古代爱情PK现代爱情

从女神的情歌到凡人的恋爱——《九歌》爱情描写与现代爱情作品的分析比较作者：原煜媛来源：《赤峰学院学报·哲学社会科学版》 2013年第11期原煜媛（陕西师范大学文学院，陕西西安 710062）摘要：爱情书写是文学中永恒的话题。

千百年前《九歌》是我国文学史上一部抒情杰作，其中对于爱情的描写更是风流蕴藉、情致荡漾。

人与神、神到人、神和神之间种种爱情姿态摇曳多姿。

而到现代社会，爱情书写没有消失，却出现了新的特征。

本文通过对《九歌》爱情描写的分析和对当代社会爱情描写的透析，比较爱情描写的变迁。

关键词：《九歌》；爱情；人神之恋；现代爱情；作品特征中图分类号：I206.2 文献标识码：A 文章编号：1673-2596（2013）11-0139-03一、神的情歌人生而孤独，唯有爱与情感能够带来一时温暖的幻觉，这种幻觉让人九死不悔地一口口上瘾，上瘾后又一次次地渴望，这也是千百年来对爱情赞颂不已的原因之一。

而神的世界，飘渺又神秘，与神相恋是天人之间的交接，是人类灵魂深处的渴求。

从希腊神话中宙斯与众多人类女子的交欢到中国《七仙女》《牛郎织女》等民间传说，人与神的恋爱并不鲜见。

而屈原《九歌》中的人神之恋，谱写了一曲情致哀伤又飘渺虚幻的恋歌。

关于《九歌》,闻一多与苏雪林一致认为，二“湘”、二“司命”、“云中君”、“东君”、“河伯”与“山鬼”涉及到爱情描写，但苏雪林认为这八篇所写为“人神恋爱”，姜亮夫认为这八篇是四对“夫妻神”。

在本文里，综合了三位先生的观点：二“湘”、二“司命”是“夫妻神”，其余四神都为人神相恋。

《九歌》为祭神之曲，它之中的爱情描写很大程度上是当时交感巫术的体现。

叶舒宪解释说：“自新石器时代向文明时代过渡期间，人类逐步明确了双性生殖的原理，认识到男女性交与生育之间的因果关系。

这种朴素的认识反过来投到原始信仰上，使以孤雌繁殖观念为基础的原母神崇拜和地母崇拜变化出新的形式。

”这种新的形式就是天人之间的交接，希望通过与神交合用男女之情来取悦神祗，获得神的庇佑，只是表现得十分隐晦。

爱情婚姻的发展历程爱情婚姻是人类社会中一种普遍存在的现象，也是人类社会进步和发展的重要因素之一。

在人类的历史长河中，爱情婚姻经历了漫长而复杂的发展过程。

本文将从古代到现代，以及未来的趋势来探讨爱情婚姻的发展历程。

古代婚姻的起源可以追溯到人类社会形成的初期。

在原始社会阶段，婚姻往往是一种生存方式和家族传承的手段。

由于物质条件的困苦和生活方式的简单，个人的感情选择往往受到其他因素的制约，如族群、家族和社会地位的考虑。

婚姻往往是由家族和社会决定的，而不是个人的自由选择。

随着人类社会的发展，封建制度的产生和发展使得婚姻的形式也发生了变化。

封建社会中的婚姻以家族和阶级的利益为主导，个人将爱情放在了次要的位置。

父母的婚姻安排成为主流，而个人的意愿往往不被重视。

这种婚姻形式在中国封建社会中尤为突出，婚姻往往是一种经济交换和家族关系的延续。

随着资本主义社会的兴起和现代国家的形成，人们对于婚姻的认识开始发生变化。

19世纪末20世纪初的西方国家，如英国、法国和美国，婚姻逐渐从父母的安排转变为个人自由选择的结果。

爱情成为决定婚姻的重要因素之一。

然而，由于社会观念和文化传统的差异，不同国家的婚姻形式呈现出多样化的发展趋势。

在现代社会，爱情婚姻的地位进一步提升，个人的自由选择成为婚姻的核心原则。

男女平等意识的增强使得传统的婚姻观念和婚姻制度受到了挑战。

婚前恋爱、同居和婚前婚姻成为普遍现象，并逐渐被社会接受。

此外，同性婚姻的合法化和多元化的婚姻模式也成为当今社会的热点议题。

尽管爱情婚姻的发展历程取得了显著的进步，但仍然存在一些问题和挑战。

婚外恋、离婚率上升、婚姻稳定性下降等现象引发了人们对于婚姻制度的思考和质疑。

此外，经济压力、职业发展以及社会变迁等因素也对爱情婚姻带来了一定的冲击。

未来，爱情婚姻的发展趋势难以预测，但可以肯定的是，个人的自主权和个性的彰显将会成为未来婚姻发展的重要方向。

科技的进步和社会的变迁将为人们创造更多的婚姻选择和可能性。

从古至今的爱情故事摘要：一、古代爱情故事概述1.梁山伯与祝英台2.牛郎织女3.白蛇传二、现代爱情故事概述1.平凡人的爱情故事2.名人爱情故事三、爱情故事中的主题与启示1.坚持与牺牲2.信任与承诺3.爱情与时间正文：从古至今，爱情故事一直是人们津津乐道的题材。

在古代，人们通过爱情故事传达对爱情的美好向往和执着追求。

而在现代社会，爱情故事仍然是人们关注的焦点，它们反映了现实生活中的爱情观和价值观。

一、古代爱情故事概述1.梁山伯与祝英台梁山伯与祝英台的故事是中国古代著名的爱情传说。

故事讲述了两位相爱至深的年轻人因家庭原因无法在一起，最终双双殉情的悲剧。

这个故事传达了古代人们对于爱情的执着和坚定信念。

2.牛郎织女牛郎织女是我国著名的民间爱情故事。

讲述了牛郎（天河星座中的牵牛星）和织女（织女星座中的织女星）之间的爱情故事。

他们因触犯天条，被银河分隔，每年只能在农历七月初七的鹊桥相会。

这个故事寓意着有情人终成眷属的美好愿望。

3.白蛇传白蛇传是一部流传已久的爱情传说。

故事讲述了白蛇和许仙之间的爱情故事。

白蛇为救夫婿许仙，不惜犯天条，盗取灵芝草。

这个故事传达了爱情中的无私奉献和勇敢精神。

二、现代爱情故事概述1.平凡人的爱情故事在现实生活中，许多平凡人的爱情故事同样感人至深。

他们或许没有梁山伯与祝英台那样的悲壮，也没有牛郎织女那样的神奇，但这些故事却充满了真挚的情感和生活的气息。

2.名人爱情故事现代社会中，名人的爱情故事也备受关注。

他们的爱情故事往往充满了戏剧性和话题性，成为人们茶余饭后的谈资。

三、爱情故事中的主题与启示1.坚持与牺牲从古至今的爱情故事中，我们看到了许多为爱情坚持和牺牲的例子。

这让我们明白，爱情需要执着和勇气，有时候为了爱情，我们需要勇敢地面对困难和挑战。

2.信任与承诺爱情中的信任和承诺是维系感情的重要纽带。

在许多爱情故事中，我们看到了信任和承诺的力量。

这让我们明白，在爱情中，信任和承诺是不可或缺的元素。

爱情是人类社会永恒的主题，没有爱情，人类的生活将失去色彩，社会将难以凝聚。

有爱情，便有爱情中的男女在离别后对对方的思念，这种情人间思念的强度会超乎其他关系中思念的强度。

在有文字记载的三千多年的历史长河中，人类的这种思念情感活动没有因历史的进程而发生明显的变化。

在《诗经》时代女子的相思之情与当今女子的之情极其相似，我们可以通过《诗经》中的情歌与现代情歌内容的比较，看出这个现象。

《诗经》收集了中国历史上殷商、西周、东周、春秋时代人们在生产生活、祭祀、节日所唱的歌，其中收录的情歌几乎占了四分之一的篇幅。

殷商、西周、东周、春秋这几个朝代中国处于人类社会发展史的奴隶社会到封建社会初期。

《雄雉》中的女子由于雄雉的飞鸣而勾起了对丈夫的思念之情，忠厚老实的丈夫在外面免不了要吃苦，这使得妻子担心不已，在心底深深地呼唤自己的丈夫能够早日回家与自己团聚。

雄雉于飞，上下其音。

展矣君子，实劳我心。

瞻彼日月，悠悠我思。

道之云远，曷云能来？（黑体为引用原文，下同）野鸡飞翔在山林，上下飞鸣叫声亮。

诚实可爱的人啊，朝思暮想劳我心。

时光如梭流失快，时时将你挂心怀。

道路坎坷多遥远，你什么时候能回来？《草虫》中的女子因蝈蝈叫，蚱蜢跳而引起思夫之情，由于思夫而心神不宁、心慌意乱，由此想象夫妻团聚，欢聚一堂的画面。

喓喓草虫，趯趯阜螽；未见君子，忧心忡忡。

亦既见止，亦既觏止，我心则降。

叫个不停的蝈蝈，蹦来跳去的蚱蜢。

见不到我的丈夫，忧愁得心神不宁，只有让我看到他，并能与他相欢聚，我的心才能放下。

《卷耳》中的女子，思念远行的丈夫，心不在焉地采卷耳菜，所以采了半天也没有采满一浅筐，最后因相思之苦无法排遣，无心再采，索性将箩筐仍在了大路上。

相思中仿佛看到了自己的丈夫旅途中登高饮酒，马困成疾，人劳生病的情景。

采采卷耳，不盈顷筐。

嗟我怀人，置彼周行。

陟彼崔嵬，我马虺隤。

我姑酌彼金罍，维以不永怀。

采了又采巻耳菜，仍装不满一浅筐。

心中思念丈夫啊，将筐丢在大路旁。

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爱情观照：探讨不同年代、文化背景下的爱情观念随着时代的变迁和社会的发展，爱情观念也在不断地演化与改变。

从古至今，不同年代、文化背景下的爱情观念各具特色，呈现出多样化的面貌。

本文将通过对不同时代、文化背景下的爱情观念进行探讨，分析其差异和演变，以期对当代爱情观照提供一定的启示。

一、古代爱情观念古代爱情故事，如《红楼梦》、《西厢记》等，都诞生在特定的历史时期和文化背景下。

这些故事在儒家思想和封建礼教的熏陶下，呈现出一种内敛、含蓄的美学特征。

古代爱情观念强调道德伦理、家庭观念和爱情至上的价值观。

在这个时期，爱情往往被视为一种责任和义务，人们普遍认为婚姻是为了延续家族血脉和维护社会秩序。

因此，古代爱情故事中的情感表达往往受到严格的束缚，爱情只能在暗地里流淌。

二、近现代爱情观念近现代爱情观念相较于古代有了很大的变化。

随着西方文化的传入和启蒙思想的兴起，人们开始倡导自由恋爱、平等婚姻，爱情逐渐从家族和社会的束缚中解脱出来。

这个时期的爱情观念强调个人的情感需求和自由追求，爱情成为一种独立的价值。

在此背景下，许多近现代爱情故事如《庐山恋》、《红与黑》等，都以自由恋爱和婚姻为主题，展现了人们对爱情的渴望和追求。

三、当代爱情观念当代爱情观念受到全球化、网络化等因素的影响，呈现出更为多元和复杂的态势。

现代社会中，爱情观念逐渐与物质生活、精神追求相结合，人们在追求爱情的过程中，既要面对现实的压力，也要面对内心的挣扎。

当代爱情故事如《北京遇上西雅图》、《致青春》等，反映了当代社会中人们对爱情的期许、困惑和反思。

四、不同文化背景下的爱情观念不同文化背景下的爱情观念具有鲜明的民族特色。

如西方文化中的爱情，强调个人的自由和独立，爱情观较为开放；而东方文化中的爱情，注重家庭观念和道德伦理，爱情观相对较为保守。

随着全球化的推进，东西方爱情观念逐渐交融，形成了一种全新的爱情观。

总结不同时代、文化背景下的爱情观念具有各自的特色，但归根结底，爱情都是人类最美好的情感之一。

中外文化之爱情观比较一、中西爱情观发展简述在古代中国，最早的爱情题材作品是《诗经》，主要描写了男女相会、相爱以及遭受的波折，反映了当时社会的真实情况，证明了当时男女可以大胆自由地恋爱。

春秋时代儒家代表孔子提出的“男女之大防”的教诲以及“发乎情，止乎礼”的思维结构，限定了中国两千年的情感发展历史。

这些观念逐渐形成了社会上固定的爱情模式和道德标准，对男女自由恋爱产生了一定的约束。

两汉时期，独尊儒术的思想使得封建礼教对人们的行为束缚越来越严。

部分文学人士甚至蔑视和看不起爱情题材的作品，认为诗歌写作应以国计民生为主题，而非儿女情长。

到了宋朝，“存天理，灭人欲”的思想出现，儒家地位得到巩固，社会中自由的爱情几乎被扼杀。

这种思想限制了人的欲望和个性发展，尤其是对女性的管制最为严重。

女性被要求与异性保持距离，以防止非夫妻关系的两性因过多接触而产生感情。

这种不人性化的限制突出了男女地位的不平等和女性地位的低微。

女性被视为男性的附属品，为了生活不得不讨好男性，甚至以牺牲自己的身心健康为代价。

未婚男女几乎没有自主决定婚姻的权利，婚姻通常由“父母之命，媒妁之言”决定。

西方爱情观的发展也经历了一系列的演变。

在古代西方社会，爱情被视为一种神圣的情感，与婚姻和家庭紧密相连。

随着社会的发展和思想的变迁，西方爱情观逐渐发生了变化。

在中世纪的欧洲，由于基督教的影响，爱情被赋予了更多的精神和宗教意义。

人们开始追求纯洁、无私的爱情，强调情感的升华和灵魂的契合。

这一时期的爱情观仍然受到社会等级和婚姻制度的限制。

随着文艺复兴和启蒙运动的兴起，西方社会开始强调个人的自由和权利，爱情观也发生了相应的变化。

人们开始追求基于个人情感和选择的爱情，强调平等、尊重和自由。

爱情不再仅仅是婚姻的前提，而成为一种独立的、有价值的人生体验。

进入现代社会后，西方爱情观继续演变。

人们更加注重个人的感受和需求，追求更加开放、多元和包容的爱情关系。

同时，随着社会的进步和技术的发展，人们对于爱情的理解和实践也在不断发生变化。

中外文学中的爱情观比较分析爱情是一个世界共同关注的话题，而文学作为人类情感的表达方式之一，承载着无数关于爱情的故事。

不同文化背景下的文学作品，对爱情的诠释和描绘也不尽相同。

本文将比较分析中外文学中的爱情观，探讨其差异和共同点。

一、爱情的起源和发展无论中外文学，爱情的起源都与人类的封建社会和宗教信仰密切相关。

例如西方文学中的《罗密欧与朱丽叶》，描写的是一对年轻情侣，他们的爱情超越了两个家族之间的仇恨与分歧，但最终以双双牺牲告终。

而中国文学中的《红楼梦》，则以贾宝玉和林黛玉、薛宝钗等人的爱情为主线，揭示了封建社会下的宫廷爱情。

然而，中外文学中对于爱情的描绘方式略有差异。

中西方文学通常对于爱情有不同的期许。

在中西方文学中，爱情是一个人生完整性的一部分，是人们对幸福和美好生活的向往。

中文学作品更注重家庭、亲情以及社会责任，而西方文学则更强调个人的追求和情感自由。

二、爱情的表达形式中外文学中对于爱情的表达方式也存在一定的差异。

西方文学通常更加开放和直接，情感表达也更自由。

例如浪漫主义文学中的情诗，透过唯美的文字形容描绘爱情的美好和激情。

而中国文学则更偏向隐晦和含蓄，以意境丰富的诗歌和细腻的叙事手法，表达出爱情的深邃和复杂。

此外，中外文学也在爱情的表达方式上存在一定的差异。

西方文学较多地以男女主人公个体情感为切入点，强调个人的情感追寻和自我表达。

而中国文学则更注重爱情的群体性和团体荣誉感。

例如《红楼梦》中的复杂情感纠缠和人物群像描写，凸显了封建社会下的爱情关系的复杂性。

三、爱情观的差异和共同点中外文学中的爱情观既存在差异，也存在共同点。

差异体现在对于爱情的定义、期许和表达方式上。

不同文化背景和历史背景对于爱情的诠释和体验也会有所不同。

然而，中外文学中对于爱情的追求和反思存在共同点。

爱情是一种普遍存在的情感体验，无论是中文学还是西方文学，都有追求真爱、执着忠诚等共通的主题。

从现代角度看，中外文学中的爱情观也在相互融合和影响。