TED英语演讲：这才是爱情应有的样子

关于爱情的英语演讲稿if i speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. if i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, i am nothing. if i give all i possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, i gain nothing.love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.love never fails. but where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. for we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection es, the imperfect disappears. when i was a child, i talked like a child, i thought like a child, i reasoned like a child. when i became a man, i put childish ways behind me. now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. now i know in part; then i shall know fully, even as i am fully known. and now these three remain: faith, hope and love. but the greatest of these is love.it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.a sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.it’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. don’t go for looks; they can deceive. don’t go for wealth, even that fades away. go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you wantto be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.always put yourself in the other’s shoes. if you feel that it hurt s you, it probably hurts the person too.a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.the happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that es along their way.love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. live your life so that when you die, you’re the one smiling an d everyone around you is crying.there was once a guy who suffered from cancer, a cancer that can?ˉt be cured. he was 18 years old and he could die anytime. all his life, he was stuck in his house being taken cared by his mother. he never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once. so he asked his mother and she gave him permission.he walked down his block and found a lot of stores. he passed a cd store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. he stopped and went back to look into the store. he saw a beautiful girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. he opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. he walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat.she looked up and asked, “can i help you?”she smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.he said, “uh... yeah... umm... i would like to buy a cd.”he picked one out and gave her money for it.”would you like me to wrap it for you?” she asked, smiling her cute smile again.he nodded and she went to the back. she came back with the wrapped cd and gave it to him. he took it and walked out of the store.he went home and from then on, he went to that store every day and bought a cd, and she wrapped it for him. he took the cd home and put it in his closet. he was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn?ˉt. his mother found out about this and told him to just ask her. so the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store as usual. he bought a cd like he did every day and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. he took it and when she wasn?ˉt looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...rrrrring!!!one day the phone rang, and the mother picked it up and said, “hello?”it was the girl!!! the mother started to cry and said, “you don?ˉt know? he passed away yesterd ay...”the line was quiet except for the cries of the boy?ˉs mother. later in the day, the mother went into the boy?ˉs room because she wanted to remember him. she thought she would start by looking at his clothes. so she opened the closet.she was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened cds. she was surprised to find all these cds and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one. inside, there was a cd and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. the mother picked it up and started to read it. it said: hi... i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.the mother was deeply moved and opened another cd...again there was a piece of paper. it said: hi... i think u r reallycute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.love is... when you?ˉve had a huge fight but then decide to put aside your egos, hold hands and say, “i love you.”相关文章：关于爱情的英文演讲稿。

关于爱情的英文演讲稿if i speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. if i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, i am nothing. if i give all i possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, i gain nothing.love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.love never fails. but where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. for we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.when i was a child, i talked like a child, i thought like a child, i reasoned like a child. when i becamea man, i put childish ways behind me. now we see buta poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. now i know in part; then i shall know fully, even as i am fully known. and now these three remain: faith, hope and love. but the greatest of these is love.it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.a sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end thatit was never meant to be and you just have to let go. the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.it's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. don't go for looks; they can deceive. don't go for wealth, even that fades away. go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you wantto be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.always put yourself in the other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. when you were born, you were crying andeveryone around you was smiling. live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.there was once a guy who suffered from cancer,a cancer that can?ˉt be cured. he was 18 years old and he could die anytime. all his life, he was stuckin his house being taken cared by his mother. he never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once. so he asked his mother and she gave him permission.he walked down his block and found a lot of stores. he passed a cd store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. he stopped and went back to look into the store. he saw a beautiful girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. he opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. he walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat.she looked up and asked, can i help you?she smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wantedto kiss her right there.he said, uh... yeah... umm... i would like to buy a cd.he picked one out and gave her money for it. would you like me to wrap it for you? she asked, smiling her cute smile again.he nodded and she went to the back. she came back with the wrapped cd and gave it to him. he took it and walked out of the store.he went home and from then on, he went to that store every day and bought a cd, and she wrapped it for him. he took the cd home and put it in his closet. he was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn?ˉt. his mother found out about this and told him to just ask her. so the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store as usual. he bought a cd like he did every day and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. he took it and when she wasn?ˉt looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...one day the phone rang, and the mother picked itup and said, hello?it was the girl!!! the mother started to cry and said, you don?ˉt know? he passed away yesterday... the line was quiet except for the cries of the boy?ˉs mother. later in the day, the mother went into the boy?ˉs room because she wanted to remember him. she thought she would start by looking at his clothes. so she opened the closet.she was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened cds. she was surprised to find all these cds and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one. inside, there was a cd and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. the mother picked it up and started to read it. it said: hi... i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.the mother was deeply moved and opened another cd...again there was a piece of paper. it said: hi...i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.love is... when you?ˉve had a huge fight butthen decide to put aside your egos, hold hands and say, i love you.。

与爱情有关的英语演讲稿（精选6篇）与爱情有关的英语篇1you may observe, that amongst all the great and worthy persons (whereof the memory remaineth, either ancient or recent) there is not one, that hath been transported to the mad degree of love: which shows that great spirits, and great business, do keep out this weak passion. you must except, nevertheless, marcus antonius, the half partner of the empire of rome, and appius claudius, the decemvir and lawgiver; whereof the former was indeed a voluptuous man, and inordinate; but the latter was an austere and wise man: and therefore it seems (though rarely) that love can find entrance, not only into an open heart, but also into a heart well fortified, if watch be not well kept.it is a poor saying of epicurus, satis magnum alter alteri theatrum sumus; as if man, made for the contemplation of heaven, and all noble objects, should do nothing but kneel before a little idol, and make himself a subject, though not of the mouth (as beasts are), yet of the eye; which was given him for higher purposes.it is a strange thing, to note the excess of this passion, and how it braves the nature, and value of things, by this; that the speaking in a perpetual hyperbole, is comely in nothing but in love. neither is it merely in the phrase; for whereas it hath been well said, that the arch-flatterer, with whom all the petty flatterers have intelligence, is a man’s self; certainly the lover is more. for there was never proud man thought so absurdly well of himself, as the lover doth of the person loved; and therefore it was well said, that it is impossible to love, and to be wise. neither doth this weakness appear to others only, and not to the party loved; butto the loved most of all, except the love be reciproque. for it is a true rule, that love is ever rewarded, either with the reciproque, or with an inward and secret contempt.by how much the more, men ought to beware of this passion, which loseth not only other things, but itself! as for the other losses, the poet’s relation doth well figure them: that he that preferred helena, quitted the gifts of juno and pallas. for whosoever esteemeth too much of amorous affection, quitteth both riches and wisdom.this passion hath his floods, in very times of weakness; which are great prosperity, and great adversity; though this latter hath been less observed: both which times kindle love, and make it more fervent, and therefore show it to be the child of folly. they do best, who if they cannot but admit love, yet make it keep quarters; and sever it wholly from their serious affairs, and actions, of life; for if it check once with business, it troubleth men’s fortunes, and maketh men, that they can no ways be true to their own ends.与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇2As it is known, when we are in high school, we all have a constant goal that is to get the entrance to college, and hard work is out of question for the following. So we gain the notice to college finally which we often dream of in the nights, which pr oves a proverb that the god doesn’t live up to someone who spends time and efforts, please memorize the sentence for good.Of course one day we went to college in August or September happily and proudly, but at the same time something happened that it made your heart pounding fiercely next, by the way, that is love for many college students. And then they miss the directions and their selves as well for their lives. Next I am toexpress that I am neutral for falling in love in college, however I have some ideas to illustrate of my own.Firstly, if you are passers-by, I think we will find a lot about several couples of boyfriends and girlfriends under the dorms or dim corners or in the classes without anybody for close postures, as youngsters, it is normal without asking cause about that.Secondly, even worth mentioning is that many young boys and girls couldn’t attend classes and courses instead of traveling to some sceneries and sight places or doing other things only to turn out them loved each other.Third ly, especially to most of freshmen, please don’t be influenced by the phenomenon that a number of students who finds anther half called by them selves proudly, because I think persons are different from each other, different characters, backgrounds and aims.But there is one point to obey if you actually want to have an attempt the feeling for love at first sight: it is , whenever you and I am, the learning and the work is the most principle rather than love is the first and work second, for we aren’t child ren and teenagers anymore, in the future society needs a comprehensive qualifications, profound and extensive knowledge persons, meanwhile in college you are in the state of half foot to society which time is a most important process to exercise and experience before stepping to complicated and complex society, and therefore we are supposed to spend much time in learning instead.What are mentioned above are only my opinions, believing that others have more perfect for falling in love in college.与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇3ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there havebeen myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with .however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”, neither can they deal with t he various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'llsee no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don't expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since it's very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about their children, because they just can't understand why their children don't care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they arealso too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”. granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc..no love among relatives has become a normal phenomenonwhich needn't to be fussed about. what's worse is when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.we are not living in vacuum, and the society is formed of various kinds of people. as long as we want to live, study, or work, we have to contact, communicate and cooperate with others. those who enjoy common interests, mutual understanding, common undertakings and common benefits become friends.some friends are called fair-weather friends, because they are together just for entertaining themselves by eating, drinking, and gossiping. once there's nothing to eat and drink, their friendship is finished. some are spiritual friends who share common ambitions, pursuits and education. “they enjoy talking and laughing with the great talents and never make friends with the good-for-nothings”. the best examples would be yu boya and zhong ziqi of the ancient times who are famous not only for their lofty music but mainly for their lofty characters and mutual understanding and appreciation. they cared very little about material wealth, so their friendship is known as “gentlemen's friendship as pure as water”. the third type of friendship belong to those who show their utter devotion to each other. they are ready not only to share weal and woe but also to die for each other, like the three brothers liu, guan and zhang in the novel romance of the three kingdoms. . we all wish to have this kind of friendship, but it's of great difficulty for the ordinary people to be as devoted as they were.fraternal love or friendship is wide-ranged and flexible. generally speaking, everyone is our friend, just as chairman mao says “our friends are all over the world”. b ut transcend age, sex,nationality, state and economic conditions. to them the most important is common benefit, common interest and understanding. friendship is formed during the course of studying, working and fighting. the battle companions who have survived many hazards usually enjoy long-lasting friendship.与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇4Love is like the wild rose-briar;Friendship like the holly-treeThe holly is dark when the rose-briar bloomsBut which will bloom most constantly?The wild rose-briar is sweet in spring,Its summer blossoms scent the air;Yet wait till winter comes again,And who will call the wild-briaThen, scorn the silly rose-wreath nowAnd deck thee with hollyThat, when December blights thy browHe still may leave thy garland green与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇5If I know what love is, it is because of you.I’ll think of you every step of the way.light in my heart the evening star of rest and then let the night whisper to me of love.Look into my eyes - you will see what you mean to me.Love is a vine that grows into our hearts.Love is like a butterfly. It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes.Love is the greatest refreshment in life.Love keeps the cold out better than a cloak.Love never dies.My heart is with you.Take away love, and our earth is a tomb.The darkness is no darkness with thee.the mist, like love, plays upon the heart of the hills and bring out surprises of beauty.Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you.与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇6Thank you for comfotting me when I'm sadLoving me when I'm madPicking me up when I'm downThank you for being my friend and being aroundTeaching me the meaning of loveEncouraging me when I need a shoveBut most of all thank you forLoving me for who I am.。

ted最受欢迎的25个演讲稿TED 最受欢迎的 25 个演讲稿TED 演讲作为全球知名的思想分享平台，汇聚了来自各个领域的杰出人物，他们通过精彩的演讲，传递着深刻的见解、创新的理念和感人的故事。

以下为您介绍其中最受欢迎的 25 个演讲稿：1、《学校如何扼杀创造力》（Ken Robinson）肯·罗宾逊在这个演讲中深刻地指出了传统教育体制对创造力的扼杀。

他强调，创造力如同人的智力一样重要，而我们的教育系统往往更注重学术成绩，而忽视了培养学生的创造力。

2、《脆弱的力量》（Brené Brown）布琳·布朗探讨了脆弱的力量。

她认为，敢于展现脆弱并非弱点，而是一种勇气和连接人与人的关键。

3、《肢体语言塑造你自己》（Amy Cuddy）艾米·卡迪通过研究表明，肢体语言不仅能反映我们的内心状态，还能反过来塑造我们的心态和表现。

4、《伟大的领导者如何激励行动》（Simon Sinek）西蒙·斯涅克提出了“黄金圈法则”，解释了伟大的领导者是如何从“为什么”开始，激励人们采取行动的。

5、《内向性格的力量》（Susan Cain）苏珊·凯恩为内向者发声，她认为内向并非缺陷，而是一种独特的力量，社会应该给予内向者更多的理解和空间。

6、《我们为什么快乐》（Dan Gilbert）丹·吉尔伯特探讨了人类的快乐机制，他指出我们对于快乐的预测往往是不准确的，而适应和心理免疫系统在其中起着重要作用。

7、《你的记忆怎样欺骗了你》（Elizabeth Loftus）伊丽莎白·洛夫特斯揭示了记忆的不可靠性，以及外界因素如何影响和扭曲我们的记忆。

8、《用游戏创造一个更美好的世界》（Jane McGonigal）简·麦戈尼格尔阐述了游戏的积极作用，以及如何利用游戏来解决现实世界的问题，创造更美好的未来。

9、《成功的 8 个秘诀》（Richard St John）理查德·圣约翰总结了多年研究得出的成功的 8 个秘诀，这些秘诀涵盖了坚持、热情、努力等多个方面。

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Helen Fisher在Ted演讲：爱情魔力背后隐藏的秘密I and my colleagues Art Aron and Lucy Brown and others, have put 37 people who are madly in love into a functional MRI brain scanner. 17 who were happily in love, 15 who had just been dumped, and we're just starting our third experiment: studying people who report that they're still in love after 10 to 25 years of marriage. So, this is the short story of that research.我和阿尔特.阿伦、露西.布朗还有其他同事对37位处在恋爱不同阶段的人的大脑进行了核磁共振测试，其中17位正享受爱情带来的幸福，而15位则刚刚被甩。

我们刚刚开始第三项实验：研究那些在10到25年后仍然处在爱恋中的人们，接下来是关于这项研究的一些介绍。

In the jungles of Guatemala, in Tikal, stands a temple. It was built by the grandest Sun King, of the grandest city-state, of the grandest civilization ofthe Americas, the Mayas. His name was Jasaw Chan K'awiil. He stood over six feet tall. He lived into his 80s, and he was buried beneath this monument in 720 AD. And Mayan inscriptions proclaim that he was deeply in love with his wife. So, he built a temple in her honor, facing his. And every spring and autumn, exactly at the equinox, the sun rises behind his temple, and perfectly bathes her temple with his shadow. And as the sun sets behind her temple in the afternoon, it perfectly bathes his temple with her shadow. After 1,300 years, these two lovers still touch and kiss from their tomb.在危地马拉的丛林深处的提卡尔，矗立着一座神庙。

关于爱情的英文演讲稿if i speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. if i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, i am nothing. if i give all i possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, i gain nothing.love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.love never fails. but where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. for we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. when i was a child, i talked like a child, i thought like a child, i reasoned like a child. when i became a man, i putchildish ways behind me. now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. now i know in part; then i shall know fully, even as i am fully known. and now these three remain: faith, hope and love. but the greatest of these is love.it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.a sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.it's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. don't go for looks; they can deceive. don't go for wealth, even thatfades away. go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you wantto be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.always put yourself in the other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.there was once a guy who suffered from cancer, a cancer that can?ˉt be cured. he was 18 years old andhe could die anytime. all his life, he was stuck in his house being taken cared by his mother. he never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once. so he asked his mother and she gave him permission.he walked down his block and found a lot of stores. he passed a cd store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. he stopped and went back to look into the store. he saw a beautiful girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. he opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. he walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat. 来源：she looked up and asked, "can i help you?"she smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.he said, "uh... yeah... umm... i would like to buy a cd."he picked one out and gave her money for it."would you like me to wrap it for you?" she asked, smiling her cute smile again.he nodded and she went to the back. she came back with the wrapped cd and gave it to him. he took it and walked out of the store.he went home and from then on, he went to that store every day and bought a cd, and she wrapped it for him. he took the cd home and put it in his closet. he was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn?ˉt. his mother found out about this and told him to just ask her. so the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store as usual. he bought a cd like he did every day and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. he took it and when she wasn?ˉt looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...one day the phone rang, and the mother picked it up and said, "hello?"it was the girl!!! the mother started to cry and said, "you don?ˉt know? he passed away yesterday..."the line was quiet except for the cries of the boy?ˉs mother. later in the day, the mother went intothe boy?ˉs room because she wanted to remember him. she thought she would start by looking at his clothes. so she opened the closet.she was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened cds. she was surprised to find all these cds and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one. inside, there was a cd and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. the mother picked it up and started to read it. it said: hi... i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.the mother was deeply moved and opened another cd...again there was a piece of paper. it said: hi...i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.love is... when you?ˉve had a huge fight but then decide to put aside your egos, hold hands and say, "i love you."。

TED英语演讲：爱情的三大秘诀TED是Technology, Entertainment, Design(科技、娱乐、设计)的缩写，这个会议的宗旨是"用思想的力量来改变世界"。

TED演讲的特点是毫无繁杂冗长的专业讲座，观点响亮，开门见山，种类繁多，看法新颖。

而且还是非常好的英语口语听力练习材料，建议坚持学习。

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演讲者：Hannah Fry演讲稿Today I want to talk to you about the mathematics of love. Now, I think that we can all agree that mathematicians are famously excellent at finding love.But it's not just because of our dashing personalities, superior conversational skills and excellent pencil cases. It's also because we've actually done an awful lot of work into the maths of how to find the perfect partner.今天我想要和大家谈谈关于爱情的数学。

我想大家都同意数学家在寻找真爱上特别在行。

但那并不是是因为我们精力充沛的性格，超凡的对话技巧，和极好的笔盒。

也是因为我们真的花了许多时间精力在数学上，计算如何找到完美的伴侣。

Now, in my favorite paper on the subject, which is entitled,"Why I Don't Have a Girlfriend" --Peter Backus tries to rate his chances of finding love. Now, Peter's not a very greedy man. Of all of the available women in the UK, all Peter's looking for is somebody who lives near him, somebody in the right age range, somebody with a university degree, somebody he's likely to get on well with, somebody who's likely to be attractive, somebody who's likely to find him attractive.And comes up with an estimate of 26 women in the whole of the UK.It's not looking very good, is it Peter? Now, just to put that into perspective, that's about 400 times fewer than the best estimates of how many intelligent extraterrestrial life forms there are. And it also gives Peter a 1 in 285,000 chance of bumping into any one of these special ladies on a given night out. I'd like to think that's why mathematicians don't really bother going on nights out anymore.现在，在此学科中我最爱的论文，名为“为什么我没有女友”(笑声) Peter Backus试着计算他寻得真爱的机会。

OK, so today I want to talk about how wetalk about love. And specifically, I want to talk about what's wrong with howwe talk about love.今天我想谈谈我们是如何谈论爱情的。

我尤其想和你们聊的是，我们谈论爱情时到底哪里出错了。

Most of us will probably fall in love a fewtimes over the course of our lives, and in the English language, this metaphor,falling, is really the main way that we talk about that experience. I don'tknow about you, but when I conceptualize this metaphor, what I picture isstraight out of a cartoon — like there's a man, he's walking down the sidewalk, withoutrealizing it, he crosses over an open manhole, and he just plummets into thesewer below. And I picture it this way because falling is not jumping. Fallingis accidental, it's uncontrollable. It's something that happens to us withoutour consent. And this — this is the main way we talk about starting a new relationship.我们大多数人在一生中可能深爱过几次，在英语中，坠入爱河这个比喻，是我们谈论这段经历的主要方式。

TED演讲系列文稿---如何更好的讨论爱情（曼迪*兰*凯特论）英语版；Ok,so today I want to talk about how we talk about love .And specifically,I want to talk about what’s wrong whit how we talk about love.Most of us will probably fall in love a few times over the course of our lives,and in the English language,this metaphor,falling,is really the main way what we talk about that experience. I don ’t know how about you ,but when I conceptualize this metaphor what I picture is straight out of a cartoon,like this is a man ,he’s walking down the sidewalk ,without realizing it ,he crosses over an open manhole,and he just plummets into the sewer below. And I picture it this way because falling is not jumping . falling is accidental,it’s uncontrollable, it’s something that happens to us without our consent .And this , this is the main way we talk about starting a new relationship.I am a writer and I’m also an English teacher, which means I think about words for a living. You could say that I get paid to argue that the language we use matters,and I would like to argue that many of the metaphors we use to talk about love,maybe even most of them are a problem. So ,in love ,we fall,we struck,we are crushed,we swoon .We burn with passion. Love makes us crazy,and it makes us sick.our hearts ache ,and then they break .So our metaphor equate the experience of loving someone to extreme violence or illness .They do. And they position us as the victims of unforeseen and totally unavoidable circumstances of unforeseen and totally unavoidable circumstances.My favorite one of these is “smitten’’ which is past participle of the word “smite’’.And if you look this word up in the dictionary, you will see it can be defined as both “grievous affliction” and “ to be very much in love .’’ I tend to associate the word “smite” with a very particular context, which is the old testament .In the Book of Exodus alone ,there are 16 references to smiting,which is the word that the Bible uses for the vengeance of an angry God. Here we are using the same word to talk about love that we use to explain a plague of locusts.Right?So,how did this happen? How have we come to associate love with great pain and suffering ? And why do we talk about this ostensibly good experience as if we are victims? These a difficult questions,but I have some theories. And to think this though, I want to focus on one metaphor in particular ,which is the idea of love as madness. When I first started researching romantic love ,I found these madness metaphor everywhere. The history of western culture is full of language that equates love to mental illness. These are just a few example.William Shakespeare; ‘’Love is merely a madness,”from “As you like it“ Friedrich Nietzsche; “There is always some madness in love. “Got me looking ,got me looking so crazy in love” from the great philosopher,Beyonce Knowles.I fell in love for the first time when I was 20, and it was a pretty turbulent relationship right from the start . And it was long distance for the first couple of years,so for me the meant very high highs and very low lows. I can remember onemoment in particular. I was sitting on a bed in a hostel in South America, and i was watching the person I love walk out the door .And it was late, it was nearly midnight,we’d gotten into an argument over dinner,and when we got back to our room,he threw his things in the bag and stormed out . While I can on longer remember what that argument was about, I very clearly remember how I felt watching him leave. I was 22,it was my first time in the developing world, and I was totally alone . I had another week until my flight home, and I knew the name of the town that I was in, and the name of the city that I needed to get to fly out, but I had no idea how to get ground. I had no guidebook and very little money,and I speak no Spanish. Someone more adventurous than me might have seen this as a moment of opportunity, but I just froze. I just sat there. And then I burst in to tears.But despite my panic,some small voice in my head thought, “Wow. That was dramatic. I must really be doing this love thing right.” Because some part of me wanted to feel miserable in love. And is sounds so strange to me now ,but at 22, I longed to have dramatic experiences,and in that moment, I was irrational and furious and devastated, and weirdly enough,I thought that this somehow legitimized the feelings I had for the guy who had just lest me . I think on some level I wanted to feel a little bit crazy, because I thought that was how love worked.This really should not be surprising, considering that according to Wikipedia, there are eight films, 14 songs, two albums and one novel with the title “Crazy Love.” About half an hour later ,he came back to our room. We made up. We spent another mostly happy week traveling together. And then ,when I got home, I thought, “That was so terrible and so great. This must be a real romance.”I expected my first love to feel like madness, and of course,it met that expectation very well, But loving someone like that as if my entire well-being depended on him loving me back was not very good for me.of for him. But I suspect this experience of love is not that unusual. Most of us do feel a bit mad in the early stages of romantic love. In fact,there is research to confirm that this is somewhat normal, because ,neurochemically speaking, romantic love and mental illness are not that easily distinguished. This is truce .This study form 1999 use blood tests. To confirm that the serotonin levels of the newly in love very closely resembled the serotonin levels of people who had been diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Yes,and low levels of serotonin are also associated with seasonal affective disorder and depression. So there is some evidence that love is associated with changes to our moods and our behaviors.And there are other studies to confirm that most relationships being this way . Researchers believe that the low levels of serotonin is correlated with obsessive thinking about the object of love, which is like this feeling that someone has up camp in your brain.And most of us feel this way when we first fall in love. But the good news is , it doesn’t last that long usually from a few months to a couple of years. When I go back from my trip to South America, I spent a lot of time alone in my room, checking my email, desperate to hear from the guy I loved. I decided that if my friends could not understand my grievous affliction, then I not need their friendship. So i stopped hanging out with most of them. And it was probably themost unhappy year of my life. But I think I felt like it was my job to be miserable, because if I could be miserable,then I would prove how much I loved him. And if could prove it,then we would have to end up together eventually. This is the real madness, because there is no cosmic rule that says that great suffering equals great reward ,but we about love as if this is true.Our experiences of love are both biological and cultural. Our biology tell us that love is good by activating these reward circuits in our brain ,and it tells us that love is painful when,after a fight or a breakup that neurochemical reward is withdrawn.And in fact ,and maybe you’ve heard this neurochemically speaking,going through a breakup is a lot like going through cocaine withdrawal,which I find reassuring. And then our culture uses language to shape and reinforce these ideas about love. In this case ,we’re talking about metaphors about pain and addiction and madness. It’s kind of an interesting feedback loop. Love is powerful and at times painful,and we express this in our world and stories,but then our words and stories prime us to expect love to be powerful and painful. What’s interesting to me is that all of this happens in a culture that values lifelong monogamy.It seems like we want it both ways; we want love to feel like madness, and we want it to last an entire lifetime.That sounds terrible. To reconcile this, we need to either change our culture or change our expectations. So,imagine if we were all less passive in love. If we were more assertive, more open- minded, more generous and instead of falling in love,we stepped into love.I know that this is asking a lot, but I’m not actually the first person to suggest this. In their book, “Metaphors We Live By, linguists Mark Johnson and George Lakoff suggest a really interesting solution to this dilemma,which is to change our metaphors. They argue that metaphors really do shape the way we experience the world,and that they can act as guide for future actions, like self -fulfilling prophecies. Johnson and Lakoff suggest a new metaphor for love;love as a collaborative work of art. I really like this way of thinking about love. Linguists talk about metaphors as having entailment, Which is essentially a way of considering all the implications of, or ideas contained within, a given metaphor. And johnson and Lakoff talk about everying that collaborating on a work of art entails;effort,compromise,patience,share goals. These idea align nicely with our cultural investment in long-term romantic commitment, but they also work well for other kinds of relationships , short-term, casual, polyamorous, non-monogamous , asexual because this metaphor brings much more complex idea to the experience of loving someone. So if love is a collaborative work of art, then love is an aesthetic experience . Love is unpredictable , love is creative, love requires communication and discipline,it is frustrating and emotionally demanding.And love involves both joy and pain. Ultimately,each experience of love is different.When I was younger, it never occurred to me that I was allowed to demand more from love, that I didn’t have to just accept whatever love offered. When 14-year-old Juliet first meets or,when 14-year-old JULIET cannot be with Romeo, whom she has met four days ago, she does not feel disappointed or angsty.Whereis she? She wants to die. Right? And just as a refresher,at this point in the play,act three of five, Romeo is not dead.He’s alive, he’s healthy,he’s just been banished from the city. I understand that 16th-century Verona is unlike contemporary North America, and yet when I first read this play,also 14, Juliet’s suffering made sense to me. Reframing love as something I got to create with someone I admire, rather than something that just happens to me without my control or consent, is empowering. It’s still hard. Love still feels totally maddening and crushing some days, and when I feel really frustrated, I have to remind myself; my job in this relationship is to talk to my partner about what I want to make together. This isn’t easy , either. But it’s just so much better than the alternative, which is that thing that feels like madness. This version of love is not about winning or losing someone’s affection. Instead ,it requires that you trust your partner and talk about things when trusting feels difficult, which sounds so simple, but is actually a kind of revolutionary,radical act. This is because you get to stop thinking about yourself and what you’re gaining or losing in your relations, and you get start thinking about what you have to offer. This version of love allows us to say things like, “Hey, we’re not very good collaborators.Maybe this isn’t for us.” Or, “That relationship was shorter than I had planned, but it was still kind of beautiful.” The beautiful thing about the collaborative work of art is that it will not paint or draw or sculpt itself. This version of love allows us to decide what it looks like. Thank you.中文版；好的，今天我想谈谈我们谈论爱情的方法，具体来说，就是讨论一下我们谈论爱情时犯的错误。