辩论稿（全部英语）正方1相同的志趣才能让朋友间的沟通变得顺畅，可以在同一个角度进行深入讨论，提升自己和友谊2相似的朋友能理解你的处境，思维处事，知道在什么时候能给你需要的支持和关心反方1不同的朋友提出的观点更能指出你思维和处事的不足，他们的观点更一针见血2与他们相处的时候能够锻炼你的包容心，让你学会欣赏一个人的优点，而不是因你们的差异而全盘否决1.正方一辩：Are interpersonal relationship more important than one’s practical ability to a successful career?Dear Mr President, Friends of the other debate, my friends: Hello everybody!As is known to all , The 21st century is the century of talents’ outbreak. It is a highly competitive age. but if you want to obtain a successful career, it relys on not only the practical ability of outstanding individuals, but also good relationships. Therefore, our view is that relationship is more important than the practical ability for a successful career. Here we described the following four aspects. First, as the development of the times, everyone should be raised to their real ability, but the single person's capacity is limited. A person'ssuccess, 85% attributed to his personal connections. Seemingly fortune to come, in fact, mostly the result of hard work,contacts. Second, we live in a certain social group among the people. A person's survival and development are inseparable from interaction with others. Chinese saying goes: at home by their parents, go out to rely on friends. If a person can properly handle the relationship, he can overcome many difficulties.Third, Fowler said that the closet friend is better than deposits in business. With good relationships, we can be better in many areas and create more wealth.Fourth, as a college student, every day we live in the campus, to deeply realize that here is a small community. Even if a person with a greater capacity, he can not organize an event all by himself.A recent survey showed that fifteen percent of success is contributed by a person’s professional knowledge.85 percents rely on personal relationships. In summary, we must insist that relationship is more important than the practical ability for a successful career.2.反方一辩：Respect other friends, chairman of the divides, each friend: hello!Today's opportunity to come to grips with so many friends and this undoubtedly superior personal quality and ability is a promotion of opportunity. We think that an individual career success, personalability is more important than relationships.We think: an individual career success, by strength, no strength, interpersonal and how? Strength by himself, interpersonal relations also rely on yourself. Interpersonal relationship just for one person to provide a ready a shortcut to success.Admittedly, personal ability and interpersonal is successful two prerequisite, and today we is exploring the among them successful process in which the crucial: first, from philosophical Angle, the development of internal is things root causes, determines the nature of things and the direction of development, external cause is things develop external conditions. Individual struggle is the internal cause and external cause interpersonal relationship is, therefore, own struggle is the key to success; In the second place, from success successful process to see, we first need to determine target, so as to choose direction and type, again through his own personal struggle, with their own quality and ability the enhancement, to expand interpersonal relationship, using interpersonal relationships, achieve their work and the perfect combination of externalWe all know, interpersonal relationship is again good, have no ability to also won't succeed. Only watched his repeated failure. On the premise of a fine winged capacity. Gold shine is the gold itself became! We think: interpersonal influence to be successful, it is like a goodjourney, the journey to walk, inevitable energy, wind, but if there is no firm to reach objective decision and overcome difficulties of perseverance and hard sweat, is impossible to reach the shore. Downwind or downwind or as long as we firmly stepping to the goal, we will definitely be able to arrive.Look at the great is how successful it, that is the gold and the individual effort, interpersonal relationship is a result of people, if their don't strive for, no ability to fight for, interpersonal relations will not come himself, and waiting for is only pulp. Only oneself to have true ability really ability to overcome everything.To sum up, we think that an individual career success personal ability is more important than relationships.3.反方二辩提问（一辩）：Would I ask the first debater a question :Just in your account, you said that 85% person make success with interpersonal relationship, where did the data come from? Andeven if I don’t challenged this data, Edison had said: "genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.”I sn't the personal ability so important?4.正方一辩回答：As the debate ，ninties perspiration plus one inspiration was a success, a person is required to pay 99 sweat, but the team of ten people only should spend 50 sweats and 50 inspirations to gain the success,Everybady can find which relationship is better meetthe efficiency of modern society demands?It is clear that good relationships will be more than infinitely expand your horizons, so you do not have to take so many detours.5.反方二辩提问（三辩）：Would I ask thethird debater a question :Your statement said: students should pay more attention to build relationshipsin the school. So I want to ask you whether thestudyis not important?Obviously, the study is very important, andIt is just one’s practical ability.6.正方三辩回答：7.正方四辩补充发言：Also known as interpersonal relationships, is a basic concept of sociology, its meaning is between people, the process of interaction, through the thoughts, feelings, behavior of the mutual exchange and interaction generated. People as social animals, even with a more tenacious survival skills, from social interaction, and can not have more development, because he is a man in combat. We are a group of people in the struggle.8.正方二辩提问（一辩）：Would I ask the first debater a question : if you think what a CEO needs most is a practical ability, so why will he hear so much about interpersonal relationship lecture?9.反方一辩回答：They attend the lecture interpersonal relationship is in order to increase the ability of individuals with their own personal ability of interpersonal relations to succeed in his career, rather thanusing interpersonal relationship.10.正方二辩提问（三辩）：Would I ask the third debater a question: practical ability is IQ and interpersonal relationship is EQ, success come from 20% of IQ and 80% of EQ, what do you think of it?11.反方三辩回答：myfellowdebater,youmustbemisunderstandwhatisinterpersonalrelatio nship.youshouldhaveputinterpersonalrealatersonalrealationshipequate stoEQ.it’sobviouslywrong.Bsides,myfellowdebater,haven’tyouheardofE dison’ssayings:99%perspirationplus1%inspirati onequalssuccess?Ithink myfellowdebaterdidn’tunderstandwhatisinterpersonalreationship?12.反方四辩补充发言：13.反方二辩小结：Each person is in his own success way, or shallow point in the way of job and work, we will face more challenges, wemay have a good interpersonal relationship, we may beintroduced to find a good jobby friend,but when we truly work, we have no our workmate admitted, we also have no ability to truly achieve the company's demand, so in the end ,wewill face ousted, we also have no theso-called success. If interpersonal relationship is important, I think interpersonal relationship also belongs to a partof one’s practical ability, So one’s practical ability is very important.14.正方二辩小结：Interpersonal relationship is a very good platform to improve one’s practical ability, people can learn more from thisplatform, in order to improve their ability. In modern society, people live in groups all over the world. If you do not have interpersonal relationship, others will not know your ability . Such as advertising, no matter how good the commodity is, if others do not know that, and don't use it, the commodity will be a waste product. For another example, if a CEO only have ability but can not deal with various kinds of business relationship, this company will close down. No matter how strong one’s practical ability is, he could not separate himself from the whole society and exists, and he must learn to work with others to be successful, as 80% of EQ lead to success. Practical ability would not make you starve to death in the society, but the relationship can makea better life for you.15.正方一辩：Interpersonal communication is the important to college students’ interpersonal growth and success .Also,it is an important way of exchanging the information and acquiring knowledge in modern society. Many students high IQ, EQ is very low.They often donot handle well that how to get along with others, Nowadays a good communication is the necessary ability and qualityto the most companies recruitment。
