自考0795综合英语(二)基础班课程讲义全下册Lessom7

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Lesson Seven: Some Meanings of Authentic Love打印本页I. Outline of the TextPart 1: (Paras. 1-8)There are seven elements of love.☆ I know the person I love.☆ I care about the happiness of the person I love.☆ I have respect for the dignity of the person I love.☆ I have a responsibility toward the person I love.☆ I will g row for both myself and the person I love.☆ I make a commitment to the person I love.☆ I trust the person I love.Part 2: (Paras. 9-16)Nature of love:☆ Love tolerates imperfection.☆ Love is freely given.☆ In love one encourages the othe r person to develop fully.☆ Love does not involve dependence.☆ In love the people involved identify with one another.☆ Love requires one to love, value, appreciate, and respect oneself first.☆ In love one sees the potential in the other person.Part 3: (Paras. 17-18)Love is union under the condition of preserving one's individuality.Ⅱ. TextSo far, we've discussed mostly what we think love is not. Now we'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us.译:以上我们主要讨论了我们认为与爱背道而驰的那些事。

现在我们想说说对我们来说爱的一些积极意义。

☆ So far: 到目前为止inauthentic 不是真正的Love means that I know the person I love. 译:爱就意味着我了解我爱的那个人mean doing sth:意味着e.g. Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love.man to do sth: 打算e.g. Do you mean to leave without saying good-bye to all your friends?be meant to do:应该…e.g. Love is meant to bring meaning into life where nonsense appears to reign.be meant for sb./sth: 打算用作e.g. Love is meant for our imperfect world where things go wrong.I'm aware of the many sides of the other person-not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and flaws. I have an awareness of the other's feeling and thoughts, and I experience something of the core of that person. I can penetrate social mask and poles and see the other person on a deeper level.have an awareness of=be aware of☆ be aware of sth./doing sth.: to be conscious of 意识到…I can see what he is deep down beneath, how he appears in public and functions he performs in society.Core: essence ,本质☆ I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.I can see what he is deep down beneath how he appears in public and the functions he performs in society.译:我们要清醒地看到别人的两个方面,并且能够了解别人的思想和感受。

我体验到那个个人身上某种本质的东西。

我能透过对社交场合的表现和在社会上所担当的角色,看到他更内在的东西。

Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. To the extent that it is genuine, my caring is not a smothering of the person or a possessive clinging. On the contrary, my caring liberates both of us.译:爱意味着我关心我所爱的人的幸福。

只要我的关心是真诚的,我的关心对我所爱的人就不会是一种压制,也不会是一种占有性的依附。

我所说的爱就是使双方都感到自由。

welfare=happinesssmothering 令人窒息clinging 附属,依附on the contrary 与此相反If I care about you, I'm concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that you can become.译:我所关心的是你的成长,我希望你能够成为你自己所希望的那样。

☆ care about : to be concerned about 关心,在乎e.g. Don't you care about what happens to your next-door neighbours ?care for: to like 喜欢e.g. I don't really care for tea; I like coffee better.take care of : to look after 照顾e.g. Who will take care of the dog when we're away?take care to do :小心做e.g. Take care not to drop the glass.care of: (邮件)由…转交(也写做c/o,一般用于信封上)e.g. John Smith, care of Mary Jones,14 High Street.Consequently, I don't put up roadblocks to what you do that enhances you as a person, even though it may result in my discomfort at times.put up :establishEnhance: improve 提高result in : lead to 导致译:因此,对你为完善自己人格所做的一切,我决不设置障碍,即使你做的事情有时会让我不舒服。

Love means having respect of the dignity of the person I love.If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feeling, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity and conform to an image of what I expect you to be for me.see sb. as: regard sb. asseparate person 独立的人☆ conform to/with sth.遵从,与某事一致e.g. You should conform to the usage of society.I don't expect you give up the characteristics that makes you different from others.译:爱就意味着要使你爱的人感觉到有尊严。

如果我爱你,我就会把你看成是一个独立的人,有你自己的价值观,有你自己的思想和感情,我不会要你放弃你的特性,而为了我,把自己塑造成我期望你成为的那种人。

I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you are, and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to gratify my own needs.☆ Avoid doing sth.: 避免做…stand alone: independentgratify : meet, 会面,满足译:我就能够允许并鼓励你独立自主,保持你的特性,这样我就不会把你当作一件东西来对待,不会让你只要来满足我自己的需要。

Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love .If I love you, I'm responsive to most of your major needs as a person.respond to 反映be responsive to 对… 反映译:爱意味着要有责任,如果我爱你,我就不会对你作为人的大多数的主要需求有反映。