Please Be Nice to Your husband

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Today, I read an article that is very impressive to me. I’m really touched and moved. I tried my best to translate it into English and wanna share it with you now. I hope you will like it. The title says it must be shared to every woman whoever is single or married, and if you’re married and you’re a man, you can share it with your wife, because it may have a significant influence in your marital life.<Please Be Nice to Your Husband>There is a phenomenon: Among old people, men die earlier than women. When we’re in old age, no matter how old we are or how our physical conditions are, if you have your husband by your side, you won’t feel lonely or dismal even though you’re at the age of 80, 90 or even 100. Even if in old age, you have your husband watching TV with you, reading newspaper with you, travelling with you, visiting friends with you, all of which are the happiness that nothing can replace, no matter how many children you have or how much wealth you possess. Let alone that so many Chinese people have only one child. It’s generally known that men are stronger than women, and women have to give birth to children, so men must be physically better than women. However, why are there so many men leaving the world earlier than women? In fact, men are not as strong as women think. Men seem stronger because they hide all their sadness, frustrations, upset, shames, stress and the heaviness of life in their hearts, without expressing or revealing.However, all these bad feelings hidden in their hearts are all like the “computer virus” accumulated at the end, which will finally turn out to make a crash.Why will men drink, smoke and ponder? It’s more because they’ve accumulated too much virus in hearts. Just because they’re men, they cannot say it out or weep. He must keep the image of a strong man in front of his wife and children. However, women will tell their husbands, parents and friends every little grievance and worry, which is why women won’t accumulate virus. They will be cleaned up every time they talk and weep. As for humans, most disease is caused by accumulation.Therefore, those women who like releasing their emotions will live longer, and men will die earlier than their wives. So how to keep your husband in good health and make him live as long as possible so that he can grow old with you. Take action from now on. Then, what should you do?First, when you husband gets back home, you should try to make a happy and relaxing environment for him. If no important guess will come by, why must you make the floor perfectly clean, why must you wash the clothes as soon as possible, and why must you make you both so nervous during the time when you should have been relaxing? Most of the time, what husbands and wives bicker about is housework.Second, when your husband has troubles outside, even though he doesn’t want to say it out, you must detect it sensitively, not only to take good careof him, but also cook him some good food, serve him a cup of wine and tell him some funny jokes to transfer his worries and then you can ask him about the details. If he doesn’t want to say or even mention it, you shouldn’t keep asking. He must have been hurt very bad inside. As this moment, men are used to healing alone. What you can do is love and care. Although it doesn’t mean it can heal the wounds or release his sorrows in his heart, it must kind of alleviate all his pains. If he can say it out, no matter what he says, you can’t complain anything at this moment. What you can do is comfort him and distract his attention.Actually, all his bad moods are all about fames, money, the arguments with other people and the blames from his boss.If what you care about the most is the health of your husband and whether he will be with you in old age, what you shouldn’t care about the most is the fame and money. If it’s destined to be in your life, it will come naturally. If it’s destined not to be in your life, it won’t come no matter how much effort you pay. The things you earn by fight will be lost finally. It’s the assured law. If you don’t care so much about it, your husband will have an easier life. This life will bring you so much unexpected gifts that surprise you.Third, do more outdoor activities with your husband and make more healthy food for him. If you really want your husband to be with you till the end of your life, you must take care of him the way you take care of akid. If you truly love this man without too many extra conditions, you must be willing to take a try,If you really do all these things, you’ll find him happier, healthier, and more passionate, and he will definitely repay you, which is out of your expectation. If he truly loves you, even though he’s very common, he won’t leave you too early but live very long and be with you till the end of your life. At that time, you’ll know being a millionaire is far from having a husband being with you, giving you a cup of warm tea and counting some medicine for you when you can’t walk well and see well, how much luxurious clothes and makeup you have is far from having a husband holding your hand on the grass in the sunset, any fame or power is far from having a husband who will warm up the bed for you and hold you tightly with his arms to keep you warm in winter.Since I finished this article, I think I’ve learnt a lot. I’m thinking if I was your wife, I would be super nice to you and I would like to do anything to make you happy so that you could live long and be with me till the very end of my life lol. I know I’m just building a beautiful imagination in my mind, but I just feel it very fun to be thinking about it. :P。