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亚索一剑文案1、别再逃了。
2、一剑，一念。
3、还没到死的时候。
4、我会给你个痛快的！5、我命由我，不由天。
6、无罪之人，方可安生。
7、蠢货是无药可治的！8、明日安在，无人能允。
9、有些事绝对不会无趣。
10、有些失误无法犯两次。
11、回首往昔，更进一步。
12、想杀我？你可以试试。
13、剑之故事，以血为墨。
14、长路漫漫，唯剑作伴。
15、吾之荣耀，离别已久。
16、死亡如风，常伴吾身。
17、我不会怀着耻辱而死！18、御剑于心，且听风吟。
19、无罪之人，方可安睡。
20、这个故事还没有完结。
21、且听风吟，御剑于心。
22、人们一直在往我的剑上撞。
23、逃回你们的暗影吧，忍者。
24、破损的剑刃，破损的意志。
25、荣耀存于心，而非留于形。
26、仁义道德，也是一种奢侈。
27、死亡而已，没什么大不了的。
28、无极剑道，哼，我从未听说过。
29、还是别出招了，反正是我赢。
30、正义？好一个冠冕堂皇之词。
31、且随疾风前行，身后亦须留心。
32、落叶的一生，只是为了归根么。
33、吾虽浪迹天涯，却未迷失本心。
34、我的剑比什么都重要，除了美酒。
35、我们都要面对自己的旧账，瑞文。
36、有些失误无法犯两次，一剑，一念。
37、想独自平静一会吗？很快你就可以了。
38、我还在寻找回家的路，不会因此丢掉性命。
39、不是你死，就是我亡，我不会怀着耻辱而死。
40、哪一个比较沉重，瑞文，你的剑刃，还是你的过去？41、人生有三件必经之事，荣耀，死亡，还有宿醉。
42、汝欲赴死，易如反掌，灭亡之路，短的超乎你的想象。
43、如果你要来杀我，希望你把朋友也带上。
44、我照亮通往黑暗的路，于是，我就成为了黑暗45、有些人的路是选择，有些人的路却是刑罚46、没有灰色，只有光，与暗47、昨天是一场梦，明天，是黑暗的48、宇宙，在颤抖地等待49、没有黑暗，就看不见光明50、黑暗弥高，绝望弥深，烈焰其外，死亡其怀51、光与暗的最美色泽。
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哈哈爱兮爱乎爱乎
哈哈爱兮爱乎爱乎
爱青剑兮一个仇人自屠
夥颐连翩兮多少一夫
一夫爱青剑兮呜呼不孤
头换头兮两个仇人自屠
一夫则无兮爱乎呜呼
爱乎呜呼兮呜呼阿呼
阿呼吗呼兮呜呼呜呼
哈哈爱乎
爱兮血兮兮难乎独无
民萌冥行兮一夫壶卢
彼用百头颅千头颅兮用万头颅
我用一头颅兮而无万夫
爱一头颅兮血乎呜呼
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幸我来也兮青其光
青其光永不相忘
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《君临天下》山海铁蹄下翻手覆雨没黄沙白衣卿相谢了风流花烈火葬国都故里青山两相顾十年大梦爱恨破浮屠弦上箭裂悲风旌旗书吾名彼时以墨作尘此时烽火战鼓震星辰三尺青锋弑了多少不归人亡鸦不渡寒塘惧我绛衣共雪尘换来声名加身君临天下城弃我昔时笔千军著我战时衿江山社稷兴亡因我起杀色浮寒瓮一纸折扇多少恨犹枕南柯良人似初分漠上雁送归鸿腥风掀征程彼时以墨作尘此时烽火战鼓震星辰三尺青锋弑了多少不归人亡鸦不渡寒塘惧我绛衣共雪尘换得声名加身君临天下城星落，窗台夜雨流云，布满天际月光下万妖宫寂静谁听闻琴音。
【刀】：风沙，漫过回忆大漠，长歌飞行是谁在昆仑山谷底背双刀远行。
【魅】：是月色在聆听眺望雁向南去七弦琴，拨动他说的如今我歌唱的爱情，你一直在旁听这陷阱是你精心设计【魅】：霜降，沾了衣襟夜空，缺了月明你用温柔誓言爱情我选择了相信【刀】：冬至，杭州塔底雪漫，繁华金陵我们在广寒宫相依约不离不弃【魅】：云散，敦煌画壁风过，商会西域我和最爱的你相遇享有你的回忆【刀】：是月色在聆听眺望又个四季七弦琴，拨动谁心事不明我歌唱的爱情，你都在故事里只有你，绝不允许放弃【魅】：我在，万妖宫里。
你回，昆仑山底。
隔海岸弹奏七弦琴思念寄托风里。
刀【温柔】：待到三月，春暖花开，我定不负你相思。
魅【轻语】：待到三月，终了相思，断了流离，换举杯共饮，你不可负我。
【魅】：花开，仙山圣地清澈，幽潭浅溪春风下万妖宫寂静，谁听闻琴音。
【刀】：刀锋，黄泉血洗坐歇，忘川停息当返回那凯旋之地是否经过这里【魅】是你啊在聆听【刀】眺望隔岸的你【合】我学会怎样爱远方的你【魅】冷战争吵哭泣【刀】用伤害来证明【合】到如今要爱你的决心【刀】月光，摇晃树荫携手，三生湖定【魅】我在花间下奏一曲【合】静夜思里的你念白：魅：三月已过，你未归来。
离骚你知遇的眼角多郁的眉梢扰惑我的心答案在揭晓真的天涯海角是你的动摇春来春又去路越走越寂寥假如爱把人变成了孤单两个人又有什麽值得去拥抱假如爱外表美好里面煎熬一个人可不可以乾脆都不要我背对着你奔跑散落的离骚还在埋怨是否代表还有爱燃烧昨天的感动围绕今天已经变调梦的未来得不到我向着远方奔跑纠缠的离骚狂飙的风追赶着我有你的味道强迫我慢慢知道思念就像月光心逃再远也依然一半被笼罩假如爱把人变成了孤单两个人又有什麽值得去拥抱假如爱外表美好里面煎熬一个人可不可以乾脆都不要我背对着你奔跑散落的离骚还在埋怨是否代表还有爱燃烧昨天的感动围绕今天已经变调梦的未来得不到我向着远方奔跑纠缠的离骚狂飙的风追赶着我有你的味道强迫我慢慢知道思念就像月光心逃再远也依然一半被笼罩我背对着你奔跑散落的离骚还在埋怨是否代表还有爱燃烧昨天的感动围绕今天已经变调梦的未来得不到我向着远方奔跑纠缠的离骚狂飙的风追赶着我有你的味道强迫我慢慢知道思念就像月光心逃再远也依然一半被笼罩-作曲/编曲:KIDE 后期:E 作词:荀夜羽歌:小爱的妈念白:音频怪物纯则粹阳则刚天行健两仪遵道恒长故有长久者不自生方长生之讲百丈峰松如浪地势坤厚德载物之像故君子不争炎凉混沌开分阴阳轮转更迭万物始苍苍观其微妙于九天之下六合八荒自春生入秋藏天之道四时更迭有常若有常为何晨曦比这夜还凉若无常为何我总会想与你守月满空山雪照窗大道无形，生育天地;大道无情，运行日月;大道无名，长养万物。
古风的说说1、楼上黄昏杏花寒，斜月小栏干。
一双燕子，两行征雁，画角声残。
绮窗人东风里，无语对春闲。
也应似旧，盈盈秋水，淡淡春山。
2、秀樾横塘十里香，水花晚色静年芳。
胭脂雪瘦熏沉水，翡翠盘高走夜光。
山黛远，月波长，暮云秋影蘸潇湘。
醉魂应逐凌波梦，分付西风此夜凉。
3、自伯之东，首如飞蓬。
岂无膏沐？谁适为容！愿言思伯，甘心首疾。
愿言思伯。
使我心痗。
4、数亩东皋宅，青春独屏居。
家贫僮仆慢，官罢友朋疏。
强饮沽来酒，羞看读破书。
闲花更满地，惆怅复何如。
5、阅尽天涯离别苦，不道归来，零落花如许。
花底相看无一语，绿窗春与天俱暮。
待把相思灯下诉，一缕新欢，旧恨千千缕。
最是人间留不住，朱颜辞镜花辞树。
6、昨夜的秋风吹不散今晨的阳光明媚，昨日的疲惫战胜不了今朝的精力充沛，让我们打起精神来，一起向着美好未来狂奔不后退，祝君日日精神百倍！7、花开也有落情时，此情此景何时休，漫天花雨寄君知，又倚清风泪空泣。
8、那年，春风一绿江南，千古江山似美卷，万里长城延天边，秋水望穿以相盼，只愿与君一世安。
9、泪湿海棠花枝处，东君空把奴分付。
山泼黛，水挼蓝，翠相搀。
为君沉醉又何妨，只怕君醒时候断人肠。
10、那些曾经的花好月圆，或许，只是时光里的海市蜃楼罢了。
11、余愿，一笑回眸，深忆天涯依旧。
是，时光残昼，不过过客徒求。
12、孤灯寥影对蓬窗，揽尽凄愁夜色庞。
月平添慈母忆，焚心再把苦生扛。
求远志耕寒夜，抛却尘欢付热腔下为公垂万世，遥岑槛外一清江。
13、深居俯夹城，春去夏犹清。
意怜幽草，人间重晚晴。
添高阁迥，微注小窗明。
鸟巢干后，归飞体更轻。
14、三生情殇，流沙而逝，一生情缘，只为伊人而憔悴。
上独舞，染起情怀，晚风眠，君生死不弃。
念成殇，寒雨声，但为伊人碎。
冷的夜里，找不到你的安慰，只怪当初誓言太美，让相思成病。
定痴醉今生，落花雨季，为什么，你不在身旁，留我一人，将思念化成灰。
15、天与秋光，转转情伤，探金英知近重阳。
衣初试，绿蚁新尝。
一番风，一番雨，一番凉。
燕尾蝶，仅次于江湖兵器谱，七种武器后的一种“武器”【追风】明月初心西风恨，轻怜灯下影……悬崖折剑，如烟世事；惜，一溪风月独揽婆娑心技，一纸江湖终是欲语还休，七步一江湖，早已习惯一人在尘嚣里独赏风尘，冷蔵的不忘，只许些忆念，纷纷幽幽，梦，本是梦，念，本是念；碎碎梦，碎碎念，怎，怎又能重奏咋日的七弦琴明月清风影，青纱踏轻浪，荡漾的水心花瓣，泛过的是卿那一粒惊世朱砂，千转百回，萦思梦，江湖梦，犹怨红尘事，回味，莫名以风命名，只为卿的再次飘零尘，是缘不变的轮回，叹，初时，小径，旧梦，巳形虚设……月落，乌啼英雄泪，寒星吹落雨，一剑破云烟，浊酒醉卧兰亭序，千份狂心难醒，莫问？刀剑是否如梦陌上清风醉，暗散冷香，折剑天涯，怎奈流殇己一世，狂风卷云烟，蝶影两茫茫孔雀山庄，小李飞刀的传说，水月映花，江湖讥笑，休说红尘在作弄剑在手，是江湖，离影扣心弦，青涩难尝，江湖之外的你，许是一种诱惑，年少是轻狂，数尘沙漫漫入凡尘，是是非非，千千结，谁又是谁的劫，悟不明，掺不透。
禅道，剑道，只道情字难解风城论剑，痴笑一剑风流一黑衣，一铁剑，一江湖，丝丝情愫在祭奠那别样的濨味，情，己倾天涯，旧城梦卿月下柳荫会，却见月色凉如水风云日，风华褪尽，剑意成剑影藏锋，是江湖，当我挥剑转身之时，却发现，你巳经不在，不在那一个轮回的月圆之夜；今夜，月桂香飘城，是否是昨日应有的尘埃，在改变你那旧时的模样……舍，难舍燕尾蝶，涂罂的毒看那一岸的晓风，江湖的离影，对影巳三以风命名，作影，随风曲水潺潺，青剑邀梦，浮光幻千影，把酒问清风，已醉！踏遍天涯路，自问？浮生能几何彼岸之念，旋念，悬念快剑江湖你只是红尘一笑，从此山河永寂……在佛语的竼音下，你千年的魂魄，在佛前，巳变成一朵偷偷在哭泣的玫瑰你，你也成了我这一生，相望，且，独自在欣赏的江湖追风2013、3、9 <本文2013、1、17首发于本人空间>。
爱情霸气句子爱情霸气句子(15篇)无论是身处学校还是步入社会，大家都收藏过令自己印象深刻的句子吧，句子能表达一个完整的意思，如告诉别人一件事情，提出一个问题，表示要求或者制止，表示某种感慨，表示对一段话的延续或省略。
那么什么样的句子才更具感染力呢？以下是店铺精心整理的爱情霸气句子，欢迎阅读，希望大家能够喜欢。
爱情霸气句子11.为你，袖手天下，陪你，浪迹天涯。
2.仰天大笑出门去，我辈岂是蓬蒿人。
3.天若赐我辉煌，我定比天张狂。
4.苍茫大地一剑尽挽破，何处繁华笙歌落。
斜倚云端千壶掩寂寞，纵使他人空笑我。
5.若得青锋三尺剑，醉罢斩天落长虹。
6.想绝尘而去仗剑天涯做一个无牵绊的浪子，在不知名的酒馆自斟自饮把所有一言难尽一饮而尽。
7.生在阴间有散场，死归地府又何妨。
阳间地府具相似，只当漂流在异乡。
8.弃一代江山，敛半世猖狂，求一个对手、只为一战!9.寡人不死，尔等终究是臣!10.我命由我不由天，天欲灭我我灭天。
11.年少纵马且长歌，醉极卧云外山河，曾记兰台温酒伴月落。
12.付剑天涯，风尘逐我生杀。
荡尽寒鸦，风云叱咤。
谁使我放下?直到遇见她。
13.一剑一箫平生意，不负狂名十五年。
14.宁我负天下人，不叫天下人负我!15.十步杀一人，千里不留行。
事了拂衣去，深藏身与名。
16.天弃世遗，诸天灭世，古今贯穿，唯我独立，此身不朽，万骨诸天破灭!17.手中有剑，便握剑前行。
手中无剑，便忘剑前行。
18.剑指苍穹，吾愿为汝斩尽红尘，覆尽天下，诛尽逆贼，只求汝展颜轻笑。
19.逐鹿天下，纵使河山崩塌。
君无戏话，将不归家。
一生安戎马，天涯亦无涯。
20.天生我材必有用，千金散尽还复来。
21.我曾傲视群雄，也挥刀划破过苍穹。
22.我若成佛，天下无魔;我若成魔，佛奈我何。
23.今生若是缘未尽，宁负天下不负卿。
24.朕的江山养你一个祸水够不够。
25.吾王起灵归来日，尔等俯首称臣时。
26.我且逍遥山水人家，闲话桑麻听一曲琵琶，曲终，再无牵挂。
TOUGH LOVEW hen I ended a routine video call with my mother one recent morning, she in China and I in Germany,something felt different. It took me a moment to realize that it was the first time in my 28 years of life that she had commented on my happiness.“I hope all is well in Frankfurt. Be happy, my little baby,” she had said. All things considered, we don’t have what might be called acold or distant mother-daughter relationship. In her own words, she is a devoted mother, espousing an eternal and self-sacrificing love for me. I have the same deep feelingfor her, though I’ve rarely voiced it. Yet I feel I only know certain sides of her, and doubt she knows much more than that about me. I don’t feel comfortable sharing my life or revealing my feelings to my mother, nor do I always know how to behave around her, and in recent years I’ve started to wonder if it’s because she used to beat me.Corporal punishment is hardly an experience unique to me in China. Although there’s no comprehensive survey on this topic in China, studies on different regions of the country since the 1990s point to asmuch as 70 to 80 percent of peoplewho say they’ve received physicalpunishment at some point in theirchildhoods, with the most commonlycited reasons being “disobedienceto parents,” “poor academicperformance,” and “dishonesty.” A2008 study on high school studentsin southern China also points toa higher occurrence of physicalpunishment when parents fight.The tradition of corporal disciplinehas been pervasive across centuriesin Chinese households, glorifiedas some traditional wisdom, andpreserved and internalized acrossgenerations. Much like the Englishproverb “Spoil the rod and sparethe child,” Chinese sayings such as“Filial children are nurtured underthe cane (黄金条下出孝子)” and“Without flogging, one cannot havea promising vessel (不打不成器)”indicate that corporate punishmentwas normalized in times past.“Some parents who experiencedcorporal punishment as a childdismiss the potential harm of thispractice, as they think they grewout of it and ‘nothing too badhappened,’” says Guo Yueping,program officer on the familyprotection program team of NGOSave the Children International(Guangzhou Office).Yet the line between corporalpunishment and physical abuseis thin, and recent headlinesillustrate the growing awarenessof this in China today: In 2018,Pengpeng, a 6-year-old boy fromShaanxi province, died due to braininjuries inflicted by his stepmother,the culmination of a series ofmistreatment that started with regularbeating and punishment by standingor kneeling.More recently, in 2022, the parentsof a 5-year-old girl in Heilongjiangprovince were arrested for severelybeating the child, leading to fracturedbones, intracranial hemorrhaging,and multiple organ dysfunctions, aswell as routinely inflicting other gravepunishments such as burning herwith cigarettes and lacerating her lips.Such headlines led to renewed callsfrom the public for China to improveits child protection laws.China today is on track to ban allforms of violence against children.From its first law to protect therights of women and children in1992 to the revision on the Law onthe Protection of Minors in 2020,shows that some of China’s child protection laws do not spell out a scope of violence, attempt to define the place for corporal punishment under the broader violent treatment spectrum, or distinguish it from the “strict discipline” and “correctional education” that parents and guardians are still authorized to carry out under Chinese laws.Public reaction to extreme cases of violence against children is often swift and condemnatory—in 2010, tens of thousands of enraged netizens called for a life sentence and sent death threats to a woman who beat her 4-year-old daughter to paralysis in Chongqing.Yet attitudes are significantly more mixed, and even positive, toward routine physical punishments that don’t go to such extremes: such as slapping, spanking, making children kneel, or whipping them with belts or canes. Except in cases of grave violence and abuse cases, corporal punishment is often considered a domestic affair. Lan Y uejun, Professor of Law at Shanghai University , stresses that even when corporalpunishment results in serious physical harm, most children, parents, and third parties alike are often unaware of the illegality of the practice.Consequently , there is usually a lack of evidence even when legal actions are initiated.According to Lan, other barriers include the threshold set at “severe” harm, the “private” nature ofJiechi , wooden rods historically used for discipline in Confucian academies, are placed in an elementary school classroom in Sichuan to inspire good behavior; the school statesit obtained parents’ permission to do this.Chinese legislation clearly outlines the prohibition of violence against children in school, alternative care, and family settings. The widely-applauded Anti-Domestic Violence Law , issued in 2016, went even further to prohibit psychological violence such as insults, intimidation, and restrictions on personal freedom. China also ratified the UN’s Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC) in 1990 to recognize, among others, the right of the child to live free of violence, and pledged to report to the UNCRC Committee on its children’s rights.However, corporal punishmentremains in a gray area. A 2020 report by End Corporal Punishment, an initiative of the Global Partnership to End Violence Against Children,corporal discipline, and the unclear division of duties among government offices tasked with protecting children’s rights. Unlike in cases ofviolence against children perpetratedby others, “outsiders” are not normally expected to have an opinion if a parent is “rightly exercising corporal punishment” on the child because it’s “just childrearing.”China outlined its rules on mandatory reporting in 2020, requiring those working in civilservice, law enforcement, education, health care, aid and relief, and other settings with close contact withchildren to report any suspected cases of sexual abuse, severe physical harm, neglect, trafficking, and psychological maltreatment to the police and local bureaus of civil affairs and education. However, there’s no clearmechanism for intervening when the level of physical harm is below the threshold for violence. According to Guo, children suffering from severe physical punishment can turn to the Ministry of Civil Affairs’ Minors Protection Hotline, social work stations, or municipal minors protection centers, which arephysical punishment, 763 believed it was “necessary for good discipline,” “not severely harmful,” and therefore justified.In my own case, it was difficult to start making sense of it. Growing up, I spent more time with my mother than any other person, as my father was constantly away for work and spent very little time at home even before their divorce when I was 10. Around the age of 5 or 6, I began to think of my mother as someone who was frequently “not in a good mood.” Her “bad moods” were quick to escalate into something physical. My earliest memory of being beaten by my mother goes back to a windy autumn afternoon. I don’t remember the cause of the beating, but we were both at home, and she sat silently on the sofa looking thoughtful for a moment before standing up, fetching her knitting needles, and calling me over. There was something that Idid wrong, she pointed out, as sheestablished in every city . In some regions, there is also a child welfare inspector who regularly conducts visits to children who are in contact with said institutions. “But admittedly , implementation is uneven and many corporal punishment cases probably go unreported,” she says.Personally , I was never aware that there was anyone children could turn to. On the Q&A platform Zhihu, threads from children or teenagers seeking advice on what to do about beatings from parents are often met with responses like, “Bear with it, and run when it gets too much.” There are few studies in China on how the current generation of young adults who grew up with corporal punishment make sense of their memories. However, a study by researchers from University College London on the experiences and attitudes of 1,255 college students in Zhejiang province in 2015 showed that among the 1,014 respondents who had actual experiences ofPEOPLE OUTSIDE THEIMMEDIATE FAMILYARE NOT EXPECTED TO HAVE AN OPINION IF APARENT IS “RIGHTLY EXERCISING CORPORAL PUNISHMENT.”started to smack me on the shoulders, arms, and back. I remember feelingparalyzed by this first exposure tophysical punishment and burstinginto tears.I vividly recall the gray Mickey Mouse hoodie that she was wearingthat day , because after seeing me cry ,my mother paused for a second, andstarted to cry even louder than me. She pulled me into her arms, buried her face in my neck and murmured: “I’m sorry . I’m so sorry . Mama is not beating you because you did something wrong. It’s not your fault. Would you forget about it and forgive Mama, please? Please don’t hate me when you grow up.”But this momentary realization did not prevent my mother from doing this again; instead, she became more “innovative” with her punishments. When I was about 8 years old, my mother caught me watching a playmate pouring yogurt into shoes that were left outside our neighbors’ house. That night, she did nothing; I even got to lie on the couch and watch cartoons. Just before lunch the next day , however, when my father went out to run errands, my motherstormed downstairs with a needle in her hand, and within seconds, I felt it pricking my lips.The pricking did not hurt quite as much as a good lashing, but the memory of it makes me shiver now. While pricking me, my mother asked me time and again if I would ever repeat my wrongdoing. One question, one prick, until 15 minutes had and I saw her crying inside the sliding door,” she tells me. “Whenever she hit me, she always seemed very upset too. But we never brought it up ever again after.”Hu does not believe that her mother has forgotten about the incidents, but “she probably doesn’t want to think about it or know what to say after all these years.”Guo, who organizes positiveparenting workshops for parents to help them develop healthy , non-violent relationships with their children, says corporal punishment is closely linked to parents’ own mental stress and their lack of knowledge of non-province, remembers two or three times when her mother punished her physically for either getting bad grades or playing too many video games. “Her methods were smacking me in the face, squeezing me on thighs, or making me stand in cold wind in thin clothes. There was once she made me stand on the freezing balcony in winter for a reason I don’t remember,passed—or perhaps it was shorter; I had lost all sense of time. Then she got up to prepare lunch.She told me later that she waited all night to punish me, in order to let me think I got away with my crime and “make the significance of the punishment greater and the memory more lasting.” The wounds from the needle stayed for two or three days afterwards, and we never talked about the incident again.“Not talking about it” seems to be the norm among parents and children who’ve spoken to me about corporal punishment. Hu Xinyu, a25-year-old from Jinan, Shandong “NOT TALKING ABOUTIT” SEEMS TO BE THENORM AMONG PARENTS AND CHILDREN WHO’VE SPOKEN TO ME ABOUT CORPORAL PUNISHMENT. A Women’s Federation officer hands out anti-domestic violence pamphlets in Hefei, Anhui provincestory she has told me several times. “When I was 6 or 7 years old, I would go with your uncle and aunts to collect rocks from the riverbank to sell to the cement factory for extra income after school, and I was usually the last to arrive home because I had to carry the stones on my back as well as take care of your youngest aunt. One day , when I came home late again, he came over without saying a word and kicked me in the stomach out the door so hard that I felt I was flying in the air for a few seconds. I could never forgive him for that.”Indeed, my mother takes a cold, often sarcastic tone when speaking with and of my grandfather. When other people mention him, she frowns and complains. She sends “red packets” full of cash for my grandmother every year and takes her out regularly for dinner, but rarely invites him to join. When both my grandparents developed health and mobility issues in their late 80s, my mother moved only her mother into our house, while giving my grandfather the bare minimum of financial support to continue his treatments at the hospital.Despite her bitterness toward her own father, my mother holds her own childrearing approach to different standards. “I used to hit you because it’s for your good, for you to remember there are certain things you should not do. I think it was quite successful; you turned out well,” she once told me, partly joking. When I told my therapist, Dr. Elly Wong of Oasis Hospital Beijing, about this conversation, she reasoned that having grown up a victim of violence herself, my mother probably unwittingly came to believe in the power ofviolence as a solution toviolent alternatives. “Parents often are unaware of the fact that their mental stress is driving corporalpunishment as a means of unleashing their frustrations. In fact, most parents are not happy about using corporal punishment and even regret doing so,” she says, based on her observation from parenting workshops organized by Save the Children. “For example, I’ve known parents who physically punish their child for doing badly at school out of frustration, thinking that it reflects their own failing [as parents]. That’s why we train them to see their own emotions, acknowledge them, analyze them, and control them.”Guo’s organization, Save the Children, has led “positiveparenting” programs for schools and communities, benefiting more than 52,000 parents and children since 2014. The workshops gather parents together to read child protection manuals, learn anger management practices, and discuss parenting challenges and progress. “Manyparents resisted in the beginning. Some couldn’t believe theirdysfunctional family relations could be helped, and some feared they might still want to resort to beating and scolding after the workshops. But among those who finished the training, our post-workshop monitoring shows increasedawareness and improvement toward non-violent parenting,” she says. “Often, there are parents reporting their reuse of violence during the sessions, but with our encouragement they’re able to apologize to their children and do better.”As I grew slightly older, my mother told me how , until her late teens, she suffered violence from my grandfather that was “100 times worse” than anything she’d ever doled out to me. She still has not spoken of her lasting grudge to her father, more than 30 years later. “Your grandpa always beat me badly for nothing, just because he might have had a bad day ,” goes aproblems with children, as is generally the case in inter-generational passing of discipline patterns. Indeed, the same dynamics exist between my mother’sbrother, who also suffered from theviolence inflicted by their father, and his son, my cousin, who was severallyphysically punished as a child. They are not in regular contact any more.In 2021, I sent my friend Mao Lu, a widely read blogger on romantic relationships and personal growth, a long text message confessing howmy childhood shaped how I interact with people socially . In romantic relationships, I wrote, I have been constantly and sometimes blindly looking for someone with whom I can be a “happy , carefree, and silly child,” the opposite of my mother’s expectations. Additionally , this sense of having missed out on a happy childhood pushed me to always want to help however I can whenever I sense someone is living with depression or loneliness, even if it’s not my business. “It’s like a redemption, as if making someone else a bit happier is giving the past me a salvaging hug,” I wrote.Though also born in the 1980s, Lu herself never experienced harsh discipline growing up. “My parents’ approach to teaching me lessons is primarily through reasoning. When they told me I did wrong, they would explain why , and how to do it right. There were of course times where I would insist I was right, then we would just debate to see who could persuade the other,” says Lu. “The mostprecious thing is, unlike most parents,they never perceive themselves to be absolutely right. They have no problem apologizing and admitting mistakes.” China’s new generation of parents seems to be pushing back against harsh discipline. Various media have taken note of how parents born in the 1990s are raising their children, centering around lower expectations andpressure, encouragement of recreation and freedom, and a light-hearted family atmosphere. Another of my cousins and her husband, a couple in their early 30s who just had a baby boy in August, are firm in their rejection of harsh physical punishment. “If he severely misbehaves, I might still give him some light tapping on the back, but nothing really violent or hurtful. I don’t think violent words or treatments really help children to grow. We’ve all been through it and know it just does not,” says my cousin’s husband.Lu believes her own parents’doctrine for raising children is based in happiness. “My parents just want me to be happy . Those who believe in discipline and pushing their children to be successful diminish this happiness-oriented approach.” To Lu, this has shaped her way of dealing with romance. “It made me see respect as the pre-requisite for any romantic relationship. Just as importantly , it teaches me how to love someone.”Now that my grandmother has moved in, my mother tries to arrange a video call with the three of us every weekend. We talk about easy topics—work, cooking, energy bills, my cousin’s newborn baby , weekend excursions, and her singing class at the local academy for seniors. Several times, I’ve wanted to tell her that I’m finally writing about her, but I could not bring myself to do so. Perhaps someday I will compile this article into a long letter,and let her read it.“THE MOST PRECIOUSTHING IS, UNLIKE MOSTPARENTS, MY PARENTS NEVER PERCEIVETHEMSELVES TO BE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.”New generations of parents say they want more easy-going and equal relationships withtheir childrenCorporal punishment was once a common parenting method.C9ngj~ng, y7ng t@f1 ji3oy& h1izi de q!ngku3ng workshop g4ngzu7f1ng 工作坊maltreatment n+-d3i 虐待violence b3ol#暴力corporal punishment t@f1体罚。
歌词诀爱(《苍兰诀》电视剧燃爱主题曲) - 詹雯婷
等天崩地裂的那一瞬间
待坍塌破碎了睁开双眼
无处安放灵魂
只能降落
若灵魂相结在天地之间
看山盟海誓引一场惊觉
没有你的世界
我无力承受
拔情诀爱的最后
指尖缠绕的温柔
化作一把锋利剑刺向了我
诀爱
模糊光阴距离
连时间都暂停
全都只是因为你
确定
你是心中唯一
说再见来不及
开不了口的惋惜
来不及
若灵魂相结在天地之间看山盟海誓引一场惊觉
没有你的世界
我无力承受
拔情诀爱的最后
指尖缠绕的温柔
化作一把锋利剑刺向了我
诀爱
模糊光阴距离
连时间都暂停
全都只是因为你
确定
你是心中唯一
说再见来不及
开不了口的惋惜
来不及
Woah
来不及
Woah
诀别的爱。
以爱之名，挥剑
碧海，蓝天，金色的沙滩。
神秘的希腊，浪漫的爱琴海。
"今夜的天空很希腊",不晓得余光中是在怎样的一个情形下写下这句话,诗人灵光一现的简单一句,却描画出希腊那不可言说的美与光彩。
就是在这样一个似乎是人间仙境的地方，在2100年前，这里的碧海也曾被染成血红，这里的蓝天也曾硝烟弥漫，这里金色的沙滩也曾被密密麻麻的尸体覆盖。
美女和英雄，爱情和战争，以及那个崇尚武力的冷兵器时代，浩浩荡荡的战争气势扑面而来。
有人为正义而战，有人为和平而战，有人为一己之怨而战，有人为权利而战，有人为私欲而战，特洛伊充斥着战争的喧嚣，特洛伊弥漫着战争的苍茫，而这场战争最大的借口就是以爱的名义，挥剑！没有人知道该如何形容美女海伦的美，任何的语言在这个美女面前都要自惭形秽，任何的赞美在这个美女面前都要低下高昂的头，可是这位美女为特洛伊带来的却是长达十年之久的战争。
十万人的军队，一千一百八十六艘战船，就再这场以爱为名的战争中灰飞烟灭。
当密如雨点的箭从天而降时，那飞一样的速度，石一般的力量，当一枚枚翎羽划破天空，在空气中发出“嗖嗖”的呼啸时，一位健硕的士兵应声倒地，箭正中他的眼球，在他倒地的刹那，血花飞溅，在空中开出了一朵殷红的梅花。
一支箭，夺取的不只是一个年轻男人的生命，而是一个家庭，襁褓中的孩子因此失去的一位父亲，年轻的妻子因此失去了一位丈夫。
多少的家庭因为这场战争而破碎！
一位位勇士的尸体静静的躺在，高高的木架之上。
熊熊的烈火升起，不管你是普通的士兵还是骁勇善战，以一敌百的英雄，最终都将在此化为灰烬。
城上的响起嫠妇的哀嚎，那是一种犹如从地狱传来的声音，她仿佛在哭泣，她仿佛在控诉，无论是对特洛伊人民而言，还是对希腊联军而言，这场战争死伤无数，这么惨痛的经历是人们精神所不能承受的。
一场以爱情的名义掀起的战争，却是多少人在哀叹红颜祸水；一场英雄迭出的战争，却留下多少悲壮的遗憾；一场人神交战的战争，谱写出久久不衰的史诗。
特洛伊，这个并不复杂的名字，在那个复杂的年代，带给所有人复杂的情绪。
赫克托耳轰然倒下，特洛伊城终究在木马的诡计中陷落崩溃。
我也要流血，我也要杀戮，断去敌手所有的希望；斩断那些敌人的头颅的时候，看着那些血从我的眼前飞过，那会是一种什么样的快意。
我活着，在我那些血肉横飞的幻想中活着。
战争的残酷在片子中显露无疑。
男人被杀死，妇女和儿童被出卖为奴，城市在焚烧中成为废墟。
似乎看到了南京大屠杀的翻版，原来战争一直就是这样；为了荣誉，为了记入史册，需要践踏多少无辜士兵的亡魂。
因为一个女人引发的战争，我是被这句话吸引想看看到底是怎样一个故事的，到底红颜做了什么成为了祸水。
但我看到的原来是侵略和贪婪赤裸裸的借口。
”海伦只是这场战争的导火索，不同的人为了这场战争有不同的筹备和打算。
有的人为了占有，有的人为了复仇，有的人为了名垂史册，这都是一种私欲的膨胀．是人们内心的交战引发的外在的战争。
”
战争除了残暴，我想最让人心痛的就是一定会在两个同样的强者中分出胜负，而输家一定会死，而且死的很惨。
人们都喜欢把这场战争说成因爱情而起，我却觉得它更是男人的赤裸裸的占有欲的体现。
是自以为是的男人为了满足自己的欲望，而利用他人发动的战争。
悲剧因懦夫而起却要以牺牲英雄的生命来结束！
贯穿全文的一个问题——为何而战。
里面的人开始反思战争的意义，反思为何而战。
“告诉我，你杀过人吗……你看过战死的人吗……我杀过人，听过也看过他们死前的哀
嚎，一点也不光荣，一点也不伟大，你说你要为爱而死，你却不懂死亡，更不懂爱情……”这是在古希腊时期的赫克托尔不可能会说出的话，这段话是说给21世纪的我们听的，这段话也只对于我们有意义。
阿基琉斯和赫克托尔在太阳神殿里的对话更是直接地反映出现代观念，反映现代人的反思——
“你为何而来？”
“这场战争将流传千古。
”
“千百年后我们早化成白骨……你把战争当作游戏，你知道有多少妻子将失去丈夫吗？”
显然，赫克托尔的问题是现代人才会问的，也许，编剧问的对象并不是阿基琉斯，他问的对象也是某一些现代人。
只有这样，这个问题才显得有意义。
“你来特洛伊想得到什么？你要的不是斯巴达王后。
”
“男人都要些什么，我只想要更多。
……
“你以为阿伽门农会关心他弟弟，他是为权利而战，不是爱情。
”
……
“人是可怕的动物，我教你如何杀人，却没教你为何而战。
”
……
“我不杀你，你会杀更多的人。
“
……
所有的这些问题、对话都不是古希腊人会想的、会说的。
更难能可贵的是，这部影片不仅想到了战争双方首领为何而战，还想到了在战争中、在历史上默默无闻却又是战争的主要组成部分的士兵究竟为何而战——
“士兵为了素为谋面的国王而战，奉命行事，为国捐躯。
”
“士兵必须服从命令。
”
“别为了一个愚蠢的国王赔上自己的性命。
”
……
一个士兵究竟为何而战？
为了国王？如果跟的是一个愚蠢的国王呢？愚忠是可爱还是可笑？
为了战利品？一个士兵能够得到多少战利品？值得用性命去换取吗？
为了国家？也许只有这个答案能让人接受，可惜那个时候国王就代表了国家的意志。
无论一场战争在历史上如何耀眼，一个士兵的名字都不可能载入史册，即使他为此献出了生命。
甚至，也许他到死的时候都不明白他为什么要结束战场上那些跟他一样无知的人，他们都仅仅是一颗棋子，一场游戏里的棋子。
在《荷马史诗》里，所有的参战者都是众神的棋子，即使是英雄如赫克托尔和阿基琉斯，但反过来说，他们何尝不是利用了众神呢，阿基琉斯透过他母亲，可以让宙斯一会帮这边一会帮那边，可以让众神们起内讧；在现实中，所有的士兵都是国家领导的棋子。
去批判阿基琉斯时代的人们热爱战争是毫无意义的，但是，身处21世纪的我们应该从中得到启示。
怎么说呢，始终排斥不了一个结论“红颜祸水”。
海伦的美的确是倾国倾城的，她使得特洛伊这样一个长年屹立不倒的王国倾倒覆灭；因为自己的爱情，迫使千千万万的妻子失去了丈夫，顺带着也就失去了爱情。
不仅如此，她还让父母失去了儿子……“生命诚可贵，爱情价更高”，是不是就是这个样子的。
特洛伊的老国王在帕里斯出征之前语重心长的对其说，他的一生中都是为了祖国，为了荣誉而战，从来没有为了爱情而战斗过，相比之下，以前的那些好像都比不上这样的为爱执着。
好像为了一个女人而挑起的家仇国恨，在一位老国王的
口中，一瞬间变得名正言顺。
如此一来，我们看到了爱情高于一切。
提到了这一点，就不免要提一下电影中的另一段爱情故事，阿基里斯和布里塞伊斯的恋情。
阿伽门农在结局的时候说，布里塞伊斯影响了一场战争的结果。
又是一场风花雪月的爱情在左右着家国大事。
但是，实话实说，爱情只不过是众多影响战争的因素之一，阿伽门农的野心才是主导。
阿伽门农绝对是一个心胸狭隘的人，有很强的权力欲望，他对权力的渴望绝对和我国古代的秦始皇有的一拼。
这样的人不能善终是显而易见的。
他希望所有的士兵能够为他而战，这一点实在不是一个明君的作为。
一个深明大义的君主为了天下百姓的福祉而战，这样的人断然不会轻易挑起战争。
逞一时之勇可能帮其得天下，却不能帮其守住天下。
阿伽门农的悲惨结局是最好的验证。
通过远古的伤痕，鞭策今生的行走历程。
帕里斯为了和貌美无双的海伦日日厮守，临行之际便产生了带走别人妻子的罪恶想法，初衷是为了永生的无上的爱，但是他忘记了海伦是别人的王后，而王是那么热衷与权力的争夺，他怎么可以轻易的就蒙受这样的耻辱？于是，一段轰轰烈烈的爱情，引发了一场轰轰烈烈的战争，这段爱情和这场战争在历史上同样耀眼。
爱本无错，但是选错了对待爱的方式，一定有错；拐走一国之军的妻子，是大错特错；预先得知会引起轩然大波而不回头，一定会受到诅咒。
尘土飞扬，兵戈相见，鲜血横流，帕里斯为了一个人的天长地久，甘愿牺牲一座城池，稀世的英俊，不顾一切的鲁莽，敢于担当背后的超级懦弱，让特洛依人为此汗颜。
多少士兵敢怒不敢言：我们在为何而战？我们战争的意义何在？谁在战争前说了，战争就是男人和死亡对话的方式，是的，我们不得一次又一次的和死亡对话，用血肉之躯，用对待生活的热情，用无定的命运，用沉重的盾牌和锋利的刀剑，只是为了捍卫一个懦夫的爱情？然后才是捍卫自己的家园？最喜欢特洛依王子说的：一个男人，相信上帝，爱自己的国家，爱自己的女人。
回到电影中，所有的潜台词铺垫都是因为他们相爱，诚如海伦所言，没有你的斯巴达，我就是一俱行尸走肉。
真正的精神恋爱，如古诗经所言，君住长江头，妾住长江尾，日日思君不见君，共饮长江水这般就足矣。
阿加门侬被描述成一个充满野心，企图借着为兄弟尊严这个幌子而大肆发动战斗攻陷特洛伊城。
这大概是现代人对统治者和战争发动者最真实最普遍的理解。
但是做为原著的忠实性而言。
阿加门侬是接受了神诣。
代表希腊进攻特洛伊的。
无论如何，他确实发动了这场长达十年的酷战。
我们在电影中看到了最真实的刀枪并存，短兵相接。
千军万马在茅和盾中不分敌我，大肆肉搏。
如今站在这金色的沙滩之上，微微海风吹过我似乎可以听到刀剑划过动脉，血液喷薄而出的声音，真实而又遥远。
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姓名：冯欣然
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