人性的弱点读后感英文版篇一：Insight to and the hearts of the father of< human weakness>, a book author is known as "adult education" from the United States Carnegie, as in the book, the author introduces in the 20th century half leaf of the United States, when the economy is not stagnant, inequality, war demon is indelible human pursuit of a better life, Mr. Carnegie in his human nature, the use of a large number of ordinary people will continue to strive to achieve success story, through his speech, his speech and writings inspire many lost morale, encouraging them to achieve brilliant success. It is the article introduction, so that I have a thick interest to know the inside what to write what, unexpectedly have so big strength. Read Carnegie's works, I know that here a book to teach people how to behave, this book is just the right that is about to enter the community our, learn how to treat people doing things, is not only beneficial to the improvement of their ability, make us better to integrate into society, so as to achieve success, but also conducive to the integration of the relationship between themselves and the surrounding people, make others happy, also let you happy.In fact, the relationship between people is very subtle, a look, a word will have an impact on the people around.For example, in the face of friends, we should learn to be tolerant, especially when facing the friend's negligence, should have a tolerantheart, as Carnegie said: "the criticism not only will not change the facts, but will lead to resentment." a careful treatment of the so-called "criticism". One of the basic criteria, this is with friends get along but in the usual face of a friend, should learn how to admire sincerely friend, everybody wants to be sure to be appreciated when friends succeed, give the most sincere appreciation, it is very impressive. "Every day in your life journey, don't forget to leave a little warmth of praise for the world. This little sparkle will burn the flame of friendship." Carnegie's remarks are really straight into people. A friend is a very important part of our life, we should cherish, to know how to treat this rare. Huayi. Then how to treat a stranger you? When we walked into a group, enter the society, will encounter all sorts of we do not know the how to treat?? in fact, the truth is interlinked, when we deal with the same must respect his personal opinion, and friendly towards others, don't put your opinions on others, because everyone is equal, you have your idea, I also have my thoughts, so only when we respect each other and friendly, will achieve together to solve a problem."Jianghai reason for the king of a hundred valley because know living is low, can become the king of the 100 Valley". This sentence Carnegie words must remember.In fact, we should properly treat themselves, and the first thing we need to do is learn to love themselves, Shi Mai writes Libulandun in a Book:"degree appropriate to the magnitude of the 'love' for every normal person is very healthy, in order to work or to achieve a certain goal, moderate concern as being necessary." Carnegie this also very sure. In fact, like oneself is also a kind of self-confidence, so learn to like yourself is very important.In addition, we should go out or away from loneliness. In modern alone is a common problem, no matter who, the heart always in a moment, for a period of time feel lonely, perhaps after leaving home, perhaps after the death of their loved ones, in short no matter when, we should diligently toward the sun light, the dark behind. As Carnegie said: "if we want to overcome loneliness, must be far away from self pity the shadow, brave into full of bright people. We want to get to know people, to make new friends."In this book < human weakness>, not directly tell us human nature which weaknesses. It tells us what to do. In fact, those who tell us that we can not to the is our human weaknesses, so from this book, I benefited enormously.人性的弱点读后感英文版篇二：The best-selling book how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie is mainly made up of 6 parts, the first of which is Fundamental Techniques In Handling People.In this chapter, Carnegie gives us readers plenty of advice on dealing with others in our everyday work andlife,such as learn to understand and forgive instead of complaining and condemning others. In the second part,the book introduces 6 methods that can make you a popular guy around people. When it comes to the third chapter,it’s the longest part of this book,which means it could be the most significant part. In this part, twelve principles are listed to help win people to our way of thinking.Then Nine Ways To Change People Without Giving Offence Or Arousing Resentment comes as the forth part. The name of the fifth chapter is Letters That Produced Miraculous Results. Though this chapter is a little bit short, but it’s as useful as the last four parts,teaching us how to win trust and friendship through asking others for a favor which gives them a feel of importance by analyzing a letter and the examples of Ben Franklin as well as Dale’s student,Albert B. Amsel. The final chapter of the book is about family life called Seven Rules for Making Your Home Life Happier including 7 rules for couples to build a harmony family.Actually, apart from this 6 chapters,the book also has its preface just like any other ones. Carnegie not only talked about the reason why he made up his mind to write this book,but also wrote down eight suggestions on how to get the most of the book.Rather than using dull and elusive language, Carnegie used common language while making the book full of examples. I appreciate this as it contributes to my reading interest.Moreover, apart from adoptingmottoes, he not only took those who were his friends as examples, but also world-famous celebrities, like Lincolne and Francklin and so on. Such writing skill makes the demonstrate of the book more solid. I would like to mention that in this book, all the examples are linked in a flexible way,which adds to its readability.In the final part of my passage, I would to talking about my comprehension of Carnegie’s ideas. I can’t agree more with this sentence,"If You Want To Gather Honey, Don't Kick Over The Beehive". When we get a upset situation we are not recommended to pin all the blame on others. Criticism is dangerous,because it wounds a person's precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment. Let’s place ourselves in the position of those who have made a serious mistake. We ourselves are also in a terrible mood for misdoing something important, and what we actually need are consolation and encouragement but not the bitter words that frustrate us. So just follow Carnegie’s suggestions. Show our tolerance and patience instead of criticizing, understanding wins more than criticism.Carnegie also told us to let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers to win cooperation. This makes sense in business and politics. In everyday life, when we are urged to buy something by a salesman, we always turn our back on them. But why we act like this, according to Carnegie, because we don’t we need this at all. So here come theproblem for a salesman, how to sell his products? Actually he just need introduce the product to the buyer in his place and ask the buyer’s advice on improving the product. In this way, as the buyer is asked, he feels like being involved in the designing process, thus buying this product is in the nature of things. In our everyday teamwork, it is the same that we should combine every teammates’idea together. However, every book should be read with reservation. As this is a book published more than 70 years ago, something might have changed and some ideas in the book had become useless. For example, “You’re wrong .”is never recommended by Carnegie in this book. This time i can say that i am in favor of his idea. I think when we notice someone making a mistake, we should point it out as a warning for him. Manty people might think that such behaviour is rude and embarrassing, but in today’s high-speed society, a direct “You’re wrong.”is may be more effective than many periphrastic reminds because you can realize your mistake easily and correct it at once to avoid further lost.。
