Don't make a permanent decision for your temporary emotion.
别因一时冲动去做影响一生的决定。
There is no point in living if you can't feel alive.
活着没有生气，那活着也没有意义。
Turn the page on yesterday. Only ever think about today and tomorrow.
把昨天翻过去，只去考虑今天和明天。
Chance favors only the prepared mind. 机会总眷顾有准备的人。
Trust is like an eraser. It gets smaller and smaller after every mistake. 信任就像橡皮擦，每犯一次错，就会变小一点。
Life is tough, but I'm tougher. 生活很艰苦，但我更坚强。
标签：励志正能量I can make it through the rain. I can stand up once again on my own. 我可以穿越云雨，也可以东山再起。(玛丽亚·凯莉)
Nobody is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry. 没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。
University freshmen are taking part in the military training.大一新生正在接受军训。
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Tomorrow is never clear. Our time is here.明天是未知的，我们还是享受此刻吧！《摇滚夏令营》
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.生活要么大胆尝试，要么什么都不是。
If you are not learning something new every day, you are wasting away days of your life.如果每天不学点新的东西，就是在浪费生命。
If you don't make a choice, the choice makes you.你不主导命运，就会被命运主导。
Thank you Toronto.Thank you for giving me the opportunity to begin my career in the NBA.感谢多伦多，感谢你让我开始NBA生涯。
1. You look great today。(你今天看上去很棒。)【每天都可以用！】
2. You did a good job. (你干得非常好。)【国际最通用的表扬！】
3. We’re so proud of you。(我们十分为你骄傲。)【最高级的表扬！】
4. I’m very pleased with your work。(我对你的工作非常满意。)【正式、真诚的赞扬！】
5. This is really a nice place。(这真是个好地方！)【随口就说、但效果很好的表扬！】
6. You’re looking sharp! (你看上去真精神/真棒/真漂亮。)【与众不同的表扬！】
7. You always know the right thing to say. = 8. You’re very eloquent。(你总是说话得体。)【高层次的表扬！】
9. Nice going! = you did a good job。(干得好！)【极其地道的表扬！】
10. The food is delicious。(好吃！)【最普通、但非常重要的表扬！】
11. Everything tastes great。(每样东西都很美味！)
12. Your son/daughter is so cute。(你的孩子很可爱。)【外国人绝对喜欢听的表扬！】
13. What an adorable baby! (多么可爱的孩子。)【只管大胆用！】
14. I admire your work. = 15。
15. I respect your work。(我对你的工
作表示敬意。)【世界通用！】
16. You’ve got a great personality。(你的个性很好。)【一个非常安全的表扬！】
17. You have a good sense of humor。(你真幽默。)【美国人极其喜欢的表扬！】
18. Your Chinese is really surprising。(你的中文令人惊讶。)【绝对和其他人不一样的表扬！】
19. Your English is incredible。(我真不敢相信你的英语。)【用了六星级形容词！】
20. You have a very successful business。(你的事业很成功。)【现代人非常喜欢听！】
21. You’re very professional。(你非常专业。)【专业化的表扬！】
22. Your company is very impressive。(你的公司给我留下深刻印象。)
23. You’re so smart。(你非常聪明。)
24. I envy you very much。(我非常羡慕你。)
25. Your wife is very charming。(你的妻子很有魅力！)
26. You two make a lovely couple。(你们真是天生的一对！)
27. You’re really talented。(你很有天赋。)
28. You look nice in that color。(你穿那种颜色很好看。)
29. You have a good taste。(你很有品位。)
30. You look like a million dollars. = you look outstanding. =you look like a movie star。(你看上去帅呆了。)
All the bright precious things fade so fast...and they don't come back.
所有的光鲜亮丽都敌不过时间，并且一去不复返。
Whenever you feel like criticizing any one, just remember that all the people in this world haven’t had the advantages that you’ve had.
每当你觉得想要批评什么人的时候，你切要记着，这个世界上的人并非都具备你禀有的条件。
There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy and the tired.
世界上只有被追求者和追求者，忙碌者和疲惫者。
Everyone suspects himself of at least one of the cardinal virtues, and this is mine: I am one of the few honest people I have ever known.
每个人都认为他自己至少具有一种主要的美德，我的美德是：我是我所结识过的少有的几个诚实人中间的一个。
A sense of fundamental decencies is parceled out unequally at birth.
人们的善恶感一生下来就有差异
台词6：
So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.
于是我们奋力向前划，逆流向上的小舟，不停地倒退，进入过去。
https://www.doczj.com/doc/83640682.html,pliment them.
夸赞他们
The easiest, quickest way to get someone to like you almost instantly is by complimenting them. I'm sure we have all experienced that even the smallest of compliments can make our day. Compliment them on what they are wearing ("What a beautiful dress you have, it really suits you") or something that they've done ("Hey that's a really clever way to tie your shoelaces, I'll have to try that next time"). This works because naturally, it is hard to dislike someone who is saying nice things about you.
让别人喜欢你最简单最快捷的方法莫过于夸
赞她们。我相信每个人都体验过一个小夸奖能让我们开心一整天的时刻。夸赞他们的衣着(你今天穿的裙子好好看啊，真的很适合你)，或是他们做了些什么(这么系鞋带真的很好诶，我下次也要试试)。这个会非常自然，伸手不打笑脸人呀。
2. Smile.
微笑
Smiling makes you look friendly, approachable and cheerful. These are qualities that people generally like to associate themselves with.
微笑会让你看起来非常友好，容易接近，更快乐。这些特质都让别人乐于和你接触。
3. Eye contact and body language.
眼神交流和肢体语言
This is important to show that you are polite and respectful. Make sure you make eye contact with the person you are speaking to and keep your body language open. For example, don't keep looking at the ground or staring into space, or talk with your arms crossed. This will make you look rude and unapproachable.
眼神交流和肢体语言。要显示出你的礼貌和尊敬，这一点至关重要。确保和别人说话时有眼神交流，别忘了加一点肢体语言进去。比如，不要总是东看西看或者盯着空白处，或是交叉双臂与人交流。这只会让你看起来十分粗鲁和不易接近。
4. Ask questions.
问问题
When engaged in a conversation with someone, be sure to ask them questions about themselves. People generally like to talk about themselves, so it is fairly easy to get people to like you by being a good listener and taking interest in what they are saying. On the other hand, make sure you bring up some interesting things about yourself as well, to keep the conversation open and reciprocal.
和别人交谈时，别忘了问一些关于他们自身的问题。人们都乐于去谈论自己，所以要想别人喜欢你，不如当一个好的倾听者，对他们谈论的话题感兴趣。另外，确保你能从自身引发出一些有意思的东西，使得这个话题可以一直继续下去。
5. Know their name.
知道他们的名字
If you are meeting someone for the first time, it is assumed that within the first 90 seconds you will get their name. Remember it, and use it. At the end of the meeting, say your goodbyes but make sure to use their name, as it makes it more personal ("It was lovely to meet you Grace, hope to see you again soon").
知道他们的名字。如果你第一次和别人见面，最好能在最初的90秒之内记住他们的名字。记住，叫出来。见面结束之后，喊出他们的名字说再见，这会更亲密哦(“Grace, 认识你真开心，希望下次能快速见面”)。
6. When in conversation, try to talk only about good or positive things.
谈话过程中，尽力只去说好的积极的事情
These are a lot more pleasant to hear than negative things. Talk about what you like or enjoy doing, your hobbies and special interests. Try not to badmouth anything or talk abo
ut your dislikes, because if you only have 90 seconds and are going on first impressions, you don't want the other person to think you have a pessimistic view of life.
谈话过程中，尽力只去说好的积极的事情。这比听那些消极的事情要舒服多了。说说你喜欢什么，喜欢干什么，你的乐趣和特殊的兴趣。不要总是大嘴巴的去谈论你不喜欢什么，要知道你只有90秒的时间来留下第一印象，你也不希望别人对你的评价是悲观厌世吧。
7. Dress appropriately.
合适的穿着
People judge on first impressions (and this includes your clothes) so make sure you dress appropriately for where you are. Nobody likes
to see someone in home clothes at a fancy restaurant or someone with make up caked on their face at the gym.
第一印象对人们而言至关重要(包括你的衣服)，所以确保你的衣服合适当时所在的场合。没有人喜欢在高级餐厅看到别人穿着睡衣或者是在健身房看到别人画着妆出现。
1. Books
1. 阅读
There are a million books out there about how to “boost” your career. But here are recent ones I've read that bring a unique perspective to the field. Their goal is to treat your career as if you are a freelancer offering your services. It’s your job to make sure your services are in demand. The rarer and more valuable those services are, the better off you’ll be.
有百万本图书是关于如何“促进”你的职业生涯的。但最近有几本书，我读过后对这一领域有了独特的视角。它们的目的是把你的职业看成是一个提供服务的自由职业者。你的工作是确保服务被需要。你的服务越稀有越有价值，你赚的就会越多。
2. The News
2. 看新闻
Make the news a part of your routine. It’s important that you stay “in the know” about what’s happening in the job market, what industries are getting coverage, and what’s “hot” (and more importantly...what's not).
让看新闻成为你的日常生活的一部分。重要的是：你要始终知道就业市场上发生了什么，哪些行业被报导了，什么是“热点”（更重要的是……哪些不热门了）。
3. Online
3. 网络交流
LinkedIn is a great way to keep in touch with people in your industry and keep track of what they’re doing and worrying about. If someone you admire tweets about a problem, you have a cool opportunity to help them out. It’s also a great way to study up on a potential new boss/employer.
一个很好的途径是用LinkedIn和行业里的人保持联系，并“追踪”他们在做的事和担心的事，如果你欣赏的人因为遇到困难发了微博，你就有一个很好的机会协助他们解决难题。这也是一个了解潜在老板/雇主的好方法。
4. At Work
4. 工作上交流
The people you work with today are the people your next job will be calling for references. You don't have to be a
fake, just remember that the goal is to get things done and for the entire group to be successful. Be friendly. Be a team player. You can’t do it all by yourself — and you will have a heck of a time getting anything done if your colleagues don’t like your attitude.
今天你共事的人是你下一份工作的引荐人。你不必弄虚作假，只要记得你的宗旨是把事情做好，整个团队是成功的就可以了。要友好些。成为团队的一员。你不能自己完成所有事——如果同事不喜欢你的态度，你就得花很多时间去做所有的事。
5. Find a Mentor
5. 找一位导师
Mentors are essential in developing your career. We all think we can do it on our own, but that’s just youthful bravado talking. Find someone you respect and trust that has experience and try to learn as much as you can from them. It might be your boss or it might be a former boss...you never know.
导师在你职业发展中必不可少。我们都认为靠自己就能做好工作，但那只是年少轻狂的妄想。找那些你尊重信任、且经验丰富的人，从他们身上尽可能多学一些。这些人可能是你的老板，也可能是前任老板......你也猜不到是谁。
6. Help a Coworker
6.帮助一位同事
Keep an eye out for someone that has too much on their plate or is obviously frustrated. Then try to help them out. Take on some of their work. Push a deadline back for them. Take them out to coffee to give them a break. Anything. Just let them know you’re there to help. Help your team today, and they will be there to help you down the line.
找出那些有太多事要做或能明显看出受挫的人。然后尽力帮助他们。承担一些他们的工作。把最后期限延迟一些。带他们出去喝咖啡休息。任何事都可以。只要让他们知道你愿意伸出援助之手。今天帮助你的“人脉团队”，明天他们会竭尽所能帮助你。
7. Run a Salary Audit
7. “核实”下你的工资
The goal is to figure out if you’re being paid fairly. Use salary-comparison sites to get a range of where you should be. Be warned — you might find you’re paid fairly (and might be overpaid!) even if you feel you deserve more!
你的目标是弄清楚是否获得了与付出对等的工资。浏览比较薪酬的网站获得你的工资范围。要注意，你可能发现已经得到了对等的工资（也许还多拿了！），你也许也会想要获得更高的薪水。
8. Control Your Spending
8. 控制消费
Making more is the best way to boost your finances, but you also have to control how much you spend. It isn’t as hard as you think. Spend less than you make, and get rid of your debt as quickly as you possibly can.
提高经济水平的最好方法是赚更多钱，但你也必须控制消费。这并没有你想得那么难。花得钱比挣得钱少些，并尽快摆脱债务。
9. Work Smarter
9. 更聪明地工作
Before you
try to find another job, make sure you’re killing it at your current job. Make life easier for yourself and for others by finding efficiencies, working smarter, and getting things done. Easier said than done, I know, but when you’re out there interviewing, you want to have concrete examples of how you created value in the past.
在你试图找另一份工作前，请确保你把目前的工作做得无懈可击。为了让自己和他人活得更轻松，要提高效率、更聪明地工作，并把事情做好。我知道说起来容易做起来难，但是当你在新公司面试时，你也希望有具体的事例表明你在过去是如何创造价值的。
10. Be Flexible
10. 灵活
Most people think they are in control of their careers. You pick a field/industry/job, and then you plow ahead, doing your best to go as far as possible. That’s not realistic. Things that interest you will lure you into different areas. Stuff you had no idea will come into play. You’ll get laid off. You’ll get promoted. You’ll switch jobs. Be open to these changes, and don’t shut any doors because they don’t mesh with your “five year plan.” The best course of action is to be ready for anything because the unexpected moves sometimes wind up being the best moves you ever make.
大多数人认为职业生涯在自己的掌控中。你选择了一个领域/行业/职业，然后积极进取，尽全力在职业路上走得更远。但这种想法是不现实的。让你感兴趣的东西会把你引领到不同的领域。你不知道的事情会发生、会被解雇、会得到晋升、会跳槽，放开怀抱接受这些改变吧，不要因为它们不符合你的“五年计划”就拒之门外。最好的办法是乐于接受一切，因为有时意外的举动往往被证明是最好的一步。
11. Have a Sit Down
11.坐下来好好沟通
Communication is crucial, especially with the person you report to. Whether you get along with your boss or not (in a perfect world you at least respect and trust him or her), you need to have a clear understanding of what’s expected of you and how you can exceed those expectations. Not sure how to “hit a homerun” for your boss? Ask, and then execute.
沟通是至关重要的，尤其是与你要汇报的对象沟通。无论你和老板相处得好不好（在理想世界里你起码是尊重和信任他/她的），你需要了解老板对你的期望以及如何才能超出这个预期。不知道如何完美完成老板交付的任务？直接问，然后执行吧。
12. Pretend You’re the Boss
12. 假如你是老板
I don’t mean put your feet on your desk and start bossing people around. I mean really take the time to imagine yourself in your boss’s shoes. Think about her day-to-day, the people she manages, the boss she has to answer to. All of that...think about it real hard. Sometimes a little empathy goes a long way.
我不是说你把脚放在办公桌上，开始对
周围的人呼来唤去。我真正的意思是花时间想象自己身处老板的立场。想想她每天做的事，她管理的下属，她要应付的老板。所有这一切都好好思考下。有时候一点点换位思考会让你明白很多。
13. Help Your Boss
13. 帮助你的老板
We’re all very busy, but pay close attention to your boss for a week. I mean, really pay attention. What’s bothering him? What’s keeping him up at night? What worries him? Now spend some of your time trying to make his life easier.
我们都很忙，但花一个星期密切关注你的老板。我的意思是，真正重视。什么事困扰着他？什么事让他熬夜？他在担心什么？现在花些时间，试着让老板的生活更轻松。
1. How are you still single? You’re so great.
你怎么还单身着！你人这么好。
2. It’ll happen when you least expect it.
爱情将会发生在你最不经意的时候。
3. Don’t you ever get lonely?
你从没有感到过孤单吗？
4. Aren’t you worried you won’t be able to have kids?
你没担心过你可能不会有孩子吗？
5. Are you seeing anyone?
你现在有交往的对象吗？
6. You should try online dating. My friend met their husband/wife that way.
你该试试网恋。我有一个朋友就是那么遇到自己的丈夫/妻子的。
7. They don’t deserve you.
他们配不上你。
8. You are such a catch.
你条件这么好!
9. Don’t worry, you’ll find someone someday.
不要担心，你总有一天会找到对的那个人的
Sometimes I do I want to do. The rest of the time I do what I have to. 有时候，我做我想做的事，其它时候，我做我该做的事。《角斗士》
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