alpha males
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One secret that has been true since time immemorial is that women have always found alpha males irresistible. The Alpha Male has something about magnetic that causes a lot of women to fall for him.
Women’s getting attracted to an alpha male is as natural as males getting attracted to a woman with a pretty face or curvaceous figure.
Do have any idea about who is an alpha male and how to be so? The first step is to become aware of the characteristics of an alpha male. The following features will be invariably found in all alpha men.
• Exuding confidence at all times irrespective of the condition they face. • Is aware of his demand, but never proves his superiority to those around. • Sought and viewed as an expert to handle every situation • Leader who initiates and grooms people. • A very good company for women.
The first step about knowing the characteristics has been done. Now is the time to put effort into acquiring such a personality. This can be done if you have the right attitude and the right body language. Following are 5 simple steps by which you can become and show your alpha male characteristics to the world.
Step 1 : Get rid of “Beta Male” personality There are certain traits and mannerisms which are negative and make you a beta male. This is what you have to shun as a first step into transforming yourself into an alpha male. These mannerisms are:
• Folding your arms • Being restless • Dropping shoulders • Hands in the pocket attitude • Hesitating • Constant fiddling
Now having discovered which of the above traits you have you can start getting rid of them. This is a very good beginning into acquiring an alpha male personality.
Step 2 : Exude confidence Confidence is a huge magnet which attracts all women. The body language is the primary tool through which you can display your confidence. A very easy way to have a lot of woman fall for you. Be calm and composed under all circumstances. This is a key feature of an alpha male. No matter how bad or how good a situation is you will never lose your head.
If you lack confidence take strong steps so that you become more self confident. This is a must for all of us. Women can detect in a few seconds if the guy is confident or not. Introspect and know the causes which deter you from being confident and work to eradicate them completely.
Step 3 : Just do it Beta males are very often nervous when dealing with women. This is because they are worried on the results of the conversation. The alpha male on the other hand, is not worried about what he will get. He is not bothered if he will ruin his chances, but focuses on having a great talk with the woman. Keep in mind that it is not a situation where in you will die if you don’t achieve. Its is not a do or die case. Relax, enjoy and strike an engaging conversation with the woman of your interest.
Your appearance will tell her all about what you think and desire. Let those beta male traits vanish and stop getting tensed about you being able to attract her or not. This will all get reflected in your body language. Just show her your alpha male traits – be relaxed and have a great conversation with her just for the sake of it!
Step 4: Take a chill pill As told earlier, alpha male is relaxed , cool and enjoying every minute of the conversation. So it is important for you to be comfortable in attitude when in the company of women.
This is easy to achieve. Be sure to have a direct eye contact. When conversing with a woman make sure you look into her eyes. Looking somewhere else and talking will tell her that you are not interested in her.
Know how to be comfortable and relaxed at all times. Breathe through your stomach and not your chest. This will help you to be relaxed when you talk to the woman of your interest.
There are no shortcuts for this step. You have to train yourself to be relaxed at all times. If you are relaxed and comfortable woman will also enjoy your company which is a very good beginning to attract someone.
Step 5: Plan and execute Mistakes can happen anywhere and unknowingly too. A beta male always wants to impress people around him. This is perceived negatively by all woman. This shows that you have an inferiority complex and will never help you build attraction. Beta male has this inherent feature of trying to impress and help all who ask for it.