《劝导》中安妮的亲情观

《劝导》中安妮的女性主义特质作者：罗卓琳来源：《山东青年》2014年第04期摘要：分析简·奥斯汀《劝导》女主角安妮蕴含的女性主义特质，体会安妮的智慧与性格力量，从而更深入地理解这一人物形象的魅力所在。

关键词：《劝导》；安妮；女性主义引言简·奥斯汀（Jane Austen）的《劝导》（Persuasion）具有持久的魅力，它常被人认为是“秋天的故事”[1]。

秋天是美丽丰收的季节，却隐含丝丝伤感与悲伤。

细读《劝导》后可以发现，小说有秋天的场景，有令人感伤之处，但更多的是女性人物们坚强积极面对生活的幽默与微笑，她们对生活饱含热爱而不是无奈地哀叹。

《劝导》中的这些鲜活的女性人物很值得研究品味，她们触发我们的深入思考。

如小说中的史密斯太太（Mrs. Smith），一个从表面上看非常凄凉不幸的中年寡妇，她的“烦恼和消沉几分钟就会消逝，而忙碌和高兴，却是长时间的（150）。

”[2][3] （页码均出自[3]，以下仅标出页码）本文分析女主角安妮·艾略特（Anne Elliot）的身上蕴含的女性主义特质。

一、女性主义特质之一：巾帼不逊须眉的处理事务能力（一）小查尔斯摔伤事件安妮能够冷静面对紧急事件并可以妥善地处理好。

小说前部分安妮来到妹妹家照顾声称有恙在身的妹妹，有天妹妹的大儿子小查尔斯在玩耍时摔伤。

得知这个消息后大家都焦急万分，而安妮马上对所有事情做了安排—派人去请医生—找到孩子的父亲，告诉他情况—安慰孩子的母亲避免她歇斯底里发作—分配仆人任务—将妹妹的另一个孩子送去爷爷奶奶家—照顾安慰受伤的孩子—给爷爷奶奶家的大宅报信。

与安妮相比，她妹妹在此次大儿子摔伤的紧急事件时歇斯底里发作，从大宅来的人吓得手足无措只会问长问短，帮不了忙（41）。

安妮沉着冷静、临危不乱的处理事件能力的确很令人敬佩。

小说之后出现两个幽默的情景：一个是当医生鲁滨逊先生和孩子父亲与安妮交谈时，大家希望孩子的情况是不幸中的大幸，这样大家就可以安心离开摔伤的孩子去吃晚饭了。

绿山墙的安妮的亲情教育绿山墙的安妮的亲情教育亲情是深深扎根于心灵深处的情感纽带，是家庭的基石。

家庭教育是培养孩子健全人格和全面发展的关键，而亲情教育则是家庭教育的重要组成部分。

作为一部备受赞誉的文学巨著，《绿山墙的安妮》以鲜活的形象和深刻的情感描绘了亲情教育的重要性。

本文将从安妮与马术教练玛莉亚的关系、安妮与其母亲的关系以及安妮与姐姐玛尔琳的关系三个方面分析《绿山墙的安妮》中所体现的亲情教育。

一、安妮与马术教练玛莉亚的关系玛莉亚是安妮的马术教练，她不仅教导安妮驾驭马匹，更是她的良师益友。

玛莉亚以严格的要求和耐心的指导，帮助安妮克服了自卑和恐惧，培养了她的勇气和自信心。

在小说中，安妮在玛莉亚的关怀和教诲下逐渐成长，展现出坚毅和顽强的品质。

这种师生关系不仅在马术训练中起到关键作用，更构建了一种亲切和睦的家庭氛围，让安妮感受到亲情的力量。

二、安妮与其母亲的关系安妮与母亲玛丽亚的关系是《绿山墙的安妮》中又一突出的亲情教育的描绘。

玛丽亚是一个温柔贤淑的母亲，她以慈爱和支持的方式，关心并培养着安妮的成长。

无论是在生活中还是在学习上，她经常陪伴着安妮，给予她精神上的鼓励和实质性的帮助。

母亲的爱和关怀成为安妮心灵成长和情感力量的源泉。

三、安妮与姐姐玛尔琳的关系安妮与姐姐玛尔琳之间的关系是充满了姐妹之间的互相扶持和鼓励。

姐姐的爱意和鼓励，让安妮感受到了家庭的温暖。

在安妮遭遇失败和挫折时，姐姐总是陪伴在她的身边，给予她力量和勇气。

姐姐的榜样作用激励着安妮积极向上的进取心。

通过姐妹之间的交流和互动，两个姐妹之间的感情更加深厚。

亲情教育是通过父母和家庭成员之间的亲密关系来培养孩子的积极品质和正确价值观。

在《绿山墙的安妮》中，亲情教育以家庭成员之间的关系交织展开，呈现出一种温馨和谐的家庭氛围。

父母和家庭成员通过言传身教，让孩子感受到家庭的温暖和关爱。

安妮凭借家人们的爱意与鼓励，逐步确立了自己的人生目标，树立了正确的人生观和价值观。

透过《劝导》中安“谨慎”婚姻观的现象看本质正如简奥斯丁在小说的最后一章中提到的，“当两个年轻人考虑结婚时，他们就会很坚定，无论他们曾经多么贫穷，多么轻率，多么不可能给予对方舒适。

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所以我想倘若八年前两人的真心相爱是美丽的童话，那么在是否答应求婚的问题就将其打回了残酷的现实。

在处理是否结婚的问题上，安的教母事实上即是埋藏在安内心深处极度迷恋物质财富和权利地位，以及无法冲破传统门第观念束缚的另一个自我。

教母的劝导和阻止只不过一扇挡箭牌，在安处理其与cw的关系时不难看出，她也对cw的未来的前途命运充满忧虑，她的拒绝同时便包括他对cw的事业不认可，她不自信cw可以开阔自己的事业。

虽然对cw极度迷恋却缺乏信任，，也未曾让理智被爱情冲昏，不认为爱情可愿意代替面包。

由她决定听从教母劝导的一瞬开始，便决定了她已经向封建传统道德礼教的成员的成功转化，她以物质财富与社会地位来衡量自己的爱人，而非两人相互的感情，标志她内心沉睡着的价值观和世界观的觉醒，是其根深蒂固的保守思想观念的最完整体现。

八年的之后再度相爱，不能否认夹杂了太多的物质因素。

因为事业有成的cw的归来，安重新燃起对cw的爱情烈焰，但此时她深爱的男人已经不是过去那个一无所有的cw，不禁让人联想，此时的安选择接受的是cw还是，还是拥有财富地位的cw。

设想如果此番归来的是一无所有的cw，她又将如何抉择，是继续在爱情与面包里苦苦挣扎，或是“迫于无奈”再次听从教母的劝导？不可否认精神食粮是无法代替物质生活的，所以即便安爱的是拥有财富cw也是无可厚非的，但是安所表现出的更多是上流社会的贵族世俗化的保守的习气，她始终无法冲破传统的婚姻观念，大胆追求恋爱婚姻的自由，在追求个人幸福的道路上仍然属于胆小者与弱势群体。

个人观点，仅供参考版权所有，请勿模仿作者：周薇。

摘要简·奥斯汀是英国著名的女小说家,一生共发表了6部长篇小说。

《傲慢和偏见》是她最著名的小说,而《劝告》是她最后一部小说。

尽管《劝告》并没有《傲慢与偏见》一样受到众多学者和读者的关注,但是很多学者认为《劝告》中的安妮是奥斯汀所塑造的众多女性中最完美的。

本文简要分析了作者在这部小说中与众不同的婚恋观。

本文首先介绍了作者生活的时代背景，接着本文重点分析了作品中女主人公安妮，上尉以及小说中其它次要人物的婚恋观，进而总结出作者奥斯丁在这部小说中所表达的婚恋观。

作者晚年的婚恋观和之前的婚恋观有很大的改变，在这部小说中，她主张真爱是婚姻的基础，金钱和社会地位不是婚姻中的重要因素。

了解这些婚恋观可以帮助读者了解当时的社会背景和社会变化，对现代年轻人仍有启发意义。

关键词：安妮；婚恋观；真爱；金钱AbstractJane Austin is a well-know female British novelist, who publishes 6 long novels in her life.Pride and Prejudice is her masterpiece and Persuasion is her last novel. Although Persuasion is not paid much attention to like Pride and Prejudice, many scholars think Anne in Persuasion is the most perfect female image Austin shapes. The paper is to analyze the author’s different views on love an d marriage in this novel. Then, it firstly indicates life experience of the author and the main content of Persuasion. Then this paper analyzes the Anne and Captain and the other minor characters’ views on love and marriage before conclusion of the author’s views on love and marriage, which has been changed greatly as that of before. Thought this novel, she advocates that true love is the basis for marriage but not the money and social status. The better understanding of these views on love and marriage can make readers know more about the social background and changes, as well as implication for modern young people.Key words: Anne; views on love and marriage; true love; moneyContentsAbstract(Chinese ) (i)Abstract (English) (ii)Contents (iii)1.0 Introduction (1)2.0 The Introduction of the Author and the W orks (2)2.1 Social Background (2)2.2 About the Author and the Works (3)3.0 The Author’s Views on Love and Marriage in this Novel (4)3.1 The Heroine Anne Eliot’s Love Process (4)3.2 Anne Eliot’s Love Views (4)3.2.1 New Type of Views on Marriage and Marriage Mode (4)3.2.2 Focus on True Love but not the Social Status and Money (5)3.3 Captain Frederick Wentworth’s love views (7)3.3.1 Believing in True Love (7)3.3.2 Fighting for the True Love (8)3.4 Anne Eliot’s Parents and other Relatives’ Love views (9)3.5 Reflection of the Author’s Views on Love and Marriage (10)4. Conclusion (11)Acknowledgements (13)References (14)Appendix: Thesis Proposal1.0 IntroductionJane Austen is one of the brightest superstars in the long history of the English literature who plays an important role in English literature and her novel is a mirror of middle-class. In her novel she is interested in the study of human beings in their relations with other people in daily life, and particularly preoccupied with the relationship between male and female. During her life she wrote six novels, only four appeared in her lifetime: Sense and Sensibility, Pride and Prejudice, Mansfield Park and Emma. Northanger Abbey and Persuasion came out after her death, and the other two novels were left unfinished.The famous novel Persuasion is one of Jane Austen’s works. Austen completes Persuasion in 1816.In the late of 18th century, the industrial revolution happened in Britain and the feudal power exit the stage of history. From the prospective of women, Austen tells a story that the female pursue love from being passive to being active. From the perspective of the main actor, Anne, she expresses the awakening of female consciousness. As the deepening of industrial revolution, her opinion to landlord class makes very big change. Austen heavily criticizes Wentworth who represents the declining aristocrat. And Anne also expresses mixed love-hated feeling and helpless to him. At that moment, women’s rights thought and female consciousness in European society were in the bud. Some books exploring female consciousness also successively appeared which caused great waves in comparatively conservative Britain at that time and aroused people’s attention to women’s issue. Women writers usually leave their own desire and ideal in their works. In Persuasion, after going through eight-year feeling’s suffering, Anne strives for her own happiness to make her lover return to her arms and obtain happiness. Austen seemingly illustrates to readers: the female needs to do actively to win not just passively wait others’ alms, which fully shows the awakening of female consciousness in Austen’s works. In addition, the author wants to express her different views on love and marriage through this novel and the love story between the hero and the heroine, which is the main content discussed in this study.Recent decades, researches on Jane Austen have even evaded China and a lot of papers on Austen have appeared in some important journals. There are many academic research books on the study of Jane Austen abroad. These books are mainly collections of papers of Austen. For example, Maggie Lane published Austen’s world (1996);Helen Lefroy wrote Jane Austen; Deirdre Le Faye published Jane Austen A Family Record (2002); Kathryn Sutherland edited A Memoir of Jane Austen and Other Family Recollections (2004). Besides, in Fergus’s The Art of Fiction, the author discussed the writing art in Austen’s novels. In addition, th ere are many scholars making their studies on one of her famous works Sense and Sensibility. Besides, there are many scholars making their studies on this novel and the marriage as well as the author’s views on marriage and love. For example, the scholar Wu Weiren(1988) makes a study on the views of marriage from Jane Austin in this novel and she analyzes the views on marriage and the significance in the real life from the historical sociology perspective. On the basis these formers studies on the author and her views on marriage and love, this paper tries to explore Jane Austen’s such view on marriage in her novel Persuasion. Before entering into the main part of the paper, the background of the novel will be firstly introduced in order to the better understanding of the further discussion in this study.2.0 The Introduction of the Author and the WorksThe author Jane Austen lived in the certain social background, which influences her writing in her novel Persuasion. Therefore, it is necessary to understand more about the social background and author as well as her works.2.1 Social BackgroundThe era of Jane Austen living in (1775—1817) is exactly the end of the 18th century and the starting of the 19th century. At that time, Britain is in great turbulence and revolution period. Internationally, people witness French Revolution and Napoleon’s ups and downs and experience American Revolution and the war between America and Britain and the war between Britain and France. In addition, there is the war between Spain and Netherlands. There into, the war between Britain and Franc last 20 years. Y ears of war make people fall into great disaster and suffering. Domestically, broad masses fall into bankruptcy position for the expropriation of land, as a result of increasingly sharp social contradiction stimulated by industrial revolution. With formation of British working class, labor movement also gradually spring up. “Series of changes all make Austen strongly feel that the governance foundation of noble landlord class is shaken and be finally replaced,” (Edward, 1997:24) which heavily influences her late outlook on life and creative thinking. The great change of social lifeand political life in Britain also directly influences literary trend of thought at that time. In that time, some writers gradually casted off fetter of rationalistic and began to reflect ordinary people’s mood in their work. They set their worship to emotion and enthusiasm against the rationalists’ worship to ration. They think that emotion and enthusiasm are heartfelt performances. In the early of the 19th century, romantic thought arises at the historic moment. They reflect the desire of Bourgeois democratic class and express ordinary people’s aspiration to social justice and ideal in their wo rks.2.2 About the Author and the W orksJane Austen’s novel was published in 1818 when after she has been died for two years and signed her true name. The three works of Mansfield Park, Emma and Persuasion are written by her after she moves to Chawton. After she dies of sickness, her brother is responsible to publish Northanger Abby and Persuasion with her true name for the first time. Persuasion is her last complete novel. Compared to the previous works, this novel is more profound with deeper sensibility. It is also regarded as the best novel among all her works by many critics. This novel satirizes the hypocritical and snobbish middle class with humor style. This novel has a rigorous structure by the exquisite writing technique. Many descriptions of this novel look ordinary and plain but if you understand in detail, you will feel that this novel is worthy of reading (Y ang Aiying, 2011).In this novel, the heroine Anne lives in a father-centered society. Her father, Walter has hereditary title of nobility living in the Somersetshire. He is the representative in the father-centered society. He has a supreme statue in his family among his three daughters and his wife. The female members in his her family thinks highly of her father. However, her father pays less attention to Anne and cares her about less than the other two daughters. Annie’s suggestion is less important in her family. Her easiness can be sacrificed by her family. Her father does not depend on her marrying a person in the wealthy family because he thinks that Anne has no such potential to have that bright further. It can be seen that the relationship between Anne father and Anne is not good. Being in the weak position in her family, Anne is not very important from her sisters’ and father’s view of point. This reflects she tries her best to be against the father-centered society represented by her father. Walter is flamboyant and hypocritical. He neglects the counterforce of the feminist represented by Annie.Anne has no right to speak in her family. She is in the edge just as thousands of women in the eighteenth century. As Rousseau puts that women always belong to men and the views of men and the most important and primary of women is docile. These concepts are rooted in British society at that time. The description of Walter reflects the fighting back to the corrupted thought, which also stands for Annie’s breaking though the father-centered society.3.0 The Author’s Views on Love and Marriage in this NovelIn the novel Persuasion, Jane Austen expresses her unique views on love and marriage which is so different with that in her other novels. Through the couples of lovers, she thinks true love is a must in the marriage.3.1 The Heroine Anne Eliot’s Love ProcessThe heroine Anne has the uncommon love process during a long time. This work tells a winding and torturing love story. Anne Eliot, who is an aristocracy, falls in love with the young military officer Captain Frederick Wentworth and they are engaged. However, Wentworth has neither high social position nor property, so Anne restrains her “untrammeled affection” with “sense” and say goodbye to her lover under the “persuasion” of her father, Sir Walter and the go dmother, Lady Russell. However, the “sensible” action leaves her eight years’ sadness for anything around not able to make her forgetting the pain of losing love (Y ao Lihua, 2004). Although a man with better economic condition make a proposal for her two y ears later, she can’t forget Wentworth to accept other people’s love all along. Eight years later, Anne becomes a disappointed woman who has lost her beauty and soaked in the wordless agony. When Wentworth appears again, she becomes full of vigor again. Sh e put down “prudence” and leaves her affection free. With loyal love through thick and thin, noble quality and selfless and fearless, she wins Wentworth’s love again and they finally get married. The ending of the Persuasion is no doubt expresses the marriage view of the author in her old age: She believes that “affection” should surpass “sense’ and the “romance” should defeat “reality” and stands that the marriage should on the basis of true love.3.2 Anne Eliot’s Love ViewsAnne Eliot is a new woman image with new type of views on marriage and love and she is different from other heroines in the other novels. She thinks it is the truelove but not the social status and money is the essence in the marriage.3.2.1 New Type of Views on Marriage and Marriage ModeHere, it does not mean the equality in social position or family background, but refers to the equality in personality. Through the heroines in Persuasion, it can be seen that Austen’s discontent with differences gender-roles and her struggle for equality between men and women, which is a kind of new type of views on marriage and marriage mode in that time.Anne expresses her love in an implicit way. The scene of her meeting with Wentworth on the street shows Anne is eager for love but is implicit. At that time, Anne is sitting by the window of a shop. She clearly sees Wentworth is coming along the street.In persuasion, Austin modeled a mature heroine image---Anny Eliot for the first time. Anne is kind, smart and mature. To some extent, she is the incarnation of the author. She is fair and gentle full of sympathy and rich affection. She is a character full of many virtues and talents. She is an inner-directed girl and has no prejudice on other things. Although Anne is a Cinderella at the beginning, she wins readers’ recognition with her wisdom and power.Dislike the heroines in the other five novels of Austin, who are attractive at the beginning, Anne is admitted through her outstanding performance by us gradually. “Although she possesses “elegant soul and soft personality”, she is an insignificant little girl in the eyes of her father and older sister. Her opinion is of little importance and her favor is always been left aside.” Therefore, although she is of distinguished birth and outstanding appearance and talent, she losses the deserving property because of her father’s prejudice and wastefulness and becomes a noble Lady without dowry. In addition, owing to her bitter love with Wentworth, she losses the beauty and passion of youth early. It is i n the “Lime Affair” that we truly understand Anne: When the willful Louis jumps in the steep step and falls out in the sidewalk of the wharf, everyone on spot, including Wentworth, is in a blue funk and at a loss. Only Anne is conducting to deal with calmly in her courtesy, which has shown extraordinary sober and courage. From these it can be seen that the author wants to write about the new type of marriage and marriage mode.3.2.2 Focus on True Love but not the Social Status and MoneyAs we know, property is the security of marriage, but if a man gets married purely for money will not be happy. The happy marriage is also based on the love, but marriage cannot only depend on love, at the same time, there should be a certain economic basis to support this marriage. “The social stratum is good, but the status of men and women is not equal, which has an influence on their marriage. At the later of the 18th century, man has the power while woman is obedient to them” (Austin, 1994:63). If the women don’t have e nough dowry, they will not be happy. When they got married, the money they have will be owned by their husbands. That’s why many men like Wentworth would choose wealthy women during Austen’s time. Returning to the novel, most of the people and characters think that wealth and social status but not the true love should be considered in marriage.In this novel, the author wants to focus on the true love but not the social status and economic conditions as her views in the previous novels. In Austen’s exquisi te strokes, readers can always feel Anne’s feeling to Wentworth, a navy captain. In fact, this expresses Anne’s constancy of love. The acquaintance and love of Anne and Wentworth happened far before the starting of the story, which is not hard to imagine for readers. For Anne, she has ever experienced a period of short but unforgettable good time and someone has ever given her real happiness. In the process of talking about navy, she faithfully argues in favor of navy and marines who work hard and offer the name of who wants to rent mansion of Kellynch, Wentworth. Here, readers can feel the delicate feeling to Wentworth. Here, the author wants to emphasize the true love and feelings but not the other additional conditions for the true love. Jane describes ma inly the lovers’ psychological and behavioral factors to show the true love and feeling for each other.“Anne , who had been a most attentive listener to the whole ,left the room , to seek the comfort of cool air for her flushed cheeks; and as she walked along a favorite grove, said, with a gentle sigh,” a few months more, and he, perhaps, may be walking here ”(Austin, 1994:33) .The scene is very strange when Wentworth meets Anne at the party after eight-year separation. They have no word to say and just exchange greetings out of least politeness. The party ends with dance. Anne mechanically plays the piano with glittering tear in her eyes. She feels happy for having something to do and just hope that people wouldn’t notice for ever. In Austen’s novel, pa rty and dance are always fullof comic atmosphere. However, this dance unexpectedly arouses sad memory of Anne. Behind t the boisterousness, it is shrouded by a shadow. This heartfelt sorrow is aroused by Anne’s loyalty to love.In addition, the main part of this novel aims at the description of Anne’s deep love for Wentworth from her words and her deeds. On the morning of December, it is sunny. Anne has a walk with lady Musgrove, Mary, Anne and Charles· Musgrove. On the way, she hears the conversation between Wentworth and Louisa by accident. Anne notices that Wentworth has great interest in that she refuses the proposal of Charles. It is the Wentworth’s interest in her that makes the readers knows it will lead to Wentworth’s observation on Anne. On the way back of his walk, Wentworth takes notice of that Anne is tired. He heads for Anne silently and helps her in the carriage. She understood him. He could not forgive her, but he could not be unfeeling. He could not see her suffer, without the desire of giving her relief. Which she could not contemplate without emotions so compounded of pleasure and pain, that she knew not which prevailed.From the whole scene, this quotation suggests Wentworth’s great passion on Anne and also indicates his over cautiousness. The series of ordinary actions arouse Anne’s imagination and a force of feeling in her inner heart. They do not talk to each other from beginning to end. The ordinary scene also shows Anne’s care for him vividly by writer’s use of smooth flow of the langu age and emotion expression.3.3 Captain Frederick W entworth’s love viewsCaptain Fredrick is the hero of this novel. He and Anne marry in the end of this novel. He also has his own views on love and he believes in the true love.3.3.1 Believing in True LoveAnne has not only rich and profound feelings but also persistent and open-minded character in believing her true love. She has already had some progressive consciousness of modern women and is a respected actress, who is also unmatched by other actres ses in Austen’s previous works. Most importantly, she believes the true love in her life out of the worldly views on love and marriage. Anne loses her mother when she is young and cannot obtain the care of her father and sister. Therefore, she is solitary in her inner world. However, she doesn’t feel dejected for her insignificance. On the contrary, it is the isolation which fosters her persistent will and decisive ability of dealing with affairs and her believing in her true love. This kind of character isreveal fully on the Liam issue. Anne refuses the proposal of Wentworth when she is 19 years old, which leads to the eight-year tough heart road. The frustration of first love makes her sad and consumes her youth, but it steels her will and character and makes her more mature. “Her idea is very different from that of her 19 age when Anne is 27 years old.” (Austen,1994:118)The continual progress of Austin in marriage view not only promotes her shaping out the ideal and realistic heroine, but also an unprecedented hero in Persuasion-- Wentworth, the clever, optimistic and positive young man in middle class. The heroes of Austin are always noble men with fortune and position and most of them are rich by inheritance. However, Wentworth has neither property nor social status initially, so his proposal has been rejected by the snobbish Sir Walter. Fortunately, Wentworth is extraordinary clever and talented, and he possesses man’s abundant energy, strong dedication, optimistic personality and undaunted spirit. So he raises and gains fortune soon in the navy. It is regrettable that he has too shallow understand for woman so that he can’t understand the pain of Anne when she leaving him. It is Anne’s outstanding performance in the Lime Affair that promotes him to making clear that the ideal woman in his heart is just Anne, who is appropriate rigid-flexible and of extraordinary ability. Finally he realizes it is Anne’s noble soul that grasps his heart tightly. The change of Wentworth in his recognition has eliminated the psychological barrier between Anne and him and flattens the road to their marriage. It can be said that their marriage is built on the basis of equity, harmony and interdependence. This marriage relation has never been seen in the Austin’s precedent nov els. The marriage of Anne and Wentworth shows that Austin’s marriage view has developed mature, ideal and realistic.3.3.2 Fighting for the True LoveThe fighting for the true love from Anne can be reflected in that she can foresee her marriage life thus to rationally choose her own marriage and know what kind of husband she wants. In Persuasion, although Austen doesn’t continue to describe actor and actress’s married life, obviously, general Croft couple’s marriage life and family mode have already show us the future of them. Especially Mrs. Croft is a woman with elegant in conversation, gentleness and cleverness. She is a woman image of bold inbreaking through traditional conception in Austen’s novel. “She transcends middle-class women’s category and the female in British bourgeoisie rising period”. (Austin, 1994:57)The emergence of her indicates the married life of Anne. Anne will not be confined to the social intercourse in parlor and dance but rush about everywhere together with her husband and assist her husband’s carrier and life when necessary. Only this, she and her husband can become enviable loving couple like general Croft couple. Austen shows her opinion through describing the marriage life and mode of general Croft. Namely, women as well as men can freely drive the car of life and fate; women and men have equal status in family life and wife can alert and correct husband’s fault at any time but not blindly submit. Only this can constantly maintain the stability of marriage and life. From this, Austen tactfully refutes the idea that men enjoy higher status than women in society at that time. Meanwhile, she also indicates the mature and reasonable of Anne this female character. She wants to get the true love.After their marriage’s failure, the ca ptain Wentworth and Anne separate from each other and even eight years they don’t see. However, they love from the bottom of the heart and they decide waiting for the other lover. Wentworth, the captain will come later. This idea excites Anne’s heart all t he time and her mood cannot maintain calm for a long time. This kind of excitement is beyond restraint and arouses dull pain in her deep heart at the same time. It is needed that how many times walk and sign can eliminate excitement and uneasiness in her heart. The delicate feeling like a trick let straightly in pour reader’s heart. In the novel, Wentworth indirectly and gradually appears and his shadow company Anne all the time. The vivid and exquisite description of Anne’s psychology make readers can real ize the existence of Wentworth and feel his every action. Meanwhile, these also show Anne’s desire to love and that she has bear Wentworth in mind for eight years. In the long time of eight years, both of them don’t marry because their love exists. The cap tain tries to earn more money becoming wealth for the preparation to marry Anne at the same time Anne also waits for him. Both fight for their true love.3.4 Anne Eliot’s Parents and other Relatives’ Love viewsIn addition to the hero and heroine’s true love in this novel, Anne’s parents and other people have the different views on their love and marriage. Firstly, it is Anne’s father, Sir Walter Elliot, who is a baronet with vanity and overconfidence. He likes money and social status and face saving. Eight years ago, when the caption and Anne loves each other, his father and Anne’s god-mother Lady Russell take the objective attitude to their marriage owing to the Captain’s less wealth and lower social status. In addition, Anne’s sister Elizabeth married Charles, a person from the upper society and she holds that women should marry with the men with wealth and social status. She also persuades her sister like this. When Anne wants to marry the captain, Elizabeth is one of the members holding the objective opinions. Another character, Mrs Clay, the poor widow is the daughter of Sir Walter’s lawyer and she wants Walter marrying Anne. She also believes that women and men should look for the husbands or wives with money and social status.From these characters’ views on marriage and love, it can be seen that wealth and social conditions take a key role in marriage in that time.3.5 Reflection of the Author’s Views on Love and MarriageAmong the gentry, Jane Austen is born into the level of society where single women have no status. Jane Austen, just like her character of heroine Anne, she does not hope for the dowry as a parson’s daughter, and she knows that she may be attractive for males, but she has only a slender chance of finding a husband in the fairly restricted circle of friends in Hamshire. Jane Austen is rational, lovely and beautiful; she is always on the look-out for a husband, evaluating each young man who comes to her. She could have sharp comments on the person she has met. It is hard to distinguish between self-protection’s irony and true admiration for her sometimes. Edward Bridges comes to know her in Kent, who is the brother of Jane’s sister-in-law, Elizabeth. He has proposed and has been refused by Jane Austen. Tom Lefory is attracted by Jane Austen, but he jilts her for she is a parson’s daughter without dowry. “During a visit at Manydown, Jane Austen’s friend Catherine and Alethea’s brother Harris Bigg Wither took the opportunity to propose to Jane and then it was accepted. But during the night, she changed her mind.” (Watt,1963:98)From her love experiences, it can be seen that Jane Austen is not a slave to be worthy of young men’s consideration, and she thinks it a mistake to overlook thementirely. It is wrong to marry for money, but it is silly to marry without money. Jane Austen does not marry in her all life maybe she does not meet her ideal husband. However, she put her ideal marriage in her novels to express her eagerness to love and marriage. As she published her first novel---Sense and Sensibility, when she is thirty-six years old, she begins to really have confidence in her skill as a novelist. From the author’s love experience it can be seen that her own love views come from her own experience in love and the reality.Though persuasion lacked of a fine sense of humor expressed in Austin’s former works, seeing from the depth of thought and emotion, the theme of marriage got deeper development in this work. Therefore, this work was hailed as a work created in her summit of ability development. Heroines in her former works were all like Cinderella in fairy tales. They were all young beautiful and pleasing single girls. Apart from Emma, they all had no abundant property and little trousseau. But after twists and turns, they all married to noblemen who were very handsome and inherited abundant legacy finally. By contrast, in persuasion, Austin modeled a mature heroine image---Anny Eliot for the first time.In her later work Persuasion, the author stresses on that: It is only brings people with agony of “prudence and sense”, but not guarantee of the happiness in the future (Chen Haiyan, 2009). For the first time affection defeat sense in the Persuasion, it confirms the development of the personality from sensibility to affection and eulogizes the great of the people’s affection. It speaks volumes for that the creation idea of Jane Austin has changed from rationalism to romanism, because she has felt that the prudence that reflecting the rational thinking just restrains people’s nature and on ly the pure love that comes from the deep heart can make people acquiring true happiness.It is thus clear that Anne in the Persuasion is not the traditional girl who is gorgeously dressed up and coming in and out of the ball to finding a reliable storeroo m. She never considers about the economic condition of her fiancé and doesn’t think that property is the precondition of marriage. Her marriage has already possessing certain degree of advanced significance, which cannot but say a revolutionary change of A ustin’s marriage view.Besides, Austin is accustomed to use tact of irony in shaping character, even Elizabeth—who is the favorite character in her novels—has been given enough irony color. However, Anne is the only successful character who does not possessing any。

《劝导》读书个人心得体会范文10篇当品味完一本著作后，相信大家都有很多值得分享的东西，这时候，最关键的读后感怎么能落下!你们知道怎样写心得体会吗?下面给大家分享一些关于《劝导》读书个人心得体会范文，供大家参考。

《劝导》读书个人心得体会范文1《劝导》是简奥斯丁的作品之一，它不如《傲慢与偏见》、《理智与情感》、《艾玛》那样有名，但依然承袭了奥斯丁的一贯风格：平静——如水，如蓝天上淡淡的云，文笔平实流畅，毫不张扬。

细读奥斯丁的《劝导》，我感到她像是一个故事的讲述者，向你完整地、平静地讲述一个情故事，没有议论的笔调，没有掺杂丝毫的个人感情，甚至连景物描写也少得让人无处寻觅。

我同时读的莫泊桑的《漂亮朋友》，给我的'感觉不是听故事，而像在看一部电影：有人物衣着相貌的描述，有夸张的人物动作描绘，有描写旷野森林的景色，有表面或暗地里的权力之争。

总之，从头到尾都围绕着金钱和权力，颇不安宁。

英国作家狄更斯写的《孤星血泪》，直接用第一人称行文，让我的心绪也随着匹普的命运和情时起时落。

而奥斯丁的文章与他们不同，她的写作语言更亲切，平实，这是小说作家中极少有的。

正是这一贯平静的风格，使得书中稍有感情波澜的地方，都显得弥足珍贵，让我异常激动。

如男女主人公七年后相见时，再如他们重拾旧梦、倾诉衷肠时的描述。

这种阅读心情就好比在一片草丛中突然发现几朵娇美的野花，抨然心动后又流连忘返。

和那种一波未平一波又起的小说相比，《劝导》这样的书更能带给我突然发现的喜悦。

奥斯丁是位让人好奇的作家，她可以不厌其烦地讲述一次又一次雷同的聚会及参加的人物，一次又一次的散步及谈话。

她的文章，几乎总是由这两种活动构成，但我们读来，却从不感到单调乏味，这是奥斯丁最神秘、最吸引人之处。

也许这一股英伦气息，对于处在欧亚大陆遥远的另一端的中国读者来说，就如东方文化在西方人眼中一样神秘。

我们好奇、探求、向往，奥斯丁的小说无疑是一座传播英国文化的桥梁，它把那个时代英国上层社会的生活气息传达给我们，让我们感受到英伦文化深沉的内涵。

第26卷　第4期2004年8月 湖州师范学院学报Journal of Huzhou Teachers CollegeVol.26　No.4Aug.,2004透析《劝导》中的新女性形象及其婚姻模式Ξ姚丽华(湖州师范学院外国语学院,浙江湖州313000)摘要:《劝导》被誉为是简・奥斯丁最为成熟的一部小说。

奥斯丁在这部小说中塑造了一位不同于以往的新女性形象———安妮,并为她设想了理想的婚姻和家庭模式。

婚姻使安妮由贵族小姐变成了一位自食其力的中产阶级妇女,她具备了一定的现代妇女意识,是一个完美而理想的人物。

这一切都反映了奥斯丁自觉的女性意识和进步的婚姻观念,及其所蕴涵的20世纪妇女解放运动男女平等思想的萌芽意识。

关键词:《劝导》;简・奥斯丁;婚姻观中图分类号:I561.064文献标识码:A文章编号:10091734(2004)04002303简・奥斯丁(Jane Austen,1775～1817)是英国19世纪初期杰出的现实主义小说家。

作为一名女性作家,她的六部小说全部是以爱情与婚姻为主题的,主要描写当时英国乡村中产阶级妇女各种类型的爱情生活和婚姻纠葛。

奥斯丁以超乎同时代人的洞察力,对当时妇女的婚姻发表了自己独到的见解。

她在作品中倡导一种爱情与经济并重而以爱情为主的婚姻观。

但值得注意的是,奥斯丁的婚姻观也不是一成不变的。

在她的创作晚期,由于当时资本主义的兴起和贵族阶级的没落,作者在描写婚姻时的重点已逐渐从贵族转向中产阶级。

更重要的是,在她所描述的婚姻中,经济因素与财产、门第已不再起主导作用,相互理解和平等的男女关系成了新型婚姻的基础。

本文以奥斯丁的最后一部小说《劝导》为例,试通过分析她所塑造的新女性形象———安妮及其婚姻模式,透视作者自觉的女性意识和进步的婚姻观,及其所蕴涵的20世纪妇女解放运动男女平等思想的萌芽意识。

一、与众不同的新女性形象《劝导》这部作品虽然缺少奥斯丁以往作品中的那种渗透于字里行间使人忍俊不禁的幽默风趣,但从思想和感情深度方面看,婚姻的主题在《劝导》中得到了更为深入的发展,因此小说被誉为是“她的能力发展到顶峰之时”的小说[1](P25)。