桑德伯格演讲稿件

FacebookCOO桑德伯格毕业演讲：失去一生所爱，让我变得更加坚强以下为Facebook首席运营官雪莉·桑德伯格（Sheryl Sandberg）2017年5月12日在弗吉尼亚理工学院毕业典礼上的演讲。

桑兹校长，尊敬的教师，自豪的父母，忠实的朋友，年轻的兄弟姐妹们……祝贺你们。

最重要的是，祝贺弗吉尼亚理工学院（Virginia Tech）2017届的毕业生们！我很荣幸来到这里，这个旧金山夏日让人备感亲切，一如任何名字中带有“Tech”的事物。

今天，你们作为2017届的毕业生，我为你们感到激动。

为所有前来为你们加油鼓气的人感到激动。

从你踏进校门的那天起，他们便鞭策着你，帮你抹去泪水，陪你开怀大笑，直到今天。

让我们向他们表达衷心的感谢。

毕业演讲往往是单方面的。

演讲者，也就是我，传授自己得来不易的人生经验。

毕业生，也就是你们，坐在雨中，体贴地倾听。

然后，你们把帽子扔向空中，拥抱朋友，让父母拍上一大堆照片——然后开始精彩的人生……也许顺道去趟Sharkey’s餐馆，走之前再来一盘鸡翅。

今天会不太一样，我不讲大家不知道的。

我想讲讲弗吉尼亚理工学院社群再清楚不过的。

今天，我想谈谈韧劲。

这所大学有很多知名的东西。

你们的善良与正派，你们的学术成就，你们根深蒂固的校园精神。

我有很多时间都在跟大学打交道，虽是工作需要，但也是因为我想重温双十年华。

谈起自己的母校时，很少有人像霍奇谈论弗吉尼亚理工那样。

那种骄傲与团结，那种深深的认同感……只要问一个问题就可以证明。

霍奇是什么？（我就是！）在美国弗吉尼亚理工学院是一种吉祥物(也可代指该学院学生)，也代表了学院的一种永不服输的精神这就是了。

你们也许没有意识到，在霍奇精神的鼓舞下，你们的韧劲也日益增强。

近两年来，我都在研究韧劲这个东西，因为我经历了一件事，它所要求我具备的，是以前的我自认为做不到的。

两年零十一天前，我的丈夫大卫突然意外离世。

有时候，这些话我至今仍难以启齿，因为我到现在还是不太能接受那个现实。

桑德伯格ted演讲稿谢乐尔桑德伯格是出色的女性领导，她是facebook 首席运营官，她在TED演讲中发表题为《为什么女性领导太少》的演讲稿，下面是这篇桑德伯格ted演讲稿中文版及英文版桑德伯格ted演讲稿中文版今天在座的各位，我们先承认我们是幸运的。

我们没有生活在我们母亲和我们祖母生活过的那个世界，在那时女性的职业选择是非常有限的。

今天在座的各位，大多数人成长于一个女性有基本公民权的世界。

令人惊讶地是，我们还生活在一个有些女性还没有这些权利的世界。

但除上所述，我们还有一个问题，它是一个实际问题。

这问题是：在世界各地，女性没达到任何职业的高管职位。

这些数据很清楚地告诉我们这实情。

190个国家元首里，九位是女性领导。

在世界上议会的总人数中， 13%是女性议员。

在公司部门，女性占据高位， C级职位，董事会席位高管职位比例占15%，16%。

自从20XX年起这数据没变化过有下降趋势。

即使在非营利的行业，我们有时认为这一行业是被更多女性所领导的，女性领导人占20%。

我们还面临着另一个问题，就是女性在职业成功和个人价值实现中所面临的艰难选择。

美国最近一个研究表明，已婚高管人员，三分之二的已婚男性高管人员有孩子只有三分之一的已婚女性高管人员有孩子。

几年前，我在纽约，出席一个协议，在那种别致的纽约私募投资办事处中的一个你能想象到的。

我在这个大约有3小时的会议上，过了2小时，有个间歇休息，所有人都站起来，这会议组织者开始显得的确很尴尬。

我意识到他不知道在他办公室哪里是女洗手间。

所以我开始寻找移动厕所，盘算他们刚搬进来，但我没有看到任何移动厕所。

然后我说，你是刚搬到这办公室吗? 他说，不是，我们在这儿已经有一年了。

我说，你能否告诉我这一年来，我是唯一一个来这间办公室的女性吗? 他看着我，说到，是的。

或者说你可能是唯一一个要上女性洗手间。

(笑声)所以问题是，我们该怎样解决这样的尴尬? 我们怎样改变这些高管职位的比例? 我们怎样使这个变得不同? 我首先想说，我谈这个女性就职因为我的确认为我们得找到答案。

谢丽尔桑德伯格清华20XX毕业演讲稿命运偏爱勇者向前一步20XX年清华大学经济管理学院毕业之际，Facebook首席运营官来清华演讲，为即将毕业的20XX届毕业生送上精彩的演讲，寄语毕业生要想成为领导者，那么就要勇于向前一步，facebook谢丽尔桑德伯格清华20XX毕业演讲稿命运偏爱勇者向前一步谢丽尔桑德伯格清华20XX毕业演讲稿命运偏爱勇者向前一步钱颖一院长、杰出的清华经管学院的教师们、自豪的毕业生亲属、鼎力支持他们的朋友们、以及更重要的是，清华经管学院20XX届的毕业生们：我很荣幸今天来到这里为你们做毕业典礼演讲。

同我的老板马克扎克伯格不一样的是，我不会讲中文。

为此我感到抱歉。

但是，他请我用中文转达他对大家的问候祝贺。

今天能在这里祝贺优秀的同学们毕业，我感到非常兴奋。

当钱颖一院长邀请我今天来做演讲时，我想，来给远比我年轻比我酷的人演讲?这事儿我能做。

我在Facebook每天都要做这样的事情。

因为扎克伯格比我小15岁，并且我们的大多数员工是他的同龄人，而不是我这个年龄的。

我喜欢和年轻人在一起，除非他们问我你在大学时没有手机用是怎样的日子?甚至更糟糕的问题是，谢丽尔，你能过来一下吗?我们想知道岁数大的人对这个新功能有什么看法?我1991年从哈佛大学本科毕业，获得经济学学士学位;1995年从哈佛商学院毕业，获得MBA学位所以可以说，我上了美国的清华大学。

其实这并不是那么久远的事情。

但是我能告诉你们的是，这个世界在这短短的25年当中发生了翻天覆地的变化。

在哈佛商学院时，我所在的班级曾尝试进行学院的第一次在线课程。

我们当时必须给每人发一张写有我们网名的列表，因为那时在网上使用真名是件让人难以想象的事。

但是最后还是没有搞成，因为电脑系统不断崩溃当时根本无法实现90人同时在线交流。

不过在系统崩溃之间的几个短暂瞬间里，我们窥见了未来一个技术可以实现我们和同事、家人、朋友连接在一起的未来。

现在的世界已经是我坐在你们这个位置时难以想象的世界了。

硅谷版“安迪”：桑德伯格16年加州大学伯克利分校毕业典礼演讲她是硅谷版的“安迪”，Facebook的二当家，周末加州大学伯克利分校的毕业典礼上分享了自己经历然而正在她事业蓬勃之际，她的丈夫却早早撒手人寰，她又有着惊人的毅力克服悲痛。

在丈夫去世一年后，Facebook首席运营官雪莉·桑德伯格学会了如何更有韧性.她在周末加州大学伯克利分校的毕业典礼上分享了自己的经历，并有可能将其写入自己的第二本书中。

在演讲过程中，她数度哽咽。

马克·扎克伯格在桑德伯格这篇演讲的下面评论:“如此美丽而又激励人心，谢谢你。

”Thank you， Marie. And thank you esteemed members of the faculty， proud parents, devoted friends, squirming siblings。

谢谢玛丽.谢谢尊敬的老师们、自豪的父母、忠诚的朋友们，各位同仁。

Congratulations to all of you…and especially to the magnificent Berkeley graduating class of 2016！祝贺所有人……尤其是伯克利2016级的毕业生们！It is a privilege to be here at Berkeley， which has produced so many Nobel Prize winners, Turing Award winners， astronauts，members of Congress, Olympic gold medalists…. and that's just the women！在伯克利求学是一件幸事，这里出过众多的诺贝尔奖得主、图灵奖获得者、宇航员、国会议员和奥运会金牌得主……而且都有女性！Berkeley has always been ahead of the times。

Facebook COO 桑德伯格2012哈佛商学院毕业演讲It's an honor to be here today to address HBS's distinguished faculty, proud parents, patient guests, and most importantly, the class of 2012.今天很荣幸来到这里为尊敬的哈佛商学院（HBS）的教授们，自豪的毕业生家长们和耐心的来宾们，尤其是为今年的毕业生们演讲。

Today was supposed to be a day of [w]unbridled[/w] celebration and I know that's no longer true. I join all of you in grieving for your classmate Nate. I know there are no words that makes something like this better.今天原本应该是狂欢的日子，不过我知道现在并不合适了（由于一名毕业生在欧洲突然死亡）让我们一起为Nate同学表示哀悼，当然任何言语在这样的悲剧前都苍白无力。

Although laden with sadness, today still marks a distinct and impressive achievement for this class. So please everyone join me in giving our warmest congratulations to this class of 2012.尽管有悲伤萦绕在大家心头，今天仍然象征着你们取得的杰出成绩。

所以让我们一起为12届的毕业生们献上最热烈的祝贺。

When the wonderful Dean Nohria invited me to speak here today, I thought, come talk to a group of people way younger and cooler than I am? I can do that.I do that every day at Facebook. I like being surrounded by young people, except when they say to me, "What was it like being in college without the internet?" or worse," Sheryl, can you come here? We need to see what old people think of this feature." It's not joking.当尊敬的院长Nohria邀请我今天来做演讲时，我想来给一群远比我年轻有活力的人们演讲？我没问题。

桑德伯格伯克利演讲稿在当今的商业世界中，雪莉·桑德伯格无疑是一位备受瞩目的女性领袖。

她在伯克利的演讲稿，不仅仅是一场简单的演讲，更是一次深刻的思想分享和智慧启迪。

桑德伯格的演讲开篇便吸引了所有人的注意力。

她没有过多的寒暄，而是直接切入主题，以自己的亲身经历为引，讲述了成长道路上所面临的挑战与抉择。

她谈到了自己初入职场时的迷茫与不安。

那时的她，如同许多年轻人一样，怀揣着梦想，却又对未来充满了不确定。

在面对复杂的工作环境和激烈的竞争时，她也曾有过退缩的念头。

但正是凭借着内心深处那份对成功的渴望和不懈的努力，她逐渐在工作中找到了自己的定位，展现出了卓越的才能。

桑德伯格强调了勇气的重要性。

她认为，在追求梦想的道路上，我们不能总是害怕失败，而应该勇敢地迈出每一步。

哪怕前方充满了未知和困难，只要我们有勇气去尝试，就有机会获得成功。

她讲述了自己在职业生涯中几次大胆的决策，这些决策在当时看来充满了风险，但正是这些勇敢的选择，为她的职业发展开辟了新的道路。

同时，桑德伯格也提到了团队合作的意义。

她指出，在一个团队中，每个人都有自己的优势和不足，只有相互协作、相互支持，才能共同实现目标。

她分享了自己在团队中与同事们共同克服困难、取得成就的经历，让大家深刻体会到了团队的力量。

在演讲中，桑德伯格还特别关注了女性在职业发展中的困境。

她坦言，尽管社会在不断进步，但女性在工作中仍然面临着诸多不公平的待遇和限制。

然而，她鼓励女性们要勇敢地打破这些束缚，要相信自己的能力，积极争取属于自己的机会。

她以自己为例，讲述了如何在一个男性主导的行业中脱颖而出，为女性树立了榜样。

桑德伯格还谈到了面对挫折时的态度。

她认为，挫折是人生中不可避免的一部分，关键是我们如何从挫折中吸取教训，重新站起来。

她分享了自己在经历挫折时的心路历程，以及如何通过自我调整和积极的行动，走出困境，再次迎接挑战。

此外，桑德伯格也强调了持续学习和自我提升的重要性。

(1)Congratulations everyone, you made itAnd I don't mean to the end of college, I mean to class daybecause if memory servessome of your classmates had too many scorpion bowls at the Kong last nightand are with us todayGiven the weatherthe one thing Harvard hasn't figured out how to controlsome of your other classmates are at someplace warm with a hot cocoaso you have many reasons to feel proud of yourself as you sit here today Congratulations to your parentsYou have spent a lot of moneyso your child can say she went to a "small school" near BostonAnd thank you to the class of 2014 for inviting me to be part of your celebration It means a great deal to meand looking at the list of past speakers was a little dauntingI can't be as funny as Amy Poehlerbut I'm gonna be funnier than Mother Teresa25 years agoa man named Dave I did not know at the time but who would one day become my husband was sitting where you are sitting today23 years agoI was sitting where you are sitting todayDave and I are back this weekendwith our amazing son and daughter to celebrate his reunionand we both share the same sentimentHarvard has a good basketball teamStanding here in the yard brings memories flooding back for meI arrived here from Miami in the fall of 1987with big hopes and even bigger hairI was assigned to live in one of Harvard's historic monuments to great architecture CanadayMy go-to outfit, and I'm not making this up, was a jean skirtwhite leg warmers and sneakers and a Florida sweaterbecause my parents who were here with me then as they're here with me nowtold me everyone would think it was awesome that I was from FloridaAt least we didn't have InstagramFor me, Harvard was a series of firstsMy first winter coat, we needn't need those in MiamiMy first 10 page paper, they didn't assign those in my high schoolMy first Cafter which my proctor told me that she was on the Admissions Committeeand I got admitted to Harvard for my personalitynot my academic potentialThe first person I ever met from boarding schoolI thought that was our really troubled kidsThe first person I ever met who shares the name with a whole buildingor so I met when the first classmate I met was Sarah Wigglesworthwho bore no relation at all to the dormwhich would have been nice to know with that very intimidating momentBut then I went on to meet othersFrancis Strauss, James WellsJessica Science Center BMy first love, my first heartbreakthe first time I realized that I love to learnand the first and very last time I saw anyone read anything in LatinWhen I sat in your seat all those years agoI knew exactly where I was headed. I had it all planned outI was going to the World Bank to work on global povertyThen I would go to law schoolAnd I would spend my life working in a nonprofit or in a governmentAt Harvard's commencement tomorrow as your dean describedeach school is gonna stand up and graduate togetherthe college, the law school, the med school and so onAt my graduation, my class cheered for the PhD studentsand then booed the business schoolBusiness school seemed like such a sellout18 months later, I applied to business schoolIt wasn't that I was wrong about what I would do decades after graduatingI had it wrong a year and a half laterAnd even if I could have predicted I would one day work in the private sector I never could have predicted Facebookbecause there was no internetand Mark Zuckerberg was at elementary schoolalready wearing his hoodyNot locking into a path too earlygave me an opportunity to go into a new and life changing fieldAnd for those of you who think I owe everything to good luckafter Canaday I got QuadedWhat's that? Barron(2)There is no straight path from your seat today to where you are goingDon't try to draw that line. You will not just get it wrongYou'll miss big opportunities and I mean big, like the InternetCareers are not ladders. Those days are long gonebut jungle gymsDon't just move up and down. Don't just look upLook backwards, sideways, around cornersYour career and your life will have starts and stops and zigs and zags Don't stress out about the white space, the path you can trybecause there in lives both the surprises and the opportunitiesAs you open yourself up to possibilitythe most important thing I can tell you todayis to open yourself up to honestyto telling the truth to each otherto being honest with yourselvesand to being honest about the world we live inIf you watched children, you will immediately notice how honest they are My friend Betsy was pregnant and her sonfor the second child, son Sam was 5he wanted to know where the baby was in her bodySo yes Mommy, are the babies arms in your arms?And she said, no no Sam, baby's in my tummywhole babyMom, are the baby's legs in your legs?No, Sam, whole baby's in my tummyThen Mommy, what's growing in your butt?As adultswe are almost never dishonestand that can be a very good thingWhen I was pregnant with our first childI asked my husband Dave if my butt was getting bigAt first, he didn't answer but I pressedSo he said, yeah, a littleFor years my sister-in-law said about him what peoplewill now say about you for the rest of your life when you do something doneand that guy went to HarvardHearing the truth at different times along the way would have helped meI would not have admitted it easily when I sat where you sitBut when I graduated, I was much more worried about my love life than my career I thought I only had a few years very limited time to find one of the good guys before he was to, or before they were all takenor I got too oldSo I moved to DC, and met with guyand I got married at the nearly decrepit age of 24I married a wonderful man but I had no business making that kind of commitment I didn't know who I was or who I wanted to beMy marriage fell apart within a yearsomething that was really embarrassing and painful at the timeand it did not help that so many friends came up to me and saidI never knew that, never thought that was going to work orI knew you weren't right for each otherNo one had managed to say anything like that to mebefore I marched down an aisle when it would have been far more usefulAnd as I lived through these painful months of separation and divorceboy, did I wish they had?And boy, did I wish I had asked them?At the same time in my professional life, someone did speak upMy first boss out of college was Lant Pritchettan economist who teaches at the Kennedy School who is here with us todayAfter I deferred to law school for the second timeLant sat me down and saidI don't think you should go to law school at allI don't think you want to go to law schoolI think you think you should because you told your parents you would many years ago He noted that he had never once heard me talk about the law with any interestI know how hard it can be to be honest with each othereven your closest friends, even when they're about to make serious mistakesbut I bet sitting here today, you know your closest friends' strength, weaknesses what cliff they might drive offand I bet for the most part you've never told themand they've never askedAsk themAsk them for the truth because it will help youand when they answer honestlyyou know that that's what makes them real friendsAsking for feedback is a really important habit to get intoas you leave the structure of the school calendar and exams and grades behindOn many jobs if you want to know how you're doingif you're going to have to ask andthen you're gonna have to listen without getting defensiveTake it from me, listening to criticism is never fun(3)but it's the only way we can improveA few years ago, Mark Zuckerberg decided he wanted to learn Chineseand in order to practicehe started trying to have work meetings with some ofour Facebook colleagues who are native speakersNow you would think his very limited language skillswould keep these conversations from being usefulOne day he asked a woman who was therehow it was going, how did you choose the FacebookShe answered with a long and pretty complicated sentenceSo he said, simpler pleaseShe spoke againSimpler pleaseThis went back and forth a couple of timesSo she is blurted out in frustration, my manager is badThat he understoodSo often the truth is sacrificed to conflict avoidanceor by the time we speak the truth, we've used so many caveatsand preambles that the message totally gets lostSo I ask you to ask each other for the truth and other peoplecan you list it in simple and clear language?And when you speak your truthcan you use simple and clear language?As hard as it is to be honest with other peopleit can be even more difficult to be honest with ourselvesFor years after I had childrenI would say pretty often I don't feel guilty working even when no one asked Someone might say, Sheryl, how's your day today?And I would say, great I don't feel guilty workingOr do I need a sweater?Yes, it's unpredictably freezing and I don't feel guilty workingI was kinda like a parrot with issuesThen one day on the treadmill, I was reading this article on Sociology Journal about how people don't start out lying to other peoplethey start out lying to themselvesand the things we repeat most frequentlyare often those liesSo the sweat was pouring down my faceI started wondering what do I repeat pretty frequentlyand I realized I feel guilty workingI then did a lot of researchand I spent an entire year with my dear friend Nell Scovellwriting a book talking about how I was thinking and feelingand I'm so grateful that so many women around the world connected to itMy book of course was called Fifty Shades of GreyI can see a lot of you connected to it as wellWe have even more work to do in being honest about the world we live inWe don't always see the hard truthsand once we see them, we don't always have the courage to speak outWhen my classmates and I were in collegewe thought that fight for gender equality was one that was overSure, most of the leaders in every industry were menbut we thought changing that was just a matter of timeLamont Library right over thereone generation before us didn't let women through its doorsBut by the time we sat in your seat, everything was equalHarvard and Radcliffe was fully integratedWe didn't need feminism because we were already equalsWe were wrongI was wrongThe world was not equal thenand it is not equal nowI think nowadayswe don't just hide ourselves from the hard truthand shut our eyes to the inequitiesbut we suffer from the tyranny of low expectationsIn the last election cycle in the United Stateswomen won 20% of the Senate seatsand all the headlines started screaming outwomen take over the SenateI felt like screaming back, wait a minute everyone50% of the population getting 20% of the seatsThat's not a takeover. That's an embarrassmentJust a few months ago this yeara very well respected and well-known business executives in Silicon Valley invited me to give a speech to his club on social mediaI've been to this club a few months before when Ihave been invited for a friend's birthdayIt was a beautiful building and I was wandering aroundlooking at it, looking for the women's room(4)when a staff member informed me very firmlythat the ladies' room was over thereand I should be sure not to go up stairsbecause women are never allowed in this buildingI didn't realize I was in an all-male club until that minuteI spent the rest of the night wondering what I was doing therewondering what everyone else was doing therewondering if any of my friends in San Francisco would invite me toa party at a club that didn't allow Blacks or Jews or Asians or gaysBeing invited to give a business speech at this clubhit me even more egregiousbecause you couldn't claim that it was only social business that was done there My first thought was, "Really?"ReallyA year after "Lean In"this dude thought it was a good ideato invite me to give a speech to his literal all-boys clubAnd he wasn't alonethere is an entire committee of well respected businessmanwho joined him in issuing this kind invitationTo paraphrase Groucho Marxand don't worry, I won't try to do the voiceI don't want to speak in any club that won't have me as a memberSo I said noand I did it in a way I probably wouldn't have even 5 years beforeI wrote a long and passionate emailarguing that they should change their policiesThey thanked me for my prompt response and wrote thatperhaps things will eventually changeOur expectations are too lowEventually needs to become immediatelyWe need to see the truth and speak the truthWe tolerate discrimination and we pretend that opportunity is equalYes we elected an African-American presidentbut racism is pervasive stillYes, there are women who run Fortune 500 companies5 percent to be precisebut our road there is still paved with words like pussy and bossywhile our male peers are leaders and results focusedAfrican-American women have to prove that they're not angryLatinos risk being branded fiery hot headA group of Asian-American women and men in Facebookwore pins one day that said I may or may not be good enoughYes, Harvard has a woman presidentand in two years, the United States may have a woman president(5)But in order to get thereHillary Clinton is gonna have to overcome 2 very real obstaclesunknown and often ununderstood gender biasand even worse, a degree from YaleYou can challenge stereotypes that's subtle and obviousAt Facebook, we have posters around the wall to inspire usDone is better than perfectFortune favors the bold. What would you do if you weren't afraid?My new favoritenothing at Facebook is someone else's problemI hope you feel that way about the problems you see in the worldbecause they are not someone else's problemGender inequality harms men along with womenRacism hurts Whites along with MinoritiesAnd the lack of equal opportunity keeps all of usfrom failing our true potentialSo as you graduate todayI want to put some pressure on youI want to put some pressure on you to acknowledge the hard truthsnot shy away from themand when you see them to address themThe first time I spoke out about what it was like to be a woman in the workforce was less than five years agoThat means that for 18 years from where you sit to where I standmy silence implied that everything was okayYou can do better than I didAnd I mean that so sincerelyAt the same timeI want to take some pressure off youSitting here today you don't have toknow what career you want or how to get the career you might wantLeaning in does not mean your path will be straight or smoothand most people who make great contribution start way later than Mark ZuckerbergFind a jungle gym you want to play and start climbingnot only will you figure out what you want to do eventuallybut once you do, you'll crush itLooking at you all here todayI'm filled with hopeAll of you who were admitted to a "small school" near Boston either for your academic potential or your personality or both you've had your first, whether it's a winter coat, a love or a C you've learned more about who you are and who you want to be And most importantlyyou've experienced the power of communityyou know that while you are extraordinary on your ownwe are all stronger and can be louder togetherI know that you will never forget Harvardand Harvard will never forget youespecially during the next fundraising driveTomorrowyou all become part of a lifelong communitywhich offers truly great opportunityand therefore comes with real obligationYou can make the world fair for everyoneexpect honesty from yourself and each otherdemand and create truly equal opportunitynot eventually, but nowAnd tomorrow by the wayyou get something Mark Zuckerberg does not havea Harvard degreeCongratulations, everyone。

2016年毕业演讲:Facebook桑德伯格UCB大学演讲--我从死亡中学到的东西【演讲简介】Facebook COO 谢丽尔·桑德伯格（Sheryl Sandberg）5月14日在加州大学伯克利分校（UC Berkeley）的毕业典礼上发表的演讲，在这次演讲中，她首次公开谈论丈夫一年前的突然离世与自己的心路历程。

这对于她来说是一个勇敢的选择。

在演讲过程中，谈及她数度哽咽。

马克·扎克伯格在桑德伯格这篇演讲的下面评论：“如此美丽而又激励人心，谢谢你。

“UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA, BERKELEY 2016 CommencementAddressThank you, Marie. And thank you esteemed members of the faculty, proud parents, devoted friends, squirming siblings.Congratulations to all of you…and especially to the magnificent Berkeley graduating class of 2016!It is a privilege to be here at Berkeley, which has produced so many Nobel Prize winners, Turing Award winners, astronauts, members of Congress, Olympic gold medalists…. and that’s just the women!Berkeley has always been ahead of the times. In the 1960s, you led the Free Speech Movement. Back in those days, people used to say that with all the long hair, how do we even tell the boys from the girls? We now know the answer: manbuns.Early on, Berkeley opened its doors to the entire population. When this campus opened in 1873, the class included 167 men and 222 women. It took my alma mater another ninety years to award a single degree to a single woman.One of the women who came here in search of opportunity was Rosalind Nuss. Roz grew up scrubbing floors in the Brooklyn boardinghouse where she lived. She was pulled out of high school by her parents to help support their family. One of her teachers insisted that her parents put her back into school—and in 1937, she sat where you are sitting today and received a Berkeley degree. Roz was my grandmother. She was a huge inspiration to me and I’m so grateful that Berkeley recognized her potential. I want to take a moment to offer a special congratulations to the many here today who are the first generation in their families to graduate from college. What a remarkable achievement.Today is a day of celebration. A day to celebrate all the hard work that got you to this moment.Today is a day of thanks. A day to thank those who helped you get here—nurtured you, taught you, cheered you on, and dried your tears. Or at least the ones who didn’t draw on you with a Sharpie when you fell asleep at a party.Today is a day of reflection. Because today marks the end of one era of your life and the beginning of something new.A commencement address is meant to be a dance between youth and wisdom. You have the youth. Someone comes in to be the voice of wisdom—that’s supposed to be me. I stand up here and tell you all the things I have learned in life, you throw your cap in the air, you let your family take a million photos –don’t forget to post them on Instagram —and everyone goes home happy.Today will be a bit different. We will still do the caps and you still have to do the photos. But I am not here to tell you all the things I’ve le arned in life. Today I will try to tell you what I learned in death.I have never spoken publicly about this before. It’s hard. But I will do my very best not to blow my nose on this beautiful Berkeley robe.One year and thirteen days ago, I lost my husband, Dave. His death was sudden and unexpected. We were at a friend’s fiftieth birthday party in Mexico.I took a nap. Dave went to work out. What followed was the unthinkable—walking into a gym to find him lying on the floor. Flying home to tell my children that their father was gone. Watching his casket being lowered into the ground.For many months afterward, and at many times since, I was swallowed up in the deep fog of grief—what I think of as the void—an emptiness that fills your heart, your lungs, constricts your ability to think or even to breathe.Dave’s death changed me in very profound ways. I learned about the depths of sadness and the brutality of loss. But I also learned that when life sucks you under, you can kick against the bottom, break the surface, and breathe again. I learned that in the face of the void—or in the face of any challenge—you can choose joy and meaning.I’m sharing this with you in the hopes that today, as you take the next step in your life, you can learn the lessons that I only learned in death. Lessons about hope, strength, and the light within us that will not be extinguished.Everyone who has made it through Cal has already experienced some disappointment. You wanted an A but you got a B. OK, let’s be honest—you got an A- b ut you’re still mad. You applied for an internship at Facebook, but you only got one from Google. She was the love of your life… but then she swiped left.Game of Thrones the show has diverged way too much from the books—and you bothered to read all four thousand three hundred and fifty-two pages. You will almost certainly face more and deeper adversity. There’s loss of opportunity: the job that doesn’t work out, the illness or accident that changes everything in an instant. There’s loss of dignity: the sharp sting of prejudicewhen it happens. There’s loss of love: the broken relationships that can’t be fixed. And sometimes there’s loss of life itself.Some of you have already experienced the kind of tragedy and hardship that leave an indelible mark. Last year, Radhika, the winner of the University Medal, spoke so beautifully about the sudden loss of her mother.The question is not if some of these things will happen to you. They will. Today I want to talk about what happens next. About the things you can do to overcome adversity, no matter what form it takes or when it hits you. The easy days ahead of you will be easy. It is the hard days—the times that challenge you to your very core—that will determine who you are. You will be defined not just by what you achieve, but by how you survive.A few weeks after Dave died, I was talking to my friend Phil about a father-son activity that Dave was not here to do. We came up with a plan to fill in for Dave.I cried to him, “But I want Dave.“ Phil put his arm around me and said, “Option A is not available. So let’s just kick the shit out of option B.“We all at some point live some form of option B. The question is: What do we do then?As a representative of Silicon Valley, I’m pleased to tell you there is data to learn from. After spending decades studying how people deal with setbacks, psychologist Martin Seligman found that there are three P’s—personalization, pervasiveness, and permanence—that are critical to how we bounce back from hardship. The seeds of resilience are planted in the way we process the negative events in our lives.The first P is personalization—the belief that we are at fault. This is different from taking responsibility, which you should always do. This is the lesson that not everything that happens to us happens because of us.When Dave died, I had a very common reaction, which was to blame myself. He died in seconds from a cardiac arrhythmia. I poured over his medical records asking what I could have—or should have—done. It wasn’t until I lear ned about the three P’s that I accepted that I could not have prevented his death. His doctors had not identified his coronary artery disease. I was an economics major; how could I have?Studies show that getting past personalization can actually make you stronger. Teachers who knew they could do better after students failed adjusted their methods and saw future classes go on to excel. College swimmers who underperformed but believed they were capable of swimming faster did. Not taking failures personally allows us to recover—and even to thrive.The second P is pervasiveness—the belief that an event will affect all areas of your life. You know that song “Everything is awesome?“ This is the flip: “Everything is awful.“ There’s no place to run or hide from the all-consuming sadness.The child psychologists I spoke to encouraged me to get my kids back to their routine as soon as possible. So ten days after Dave died, they went back to school and I went back to work. I remember sitting in my first Facebook meetingin a deep, deep haze. All I could think was, “What is everyone talking about and how could this possibly matter?“ But then I got drawn into the discussion and for a second—a brief split second—I forgot about death.That brief second helped me see that there were other things in my life that were not awful. My children and I were healthy. My friends and family were so loving and they carried us—quite literally at times.The loss of a partner often has severe negative financial consequences, especially for women. So many single mothers—and fathers—struggle to make ends meet or have jobs that don’t allow them the time they need to care for their children. I had financial security, the ability to take the time off I needed, and a job that I did not just believ e in, but where it’s actually OK to spend all day on Facebook. Gradually, my children started sleeping through the night, crying less, playing more.The third P is permanence—the belief that the sorrow will last forever. For months, no matter what I did, it felt like the crushing grief would always be there. We often project our current feelings out indefinitely—and experience what I think of as the second derivative of those feelings. We feel anxious—and then we feel anxious that we’re anxious. We feel sad—and then we feel sad that we’re sad. Instead, we should accept our feelings—but recognize that they will not last forever. My rabbi told me that time would heal but for now I should “lean in to the suck.“ It was good advice, but not really what I meant by“lean in.“None of you need me to explain the fourth P…which is, of course, pizza from Cheese Board.But I wish I had known about the three P’s when I was your age. There were so many times these lessons would have helped.Day one of my first job out of c ollege, my boss found out that I didn’t know how to enter data into Lotus 1-2-3. That’s a spreadsheet—ask your parents. His mouth dropped open and he said, ‘I can’t believe you got this job without knowing that“—and then walked out of the room. I went home convinced that I was going to be fired. I thought I was terrible at everything… but it turns out I was only terrible at spreadsheets. Understanding pervasiveness would have saved me a lot of anxiety that week.I wish I had known about permanence when I broke up with boyfriends. It would’ve been a comfort to know that feeling was not going to last forever, and if I was being honest with myself… neither were any of those relationships. And I wish I had understood personalization when boyfriends broke up with me. Sometimes it’s not you—it really is them. I mean, that dude never showered. And all three P’s ganged up on me in my twenties after my first marriage ended in divorce. I thought at the time that no matter what I accomplished, I was a massive failure.T he three P’s are common emotional reactions to so many things that happen to us—in our careers, our personal lives, and our relationships. You’re probably feeling one of them right now about something in your life. But if you can recognize you are falling into these traps, you can catch yourself. Just as ourbodies have a physiological immune system, our brains have a psychological immune system—and there are steps you can take to help kick it into gear. One day my friend Adam Grant, a psychologist, suggested that I think about how much worse things could be. This was completely counterintuitive; it seemed like the way to recover was to try to find positive thoughts. “Worse?“ I said. “Are you kidding me? How could things be worse?“ His answer cut straight th rough me: “Dave could have had that same cardiac arrhythmia while he was driving your children.“ Wow. The moment he said it, I was overwhelmingly grateful that the rest of my family was alive and healthy. That gratitude overtook some of the grief.Finding gratitude and appreciation is key to resilience. People who take the time to list things they are grateful for are happier and healthier. It turns out that counting your blessings can actually increase your blessings. My New Year’s resolution this year is to write down three moments of joy before I go to bed each night. This simple practice has changed my life. Because no matter what happens each day, I go to sleep thinking of something cheerful. Try it. Start tonight when you have so many fun moments to list— although maybe do it before you hit Kip’s and can still remember what they are.Last month, eleven days before the anniversary of Dave’s death, I broke down crying to a friend of mine. We were sitting—of all places—on a bathroom floor. I said: “Eleven days. One year ago, he had eleven days left. And we had no idea.“ We looked at each other through tears, and asked how we would live if we knew we had eleven days left.As you graduate, can you ask yourselves to live as if you had eleven days left?I don’t mean blow everything off and party all the time— although tonight is an exception. I mean live with the understanding of how precious every single day would be. How precious every day actually is.A few years ago, my mom had to have her hip replaced. When she was younger, she always walked without pain. But as her hip disintegrated, each step became painful. Now, even years after her operation, she is grateful for every step she takes without pain—something that never would have occurred to her before.As I stand here today, a year after the worst day of my life, two things are true.I have a huge reservoir of sadness that is with me always—right here where I can touch it. I never knew I could cry so often—or so much.But I am also aware that I am walking without pain. For the first time, I am grateful for each breath in and out—grateful for the gift of life itself. I used to celebrate my birthday every five years and friends’ birthdays sometimes. Now I celebrate always. I used to go to sleep worrying about all the things I messed up that day—and trust me that list was often quite long. Now I try really hard to focus on each day’s moments of joy.It is the greatest irony of my life that losing my husband helped me find deeper gratitude—gratitude for the kindness of my friends, the love of my family, the laughter of my children. My hope for you is that you can find that gratitude—notjust on the good days, like today, but on the hard ones, when you will really need it.There are so many moments of joy ahead of you. That trip you always wanted to take. A first kiss with someone you really like. The day you get a job doing something you truly believe in. Beating Stanford. (Go Bears!) All of these things will happen to you. Enjoy each and every one.I hope that you live your life—each precious day of it—with joy and meaning. I hope that you walk without pain—and that you are grateful for each step.And when the challenges come, I hope you remember that anchored deep within you is the ability to learn and grow. You are not born with a fixed amount of resilience. Like a muscle, you can build it up, draw on it when you need it. In that process you will figure out who you really are—and you just might become the very best version of yourself.Class of 2016, as you leave Berkeley, build resilience.Build resilience in yourselves. When tragedy or disappointment strike, know that you have the ability to get through absolutely anything. I promise you do. As the saying goes, we are more vulnerable than we ever thought, but we are stronger than we ever imagined.Build resilient organizations. If anyone can do it, you can, because Berkeley is filled with people who want to make the world a better place. Never stop working to do so—whether it’s a boardroom that is not representat ive or a campus that’s not safe. Speak up, especially at institutions like this one, which you hold so dear. My favorite poster at work reads, “Nothing at Facebook is someone else’s problem.“ When you see something that’s broken, go fix it. Build resilient communities. We find our humanity—our will to live and our ability to love—in our connections to one another. Be there for your family and friends. And I mean in person. Not just in a message with a heart emoji.Lift each other up, help each other kick the shit out of option B—and celebrate each and every moment of joy.You have the whole world in front of you. I can’t wait to see what you do with it. Congratulations, and Go Bears!谢谢玛丽。

雪莉·桑德伯格哈佛大学2014毕业典礼演讲Congratulations everyone, you made it.And I don’t mean to the end of college, I mean to class day, because if memory serves, some of your classmates had too many scorpion bowls at the Kong last night and are with us today. Given the weather, the one thing Harvard hasn’t figured out how to control, some of your other classmates are at someplace warm with a hot cocoa, so you have many reasons to feel proud of yourself as you sit here today.Congratulations to your parents.You have spent a lot of money, so your child can say she went to a “small school” near Boston. And thank you to the class of 2014 for inviting me to the part of your celebration. It means a great to me. And looking at the list of past speakers was a little daunting.I can’t be as funny as Amy Poehler, but I’m gonna be funnier than Mother Teresa.25 years ago, a man named Dave I did not know at the time but who would one day become my husband was sitting where you are sitting today.23 years ago, I was sitting where you are sitting today. Dave and I are back this weekend with our amazing son and daughter to celebrate his reunion, and we both share the same sentiment, Harvard has a good basketball team.Standing here in the yard brings memories flooding back for me.I arrived here from Miami in the fall of 1987, with big hopes and even bigger hear. I was assigned to live in one of Harvard’s historic monuments to great architecture, canady. My go-to outfit, and I’m not making this up, was a jean skirt, white leg warmers and sneakers and a Florida sweater, because my parents who were here with me then as they’re here with me now, told me everyone would think it was awesome that I was from Florida. At least we didn’t have Instagram.For me, Harvard was a series of firsts.My first winner coat, we needn’t need those in Miami.My first 10page paper, they didn’t assign those in my high school.My first C, after which my proctor told me that she was on the admissions committee, and I got admitted to Harvard for my personality not my academic potential.The first person I ever met from boarding school. I thought that was our really troubled kids.The first person I ever met who shares the name with a whole building, or so I met when the first classmate I met was Sarah Widdlesworth, who bore no relation at all to the dorm, which would have been nice to know with that very intimidating moment. But then I went on to meet others, Francis Strauss, James wells, Jessica science center B. My first love, my first heartbreak, the first time I realized that I love to learn, and the first and very last time I saw anyone read anything in Latin.When I sat in your seat all those years ago, I knew exactly where Iwas headed, I had it all planned out, I was going to the world bank to work on global poverty. The I would go to law school. And I would spend my life working in a nonprofit or in a government. At Harvard’s commencement tomorrow as your dean described, each school is gonna stand up and graduate together, the college, the law school, the med school and so on. At my graduation, my class cheered for the PHD students and then booed the business school. Business school seemed like such a sellout.18 months later, I applied to business school.It wasn’t wrong about what I would do decades after graduating.I had it wrong a year and a half later. And even if I could have predicted I would one day work in the private sector, I never could have predicted Facebook, because there was no internet, and Mark Zuckerberg was at elementary school, already wearing his hoody. Not locking into a path too early, give me an opportunity to go into a new and life changing field. And for those of you who think I owe everything to good luck, after Canaday I got Quaded.There is no straight path from your seat today to where you are going. Don’t try to draw that line. You will not just get it wrong. You will miss big opportunities and I mean big ,like the internet.Careers are not ladders. Those days are long gone, but jungle gyms. Don’t just move up and down. Don’t just look up. Look backwards, sideways, around corners. Your career and your life will have starts and stops and zigs and zags. Don’t stress out about the white space, the path you can try, because there in lives both the surprises and the opportunities. As you open yourself up to possibility, the most important thing I can tell you today is to open yourself up to honesty, to telling the truth to each other, to be honesty to yourselves, and to be honest about the world we live in.If you watched children, you will immediately notice how honest they are.My friend besty was pregnant and her son for the second child, son Sam was 5, he wanted to know where the baby was in her body. So yes mommy, are the babies arms in your arms? And she said, no no sam, baby’s in my tummy, whole baby. Mom ,are the baby’s legs in your legs? No, sam, whole baby’s in my tummy. Then mommy, what’s growing in your butt?As adults, we are almost never dishonest and that can be a very good thing, When I was pregnant with our first child, I asked my husband Dave if my butt was getting big. At first, he didn’t answer but I pressed. So he said, yea, a little.For years my sister-in-low said him what people will now say about you for the rest of your life when you do something done, and that guy went to Harvard.Hearing the truth at different times along the way would have helped me. I would not have admitted it easily when I sat where you sit. But when I graduated, I was much more worried about my love life than my career.I thought I only had a few years very limited time to find one of the good guys, before he was to , or before they were all taken, or I get too old. So I moved to DC, and met the guy, and I got married at the nearly decrepit age of 24. I married a wonder a wonderful man, but I had no business making that kind of commitmer. I didn’t know who I was or who I wanted to be. My marriage fell apart within a year, something that was really embarrassing and painful at the time, and it did not help that so many friends came up to me and said:”I never knew that, never thought that was going to work or I knew you weren’t right for each other. No one had managed to say anything like that to me before I marched down an aisle when it would have been far more useful.And as I lived through these painful months of separation and divorce, boy, did I wish the had? And boy, did I wish I had asked them? At the same time in my professional life, someone did speak up. My first boss out of college was Lant Prichett, an economist who teaches at the kennedy School who is here with us today, after I deferred to law school for the second time.Lant sat down and said I don’t think you should go to law school at all, I don’t think you want to go to law school. I think you should because you told your parents you would many years ago.He noted that he had never once heard me talk about the law with any interest.I know how hard it can be to be honest with each other, even your closest friends, even when they’re about to make serious mistakes, but I bet sitting here today, you know your closest friends’ strength, weeknesses, what cliff they might drive off, and I bet for the most part you’ve never told them, and they never asked. Ask them. Ask them for the truth because it will help you.And when the answer honestly, you know that that’s what makes them real friends.Asking for feedback is a really important habit to get into, as you leave the structure of the school calendar and exams and grades behind. On many jobs if you want to know how you’re doing, if you’re going to have to ask and then you’re gonna have to listen without getting defensive. Take it from me, listening to criticism is never fun, but it’s the only way we can improve.A few years ago, Mark Zuckerberg decided he wanted to learn Chinese, and in order to practice he started trying to have work meetings with some of Facebook colleagues who are native speakers. Now you would think his very limited language skills would keep these conversations from being useful. One day he asked a woman who was there, how it was going, how did you choose the facebook. She answered with a long and pretty complicated sentence. So he said simpler please. She spoke again. Simpler please. This went back and forth a couple of times. So she is blurted out in frustration,my manager is bad. That he understood.So often the truth is sacrificed to conflict avoidance, or by the time we speak the truth ,we’ve used so many caveats and preambles that the message totally gets lost. So I ask you to ask each other for the truth and other people: can you list it in simple and clear language? And when you speak your truth, can you use simple and clear language?As hard as it is to be honest with orther people. It can be even more difficult to be honest with ourselves. For years after I had children, I would say pretty often I don’t feel guilty working even when no one asked. Someone might say, sherly, how’s your day today? And I would say, great I don’t feel guilty working. Or do I need a sweater? Yes ,it’s unpredictably freezing and I don’t feel guilty woring. I was kinda like a parrot with issues.Then one day on the treadmill, I was reading this article on Sociology Journal. about how people don’t start out lying to other people, they start out lying to themselves, and the things we repeat most frequently are often those lies.So the sweat was pouring down my face. I started wondering what do I repeat pretty frequently, and I realized I feel guilty working. I then did a lot of research, and I spent an entire year with my dear friend Neil Scovell writing a book talking about how I was thinking and feeling., and I’m so grateful that so many women around the world connected to it. My book of course was called Fify Shades of Grey. I can see a lot of you connected to it as well.We have even more work to do in being honest about the world we live in. We don’t always see the hard truths, and once we see them, we don’t always have the courage to speak out.When my classmates and I were in college, we thought that fight for gender equally was one that was over. Sure, most of the leaders in every industry were men, but we thought changing that was just a matter of time. Lamont library right over there, one generation before us didn’t let women through its doors. But by the time we sat in your seat, everything was equal, Harvard and Radcliffe was fully integrated.We didn’t need feminism because we were already equals. We were wrong.I was wrong. The word was not equal then and it is not equal now. I think nowadays, we don’t just hide ourselves from the hard truth and shut our eyes to the inequities, but we suffer from the tyranny of low expectations.In the last election cycle in the united states, women won 20% of the senate seats, and all the headlines started screaming out: women take over the Senate. I felt like screaming back, wait a minute everyone.50% of the population getting 20% of the seats. That’s not a takeover. That’s an embarrassment.Just a few months ago this year, a very well respected and well-know business executives in Silicon Valley invited me to give a speech to hisclub on social media. I’ve been to this club a few months before when I have been invited for a friend’s birthday. It was a beautiful building and I was wandering around looking at it, looking for the women's room, when a staff member informed me very firmly that the ladies' room was over there and I should be sure not to go up stairs because women are never allowed in this building. I didn't realize I was in an all-male club until that minute.I spent the rest of the night wondering what I was doing there wondering what everyone else was doing there, wondering if any of my friends in San Francisco would invite me, a party at a club that didn't allow Blacks or Jews or Asians or gays. Being invited to give a business speech at this club, hit me even more egregious because you couldn't claim that it was only social business that was done there.My first thought was, "Really?" Really. A year after Lean In this dude thought it was a good idea to invite me to give a speech to his literal all-boys club. And he wasn't alone, there is an entire committee of well respected businessman who joined him in issuing this kind invitation.To paraphrase Groucho Marx, and don't worry, I won't try to do the voice I don't want to speak in any club that won't have me as a member. So I said no,and I did it in a way I probably wouldn't have even 5 years before. I wrote a long and passionate email, arguing that they should change their policies. They thanked me for my prompt response and wrote that perhaps things will eventually change. Our expectations are too low. Eventually needs to become immediately.We need to see the truth and speak the truth. We tolerate discrimination and we pretend that opportunity is equal. Yes we elected an African-American president, but racism is pervasive still.Yes, there are women who run Fortune 500 companies, 5 percent to be precise, but our road there is still paved with words like pussy and bossy, while our male peers are leaders and results focused.African-American women have to prove that they're not angry. Latinos risk being branded fiery hot head.A group of Asian-American women and men in Facebook wore pins one day that said I may or may not be good enough.Yes, Harvard has a woman president, and in two years, the United States may have a woman president.But in order to get there, Hillary Clinton is gonna have to overcome 2 very real obstacles, unknown and often ununderstood gender bias, and even worse, a degree from Yale.You can challenge stereotypes that's subtle and obvious. At Facebook, we have posters around the wall to inspire us, Done is better than perfect, Fortune favors the bold. What would you do if you weren't afraid? My new favorite nothing at Facebook is someone else's problem. I hope you feel that way about the problems you see in the world., because they are not someone else's problem. Gender inequality harms men along with women. Racism hurts Whites along with Minorities. And the lack of equalopportunity keeps all of us from failing our true potential.So as you graduate today, I want to put some pressure on you, I want to put some pressure on you to acknowledge the hard truths, not shy away from them, and when you see them to address them.The first time I spoke out about what it was like to be a woman in the workforce was less than five years ago. That means that for 18 years from where you sit to where I stand, my silence implied that everything was okay. You can do better than I did. And I mean that so sincerely.At the same time, I want to take some pressure off you, Sitting here today you don't have to know what career you want or how to get the career you might want. Leaning in does not mean your path will be straight or smooth and most people who make great contribution start way later than Mark Zuckerberg. Find a jungle gym you want to play and start climbing, not only will you figure out what you want to do eventually, but once you do, you'll crush it.Looking at you all here today, I'm filled with hope. All of you who were admitted to a "small school" near Boston, either for your academic potential or your personality or both, you've had your first, whether it's a winter coat, a love or a C, you've learned more about who you are and who you want to be. And most importantly, you've experienced the power of community, you know that while you are extraordinary on your own, we are all stronger and can be louder together. I know that you will never forget Harvard, and Harvard will never forget you, especially during the next fundraising drive.Tomorrow, you all become part of a lifelong community, which offers truly great opportunity, and therefore comes with real obligation. You can make the world fair for everyone, expect honesty from yourself and each other, demand and create truly equal opportunity, not eventually, but now. And tomorrow by the way, you get something Mark Zuckerberg does not have, a Harvard degree. Congratulations, everyone!祝贺所有人，你们做到了。

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桑德伯格ted演讲稿桑德伯格ted演讲稿中文版今天在座的各位，我们先承认我们是幸运的。

我们没有生活在我们母亲和我们祖母生活过的那个世界，在那时女性的职业选择是非常有限的。

今天在座的各位，大多数人成长于一个女性有基本公民权的世界。

令人惊讶地是，我们还生活在一个有些女性还没有这些权利的世界。

但除上所述，我们还有一个问题，它是一个实际问题。

这问题是：在世界各地，女性没达到任何职业的高管职位。

这些数据很清楚地告诉我们这实情。

190个国家元首里，九位是女性领导。

在世界上议会的总人数中， 13%是女性议员。

在公司部门，女性占据高位， C级职位，董事会席位高管职位比例占15%，16%。

自从XX年起这数据没变化过有下降趋势。

即使在非营利的行业，我们有时认为这一行业是被更多女性所领导的，女性领导人占20%。

我们还面临着另一个问题，就是女性在职业成功和个人价值实现中所面临的艰难选择。

美国最近一个研究表明，已婚高管人员，三分之二的已婚男性高管人员有孩子只有三分之一的已婚女性高管人员有孩子。

几年前，我在纽约，出席一个协议，在那种别致的纽约私募投资办事处中的一个你能想象到的。

我在这个大约有3小时的会议上，过了2小时，有个间歇休息，所有人都站起来，这会议组织者开始显得的确很尴尬。

我意识到他不知道在他办公室哪里是女洗手间。

所以我开始寻找移动厕所，盘算他们刚搬进来，但我没有看到任何移动厕所。

然后我说，“你是刚搬到这办公室吗?”他说，“不是，我们在这儿已经有一年了。

”我说，“你能否告诉我这一年来，我是唯一一个来这间办公室的女性吗?”他看着我，说到，“是的。

或者说你可能是唯一一个要上女性洗手间。

”(笑声)所以问题是，我们该怎样解决这样的尴尬? 我们怎样改变这些高管职位的比例? 我们怎样使这个变得不同? 我首先想说，我谈这个女性就职因为我的确认为我们得找到答案。