didn't work...Hi, Scott.Hi, Mrs. Barlow.Mommy, mommy, there's someone at the door!Hello?Laura?Hi, Laura, am I interrupting? -Of course not, come in.Are you all right?Why, sure!Hi, Richie!Sit down, I've got coffee on.Would you like some?Please.Oh, look, you made a cake!I know.Didn't work.I thought it was gonna work.I thought it would be better than that.Oh, Laura, I don't understand it why you find it so difficult!I don't know either.Everyone can make a cake - it's ridiculously easy.I bet you didn't grease the pan.I greased the pan.All right.You know, you have other virtues.And Dan loves you so much he won't even notice. Whatever you do, he's gonna say it's wonderful.Well, it's true!Does Ray have a birthday?Sure he does!When is it?September.We go to the country club.We always go to the country club.We drink martinis and spend the day with fifty people. Ray's got a lot of friends.Oh, he does...You both have a lot of friends.You are good at it.How is Ray? I haven't seen him in a while.Ray's fine.These guys are something, aren't they?Oh, yes, you can say that again.They came home from the war... They deserved it, didn't they?After all they've been through. -What...did they deserve?I don't I guess... all this.Oh, you are reading a book. - Yeah.What's this one about?Well, it'a about...This woman is incredibly... Well, she's a hostess, and she's incredibly confidentand she's going to give a party. And maybe because she's confident, everyone thinks she's fine...But she isn't.So?Kitty, what is it? Is there something wrong?I have to go to the hospital for a couple of days.Kitty...I have some kind of...ghost in my uterus and...we're gonna go in and take a look.When?This afternoon.I need you to feed the dog.Of course.Is that what you came here to ask?What did the doctors say exactly?That's probably what the trouble's beenwith not getting pregnant.The thing is...I mean, you know...I've been very happy with Ray.And now it turns out that there was a reason ...a reason I couldn't conceive.You are lucky, Laura.I don't think you can call yourself a woman until you're a mother.And the joke is...all my life I could do everything.I mean, could do anything, really.Except the one thing I wanted.Yes. -That's all.Oh, at least now you will be able to deal with it.That's right.That's what they're doing. - That's right... - I'm not worried.No, it is not in your hands.That's it...It's in the hands of some physician I've never even met!Some surgeon who probably drinks more martinis than Ray and... Oh, Kitty!God, I am so worried about Ray.Come here. - I'm doing fine, really.I know, I know you are.I'm more worried about Ray, if anything isn't that good with this stuff. Forget about Ray...just forget about Ray.You were sweet.You know the routine, right?You have the can in the evening... and check the water now and then... Ray'll feed him in the morning.Kitty, you didn't mind?What?I didn't mind what?Do you want me to drive you?I think I'll be better if I drive myself.Kitty, it's gonna be all right.Of course it is.Bye.What? What do you want?Mr. Woolf, Mrs. Bell has arrived!Not due till 4 o'clock.I can't help that...she is here!You are a perfect angel...Don't allow the boys make fun of you.Fly away.Virginia!Leonard thinks it's the end of civilization.people are invited at 4 ......and arrive at 2:30.Oh, God!Barbarians.Well, we finished lunch sooner than we imagined.I had to send to Nelly to London for sugar ginger.Oh, Virginia.You aren't so frightened of servants, are you?Come on!And how are you, sister?Frantic, it's been ridiculous in London.Ridiculous? How?Busy.Why is busy ridiculous?I would've invited you to our party, but...I knew you wouldn't come.Did you? How did you know that?I thought you never came to town.That's because you no longer ask me.Are you not forbidden to come?Do the doctors not forbid it?Oh, the doctors!Do you not pay heed to your doctors?Not when they are a bunch of contemptible Victorians! So, what do you say? Are you feeling better?Has this fastness made you stronger?I'm saying, Vanessa, that even crazy people like to be asked. Nessa, Nessa, Nessa...Hello cherubs.What have you got?What have you found? - We found a bird.Did you? Where did you find that?I think he must have fallen from a tree.Oh my Goodness! Just look at him.We might be able to save him.Save him?I think you have to be careful, Quentin.There's a time to die, and it may be the bird's time...Let's pick some grass to make a grave.Oh, Julian!I'm just saying, he at least needs a bed to die on.Come on, Nessa, let's make a grave!Nessa, come on!God, very well, I'm coming wait for me there!Angelica, we'll be all right, stay where you are.You're going too fast, ooh!Do you think she'd like roses?Is this a "she"?Yes, the females are largerand less colourful.What happens when we die?What happens?We return to the place that we came from.I don't remember where I came from.Nor do I.She's very small.Yes...yes, that's one of the things that happen...We look smaller.But very peaceful.Is it done? Have you finished?Is the bird funeral complete?Yes.Well then, are we going to be denied altogether for coming so early? No, of course not.Come on, come on, boys, we'll have a cup of tea.Oh, stop it, Julian!Julian, come inside!Hey, Bug, I got this idea.We're gonna make another cake.We're gonna make a better one.What happened to the first one?And after that I think we should go out!Yes?Clarissa? It's Louis.Louis Waters. -Louis?Oh my God, you're early.Do you mind? Is it all right?Oh, why should I mind?I'm delighted! -Well, now!I feel like I'm interrupting.No, why?I know the ceremony isn't until 5,but I flew in this morning.Well, Richard's going to be thrilled.He'll be thrilled to see you!You think so? - Of course.What are we doing? We should go in...Are you all right?Yes. It's nothing.It's just the party. - Oh, right.Oh, wow, it's looking beautiful! - Thanks.Are you still with...? - Yes, I am!Still with her. Ten years.It's crazy. -Why is it crazy?No reason... Would you like something to drink?Some water. - OK.Are you still an editor?Oh, sure. -For the same publisher?Uhum. How's San Francisco?Oh, it's one of those cities people tell you to like.Richard said he thought you were happy up there.Oh, great. This illness makes him psychic.You have to prepare yourself, Louis. He is very changed...I read the book. -Oh God.Exactly! I thought you were meant to do more than just change people's names. Well... -Isn't it meant to be fiction?He even had you living on 10th street.It isn't me. -Isn't it?You know how Richard is... it's a fantasy.A whole chapter on should she buy some nail polishand then guess what - after 50 pages she doesn't.The whole thing seems to go on for eternity; nothing happensand then, wham! For no reason she kills herself.His mother kills herself.Yeah, sure, his mother, but still for no reason.Well, I... -Out of the blue!I know the book is tough, but I liked it. I know.Only one thing upset me -What's that? What upset you?Well, that there wasn't more about you.That's kind.I went back to Wellfleet.You did? -One day. I didn't tell to you?No, but, then, I never see you.You remember the house... it's still there.I think you're courageous.Courageous? Why?To dare go visit...What I mean is, to face the factthat we have lost those feelings forever.Shit! -Clarissa?I don't know what's happening. I'm sorry.I seem to be in some strange sort of mood.I'm sorry - it's very rude of me.I seem to be unravelling.I shouldn't have come. -No, it's not you, it's not you!It's more like having a presentiment, do you know what I'm saying?Oh, God, it's probably just nerves about the party.You know...bad hostess.Clarissa, what's happening?Jesus! -What is it?Do you want me to go? -No, don't go!Don't go...explain to me why this is happening.Don't! Don't touch me.Jesus, is better if you don't.It's just too much. You flying from San Francisco...and I've been nursing Richard for years!And all the time I held myself togetherNo problem. -I know.One morning in Wellfleet... you were therewe were all there...I was sleeping with him and I was out on the porch.He came behind me and put his arm on my shoulder. Good morning, Mrs. Dalloway.From then on...I've been stuck.Stuck?With the name, I mean.And now you walk in.to see you walk in...'cause I never see you...look at you! Anyway, it doesn't matter. It was you he stayed with... And I had the summer.The day I left him...I got on a train and made my way across Europe.I felt free for the first time in years.So, tell me about San Francisco.What's to tell?They still teach drama to idiots.They can't all be idiots.In fact I shouldn't tell you this...I've fallen in love.Really? -Yes.With a student. -With a student?Exactly. I know...you thinkAm I still up for this? All this intensity, all those arguments, doors being slammed.But, you know, what it's like.Are you feeling better?A little.Thank you.Do you think I am ridiculous?Ridiculous?Fortunate, too.I'm gonna leave you at Mrs. Latch's.I have to do something.Mommy, I don't wanna go.You have to, I'm sorry. I have something to do before daddy gets home. Hello.Hi, Mrs. Latch. My boy is not very happy.Mommy, I don't wanna do this.I have to go, honey.Your mommy has things she has to do.Come in, I got cookies!So, baby...You have to be brave now.Don't worry. lt's gonna be fine.Honey!Come on, come on, darling!Mommy! -Stop it!No! Mommy! -Allright, you have to stop it!Mommy, mommy, mommy...Mommy, mommy, no!Breakfast is served between 7 and 11 in the regency room.And room service is available 24 hours.Thank you, madam.Is there anything else you need?Yes, hum...No...not to be disturbed."Did it matter then, she asked herself, walking toward Bond Street." "Did it matter that she must inevitably cease completely?""All this must go on without her...""Did she resent it...or did it not become consolingto believe that death ended absolutely?""It is possible to die.""It is possible to die."There was a lovely coat for Angelica at Harrods...then nothing for the boys. It seems unfair. Only Angelica is favored. Virginia?Virginia.Virginia!What are you thinking about?Are you still with us?Your aunt is very lucky, Angelica.She has two lives...she has the life she's leadingand also of the book she's writing.This makes her very fortunate indeed.What were you thinking about?I was going to kill my heroine.But I've changed my mind.I can't.And then I'll have to kill someone else instead.A fascinating visit.We enjoyed it thoroughly.You have to go already?I wish you wouldn't go.Oh, Virginia, the last thing you want is our noisyness!My hopeless, clumsy boys!Say goodbye, boys! -Bye! Bye!You return to Walt? -Tonight.To some insufferable dinner!Not even you could envy it, Virginia.But I do.Say something, Nessa! Didn't you think I seemed better?! Yes, Virginia, you seem better.You think...you think I may one day escape?One day?!Nessa... -Nessa! Come on!Come, Angelica, we must go.Bye.Goodbye, little girl.Angelica, the train.We're gonna miss the train.Hurry, big step!Come on, come on, come on, I wanna go home!We stayed too long - we'll miss the train.Stay close.I'm sorry, I know!I tried to get earlier, I tried, OK? Don't start!I know it's just incredibly busybecause it's your party.Julia...how have you been doing?I'm fine.Come here.What have you been doing?Well, studying, mom.So...what should I do, chairs?No, let's clear off the desk first. We can take it to the bedroom.I bumped into Louis Waters.Oh, you did? Where? -In the street.They're all here, aren't they? All the ghosts...All the ghosts are assembling for the party!He is... so weird.Oh, what? You can't see that?You can't see that Louis Waters is weird?I can see that he's sad.Mum, all your friends are sad.You've been crying. What's happening?All the day I looked around this room and thoughtI'm giving a party...all I wanna do is give a party!And?I know why he does it, he does it deliberately.Oh, is this Richard! -Of course.He did it this morning...he gives me that look.What look?To say...your life is trivial.You...are so...trivial.Just daily stuff, you know, schedules and parties, and...details - that's what he means.That is what he's saying.Mum, it only matters if you think it's true.Well? Do you? Tell me.When I am with him, I feelYes, I am living...and when I am not with him,yes, everything does seem sort of...silly.I don't mean with you, right! God!Never with you.Just all the rest of it.Sally?The rest of it.False comfort.Because?If you say to me when were you happiest. -Mum...Tell me the moment you were happiest.I know! I know, it was years ago.。
女人必看的五本书1、《时时刻刻》女人必看的五本书1、《时时刻刻》作者:迈克尔·坎宁安出版社:人民文学出版社出版年:2012弗吉尼亚•伍尔夫,受严重的精神衰弱症影响,正在构思她的新作《达洛维夫人》;克拉丽莎,二十世纪九十年代纽约的出版编辑,被诗人好友托马斯称为“达洛维夫人”,她为托马斯举办了一场晚会,当晚却目睹了托马斯跳楼自杀;布朗太太,二战后住在加州的家庭主妇,《达洛维夫人》的读者,渴望摆脱索然寡味的生活。
三个女人的一天,构织成一部关于人的失落、绝望、恐惧、憧憬和爱的作品。
书中金句:①有些东西值得失去,因为我们永远会记得。
②我想要一场注定没有未来的爱,我想要黑夜里的街道,任风吹雨打,没有人会奇怪我身在何处。
③你要把人生看透彻,一定要真实地面对人生,了解人生的本质,当你终于了解人生,就能真正地热爱生命,然后才舍得放下。
女人必看的五本书2、《一个人的好天气》作者:青山七惠出版社:新世界出版社出版年:2004本书讲述一个20岁打零工的女孩如何与年长亲人相处,同时追寻自我、独立生活的故事。
小说平淡地叙述着一切,就像在讲发生在每个人身上的生活经历,和这个年龄段的心境变化。
书中金句:①好天气里那种孤独,既无奈又美好。
②不断地认识人,不断地被人认识,但是好天气是自己给自己的。
③我既不悲观,也不乐观,只是每天早上睁开眼睛迎接新的一天,一个人努力过下去。
女人必看的五本书3、《爱玛》作者:奥斯汀出版社:南海出版社出版年:2008书中描绘了十几个女姓人物,最主要的是三个少女:爱玛、简•菲尔费克斯与哈丽埃特。
这三个少女都有奥斯丁理想中的温柔三美:外表仪态的端庄优雅、言谈神情的和蔼可亲、性格品质的宽容正直以及必不可少的热情。
爱玛以满腔柔情关心爱护着她的家人与朋友,菲尔费克斯深情到几乎可以为恋人容忍一切折磨,哈丽埃特则更是一个多情的姑娘,一年之中全心全意地爱上了三个男子。
书中金句:①柔和,这个字眼用来描写她的眼睛真是太贴切了,所有定语中最恰如其分的就是这个字眼。
安全责任大于天时时刻刻记心间人们常说,生命如花,在阳光雨露的培育下总是那么璀璨、鲜艳。
然而,2008年那场突如其来的汶川大地震,短短的几十秒中,无数个像你我们一样拥有妻儿老小父母兄弟的鲜活的生命永远地撒手而去了,一时间,多少壮志豪情;有多少放飞的梦想、多少美丽的依恋,多少还没有来得及的报恩!一切都不复存在了。
生命,就在我们不经意之间,她用一种悲状、惨烈、不屈诠释着她的脆弱与珍贵。
天灾,或许我们任何人都无法抗拒,可是,“人祸”我们完全可以避免,由于人为的安全责任不到位、麻痹大意、疏忽造成的安全事故本不该发生的,每一起安全事故给我们带来的只有沉痛的教训和不可弥补的损失。
陕西铜川陈家山”11.28“特大矿难,166条鲜活矿工的生命瞬间消失;辽宁阜新孙家弯”2.14“矿难让214位矿工丧失了生命;再看看今年的6月5日,临沂金誉石化装卸区爆炸造成8人死亡,9人受伤事故等等。
每当这一连串的数字符号不停地在我们脑海里翻滚,我们总在问自己,这是我为什么呀,这是为什么呀!而当我们静下心来,仔细分析每件事故的背后,哪一起不是因为我们肩扛的安全责任不到位而成为事故的罪魁祸首,哪一起事故又不是因为侥幸麻痹而让我们饱受重创伤痕累累。
是啊,人们常说,安全责任重于泰山,因为这责任扛的是每位利华益人的生命,扛的是每个家庭的幸福,扛的是企业的兴旺发达,扛的是国富民强,然而,一起起令人心惊肉跳的事故背后,又有多少人会把这份责任牢记心间,而将它化作遏制事故发生的原动力。
事故是一面镜子,教训是明灯。
难道我们就不能仔细想想,我们不也在铺天盖地安全大检查,可是事故为什么老是频频发生是隐患未排除是安全措施不到位是安全监管走过场还是出事者本人自身侥幸麻痹为什么我们每天要在担惊受怕中过活可悲啊,难道那一起起安全事故就真的不能控制在这里可能有人会说,你那是杞人忧天,别人出了事故关我什么事,我们现在还安全着呢!可是,朋友请你想想,当有一天灾难落到你头上,你又是什么感想?作为我们每一位员工,都有自己的工作岗位,也就有自己的职责,但是我们每个人扪心自问,自己的责任尽到了吗?我们在工作之前想到的首先是什么?上级天天要求“要我安全”,我们为什么不能说“我要安全”呢?我们何时能将自己的安全意识和安全工作从被动变为主动呢?归根到底就是责任!分析我们身边所有的安全事故,可以说一切事故的根源都出现在我们的思想上。
关于时间的四字词语100个1、深更半夜2、度日如年3、时光飞逝4、分秒必争5、时不我待6、一日三秋7、晨昏定省8、时间如梭9、光阴似箭10、一年四季11、顷刻之间12、短暂如烟13、时光荏苒14、时时刻刻15、岁月如流16、分分秒秒17、朝朝暮暮18、日出而作19、时过境迁20、日入而息21、一载一弃22、暂时长久23、转瞬即逝24、时至今日25、沧海一粟26、长夜漫漫27、风驰电掣28、时间无限29、自由支配30、一世长安31、美妙曲折32、寂寥无声33、时不可待34、一曝十寒35、朝朝暮暮36、近在咫尺37、各自忙碌38、永不停歇39、历历在目40、永生永世41、一刻千金42、时光倒流43、一分一秒44、恍如梦境45、瞬息万变46、时钟滴答47、光阴短暂48、无尽时光49、随时随地50、历久弥新51、弹指之间52、一片沧桑53、流年似水54、一切瞬间55、眨眼之间56、方寸之间57、亘古长存58、永世不变59、一瞬即逝60、不可追回61、遥遥无期62、转瞬即逝63、悠悠岁月64、时光隧道65、争分夺秒66、刹那芳华67、漫漫长夜68、持续不断69、日新月异70、时代变迁71、沧海桑田72、一日三秋73、每时每刻74、日月如梭75、晨昏定省76、时间飞逝77、光阴荏苒78、顷刻之间79、一年四季80、分分秒秒81、转瞬即逝82、时光回忆83、白驹过隙84、天长地久85、悠然自得86、万古长青87、错过良机88、一刻千金89、永恒不变90、时光无限91、自由支配92、时间流逝93、一世长安94、美妙曲折95、寂寥无声96、时钟滴答97、随时随地98、漫长岁月99、光阴短暂100、无尽时光。
形容到时间做某事的词语1.及时2.迟到3.准时4.握时5.有时6.无时7.短时8.长时9.一时10.一直11.一刻12.间断13.连续14.随时15.细时16.密时17.稀时18.缓时19.急时20.顺时21.时机成熟22.时机不对23.时不我待24.时过境迁25.时光荏苒26.时来运转27.时不再来28.时有所值29.时常会到30.时有时无31.时至今日32.时势所迫33.时时刻刻34.时机敏感35.时来运转36.时光流逝37.时光荏苒38.时不我待39.时时刻刻40.时机成熟41.时不我待42.一刻千金43.抓紧时机44.时机成熟45.时过境迁46.时势造英雄47.追随时间48.抓住时机49.三更半夜50.时光荏苒51.随时随地52.抢占先机53.时来运转54.错过时机55.时光匆匆56.一步之差57.日新月异58.转瞬即逝59.机不可失60.时时刻刻61.匆匆62.不经意间63.一觉醒来64.转瞬间65.时不时66.瞬息之间67.漫长时光68.稍纵即逝69.抓住时机70.临时抱佛脚71.误打误撞72.时过境迁73.日复一日74.刹那之间75.迫在眉睫76.转眼间77.昙花一现78.草木皆兵79.一去不返80.一刻钟81.匆匆忙忙82.一拍即合83.慢吞吞84.争分夺秒85.不疾不徐86.瞬间87.来日方长88.不可思议89.一举一动90.就此而已91.过于匆忙92.快马加鞭93.轻车熟路94.无穷无尽95.夜以继日96.一朝一夕97.来去匆匆98.音廓晨钟99.不容置疑100.胶布时刻101.及时103.立刻104.马上105.瞬间106.即刻107.时刻108.一直109.不断110.每时每刻111.随时112.及早113.快速114.急迫115.急速116.飞快117.迅疾118.迅捷120.及时性。
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我们(时时刻刻)
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我为何要存在为何要感慨为何颤抖停不下来你为何要推翻为何要离开为何给我这个答案我们曾经那么精彩我们曾经那么期待
最后你把回忆还我要我好好过
你话中的计算准确的伤害像精心打造的对白我划开了动脉也许不醒来至少昨天无法毁坏我们曾经那么精彩我们曾经那么期待
最后你把回忆还我要我好好过
生活就是这样爱情不是想象
我们最后这么遗憾我们最后这么无关
生活就是这样爱情不是想象
时时刻刻每个现在都在嘲笑我(woo~)
生活就是这样爱情不是想象
我们曾经那么精彩我们曾经那么期待
最后你把回忆还我要我好好过
我们最后这么遗憾我们最后这么无关
时时刻刻每个现在都在嘲笑我(woo~)
我们曾经那么精彩我们曾经那么期待
最后你把回忆还我要我好好过
我们最后这么遗憾我们最后这么无关
时时刻刻每个现在都在嘲笑我(woo~)
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以上就是关于我们(时时刻刻)的歌词,感谢您的阅读!。
时时刻刻的提醒自己的个人自我总结5篇篇1在这个快节奏的时代,我们时常感到忙碌和疲惫。
为了更好地适应这个时代,我时刻提醒自己要不断学习和进步。
以下是我对自己的个人自我总结,以飨读者。
一、自我认知我深知自己的优点和不足。
我善于思考,能够迅速地找出问题的关键所在,并给出解决方案。
同时,我具备强烈的责任心和使命感,能够全身心地投入到工作中去。
然而,我也意识到自己在沟通方面还有待提高,有时会因为过于专注细节而忽略整体。
因此,我时刻提醒自己要不断完善自己,不断提高自己的综合素质。
二、学习态度我坚信学习是终身的事情。
无论是在工作中还是生活中,我始终保持一颗学习的心。
在工作中,我积极向领导和同事请教,不断汲取新知识。
在生活中,我也时刻关注行业动态和资讯,以拓宽视野。
同时,我也鼓励自己多读书、多思考,不断提升自己的理论素养和思维能力。
三、工作态度我始终以积极的态度面对工作。
我认为工作不仅是为了生存,更是为了实现自我价值。
因此,在工作中我严格要求自己,尽职尽责地完成每一项任务。
同时,我也注重团队协作,与同事们共同解决问题,共同成长。
我相信,在未来的工作中,我会继续保持这种积极的工作态度,为公司的发展贡献自己的力量。
四、生活态度我认为生活态度同样重要。
在生活中,我注重健康、注重家庭、注重朋友。
我深知身体是革命的本钱,因此我会定期进行体育锻炼,保持良好的作息习惯。
同时,我也时刻提醒自己要关心家人、关心朋友,与他们共同分享生活的点滴。
在未来的生活中,我会继续保持这种积极的生活态度,让生活更加充实、更加有意义。
五、总结与展望回顾过去的日子里在领导和同事们的帮助和支持下取得了一定的成绩在未来的日子里我将继续努力不断学习不断提高自己的综合素质以更好地适应这个快速发展的时代在此我感谢领导和同事们给予我的关心与支持也希望自己在未来的工作中能够再接再厉取得更加辉煌的成绩同时我也将时刻提醒自己要保持一颗平常心面对生活中的挫折与困难不断调整自己的心态保持积极向上的精神面貌去迎接生活中的每一个挑战篇2在繁忙的工作和生活中,我们时常感到压力和疲惫。
《时时刻刻》中同性恋情结解析摘要:《时时刻刻》以小说《达罗卫夫人》为主线,通过不同时空的三个女人一天的生活经历,将他们的世界联系起来。
影片反映了三位女性所共有的同性恋倾向,及不同时代女性自我的追求和探索的历程,再现了妇女解放运动的历史发展。
关键字:同性恋,妇女解放运动,女性主义美国当代作家迈克尔·坎宁的作品《时时刻刻》一经面世就取得重大成功,先后获得福克纳小说奖和普利策小说奖。
2002年被改编成电影搬上荧屏,又获得金球奖最佳影片奖和奥斯卡多项提名。
电影以伍尔夫的小说《达罗卫夫人》为线索,用意识流的阐释方式,通过镜头的交替,运用戏仿的手法,巧妙地将伍尔夫的故事和另外两个现代女性的生活编织在一起。
讲述了三个不同时空的女性一天的生活情况和内心感受。
真实自然地反映了不同时代女性受压抑的情况,隐性地为女性追求自我指明了一条希望之路——走出家庭和心灵的束缚,过独立的自我的生活。
影片揭示了现代女性的自我的追求和探索的历程,再现了现代女权主义发展的历史画卷。
激起人们对现代女权主义发展的反思,并引起人们对女权主义终极目标的思考。
一、女同性恋情结解析同性恋一直是一个很敏感的社会话题。
同性恋是指一个人在性爱、心理、情感上的兴趣主要对象均为同性别的人,无论这样的兴趣是否从外显行为中表露出来。
那些与同性产生爱情、性欲或恋慕的人被称为同性恋者。
在电影中,三位女主角的同性之吻,表明她们都不同程度的存在同性恋倾向。
恋慕同性既有先天遗传因素,也有后天习得因素。
那这三位女性为何选择接近同性,放弃异性呢?第一位女主角是弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫,故事发生在1923年六月的一天,伍尔夫因精神问题在里士满乡村别墅疗养。
这天下午姐姐文妮莎带着三个孩子来看望她,我们立刻能感受到她们的姐妹情深。
她们在花园中亲密交谈,伍尔夫幸福地依偎在文妮莎肩膀上,只有这时她才会摆脱对医生和丈夫的控制的恐惧和压抑,才能真正体会到温暖、安宁。
当文妮莎离开时,伍尔夫觉得自己又要孤立作战,重回压抑的生活,感情一瞬间爆发,用力地吻文妮莎。
这临别一吻已大大超过姐妹情感的尺度。
而她对无微不至关心照顾自己的丈夫很冷淡,甚至连共进午餐这类夫妻间再平常不过的小事都很排斥。
这让我们不禁觉得伍尔夫有同性恋的倾向。
在真实生活中伍尔夫确实有同性恋的倾向,这与她的成长环境分不开。
伍尔夫生长在一个大的组合家庭中,父母都是丧偶后再婚。
母亲裘丽亚在她13岁时去世,斯蒂芬家的孩子们一致认为裘丽亚的死,是由于父亲过多的要求。
而二姐斯蒂娜在新婚不久便去世,根据传闻是姐夫杰克·希尔斯在新婚期间性欲过旺、房事过多所致。
斯蒂娜当时也有孕在身。
所以,伍尔夫总是潜意识的将死亡与性爱连在一起。
在幼年时,同母异父的哥哥乔治达尔·沃思和杰拉德达克·沃思对她进行一些抚摸,甚至触摸她的最私密部位,这在伍尔夫幼小的心灵上留下阴影,加重了伍尔夫对男人和婚姻的冷漠和反感。
母亲去世后,父亲脾气暴躁,极为专制,让人难以忍受。
达尔沃思兄弟总是坚持让妹妹们模仿贵族社会的习俗与时尚,参加上流社会的叽叽喳喳。
而夹在两个使她厌恶的男人之间,她变得越来越喜欢在女性朋友中寻找安慰。
她有许多关系极为亲密的女性朋友,她与沃伊利特·狄更生的关系最为微妙,她在给狄更生的信中说“你是一只袋鼠,有一只口袋让小袋鼠趴”。
她们甚至互称为“我的女人”。
伍尔夫也卷入了与文妮莎的同性恋关系,她曾谈到从姐姐那里得到的偷吻的愉快。
由于母亲的去世,两人可能寻求肉体的互慰来填充她们的损失。
她的《奥兰多》以自己的同性朋友维拉为原型,记录了自己与维拉的有同性恋倾向的亲密关系。
朋友们发现她的这些倾向,极力促成她与伦纳德的婚姻。
但他们婚后的性生活一直不理想,伍尔夫一直很排斥与丈夫的过密接触。
他们更多是兴趣上的志同道合,是精神上的恋爱。
影片的第二个主人公是劳拉·布朗,她是一位中产阶层的家庭主妇,丈夫是一个经历二战的退伍军人,有一个儿子,现在怀着一个女儿。
在外人眼中,劳拉是无比幸福的,有一个疼爱自己的丈夫,就像基蒂说的,“你做什么他都说好”。
儿子乖巧、讨人喜爱,现在又怀有身孕,家庭和谐美满。
可是劳拉却感到生活是无比的空虚,丈夫根本不了解自己,也从未试图去理解自己。
当劳拉在卫生间无助的默默哭泣时,丈夫根本不知发生了什么。
在异性身上得不到理解,劳拉转向同性寻找安慰。
她的朋友基蒂外表看似坚强开朗,但不能生育却让她痛苦不堪。
当她向劳拉倾诉生活的不幸和困扰时,劳拉眼神中流露出无限的哀伤和怜悯,同为女人,她更能深刻体会女人的艰难和不幸。
她轻轻抚摸基蒂,用一种女性特有的温柔给予宽慰,觉得自己与基蒂心灵相通,最后不禁深情一吻。
“劳拉渴望基蒂,她渴望基蒂的力量”。
劳拉与她拥吻代表女性之间相互的支持和精神上短暂的安慰。
第三个故事发生在2001年的纽约,主人公克拉里莎是一家大杂志社的编辑,是一位独立的现代女性。
与前两位女性相比,她有更多的自由,也更加独立。
她已是公开的同性恋者,有一个相恋多年的女友茱莉亚,和一个人工受精的女儿。
她从前也是异性恋,有个深爱的男友查理德。
可是查理德却爱上了他的同性朋友路易斯,抛弃了克拉里莎。
对男人伤心绝望的克拉里莎,放弃男人,从同性中寻找安慰,最终成为同性恋者。
当查理德自杀,取消晚宴后,茱莉亚双手抱起克拉里莎的头,亲吻她的前额。
她吻的那样有力,那样完整……”在她们的生活中,男性不再是生活的重心甚至不是一部分,没有男人,她们照样自在的生活。
从影片现实的时代背景来看,被选取的三个年代正是西方女性运动的三个阶段。
而三位女性与女伴的关系分别代表了不同时期女同性恋被社会的接纳和发展程度,从一个侧面反映了女性主义的进步,社会的进步和宽容程度。
但这段时间内的女性意识的成长并非是那种线性的简单前进式,而是一个同男性主导话语不断摩擦,从多方面整合调整的漫长过程。
十九世纪末二十世纪初,是妇女解放运动的第一次浪潮,当时争论的一个焦点是要求两性的平等,当时也要求公民权、政治权利,反对贵族特权。
反对一妻多夫、一夫多妻,强调男女在智力上和能力上是没有区别的。
最重要目标是要争取家庭劳动与社会劳动等价、政治权利同值,往往被称作“女格运动”。
弗吉尼亚·伍尔夫是女权运动的先驱,她的女权著作《一间自己的屋子》倡导女性文学在经济和艺术上的独立性,女性写作的差异性和记录一般女性生活的必要性。
从影片中看到,伍尔夫因疯癫病,在乡间别墅修养。
但这种平静安稳的生活方式并非她所愿,反而那份貌似宁静的表面下所笼罩的压抑与黑暗令她窒息。
伍尔夫被囚禁在那里,身边的人,丈夫、医生、女佣等等无数双眼睛监视着她的行动,她完全不能自己做主,每天要按丈夫和医生的要求生活。
连离开房间都要征得丈夫的同意。
她无法忍受这样压抑的生活,她要逃离这死气沉沉的小镇,摆脱医生的控制,回到思想文化的中心伦敦,获得精神和身体的自由。
她在火车站对伦纳德大喊“我的生活被偷走了,我要死在这了。
只有我一个人知道,只有我一个人能明白自己的状况。
他们不能代替我说话。
如果要在里士满和死亡之间选择,我选择死亡”。
一个渴望精神自由的女性宁愿选择死亡,也不愿看到自己的生命被无聊的平静一点一点的侵蚀掉。
影片中伍尔夫在挣扎与摆脱中不断受伤,最终选择死亡。
“必须有人死,其他人才会更加珍惜生命”,似乎只有死亡的抗争才能使其他人看清生命的意义,刺激女性意识的觉醒和使人追求更为有意义的状态。
第二次妇女解放运动始于20世纪六十年代的美国,一直持续到80年代。
其基调是要强调两性间分工的自然性并消除男女等工不同酬。
要求忽略把两性的差别看成是在两性社会关系中,女性附属于男性的基础的观点。
要求分领域对相应适可公众开放等。
争取两性寿终平权,彻底消除女性受歧视剥削压迫乃至误对的坏状况。
当时激进女权主义盛行,强调男女两性的差异,并认为在这种区别中女性属于比较高明的一方。
劳拉是二战退伍军人的妻子,二战后,男性又回到生活的主流地位,女性又一次被推回到家庭牢笼中。
她们没有机会展示自己的才华,只有靠生育和操持家务来取悦丈夫。
劳拉作为一个家庭主妇,重心全放在丈夫和孩子身上,完全没有自己的生活。
养育孩子,照顾丈夫,做家务成了她唯一的日程表,在此中她完全找不到自己的价值,对这种平庸压抑的生活感到彻底的绝望。
在男性主导的社会体系中,男人才是主体,女人只是男权文化的附属品。
没有自我,一切残缺不全。
而当这种文化不公正的将女性禁锢在家庭这个牢笼时,女性想要挣破束缚就像飞蛾扑火般充满危险。
我们从影片最后看到,劳拉在生完孩子后就离家出走,去了加拿大一家图书馆工作。
终于有了属于自己的生活。
“留下是死亡我选择了生命”。
可是抛家弃子,孤身一人,远赴他乡。
虽然轻松,可有什么意义。
而且永远得不到世人的理解,家人的原谅。
第三次妇女解放运动提议女性自尊自省自爱自觉自理自治,要求男性辅助女性摆脱蒙昧和压制,走向等位同格。
这时从根本上反对两分的思维模式,认为两性的界限其实模糊不清的,并且主张进一步混淆两性之间的界限。
这也是对伍尔夫两性同体理论的响应。
生活在第三波女权运动时期的克拉里莎,正是这一理论的践行者。
在影片中,克拉里莎以完全独立的女强人形象出现,她是纽约一家大的杂志社的编辑,是一个经济独立的职业女性。
她也是一名同性恋者,与相恋多年的女友和一个女儿共同生活,家庭和谐幸福。
她不再依靠男人的垂怜而生活,她有自己的生活,努力追求自己的人生价值。
反而男人在影片中被当做不健全的,被垂怜被挽救的对象。
克拉里莎的前男友查理德身患艾滋病,她出于同情和责任照顾了他十年。
给他精神和物质上的帮助,使他能最终获得诗歌的最高奖项。
查理德也曾说“我是为你而活”。
但其实查理德也禁锢着克拉里莎的精神、思想,在路易斯面前的失声痛哭可以看作是她压抑情感的爆发。
当查理德跳楼自杀,克拉里莎取消晚宴,她关灯前昏黄灯光下她的微笑却让观众看到她似乎找回真正属于自己的生活,感觉到那种释然和希望。
1941年的伍尔夫选择以自杀来逃脱父权社会的压迫,以自己的死亡让其他人更加珍惜生命。
1951年的劳拉,放弃自杀,选择逃离家庭,离开丈夫和孩子,到加拿大过独立的生活,她放弃死亡,选择生命。
2001年的克拉里莎,是个经济独立的现代女性,有自己独立的生活。
没有男人她一样生活的很好,而且她还十年如一日的照顾身患艾滋病的前男友。
影片向我们展示了女性在男人主导的社会中,为争取自己的权利,由选择以死抗争到逃离男性再到独立自主的女权运动的发展历程。
从主张男女两性无差别,到强调男女两性相异,女性高于男性,女人不需要男人;再到混淆两性区别,两性互助的过程。
证明了女性解放运动的进步,社会的进步。
影片《时时刻刻》称得上是表达女性自醒的成功女性主义电影。
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