态度是一切(Attitude is Everything)byfranciebaltazar-schwartzjerrywasthekindofguyyoulovetohate.hewasalwaysinagoodmooda ndalwayshadsomethingpositivetosay.whensomeonewouldaskhimhowhew asdoing,hewouldreply,"ifiwereanybetter,iwouldbetwins!"hewasauniquema nagerbecausehehadseveralwaiterswhohadfollowedhimaroundfromrestaur anttorestaurant.thereasonthewaitersfollowedjerrywasbecauseofhisattitud e.hewasanaturalmotivator.ifanemployeewashavingabadday,jerrywastheret ellingtheemployeehowtolookonthepositivesideofthesituation.seeingthisre allymademecurious,soonedayiwentuptojerryandaskedhim,"idon'tgetit!you can'tbeapositivepersonallofthetime.howdoyoudoit?"jerryreplied,"eachmo rningiwakeupandsaytomyself,jerry,youhavetwochoicestoday.youcanchoose tobeinagoodmoodoryoucanchoosetobeinabadmood.'ichoosetobeinagood mood.eachtimesomethingbadhappens,icanchoosetobeavictimoricanchoos etolearnfromit.ichoosetolearnfromit.everytimesomeonecomestomecompl aining,icanchoosetoaccepttheircomplainingoricanpointoutthepositivesideo flife.ichoosethepositivesideoflife.""yeah,right,it'snotthateasy,"iprotested."y esitis,"jerrysaid."lifeisallaboutchoices.whenyoucutawayallthejunk,everysitu ationisachoice.youchoosehowyoureacttosituations.youchoosehowpeople willaffectyourmood.youchoosetobeinagoodmoodorbadmood.thebottomli ne:it'syourchoicehowyoulivelife."ireflectedonwhatjerrysaid.soonthereafter,ilefttherestaurantindustrytostartmyownbusiness.welosttouch,butoftentho ughtabouthimwhenimadeachoiceaboutlifeinsteadofreactingtoit.severalyea rslater,iheardthatjerrydidsomethingyouareneversupposedtodoinarestaura ntbusiness:heleftthebackdooropenonemorningandwasheldupatgunpointb ythreearmedrobbers.whiletryingtoopenthesafe,hishand,shakingfromnervo usness,slippedoffthecombination.therobberspanickedandshothim.luckily,je rrywasfoundrelativelyquicklyandrushedtothelocaltraumacenter.after18hou rsofsurgeryandweeksofintensivecare,jerrywasreleasedfromthehospitalwith fragmentsofthebulletsstillinhisbody.isawjerryaboutsixmonthsaftertheaccid ent.wheniaskedhimhowhewas,hereplied,"ifiwereanybetter,i'dbetwins.wan naseemyscars?"ideclinedtoseehiswounds,butdidaskhimwhathadgonethrou ghhismindastherobberytookplace."thefirstthingthatwentthroughmymindw asthatishouldhavelockedthebackdoor,"jerryreplied."then,asilayonthefloor,i rememberedthatihadtwochoices:icouldchoosetolive,oricouldchoosetodie.i chosetolive."weren'tyouscared?didyouloseconsciousness?"iasked.jerrycon tinued,"theparamedicsweregreat.theykepttellingmeiwasgoingtobefine.but whentheywheeledmeintotheemergencyroomandisawtheexpressionsonthe facesofthedoctorsandnurses,igotreallyscared.intheireyes,iread,'he'sadead man."iknewineededtotakeaction.""whatdidyoudo?"iasked."well,therewasa big,burlynurseshoutingquestionsatme,"saidjerry."sheaskedifiwasallergicto anything.'yes,'ireplied.thedoctorsandnursesstoppedworkingastheywaitedformyreply..itookadeepbreathandyelled,'bullets!'overtheirlaughter,itoldthe m,'iamchoosingtolive.operateonmeasifiamalive,notdead."jerrylivedthankst otheskillofhisdoctors,butalsobecauseofhisamazingattitude.ilearnedfromhi mthateverydaywehavethechoicetolivefully.attitude,afterall,iseverything.文章。