性教育(男孩篇)Sex - What it's all about...how to use it wisely( Boys)

to anyone who wants to touch your private parts ( penis, chest or buttocks)你有权对那个摸你私密部位（阴茎，
胸部或臀部）的人说 If someone touches you in a way that doesn’t seem right IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT!如果某人用这些不正当的方式触 摸你，这不是你的错。
这个阶段你会有很强烈
的性冲动。但这不意味 着你已经预备好和别人 发生性关系了。
性不仅仅是身体运动
It is also an Emotional Act 性同时也是情感的交融 Based on love and respect for the other person 是基于爱对方和尊重对方 It is a wonderful Gift which can create a new life 性是可以孕育新生命的恩赐 This Gift needs to be treated with Care! 这份礼物需要精心呵护 No-one should force you to do this. And you should never
如何自我保护
• As your body changes you will notice new feelings – these are normal! There is nothing wrong with them随着你身体的变 化，你也会有新的体验—这很正常！你一点毛病都没有。 • Your body belongs to you NO ONE has the right to touch your body without permission你的身体属于你，不经你同 意，他人无权触碰你的身体。 • There are different kinds of touching对于那些特殊的触摸 • You have the right to say NO if someone touches you in a way that makes you feel afraid, uncomfortable or confused • 如果某人的触摸让你感到害怕，不舒服或是让你很烦恼， 你有权对他/她说“不”。 • Trust your feelings ;if someone makes you do sexual things that you do not want to do or do not understand, it is wrong. 相信你的感觉；如果有人违背了你的意愿或利用你的无知 与你发生性活动，这是非常严重的错误。 • This is called sexual abuse.我们know that YOU have done nothing wrong
你必须要明白这不是你的错 You must tell someone you can trust 你必须将这件事告诉你信任的人 They will help you to stop it happening
This can happen anytime between age 9 and
14 这些变化会发生在9到14岁之间 And everyone changes at different times 每个人出现的变化都有所不同 So you are normal! 所以你很正常的！
Semen contains sperm, which can fertilize a
woman‘s egg and begin the process that ends with a baby being born.精液里包含了精子， 这些精子可以和女性的卵子结合从而孕育 出新的生命。
These are all the changes taking place in your


Your body is changing 你的身体在变化 You have more body hair 你的体毛增多了 You have to shave 你要刮胡子了 Your shoulders are broader 你的肩膀变宽了 Your private parts are changing 你的生殖器在变化 Your voice deepens 你的声音变深沉了
An erection is what happens when your penis fills up with blood and
hardens. The penis will become bigger and stand out from the body. 阴茎充血，阴茎变硬变大，于是阴茎就勃起来了。 An erection can happen at any time. You can get many in one day or none at all. 阴茎勃起可发生在任何时候，你可能一天里勃起好几次，也可 能一次都没有。
如何自我保护
There are parts of your body that are Private. 你身体上有些地方是很私密的 PRIVATE parts are those parts that are covered by your underwear私密的地方就是那些被内衣裤包裹的地方 Sometimes people can make us feel uncomfortable if they try to touch these parts.如某些人触摸这些私密部位，让 你感到不舒服。 You have the right to say NO !!
遭受性侵后你会有什么感受？
Sexual abuse can make you feel: 性侵会让你感到：
Sad悲伤 Angry气愤 Worried担忧
Dirty or ashamed肮脏感或羞耻感 Guilty负罪感 Frightened恐惧 Mixed up情绪紊乱



body 这就是所有发生在你体内的变化 You are becoming a man 你已经成为一个男人 Sometimes this can be a confusing time 但这个阶段也会给你带来很多困扰 You will experience new feelings about sex 你会对性有新的体验 But this does NOT mean that you are ready to have sex!
What’s it all about?
性
SEX
You are growing up……. 你在慢慢地长大
Changing from a Boy.从一
个小男孩
…….to a Man长成一个男人
男性性征发育图
长出胡子 肩膀加宽
胸毛增多
阴毛增多变长 阴茎增大 肌肉增多
Changes at puberty青春期变化
但并 意味着你已经做好了准备，可以跟别 人发生性关系了！
不
You will have strong
feelings about sex at these times. This is normal but it does NOT mean that you are ready to have sex with another person.
force anyone else!
没人可以强迫你与之发生性关系。同样，你也不能强迫他
人与你发生性关系。
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大二附中物理教师某教师曾多次以“检查身体”为 由，对在校中学男生做出有违师德的举动。 广州黑处长QQ漂流瓶交友 诱惑性侵数名男童 (图) 13岁的兴仔（化名）喜欢通过QQ漂流瓶结交 朋友，正是通过这种方式，他认识了比自己年长 30岁的李军，被其多次诱骗到家中进行性侵犯。 男童遭"性侵"法律不能无为 "强奸罪"的量刑定罪仅针对女性，却没有将男 性涵括进去。如《刑法》规定，"强奸罪"是指违背 妇女意志，使用暴力、胁迫或者其他手段，强行 与妇女发生性交的行为。意思很明确，强奸的主 体对象必须是女性，至于男性若被强奸该如何定 罪，法律到目前为止还是一片空白。但在在美国， 对未成年男童实施性侵犯行为，将遭到强奸和鸡 奸儿童罪起诉。
What About Erections?阴茎是如何勃起的？
输精管 阴茎海 绵体 阴茎海绵 体充血 睾丸
Sometimes you might wake up and your underwear or bed is wet. A wet dream is when semen (the fluid containing sperm) is discharged from the penis while a boy is asleep. This is called ejaculation. 有时你会在起床后发现内衣或床单湿了。梦遗 就是男孩在睡梦中射精的现象。而那些弄湿被 单的液体就是精液。 Wet dreams happen when a boy‘s body starts making more testosterone. 当男孩睾丸激素分泌增多，梦遗就出现了。 This change for boys is little bit like when a girl gets her period. 这个有点像女孩子月经来潮 It's a sign a boy is growing up and the body is preparing for the day in the future when a man might decide to be a father. It is normal! 这是男孩成熟的标志，也是为将来当爸爸做准 备。这很正常的！！
“不”。
谁可能是侵害者？
Sometimes a stranger can try to sexually abuse people . 有时一个陌生人会尝试性侵害他人 Sometimes people can be abused by someone they know.有时性侵者是一个你熟悉的人 Your neighbour你的邻居 Someone who lives in the same place as you 和你住在一起的人 Your friend你的朋友 Someone who should look after you – a teacher or carer某个照顾你的人—老师或护理员
如果你已不幸遭到了性侵害？
Sexual abuse happens to a lot of people. If it has
happened to you ,you have done nothing wrong and it is not your fault. The person who has abused you may have told you to keep it a secret. This is because they know that sexual abuse is always wrong.很多人都遭 到过性侵害。如果它不幸发生在你身上，这不是你 的过错，你没做错任何事。那个侵害你的人可能会 让你保守这个秘密，因为他们知道性侵害总是非常 可耻的。 If you have been abused you should tell someone that you trust.如果你遭到了性侵，请告诉你信得过的人。