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The weakness of human is just a kind of view that describe some bad thing happens in our daily life,and shows humans shortcoming .Each people all have the weakness of human nature,such as gluttony,greed,sloth,pride,lazy,lust and envy.we just think highly of the bad thing that human weakness brings to us while overlook the breakthrough.We are too lazy to go somewhere on foot,so our ancestors tried a variety of measures to satisfy this human weakness .In ancient times we ride to everywhere ,in nowadays we can choose to ride a bike ,take a bus ,take a plane or take the subway to our destination which give us a lots of opportunity to go more places and view some beautify spot ,see variety person and know their stories.we are too lazy to wash our dirty clothes,so we invent the washing machine which can not only bring us more time to entertain ourselves but also improve working efficiency .we are too lazy to drink water in the river so we invent the bucket.Things may also turn to bad when we become too lazy .even in my school we take a bus to go to class which is just a short distance.The arise of the obesity may have something with too much vehicle.anoter example ,one of my roommate who never occurs on the morning classes,because she was in the bed at morning ,attending the morning classes is too hard for her,it is also too hard for her to defeat her lazy! Obviously she missed many knowledge and fun.on the one hand lazy may block our daily life ,but on the other hand it really brings a lot for us!So the key is how we control our lazy or weakness. How we use our weakness to perfect ourselves.When someone teases you ,you may feel sad or even want to finish your valuable life.when this stupid view occurs to you ,just think about why she or he tease you ?Is there something you really need to revise. Or you should really do something to prove their tease was unwise.And you may do what you can do to advance yourself and finally you become a talent man.In the other word you may tease someone else unconsciously ,how suffering she or him may be ?so stop tease others right now.Tease sometimes may hurt our fragile heart,but may also give us endless power to prove ourselves.which depends on how we deal with it!Just view everything ordinary.Human weakness never develope in a day and never disappear in a day.It is a long way for us to dispense human weakness.And we can use human weakness to invent something or to spot the human quality .Learn to understand yourself by asking your friends or justyourself,know your weakness that makes you unhappy or makes other unhappy.Then do something to drop it out little by little.Every day when you wake up,smile to the mirror and say “hello , today I willnot let my human weakness bother me ”.Learn to forgive others.your friend may unconsciously tease your new looking which really looks strange.And you may have a thought in your mind “I can’t belive that my best friend even tease at me ,Iwant to break up with him”so you may loose your best friend whom you may have teased at her yellow short hair before.forever just for the little thing .。
The Wisdom of Showing Concerns towards others in How to Win Friendsand Influence PeopleAbstractSince the publication of his first book How to Win Friends and Influence People in 1936, Dale Carnegie has touched millions of readers and his classic works continues to impact lives to this day. It can be seen clearly that Carnegie fully expresses some skills in handling people, making people to like us by showing concerns towards others. It provides some hints for modern individuals in their development of rapport and communication skills.Key Words：communication skills , Carnegie , others ,concerns1. IntroductionDale Carnegie (1888-1955) was a pioneer of the self-improvement genre. The book How to Win Friends and Influence People is the classic book about rapport and communication skills. Well interpersonal relationship will minimize the effort required to have work completed. There is no doubt that developing the rapport with others is a crucial part of our daily life and it will benefit us in various aspects. There is a perfect combination of vivid examples and concise words in Carnegie’s suggestion of communication skills. Among these communication skills, many are relevant to showing concerns to others. The value of showing concerns towards others is worthy of exploring.2. The Wisdom of showing concerns to othersShowing concerns to others plays a crucial role in learning how to make people like you and win people over to your way of thinking.2.1 make people like youAlmost everyone desires to be welcomed everywhere. However, it is very difficult for one to make it come true when he spares no efforts in getting other people interested in him. In Carnegie’s view, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you”(Carnegie59) Psychologically, human being are self-centered bynature. So becoming genuinely interested in others will fulfill this kind of needs of other persons. The happiness and sense of fulfillment derived from it is obviously clear. Paying more attention to others not only helps us to win friends, but also to some aspect helps the receivers. To assume that when we are frustrated and lonely, a warmth and tenderness from others will somewhat be comforting.Carnegie also emphasizes the importance of being a good listener. He suggests us to encourage others to talk about them. As we all know, an interesting conversationalist can always draw our attention. Carnegie holds the view that “if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener.”(Carnegie94)Sometimes a good listener is equal to an interesting conversationalist. We all dislike those who talk only of themselves or like to interrupt other’s conversation. In contrast, we are willing to make friends with those who can always be attentive and sympathetic listeners. As the Reader’s Digest once said: “Many persons call a doctor when all they want is an audience,”It is not uncommon that what we all want when we are in trouble is merely a friendly, sympathetic listener to whom we could unburden ourselves.2.2 Win people over to your way of thinkingOne of Carnegie’s advice on win people over to you way of thinking is “show respect for the other person's opinion, never say, 'you are wrong.' ” (Carnegie127)Not even the most distinguished person can be right all the time. As to common people, we can’t be sure of being right even 55 percent of the time. In this situation, why should we tell other people they are wrong? By telling others they are wrong, we have struck a direct blow at their intelligence, judgment, pride and self-respect. That will make them want to strike back. But it will never alter their opinions, for we have hurt their feelings.“The little word“my” is the most important one in human affair, and properly to reckon with it is the beginning of wisdom.”(Carnegie120) We should liberate ourselves from theself-concerned thinking pattern. Showing more respect to others opinion and taking their feeling into consideration will win more agreement than argument.What’s more, we should “Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.”(Carnegie163)Seeing things through another person’s eyes may ease tensions when interpersonal problemsbecome overwhelming. One of my friends once complained to me about her roommates. On her birthday, her roommates sent her a Green Tea cake which is always the last choice of her. She thought that they intentionally made her awkward. However, I think neither my friend nor her roommates have stood in other’s place to think question. Her roommates just chose the flavor of cake according to their own. and accidently got the unsuitable one. If my friend had seen this through her roommates’ eyes, she would not care about this trivial thing. For the sake of winning people to think in our way, we can by no means lose sight of their view.3. ConclusionTo sum up, showing concerns to others is of great importance. It can not only help us to win more friends but also win people over to our way of thinking. If we can keep this in mind, we can build a much more harmonious rapport.Dale Carnegie ．How to Win Friends and Influence People．Simon & Schuster．2010。
Title: The Vulnerabilities of Human Nature In the intricate tapestry of human existence, the weaknesses of our nature often emerge as the threads that bind us to our flaws and imperfections. These vulnerabilities, though often overlooked or denied, form the core of our humanity, shaping our decisions, emotions, and ultimately, our destinies.One of the most prominent weaknesses of human nature is the tendency to succumb to greed and selfishness. Theallure of material possessions and power often blinds us to the larger picture, causing us to prioritize our own interests over the welfare of others. This selfishness not only erodes our moral fiber but also undermines the fabric of society, leading to distrust, division, and conflict.Another weakness is our susceptibility to fear and anxiety. The unknown, the unfamiliar, and the potential for loss can all trigger deep-seated fears that cloud our judgment and paralyze our actions. These fears often lead us to make hasty decisions, avoid risks, or even retreat from challenges that could lead to personal growth and fulfillment.Furthermore, the tendency to judge and criticize others is another significant weakness of human nature. We are quick to point out the flaws and shortcomings of others while ignoring our own imperfections. This judgmental attitude not only hinders our ability to empathize and understand others but also creates a toxic environment that discourages honesty and openness.However, it is important to recognize that these weaknesses are not inherently negative. In fact, they can serve as powerful motivators for personal growth and societal progress. By acknowledging our vulnerabilities and working to overcome them, we can develop greater self-awareness, empathy, and resilience.For instance, overcoming greed and selfishness can lead to a more compassionate and generous approach to life, where we prioritize the welfare of others and contribute to the common good. Confronting our fears and anxieties can foster bravery and courage, enabling us to take risks, face challenges, and achieve our full potential. And, by refraining from judgment and criticism, we can cultivate amore inclusive and understanding society where everyone is treated with dignity and respect.In conclusion, the weaknesses of human nature are an integral part of our being, shaping our thoughts, actions, and relationships. While these vulnerabilities can sometimes lead us astray, they also provide valuable opportunities for growth and transformation. By acknowledging and working through our weaknesses, we can develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and others, leading to a more meaningful and fulfilling life.**人性的弱点**在人类存在的复杂织锦中，人性的弱点往往作为将我们与缺陷和不完美联系在一起的纽带而浮现出来。
人性的弱点（英语）The weakness of human is just a kind of view that describe some bad thing happens in our daily life,and shows humans shortcoming .Each people all have the weakness of human nature,such as gluttony,greed,sloth,pride,lazy,lust and envy.we just think highly of the bad thing that human weakness brings to us while overlook the breakthrough.We are too lazy to go somewhere on foot,so our ancestors tried a variety of measures to satisfy this human weakness .In ancient times we ride to everywhere ,in nowadays we can choose to ride a bike ,take a bus ,take a plane or take the subway to our destination which give us a lots of opportunity to go more places and view some beautify spot ,see variety person and know their stories.we are too lazy to wash our dirty clothes,so we invent the washing machine which can not only bring us more time to entertain ourselves but also improve working efficiency .we are too lazy to drink water in the river so we invent the bucket.Things may also turn to bad when we become too lazy .even in my school we take a bus to go to class which is just a short distance.The arise of the obesity may have something with too much vehicle.anoter example ,one of my roommate who never occurs on the morning classes,because she was in the bed at morning ,attending the morning classes is too hard for her,it is also too hard for her to defeat her lazy! Obviously she missed many knowledge and fun.on the one hand lazy may block our daily life ,but on the other hand it really brings a lot for us!So the key is how we control our lazy or weakness. How we use our weakness to perfect ourselves.When someone teases you ,you may feel sad or even want to finish your valuable life.when this stupid view occurs to you ,just think about why she or he tease you ?Is there something you really need to revise. Or you should really do something to prove their tease was unwise.And you may do what you can do to advance yourself and finally you become a talent man.In the other word you may tease someone else unconsciously ,how suffering she or him may be ?so stop tease others right now.Tease sometimes may hurt our fragile heart,but may also give us endless power to prove ourselves.which depends on how we deal with it!Just view everything ordinary.Human weakness never develope in a day and never disappear in a day.It is a long way for us to dispense human weakness.And we can use human weakness to invent something or to spot the human quality .Learn to understand yourself by asking your friends or just yourself,know your weakness that makes you unhappy or makes other unhappy.Then do something to drop it out little by little.Every day when you wake up,smile to the mirror and say “hello , today I willno t let my human weakness bother me ”.Learn to forgive others.your friend may unconsciously tease your new looking which really looks strange.And you may have a thought in your mind “I can’t belive that my best friend even tease at me ,Iwant to break up wi th him”so you may loose your best friend whom you may have teased at her yellow short hair before.forever just for the little thing .。
Boys and girls,Today I’ ll introduce a book from Dale Carnegie. It is how to win friends and influence people. Maybe some of you have heard about it or even read it, but I still want to give you a deeper introduction because it’ s pretty influential for g enerations.Before I present this book, let’ s acknowledge the author’ s living, the great man, Dale Carnegie.Dale Carnegie was an American writer, lecturer and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking and interpersonalskills. Born in poverty on a farm in Missouri [mi'zu əri , he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People, a massive bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living , Lincoln the Unknown , and several other books. One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's reaction to them.Here is some of his famous words in speeches and books.The essence of all art is to take pleasure in giving pleasure.I am very fond of strawberries and cream, but I have found that for some strange reason, fish prefer worms. So when I went fishing, I didn’ t think about what I wanted. I thought about what they wanted. I didn't bait the hook with strawberries and cream. Rather, I dangled a worm or grasshopper in front of the fish.People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.I don’ t have enough time to get into this great man. It ’ s really interesting to recognize him and his idea. I hope you can search him more on the internet.Now, let’ s move on to today’ s body part. How to win friends and influence people? This is one of the first bestselling self-help books ever published. Written by Dale Carnegie and first published in 1936, it has sold 15 million copies world-wide. However, this number is still enlarging for this book is needed in each era.Why it is so popular since its first publication?It’ s main purposes will explain it.1. Get you out of a mental rut, give you new thoughts, new visions, new ambitions.2. Enable you to make friends quickly and easily.3. Increase your popularity.4. Help you to win people to your way of thinking.5. Increase your influence, your prestige, your ability to get things done.6. Enable you to win new clients, new customers.7. Increase your earning power.8. Make you a better salesman, a better executive.9. Help you to handle complaints, avoid arguments, keep your human contacts smooth and pleasant.10.Make you a better speaker, a more entertaining conversationalist.11.Make the principles of psychology easy for you to apply in your daily contacts.12.Help you to arouse enthusiasm among your associates.Since most of you haven’ t read this book, I extract some essence we can shar e today. Fundamental Techniques in Handling People1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.4. Never show others that you are not interested in what they have to say.Six Ways to Make People Like You1. Become genuinely interested in other people.2. Smile.3. Remember that a person's name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.5. Talk in terms of the other person's interest.6. Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.2. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say "You're Wrong."3. If you're wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.4. Begin in a friendly way.5. Start with questions to which the other person will answer yes.6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.7. Let the other person feel the idea is his or hers.8. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.9. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.10.Appeal to the nobler motives.11.Dramatize your ideas.12.Throw down a challenge.Seven Rules For Making Your Home Life Happier1. Don't nag.2. Don't try to make your partner over.3. Don't criticize.4. Give honest appreciation.5. Pay much attention.6. Be courteous.Interest aroused? Why not grab one and start right now? hope you have a fresh vision about life.Thank you very much.。
《人性的弱点》梗概作文英文回答："Human Nature and Weaknesses" is a book that explores the various aspects of human behavior and psychology. It sheds light on the weaknesses that are inherent in human nature and how they can affect our relationships, success, and overall well-being.One of the main themes of the book is the importance of understanding and empathizing with others. It emphasizes that people are driven by their own desires, fears, and insecurities, and that by understanding these motivations, we can better navigate our interactions with others. For example, the author shares a story of a man who was able to diffuse a tense situation at work by taking the time to listen to his colleague's concerns and validating his feelings.Another key aspect of human nature explored in the bookis the desire for recognition and praise. The author explains that people have an inherent need to feel valued and appreciated, and that by acknowledging and praising others, we can build stronger relationships and motivate them to achieve their best. For instance, the author shares a story of a manager who noticed the hard work of his team members and publicly praised their efforts, resulting in increased morale and productivity.The book also delves into the concept of self-interest and the need for self-preservation. It highlights that people are often driven by their own self-interests andwill act in ways that benefit themselves, even if it may harm others. However, it also emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between self-interest and the well-being of others. For example, the author shares a story of a woman who was initially focused on her own success butlater realized the importance of collaboration and supporting others, leading to greater overall success for everyone involved.Furthermore, the book explores the impact of fear andinsecurity on human behavior. It explains that fear can lead to defensive and irrational actions, as people try to protect themselves from perceived threats. The author provides examples of individuals who let fear dictate their actions, leading to negative consequences. However, it also offers strategies for overcoming fear and building resilience, such as reframing negative thoughts and focusing on personal growth.In conclusion, "Human Nature and Weaknesses" provides valuable insights into the complexities of human behavior. It highlights the importance of understanding and empathizing with others, recognizing and praising their efforts, finding a balance between self-interest and the well-being of others, and overcoming fear and insecurity. By applying these lessons to our own lives, we can navigate relationships more effectively, achieve success, and improve our overall well-being.中文回答：《人性的弱点》这本书探讨了人类行为和心理学的各个方面。
The Wisdom of Showing Concerns towards others in How to Win Friendsand Influence PeopleAbstractSince the publication of his first book How to Win Friends and Influence People in 1936, Dale Carnegie has touched millions of readers and his classic works continues to impact lives to this day. It can be seen clearly that Carnegie fully expresses some skills in handling people, making people to like us by showing concerns towards others. It provides some hints for modern individuals in their development of rapport and communication skills.Key Words：communication skills , Carnegie , others ,concerns1. IntroductionDale Carnegie (1888-1955) was a pioneer of the self-improvement genre. The book How to Win Friends and Influence People is the classic book about rapport and communication skills. Well interpersonal relationship will minimize the effort required to have work completed. There is no doubt that developing the rapport with others is a crucial part of our daily life and it will benefit us in various aspects. There is a perfect combination of vivid examples and concise words in Carnegie’s suggestion of communication skills. Among these communication skills, many are relevant to showing concerns to others. The value of showing concerns towards others is worthy of exploring.2. The Wisdom of showing concerns to othersShowing concerns to others plays a crucial role in learning how to make people like you and win people over to your way of thinking.2.1 make people like youAlmost everyone desires to be welcomed everywhere. However, it is very difficult for one to make it come true when he spares no efforts in getting other people interested in him. In Carnegie’s view, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other peopleinterested in you”(Carnegie59) Psychologically, human being are self-centered by nature. So becoming genuinely interested in others will fulfill this kind of needs of other persons. The happiness and sense of fulfillment derived from it is obviously clear. Paying more attention to others not only helps us to win friends, but also to some aspect helps the receivers. To assume that when we are frustrated and lonely, a warmth and tenderness from others will somewhat be comforting.Carnegie also emphasizes the importance of being a good listener. He suggests us to encourage others to talk about them. As we all know, an interesting conversationalist can always draw our attention. Carnegie holds the view that “if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener.”(Carnegie94)Sometimes a good listener is equal to an interesting conversationalist. We all dislike those who talk only of themselves or like to interrupt other’s conversation. In contrast, we are willing to make friends with those who can always be attentive and sympathetic listeners. As the Reader’s Digest once said: “Many persons call a doctor when all they want is an audience,”It is not uncommon that what we all want when we are in trouble is merely a friendly, sympathetic listener to whom we could unburden ourselves.2.2 Win people over to your way of thinkingOne of Carnegie’s advice on win people over to you way of thinking is “show respect for the other person's opinion, never say, 'you are wrong.' ” (Carnegie127)Not even the most distinguished person can be right all the time. As to common people, we can’t be sure of being right even 55 percent of the time. In this situation, why should we tell other people they are wrong? By telling others they are wrong, we have struck a direct blow at their intelligence, judgment, pride and self-respect. That will make them want to strike back. But it will never alter their opinions, for we have hurt their feelings.“The little word“my” is the most important one in human affair, and properly to reckon with it is the beginning of wisdom.”(Carnegie120) We should liberate ourselves from theself-concerned thinking pattern. Showing more respect to others opinion and taking their feeling into consideration will win more agreement than argument.What’s more, we should “Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.”(Carnegie163)Seeing things through another person’s eyes may ease tensions when interpersonal problems become overwhelming. One of my friends once complained to me about her roommates. On her birthday, her roommates sent her a Green Tea cake which is always the last choice of her. She thought that they intentionally made her awkward. However, I think neither my friend nor her roommates have stood in other’s place to think question. Her roommates just chose the flavor of cake according to their own. and accidently got the unsuitable one. If my friend had seen this through her roommates’ eyes, she would not care about this trivial thing. For the sake of winning people to think in our way, we can by no means lose sight of their view.3. ConclusionTo sum up, showing concerns to others is of great importance. It can not only help us to win more friends but also win people over to our way of thinking. If we can keep this in mind, we can build a much more harmonious rapport.Dale Carnegie ．How to Win Friends and Influence People．Simon & Schuster．2010。
《人性的弱点》梗概作文英文回答："Human Nature: A General View" is a book written by Dale Carnegie, which discusses the various aspects of human behavior and psychology. The book is divided into several sections, each focusing on different aspects of human nature and how they can be understood and managed.The first section of the book discusses the fundamental principles of human behavior, such as the desire for recognition, the need to feel important, and the importance of understanding and respecting others. Carnegie provides various examples and anecdotes to illustrate these principles and how they can be applied in real-life situations.The second section of the book delves into the art of handling people, providing practical advice on how to communicate effectively, build rapport, and resolveconflicts. Carnegie emphasizes the importance of empathy, understanding others' perspectives, and finding common ground to build positive relationships.The third section focuses on how to become a leader, emphasizing the importance of inspiring and motivating others, as well as the need for integrity, sincerity, and a positive attitude. Carnegie provides numerous examples of successful leaders and their leadership styles,highlighting the key traits that contribute to their effectiveness.The final section of the book discusses how toinfluence and inspire others, emphasizing the power of appreciation, praise, and encouragement. Carnegie also discusses the importance of being a good listener, showing genuine interest in others, and providing constructive feedback.Overall, "Human Nature: A General View" provides valuable insights into human behavior and psychology, offering practical advice on how to understand, communicate,and lead others effectively. It is a timeless classic that continues to be relevant in today's world.中文回答：《人性的弱点》是戴尔·卡耐基所著的一本书，讨论了人类行为和心理的各个方面。
