learntosayno

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learntosayno

第一篇:learn to say no

7]Learn to say no

Have you ever felt uncomfortable when others always asked

you to do something? Nowadays, learning to say “No” is a

serious problem for individuals, from kids to we adults.First and

foremost,we are supposed to learn to say no to the

temptations.scientists once did an interesting experiment.He

give children some candy.Then tell them, those who can not eat

candies before he came back, will get more candy.After that, he

hide outdoor and observe the children.Quite a few rejected the

temptation and was rewarded with more candies.The candy like

bad entice.We should be say “no” to it.Bad entice likes a virus,

we need to fight against it, with scientific attitude, strong will,

sober mind and correct method, to get rid of its interference and

avoid its harm to us.Furthermore,we need to learn say no to

people around us.As We don’t want to offend or disappoint our

friends ,we have to spend too much of our time and energy on

doing tirfles, which may seriously interferes our work.Therefore,

even if a request is legitimate and important, sometimes we just

have to say “no” in order to prevent too great a toll on our

time.As for teenagers, they rather lose their principle than saying

no to their friends,with the mistaken idea thata 'no' will lose him

a friend.Incorrectly, they are in the yielding to others and make

themselves unhappy.Their friends will often ask them for help

and take it for granted at last.In fact, it doesn’t matter if your

friends are turned down.It is very ordinary in all our

relationships.We all know that it is difficult to please everybody.If

they are real friends, I believe they will understand us.Fortunately,we still have some some nice ways to say “no”in

such cases.on one hand,You may pay a compliment as you say

“no”.Take a university professor, Delores, as an example, when

someone asks him to serve on their board, and he knows that he

just can’t do it.He often say, “ I’m so glad you thought of me.I

am a big fan of your orgnization, but my schedule just won’t

allow me to accept your invitation.”

on the other hand,Buy yourself some time.Seldom do you

have to give a yes or no answer on the spot.Even if you feel

strongly that your answer will be no.Buy yourself sometime by

saying “Let me think about it”, “Let me talk it over with my

family” and so on.When it comes to social lives,sometimes we

are just too indulgent to those conduct bad behavior.Seeing

others spitting everywhere,scratching names in the public

places,or abuse the elderly, how can we just lookingby

Without a simply shout,NO!you can't do that!if everyone in

the society is willing to carry the responsibility to say no, we will

live in a more harmonious society.,God give every bird its

food,but doesn't throw it into its nest.everything is truly up to us,

for our future,for our society,learn to say no!