青岛长城外语培训学校—内部培训资料(美文阅读5：论爱情)

斯滕伯格爱情三元理论
前言
斯滕伯格在对先前文献进行整理的基础上，提出了爱情三元理论。

斯滕伯格认为人类爱情包括三种成分，即亲密成分、激情成分、决定或承诺成分，并将这三种成分形象地比喻为爱情三角形的顶点。

一、亲密
亲密成分指在爱情中能促进亲近、归属、结合等体验的情感，换句话说，它能引起温暖体验。

二、激情
激情成分或称情欲成分，指内驱力，这些内驱力能引起浪漫恋爱、体态吸引、性完美，以及爱情关系中的其他有关现象。

或者说，该成分就是在爱情关系中能引起激情体验的各种动机性唤醒以及其他形式的唤醒源。

三、承诺
决定或承诺成分有两层含义：
（1）在短期方面，指一个人做出了爱另一个人的决定；
（2）在长期方面，指那些能维持爱情关系的关注、义务感或责任心。

该理论也得到后续研究的支持。

成都德语培训班：爱情文章：Die Parkbank"Ja,es ist lange her."Sie lächelte.Die Sonne hatte den Himmel schon fast vollständig erklommen und gab ihren grünen Augen einen ganz eigenen Glanz.Noch vor einer halben Stunde war jeder seinen eigenen Plänen gefolgt, jeder hatte sein eigenes Ziel gehabt und auf seinen Anschlusszug gewartet. Sie in Richtung Hamburg,er in Richtung Konstanz.Wie hoch war wohl die Chance gewesen,dass sie sich nach fünfzehn Jahren ausgerechnet am Frankfurter Hauptbahnhof trafen,obwohl jeder von Ihnen sein eigenes Leben,seinen eigenen Ausgangspunkt und sein eigenes Ziel gehabt hatte? Er hatte sich in Gedanken gerade auf die bevorstehende Konferenz eingestimmt,als er einenüberraschten Ausruf hinter sich gehört hatte. Noch ehe er ganz aus seinenÜberlegungen aufgetaucht war,hatten sich auch schon zwei Arme um seinen Hals geschlungen.Er hatte sie sofort erkannt. Von dem plötzlichen Wiedersehen in eine besondere Art von Euphorie versetzt,hatten sie kurzerhand ihre Pläne geändert und saßen nun in einem dieser kleinen,friedlichen Cafés,wie es sie allen verwinkelten Gassen einer Fußgängerzone gibt."Aber du hast recht.Im Juni hatten wir unsere Abschlussfahrt und zwei oder drei Wochen später bekamen wir die Abschlusszeugnisse.Abi´90." Er nahm einen Schluck von seinem Kaffee,grinsend."Und wie immer warst du besser als ich."Ein leichtes Lachen drang aus ihrer Kehle.Heiter,unbesorgt,mit dem Leben zufrieden."Ach was,in Mathe habe ich total versagt!Das war für mich immer ein Buch mit sieben Siegeln."Sie blickten sich an.Forschten im Blick des Andern.Die Luft war erfüllt von friedlicher Geschäftsmäßigkeit und der Geruch von Staub und Trockenheit wurde von einem Hauch von Jasmin begleitet. Ein wenig betreten sah sie zu Boden.So lange her,so viel Zeit vergangen. "Und,was machst du so?Wolltest du nicht Kunst studieren?"Sie nickte und ein Anflug von Unsicherheitüberschattete für einen Moment ihren Blick."Ja,wollte ich."Fragend sah er sie an.Sie lächelte verlegen,dann war die unbeschwerte Heiterkeit auf ihr Gesicht zurückgekehrt."Ich habe mich um entschieden.Habe schließlich Sozialpädagogik studiert. Um ehrlich zu sein:Ich wusste nicht so recht,was ich studieren sollte." Wieder das Lächeln,wieder die mitschwingende Unsicherheit."Ist ja toll,und was machst du jetzt genau?""Ich arbeite bei einer Einrichtung für soziale Brennpunkte.Wir arbeiten mit Jugendlichen zusammen,die sozusagen vom Leben benachteiligt wurden." "Das scheint ja mal wirklich ein interessanter Job zu sein."Sein Blick forschte in ihren Augen."Ja,kann man schon sagen."Sie konzentrierte sich auf ihren Kaffee.Schließlich blickte sie ihn fragend an."Und du?Was ist mit dir?Den Pulitzerpreis schon einkassiert?"Um ihre Mundwinkel bildeten sich zwei kleine,neckische Fältchen und für einen Augenblick fühlte er sich wie damals,vor fünfzehn Jahren."Ich arbeite als Redakteur bei einem Trendmagazin.Nichts Herausragendes, aber es macht Spaß.""Wirklich?Bei welchem denn?"Er sagte es ihr,während er sich einmal mehr dabei ertappte,wie er sie intensiv musterte.Die rötlichen Haare noch immer locker zusammengebunden, noch immer die widerspenstigen Strähnen,di ihr mit unendlicher Ausdauer stets von neuem ins Gesicht fielen."Na ja,ich bin mir sicher,das mit dem Pulitzerpreis klappt auch noch. Schon während der Schulzeit habe ich deine Gabe fürs Schreiben immer bewundert."Ein wenig verlegen sah sie ihn an.Er hatte sich verändert,aber nicht so sehr,dass sie ihn nicht auf den ersten Blick schon erkannt hätte. Klar,seine Gesichtszüge waren markanter geworden,der Bartschatten dunkler und er trug sein Haar nicht mehr ganz so provokant wie damals. Doch das war es nicht gewesen,woran sie ihn vorhin wieder erkannt hatte. Für einen Moment herrschte seltsam betretenes Schweigen und jeder konzentrierte sich auf seine Tasse.Dann trafen sich ihre Blicke und für einen Augenblick drohte sie in seinen dunklen,geheimnisvollen Augen zu versinken,die sie niemals vergessen würde."Und sonst,was machst du so?"Ihre Gedanken waren an einem anderen Ort.Genau wie seine.Die Luft heizte sich langsam unter der Glut der Sonne auf.Es würde Regen geben.Am Spätnachmittag wahrscheinlich.Und dann einen jener lauen, friedlichen Abende,die eine ganz eigene Magie haben,eine eigene Realität, eigene Versprechen und Gelöbnisse,die nur in jener abgehobenen, romantischen Welt existieren können,so wie damals,vor fünfzehn Jahren. "Hm,was soll ich darauf antworten?Ich koch immer noch gerne,ich hasse Fußball noch immer-so viel hat sich nicht geändert bei mir."Mit einem Grinsen legte er die linke auf die rechte Hand und verdeckte so wie zufällig den kleinen,goldenen Ring,den er seit elf Jahren ständig trug.Er wusste,dass sie ihn gesehen hatte.Doch sie sagte nichts,lächelte nur auf diese Art und Weise,die ihm nachts den Schlaf geraubt hatte.Damals,vor fünfzehn Jahren.Er hätte ihr von Damaris erzählen können.Von ihren gemeinsamen elf Jahren, doch irgendetwas in ihm sträubte sich dagegen."Immer noch der alte Erich…"sagte sie,nur um die Stille zu unterbrechen. Ganz nah waren sie sich gewesen,als erüber sie gestolpert war.Sie hatte den Duft seines Aftershaves gerochen.Er benutzte noch immer dasselbe wie früher.Irgendwie hatte sie ihn gespürt,bevor sie ihn gesehen hatte. Wie ein warmer Hauch aus einer unbeschwerten Vergangenheit hatte sie ihn gefühlt.Vielleicht sah er sogar noch besser aus,noch interessanter als damals. Die Schultern waren breiter geworden,sein Gesicht hatte einige Falten bekommen.Beinah zögerlich zwang sie sich,nicht an jene Zeit zu denken. An das intensive Rot des Sonnenuntergangs und die von der Sonne aufgeheizten Holzlatten der Parkbank."Und du?Was ist mit dir?"Sein Lächeln konnte seine Befangenheit nicht ganzüberdecken,auch wenn sie es irgendwie süßfand.Krampfhaft versuchte er,gelassen zu wirken,während ein leichter Luftstoßden unaufdringlichen Duft ihres Parfüms in seine Nase trieb. "Ich meine…bist du verheiratet oder hast du vielleicht sogar schon Kinder?"Sie schüttelte den Kopf und starrte wieder auf ihre Hände.Er hätte sich am Liebsten die Zunge abgebissen.Er wusste,dass er einen wunden Punkt getroffen hatte.Er hatte das immer gewusst."Nein…ich habe wohl den Richtigen noch nicht gefunden."Sie konnte sie riechen,als sie aufblickte und ihm direkt in die Augen sah,die laue Luft jener Abende,an denen sie mit ihm zusammen gewesen war.Die Prüfungen waren vorbei gewesen,der Druck verflogen.Sie meinte,den sachten Wind in ihrem Haar zu spüren,wie er die aufgestaute Hitze in der Toskana jeden Abend auflockert,wie er sie auch damals aufgelockert hatte. In Gedanken sah sie sich selbst,an ihn gekuschelt auf der roten Parkbank, deren Farbe schon langsam abblätterte.Es war nicht so,dass sie das Traumpaar der Klasse gewesen wären,das es in jedem Abschlussjahrgang gibt und das doch eigentlich nur von der Aufmerksamkeit der anderen lebt.Nein,es war etwas anderes gewesen. Zumindest in dem Augenblick.Unsicher stocherte sie mit dem Löffel in ihrem Kaffee herum.Damals war alles so einfach gewesen.So klar.Die Träume hatten im Vordergrund gestanden und die Freudeüber den erfolgreichen Abschluss eines Lebensabschnitts hatte allesüberdeckt.Natürlich war es eine Traumwelt gewesen,eine Realität,die nur temporär existenzberechtigt ist.Und dennoch konnte sie sich nicht dagegen wehren,dass die Erinnerungenin ihr aufstiegen.Ein Schleier von Wehmut legte sichüber ihren Blick,mit dem sie ihn ansah, während sie erneut seine warmen,gefühlvollen Lippen auf ihrem Mund spürte. Sein Versprechen klang ihr noch immer in den Ohren.Versprechen,die die Verliebtheit diktiert und dieser Welt aus purer Romantik entspringen.Sie hatte sich nie so wohl gefühlt wie damals.Vor fünfzehn Jahren. Abrupt sah sie auf die Uhr.Mit einem entschuldigenden Lächeln sah sie ihn an."Mein nächster Zug…"Er nickte.Gedankenverloren."Klar."Sie standen auf.Er bezahlte.Auf dem Rückweg zum Bahnhof sprachen sie kein Wort.Jeder hing seinen eigenen Gedanken und Träumen nach.Sie ließes zu,dass er einen Arm um sie legte,so wie damals auf der Parkbank.Sie verabschiedeten sich,während der Zug einfuhr.So wie alte Bekannte sich verabschieden.Dann setzte sich der Zug in Bewegung und das kleine Stückchen romantische Illusion der letzten zwei Stunden hörte auf zu existieren.PS：此文章由成都德语培训班_法亚小语种张老师收集整理。

疯狂英语集训营内部教材第一课一、经典实用句：1. When she loses her temper, there’s nothing you can do about it.当她发脾气时，你简直拿她没办法。

2. Don’t worry about her, she was rather ill this morning, but now she’s full of beans.别为她担心，她今天早上病得蛮厉害，但现在已经活蹦乱跳了。

3. It won’t be a surprise; my child has spilled the beans to him.他不会吃惊了，我的孩子已经泄露了秘密。

4. That guy is a pushover for flattery.那家伙很喜欢受人奉承。

5. Take it easy. Worry won’t help. You’ll go nuts if you keep worrying this way.放轻松一点，担心是没有用的。

你再这样下去我会发疯的。

6. It’s a long story, but put it in a nutshell, he got killed by another bad guy.说来话长，不过长话短说，他被另一个坏蛋干掉了。

7. I never thought we’d have to care so much about personal relations when I was at sch ool.在学校时，我从来没想过还得处理这么多的人际关系。

8. Don’t get me wrong. No one is perfect. I know I could be barking up the wrong tree s ometimes.不要误解我，没有人十全十美。

我有时也会搞错的。

9. I’ve been learning English since I was ten, but I can never say I’m at the top of t he tree.我从十岁就开始学英文，可我永远都不能说我已经到了炉火纯青的地步。

爱情三元理论：美国心理学家斯腾伯格提出过一个著名的爱情理论（爱情三元理论），他认为爱情由三个基本成分组成：激情（Passion）、亲密（Intimacy）和承诺（Commitment）。

1、激情通常是与“性”有关的部分，这个性比较广义，一方面包括在见到对方时候的怦然心动、性冲动，另一方面也包括在相处时候的兴奋体验。

（直观一些也就是性和谐、强烈的积极情感体验）
2、亲密通常是与“温暖”有关的部分，也就是两个人在一起感觉很亲近、温馨。

包括亲切的沟通、尊重对方、感情支持等。

（直观一些也就是共同奋斗的目标、彼此支撑、包容尊重）
3、承诺通常是与“责任”有关的部分，也就是两个人彼此愿意为维护爱情而承担一些责任。

包括两个部分：愿意投身于一段爱情、愿意维持一段爱情。

（直观一些也就是海誓山盟、家人支持）。

爱情第一部分。

通常人们认为选择合适的对象是重要的，其实更重要的是如何经营你选择的爱情。

就像我们找到理想的工作一样，如果我们每天翘着二郎腿，是不可能成功的。

同样的，如果我们在一段恋情中抱有寻找心态（以为只要找到爱情就能幸福的生活下去），我们的恋情也不会成功。

第二部分。

我们要被了解，而不是被认可。

表达自己，而不是被粉饰自己，坦开心扉，坦诚自己的弱电、优点、渴望、热情、恐惧与不安。

这样的爱情，恋爱中的双方如果这样做了，会渐渐变得更加亲密、更加快乐，激情不衰。

第三部分。

冲突时不可避免的。

我们往往认为，理想的爱情没有冲突，但这是不可能的，除非双方都在刻意躲避严重问题。

当然在一段恋情中，我们的挑战就是要让积极大于消极，而且要学会如何应对分歧，应对冲突。

第四部分。

积极认知。

不但要做优点感知者，还要创造优点。

在真正的朋友身上，我寻找的不是盲目的让步、对我千依百顺的人，我寻找的是一个美丽的敌人，能挑战我，敦促我，帮助我寻求真相。

美丽的敌人是指爱我们、关心我们，所以要和我们针锋相对的人。

我们常常追寻真相，当真相叩响我们的大门时，我们却说，“走开，我寻求的是真相”。

提出积极正向的问题。

我们需要问的问题，应该是积极的：我的伴侣有哪些优点？经常这么问很重要，尤其是遇到矛盾时。

因为总有些东西值得我们欣赏，如果我们不懂得欣赏，那些优点就会贬值。

第二个问题：我们的关系有什么美妙之处？我们是怎样走在一起的？我爱他的哪一点？当我们欣赏这些好的方面时，它就升值了。

多沟通正面的东西。

不要把分歧上升到认知层面，不要把分歧恶化为感情上的分裂。

要针对实在的行为，而不是针对人和感情。

一对情侣如何沟通积极事件，比起如何沟通消极实践，更能预测到这段感情能否天成地久。

事情顺利时，比事情不顺时，更能预测婚恋关系能否长久而甜蜜。

所以我回家后会告诉我太太：“今天我做了这件事，太棒了！”或者“我看了这部电影，太激动人心了。

”我的太太如何回应，能预测到这段感情能否长久。

双语美文欣赏：《真爱教会我们的17堂课》下面是店铺推荐的双语美文：《真爱教会我们的17堂课》，欢迎大家阅读!Love. It makes the world go ‘round, right? Well, at least that’s the how the saying goes. But is it true? It should be, but so many people confuse love with things like jealousy or possessiveness. True love isn’t either of those things. But these 17 things are. So here are the lessons that real love teaches us:有句话叫做“爱让世界转动”，果真如此么?应该是吧。

可是，很多人却把嫉妒或占有误以为是爱。

真爱既不是嫉妒也不是占有。

但下面这17个蕴意却能阐释爱。

请看真爱能教会我们什么吧：1. Love doesn’t play the victim role or blame others爱没有“玻璃心”，也不会苛责对方Love works together. It takes responsibility. It forgives and allows other people’s actions to be their journey. Love doesn’t take things personally.爱是同心协力，是同舟共济，是宽容对方并放手让对方启程。

爱不会狭隘地斤斤计较。

2. Love is focusing on quality, not quantity爱注重质量而非数量Love focuses on the quality of your relationship, not its longevity. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, “It’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?” Just beca use your relationship lasts a long time doesn’t mean that you have true love. Real love can be very brief. Therefore, quality and quantity of love are not the same things.爱重在彼此关系的质量，而非相处了多长时间。

Unit4The following text is extracted from Marriages and Families by Nijole V Benokraitis. The book has been used as a text book for sociology courses and women studies in a number of universities in the United States. It highlights important contemporary changes in society and the family and explores the choices that are available to family members, as well as the constraints that many of us do not recognize. It examines the diversity of American families today, using cross-cultural and multicultural comparisons to encourage creative thinking about the many critical issues that confront the family of the twenty fist century.Love and Loving RelationshipsNijole V. Benokraitis 1.Love-as both an emotion and a behavior-is essential for human survival- Thefamily is usually our earliest and most important source of love and emotional support. Babies and children deprived of love have been known to develop a wide variety of problems- for example, depression, headaches, physiological impairments, and neurotic and psychosomatic difficulties- that sometimes last a lifetime. In contrast, infants who are loved and cuddled typically gain more weight, cry less, and smile more. By five years of age, they have been found to have significantly higher IQs and to score higher on language tests.2.Much research shows that the quality of care infants receive affects how theylater get along with friends, how well they do in school, how they react to new and possibly stressful situations, and how they form and maintain loving relationships as adults. It is for these reasons that people's early intimate relationships within their family of origin are so critical. Children who are raised in impersonal environments (orphanage, some foster homes, or unloving families) show emotional and social underdevelopment, language and motor skills retardation, and mental health problems.3.Love for oneself, or self-love, is also essential for our social and emotionaldevelopment. Actress Mae West once said, "I never loved another person the wayI loved myself." Although such a statement may seem self-centered, it's actuallyquite insightful Social scientists describe self-love as an important oasis for self- esteem. Among other things, people who like themselves are more open to criticism and less demanding of others. Fromm (1956) saw self-love as a necessary prerequisite for loving others. People who don't like themselves may not be able to return love but may constancy seek love relationships to bolster their own poor self-images. But just what is love? What brings people together?4.Love is an elusive concept. We have all experienced love and feel we know whatit is; however, when asked what love is, people give a variety of answers.According to a nine- year-old boy, for example, "Love is like an avalanche where you have to run for your life." What we mean by love depends on whether we are talking about love for family members, friends, or lovers. Love has been a source of inspiration, wry witticisms, and even political action for many centuries.5.Love has many dimensions. It can be romantic, exciting, obsessive, andirrational- It can also be platonic, calming, altruistic, and sensible. Many researchers feel that love defies a single definition because it varies in degree and intensity and across social contexts. At the very least, three elements are necessary for a loving relationship: (1) a willingness to please and accommodate the other person, even if this involves compromise and sacrifice; (2) an acceptance of the other person's faults and shortcomings; and (3) as much concern about the loved one's welfare as one's own. And, people who say they are "in love" emphasize caring, intimacy, and commitment.6.In any type of love, caring about the other person is essential. Although love may,involve passionate yearning, respect is a more important quality. Respect is inherent in all love: "I want the loved person to grow and unfold for his own sake, and in his own ways, and not for the purpose of serving me." If respect and caring are missing, the relationship is not based on love. Instead, it is an unhealthy or possessive dependency that limits the lovers' social, emotional, and intellectual growth.7.Love, especially long-term love, has nothing in common with the images of loveor .frenzied sex that we get from Hollywood, television, and romance novels.Because of these images, many people believe a variety of myths about love.These misconceptions often lead to unrealistic expectations, stereotypes, and disillusionment. In fact, "real" love is closer to what one author called "stirring-the-oatmeal love" (Johnson 1985). This type of love is neither exciting nor thrilling but is relatively mundane and unromantic. It means paying bills, putting out the garbage, scrubbing toilet bowls, being up all night with a sick baby, and performing myriad other ' oatmeal" tasks that are not very sexy.8.Some partners take turns stirring the oatmeal. Other people seek relationships thatoffer candlelit gourmet meals in a romantic setting. Whether we decide to enter a serious relationship or not, what type of love brings people together?9.What attracts individuals to each other in the first place? Many people believethat "there's one person out there that one is meant for" and that destiny will bring them together. Such beliefs are romantic but unrealistic. Empirical studies show that cultural norms and values, not fate, bring people together We will never meet millions of potential lovers because they are "filtered out" by formal or informal rules on partner eligibility due ton factors such as age, race, distance, Social class, religion, sexual orientation, health, or physical appearance.10.Beginning in childhood, parents encourage or limit future romantic liaisons byselecting certain neighborhoods and schools. In early adolescence, pear norms influence the adolescent's decisions about acceptable romantic involvements ("You want to date who?!"). Even during the preteen years, romantic experiences are cultured in the sense that societal and group practices and expectations shape romantic experience. Although romance may cross cultural or ethnic borders, criticism and approval teach us what is acceptable romantic behavior and with whom. One might "lust" for someone, but these yearnings will not lead most of us to "fall in love" if there are strong cultural or group bans.11.Regan and Berscheid (1999) differentiate between lust, desire, and romantic love.They describe lust as primarily physical rather than emotional, a condition that maybe conscious or unconscious. Desire, in contrast, is a psychological in which one wants a relationship that one doesn't now have, or to engage in an activity in which one is not presently engaged. Desire may or may not lead to romantic love (which the authors equate with passionate or erotic low). Regan and Berscheid suggest that desire is an essential ingredient for initiating and maintaining romantic love. If desire disappears, a person is no longer said to be in a state of romantic love. Once desire diminishes, disappointed lovers may wonder where the "spark" in their relationship has gone and may reminisce regretfully (and longingly) about "the good old days".12.One should not conclude, however, that desire always culminates in physicalintimacy or that desire is the same as romantic love. Married partners may love each other even though they rarely, or never, engage in physical intimacy. In addition, there are some notable differences between love- especially long-term love- and romantic love. Healthy loving relationships, whether physical or not (such as love for family members), reflect a balance of caring, intimacy, and commitment.下面的文章选自奈杰尔贝诺克瑞提斯的婚姻与家庭。

/forum-346-1.htmlLesson1(语法为主)1.Let's face it-English is a crazy language. There is no eggin eggplant 【茄子】nor ham in hamburger; neither【两者都不】 apple nor pine【松树】 in pineapple. Englishmuffins【松饼】were n't invented【invent:发明】in England nor French fries in France.2.We take English for granted.5.Sometimes I think all the English speakers should be committed【commit：托付，犯错】 to an asylum【精神病院】 for theverbally【口头地，文字地】insane【疯狂的，精神失常的】 .1can a slim【苗条的，渺茫的】chance and a fat【肥胖的，大量的】chance be the same,while a wise man and wise guy【自作聪明的人】are opposites 【相反的，对立的】,and quite a lot and quite a few【相当多】 are alike 【同样的，相像的】?2have to marvel【惊奇】at the unique【独一无二的，唯一的】lunacy【愚蠢，荒谬】 of a language3is why,when the stars are out,they are visible【看得见的】,but when the lights are out,they are invisible【看不见】 . And why,when I wind up【上紧发条】 my watch,I start it,but when I wind up thisessay【文章】,I end it?Lesson2(语法为主)1Wisdom【智慧】was not at the top of the graduate【研究生的，毕业生】mountain, but there in the sandpile at nurseryschool【幼儿园】.2tilings【瓷砖】 back where you found them.3Goldfish and hamsters【仓鼠】and white mice【mouse:老鼠】/forum-346-1.htmland even the little seed in the plastic cup-they all die【死亡】. So do we.6.Thinkof【考虑，思考】what a better world it would be if we all-the whole world-had cookies and milk about 3 o'clock every afternoon Lesson3(重点课文，阅读，翻译)1office is the mutual【共同的，相互的】product【产物，产品】 of economic 【经济的】 ,scientific【科学的】 ,and social【社会的】 progress【发展，进步】. Mobile office has become asolution【解决方法】that provide s 【提供】 users with convenient【方便的】,prompt【及时的，迅速的】,safe,reliable【可靠的】,andreasonably【合理地，明智地】 priced【附有定价的】communications【通讯，通信】Using mobile officeand WAP【无线接入协议】technology【技术】 ,people can do their work anywhere anytime （2010年考题）,cansend and receive data【数据】 viaterminals【终端，末端】such as mobilephone,palm【手掌】computer,and PDA【个人数字助理】,and can surf【冲浪】 the Internet. Integrating【使结合】Internet and mobile communications【通讯，通信】network【网络】,and providing powerful【强大的】applications【应用】support capacity【能力】for wireless【无线的】interconnection【互相联络】,2you leave your office to attend【参加】 meetings or travel onbusiness 【因公】, When yourclients【客户】 need you to make someurgent【紧急的，急迫的】modifications【修改】 on your work and you are neither in the office nor carrying relevant【相关的】 documents【文件】,what can youdo? 4.Mobile office has provide d people with convenient,casual【随意的，随便的】 workingenvironment【环境】, we believe that with technical 【技术的】 progress,people can certainly overcome【克服，战胜】 all kinds of difficulties.Lesson4(语法为主)1.No matter where you'r e going or how long you're staying,keep/forum-346-1.htmlreading! These tips【建议，小费】 will help you make the mostof anyurban【城市的】adventure【冒险活动】.12.If" you're not afraid to get lost,you'll see more-andyou'll have a better time!Lesson5(语法为主)1.Many of us dream of having thousands and thousands of dollars to spend 【花费】 on anything wedesire【渴望】.1While【虽然】 having some money does have an impact【影响】on ourlevel 【水平，等级】 of happiness,2after US$50.000,happiness does not increase【增加】 assalaries【薪水】go up. 4.'The more you make,the more you want. The more you have,the less it brings youjoy【欢乐，乐趣】," 6."If you're look ing for happiness in life,find the right husband or wife rather than【而不】 trying to double 【加倍】 your salary."Lesson6(语法为主)1.An old song says that "love make s the world go around."补充：下列词在主动语态中不带 to,被动语态要加 to.吾看：look at, see, observe,notice,watch三室(使)：make ,let have两厅（听）：listen to,hear一感觉：feelThe whole country breaks out【爆发】 with little red hearts.3. When two couple【一对】go out together, it 's called doubledating.A friend might even arrange【安排】a blind【盲人的】 date for you with someone you don't know.4.After a while,【不久】a boy and a girl may decide they want to go steady 【稳定的】.5. Romantic love is very much a part of American culture【文化】.6.Actually【实际上】, love is a part of every culture, not just American culture. People all over the worldsearch【寻找】 for happiness in a loving 【爱的】relationship【关系】. Maybe love does make the world go around./forum-346-1.htmlLesson7(重点文章，翻译文章 1.2.3.段)1Although recent years have seen substantial【大量的】reductions【减少】 innoxious【有毒的】pollutants【污染物质】 from individual【个人的】 motor vehicles【机动车辆】, thenumber of such vehicles has been steadily【稳定地】 increasing【增加】. Consequently【因此】，There is a growing realization【认识】 that the only effective【有效的】 way to achieve【实现】further reductions in vehicleemissions【排放】 -short of【除..之外】a massive【大量的】shift【去掉】 away from theprivate【私人的】automobile【汽车】 -is to replace【取代，代替】conventional【传统的】 diesel【柴油】 fuel【燃料】 and gasoline【汽油】with cleaner-burning fuels suchas【例如】compressed【压缩的】natural gas【天然气】.liquefied 【液化的】 petroleum【石油】 gas, ethanol【乙醇】, ormethanol【甲醇】. 2of these alternatives【替换物】 are carbon-based fuels whose molecules 【分子】 are smaller and simpler than those of gasoline【汽油】. On the other hand, alternative fuels do havedrawbacks【缺点】. aserious【严重的】liability【不利】in terms of【就...而言】 performance【外观，表演】 and fuel efficiency3Ethanol【乙醇】is commonly【通常地】used as a gasolinesupplement 【补充】, but it iscurrently【当前】 about twice as expensive as methanol 【甲醇】,Lesson8(语法为主)1. They are the principles【原则，准则】on which my wife and I have tried to bring up our family. They are the principlesin which my father believed and by which he governed【统治，管理】 his life. They are the principles,many of them,which I learned at my mother'sknee【膝盖】.5.I believe in thesupreme【最高的】worth【价值】 of theindividual【个人】 and in his right to life,liberty【自由】,and thepursuit【追求，追赶】 of happiness.6. I believe that everyright implies【含有，暗示】aresponsibility【责任】;7. I believe that the law【法律】 was made for man and not man for the law;8.I believe in thedignity【高尚，尊贵】of labor【劳动】,9. I believe that thrift【节约】is essential【必不可少的】to Lesson9(语法为主)2. There are many similarities【相似】between public speaking and daily 【日常的】conversation【交谈】. You tailor【修改】 your message to your audience. You tell astory for maximum【最大的】 impact【影响】. You adapt to【适应于】 feedback【反馈】 from your listener.3.Of course,public speaking is also different from conversation. First,public speaking is more highly structured【结构】than conversation. itrequires【需要】more detailed【详细的】 preparation【准备】than does ordinary conversation. Effective speakers adjust【调整】 their voices to the larger audience/forum-346-1.htmland work atavoiding【避免】 distracting【分散】physical【身体的】mannerism 【特殊习惯】and verbal【口头的】habits【习惯】.4.Your speech class will give you anopportunity【机会】 togain confidence 【信心】 and make your nervousness work for you rather than【而不】 against you. if youthink positively【积极地】,choose speech topics you really careabout【关心】,preparethoroughly【彻底地】,andconcentrate on【将..集中于】 communicating with your audience.5.Whatever the speakercommunicates【传达】is the message, which is sent by means of aparticular【特殊的】 channel.Lesson10(语法为主)1.For any woman who has dreamed of"Knight【骑士】 in shiningarmor【铠甲】",the perfect man,or just a man who would give up the TV remote control,you have found him here.3.He is mainly occupied in merely removing【搬开】the obstacles【障碍】which hinder【阻碍】 the free and unembarrassed【不尴尬的】 action of those about him,6.he can recollect【回忆】to whom he is speaking;9.He has too much good sense to be affronted【被侮辱的】 atinsults【辱骂，侮辱】,he is too well employed to remember injuries【伤害】,and too indolent【懒惰的】to bear malice【恶意】.Lesson11(重点文章，阅读，翻译)/forum-346-1.html1. Americans smoke six thousand millioncigarettes【香烟】 every year (1970 figures). This is roughly【大体上】 theequivalent【等量，相等的】 of 4,195 cigarettes a year for every person in the country of 18 years of age or more. It is estimated【估计】 that 51% of American men smoke compared with 34% of American women.2. Since1939,numerous【许多的】 scientific studies have been conducted todetermine【确定】 whether smoking is a health hazard【危险】. The trend 【趋势】 of the evidence【证据】 has been consistent【一致的】 and indicates 【表明】that there is a serious health risk. Research teams have conducted studiesthat show beyond【除…之外】 all reasonable doubt that tobacco 【烟草，烟叶】smoking,particularly【特别】 cigarette smoking,is associated with【联系】 shortened life expectancy【平均寿命】.3. Cigarette smoking is believed by most research workers inthis field to be an important factor【因素】 in the developmentof cancer of the lungs【肺】and cancer of the throat【咽喉】 and is believed to be related to cancer of thebladder【膀胱】 and the oralcavity【口腔】.4. Some competent【有能力的】physicians【内科医生】 and research workers-though their small number is decreased even further-are less sure of the effect of cigarette smoking on health.5. Apart from the scientific statistics,it might be helpful to look at what smoking tobacco actually does to the human body.6. Smoking also affects the heart and blood vessels【血管】. It is known to be related to Beurger's disease,a narrowing ofthe small veins【静脉】 in the hands and feet that can cause great pain and lead evento amputation【截肢手术】 of limbs【肢】. Smokers also die much more often from heart disease.7. While all tobacco smoking affect s life and expectancy andhealth,cigarette smoking appears to have a much greater effect than cigar or pipe smoking.Lesson12(阅读文章)6."How long have you been doing this?" hepursued.【追赶，继续】17.She discovered【发现】 how clay【粘土】 beds ,which existed【存在】for millions of years,were formed. 20.Some were so small they could stand on the head of a pin【大头针】; while others were so large one could feel the weight【重量】 of them in one's hand. 24.If given a chance,will you take it? If given no chance,can you make one?Lesson13(阅读文章)1. Alberta islocated【坐落】 in the western part of Canada and is thewesternmost【最西的】 among thePrairie【大草原】 Provinces. To its/forum-346-1.htmlwest is British Columbia【哥伦比亚】 while to its east isSaskatchewan 【萨斯喀彻温省】.2. With an area of approximately【大约】 255,212 square miles【英里】, equivalent【相等的，相当的】to 661,000 squarekilometers【公里】,it is the fourth largest province in Canada. The province was named after Princess Louis Caroline Alberta,a daughter of Queen Victoria of England. It became a province of Canada in 1905.3. The people of Alberta originally【起初，原来】came from many different countries.Although there are only a limited【有限的】 number of Indiansliving on reservations【保留地】now,two hundred years ago theywere the only inhabitants【居民】in what is now called Alberta.4.Even now,raising cattle is still one of the leading branches of economy. Alberta is also rich in forest resources【资源】,coal and oil.It is one of the main timber【木材】 producing provinces in Canada. Owing to【由于】 itsrich deposit【储蓄,矿藏】 in oil,petroleum industry has become one of the most importantindustries of the province,with many oil fields 【油田】 andrefineries【炼油厂】. Alberta also produces more coal than any other province.5.The third largest city isLethbridge【莱斯桥】, having a population of about 67,000 persons.7. Alberta is located in the MountainStandard【标准】 TimeZone【时区】.Lesson14(以前的翻译，阅读文章，语法为主) 1.Have you ever stop ped to think how your life would change if the world ran out of oil? Take a look at your day.2.All owe their origin【起源，来源】to the oil known as petroleum. 4. Scientists predict【预言】that the world's known oilresources【资源】will run out early in the next century. But long before then the world will have to decide on its priorities【优先权】. Can we afford【提供，买得起】to use so much of ourlimited【有限的】 petroleum supplies forprivate【私人的】 motoring?5. There is an old English saying,"Necessity【需要】 is the mother of invention【发明】," which means that when you are faced with a need youwill discover【发现】 some wayLesson15(语法为主)2. We are aware【知道的】 that at the end of the central【中心的】 hole in this outer ear there is something called the middle ear,3. Animals such as dogs and cats also haveconspicuous【明显的】 outer ears,but few of us probably【大概，可能】 ever stopped to think whether there might be such a thing as a middle and inner ear beneath thosepointed 【尖的】 tips【末端】.7. The inner ear is composed of delicate【脆弱的】 membranes【薄膜】 which beardense【密集的】patches【小片】 ofspecialized【特殊的】 cells called maculae【macula:斑疹】./forum-346-1.html10. Whether or not hearing is really produced in all animalsby the effect 【影响】of pressure【压力】is not definitely【明确地】 knownLesson16(阅读文章为主)1.Most people have heard of the Tower of Babel【巴别塔】 story in theBible 【圣经】.2.As English and German speakers constitute【组成，构成】 the majorities in several of the world's mosteconomically【经济地】,militarily【军事地】,and technologically【科技地】 developed countries,it is important to be familiar with thisparticular【特殊的，详情】 language grouping.3.The Scandinavian languagesof Danish【丹麦语】,Icelandic【冰岛语】,Norwegian【挪威语】,and Swedish【瑞典语】comprise【构成，包含】the North Germanic grouping. 5.Speakers and writers of the Germanic languages account for【2010考题】a great deal of the world'soutput【产品】 in everything from economics【经济】to literature【文学】to military 【军事】to science and technology. Hardly an aspect【方面】 of modern life does not benefit from the contributions【贡献】 made by those using these languages,Lesson17(阅读文章 5.6.7段落为主)1.Coca-Cola is the best-selling【最畅销的】soft【软的】 (non-alcoholic) drink in the world. 165 million "Cokes" are sold every day,from the equator 【赤道】to the Arctic【北极】 .Lesson18（重点文章，阅读为主）1.One of the odder【奇怪的】 coincidence s【巧合】 of physical【自然的】geography【地理】 is the fact that there are twodouble【双的】islands,roughly【大体上】 the same size, positioned at eachother'santipodes【相对极】 , orfarthest-distant【遥远的】 point./forum-346-1.html2.Given the beauty of these three islands,what makes SouthIsland sospecial【特殊的，特别的】? 4.With almost no heavy industry on South Island,the air,water,and land are all freeof pollution.5. The fresh air is sometimes humid【潮湿的】 from the abundant【2010年考题】【大量的】 rainfall of this area. Lesson19（非重点文章）1.Newspapers arecockroaches【蟑螂】 . No matter what is introduced into the mediaecosystem【生态系统】, the oldestof the Big Media survives 【幸存，存活】 . Despite【尽管】 decades【十年】of doomsayers【凶事预示者】, newspapers prospered【成功，兴旺】 through radio, Lesson20（非重点文章，虚拟语气） If Lincoln Had Used a Computer如果林肯使用过计算机……1. The ad for a software【软件】 program【程序】caught my eye. It said,"Write better in 30 days or your money back."2. I'm familiar with computer programs thatcorrect【纠正】 spelling through the use of built-in【内置】 dictionaries.Lesson21（无知识点） Lesson22（翻译文章，生僻的单词不用看）An Introduction to Distillation1.for example,gasolines【汽油】,2. Refining petroleum is a complex【复杂的】series of steps by which theoriginal【最初的】crude material is eventually convert ed【转化】into salable【可销售的】 products with thedesired【渴望的】 qualities【质量】3. that is,crude oil must be converted into products according to the rate of sale of each. To prevent theoccurrence【发生】 of such a situation,the refinery must beflexible【灵活的】 and able to change operations as needed.Lesson23（知识点为主）1. Speaking English fluently【流利地】 and accurately【准确地】 is a goal of many people studying English in China.Fluency【流利】 can be simply 【2010年考题】define d【定义】as"being able to communicate【交流，交际】ideas without having to stop and think too much about what one is/forum-346-1.html saying";So,how do we balance【平衡】accuracy【准确】 and fluency in spoken English?2. So,how do we balance【平衡】accuracy【准确】 and fluency in spoken English?4. But,if they make a lot of mistakes,they may find it difficultto get their ideas across.6. Find the problem. What kind of person are you-one who focuseson accuracy or one who focuses on fluency? 7.If you have a problem with the third person singular,try to concentrate on when you make such errors.Lesson24（知识点为主）1. Spacecraft【宇宙飞船】from the United States and from Russia have been to the moon,and men have walked upon its surface【表面】2.Were scientists right about what the moon would be like?7. The surface itself ranges【变化】 from heat of 230℉to cold of minus 290℉,depend ing upon where the sun is.9. In spite of all we have learned from space flights【太空/forum-346-1.html飞行】,the moon is still ariddle from the distant【遥远的】 past Lesson25（知识点为主）1. Books are to mankind【人类】what memory【记忆力】is to theindividual【个人】.Lesson26（重点文章，翻译，阅读）2.True;electricity is one kind of energy.However,energy comesin many forms【形式】. 9.Radiant energy is also called light energy.Our mostimportant source【来源】 of radiant energy is ,of course,the sun.Without it there would be no life,for plant life depends upon radiant energy-and we depend upon plant life.Lesson27（非重点文章） A Handful of【一把】History扑克-手中的历史Lesson28（语法为主）3. She wassurprised【感到惊奇的】 andsuspicious【怀疑的】,then,when I called and suggested the two of us go out to dinner and a movie.5. When I pulled into her driveway【车道】,she was waiting bythe door with her coat on. 6.We talked for so long that we missed the movie.Lesson29（阅读文章）1.People think a great deal of them, so much so that on allthe highest pillars【支柱】 in the great cities of the world you will find the figure【塑像】of a conqueror or a general or a soldier.Animalsfight【搏斗】; so do savages【野蛮人】; Fighting mean s killing, and civilized people s【民族】 ought to be able to find some way of settling theirdisputes【争论】other than byseeing which side can kill off【消灭】the greater number of the other side,2. That is what the story of mankind【人类】 has on the wholebeen like.3.From the point of view ofevolution【进化】, human beings are very young childrenindeed【的确，确实】,/forum-346-1.htmlLesson30（重点文章语法为主）1. The vast expanse【广阔的区域】 of the United States of America stretch es 【延伸】from the heavily industrialized【工业化的】 ,metropolitan【大城市的】Atlantic【大西洋的】seaboard【海岸】across the rich flat【平坦的】 farms of the centralplains【平原】,The entire【全部的】 nation (all 50 states) cover s an area of9 million square kilometers and has a population【人口】 of 220 million people.2. The sparsely【稀少的】settled【定居】,far-northern stateof Alaska is the largest of America's 50 states It is more than two and a half times the size of Sichuan province,Texas,in the southern part of the country,is second in size. Texas is half the size of Alaska.4. America's earlysettlers【移民】 were attracted by thefertile land and varied【各种各样的】 climates it offered for farming.Florida and California are famous for theircitrus【柑橘】 fruitsand tropical【热带的】avocados【鳄梨】;5. Underground,a wealth of minerals【矿物】 provides a solidbase【基础】for American industry. Texas,a big oil-producer in the southwest,alone accounts for one-fifth the value of all U.S. mineral production.6. America has long been known as a "melting pot," for it is anation ofimmigrants【移民】 from all over the world. The first to arrive-from Siberia【西伯利亚】 ,more than 10,000 years ago7. Tens of millions flooded【大量涌入】 to America's shores from Europe between 1880 and the First World War. The nextlargest group of Americans trace【追溯】theirancestry【祖先】to Africa,black people now constitute【构成】 over 11 percent of the population.8. Once a nation of farmers,the United States has become increasingly urban【城市化】since the turn of the last century./forum-346-1.html9. Americans are always on the move. Each year,one in every five Americans leaves home and job to find new ones somewhere else. Lesson31（非重点文章）1.Theysailed【航行】well and the old man soaked【浸，泡】 his hands in the salt water and tried to keep his head clear.2. He had come up so fast andabsolutely【完全地】 withoutcaution【警告】that he broke the surface【水面，表面】 of the blue water and was in the sun.Lesson32（重点文章，翻译文章）1. Petroleum geology is the application【应用】 of geology (the study of rocks) to the exploration【勘探】 for and production【生产】 of oil and gas. Geology itself is firmly【牢牢地】based on chemistry,physics,and biology,involving【包括】 the application of essentially【基本地】abstract【抽象】 concepts to observed【观察的】 data【资料】.2. The application of chemistry to the study of rocks(geochemistry【地球化学】) has many uses in petroleum geology. this detailedmineralogical【矿物学的】 information isessential【必要的】for the accurate【精确的】interpretation【解释】of geophysical【地球物理学的】 well logs【测井】 through reservoirs【储层】. Knowledge of the chemistry of pore【孔隙】 fluids【液体】and their effect on thestability【稳定性】of minerals【矿物质】 can be used to predict【预言，预测】 where porosity【孔隙度】 may be destroyed by cementation【胶结】,preserved【保存】 in its original【起初的】 form,or enhanced【提高】 by solution【溶解】 of minerals by formation waters【地层水】. anic【有机的】 chemistry is involved both in the analysis【分析】of oil and gas and in the study of the diagenesis【成岩作用】of the plant and animal tissues【组织】 in sediments【沉淀物】/forum-346-1.html1Biology is applied【应用】 to geology in several ways,notably【显著地】 through the study of fossils【化石】 (paleontology【古生物学】), 2Geologists【地质学家】, in contrast to some nongeologists,believe that knowledge of the concepts of geology can help to find petroleum and,Lesson33（重点文章，阅读文章）What Do Parents Owe【欠】Their Children 3.There are plenty of loans【贷款】 andscholarships【奖学金】 for the bright 【聪明的】and eager【渴望的】 who can't afford to pay.4.After children marry【结婚】,their parents do not owe them a down payment 【预付定金】 on a house or money for the furniture【家具】.7.No child is ever too old to behugged.【拥抱】8.Parents owe their children some religious【宗教】 training【训练】. 9.Parents owe their children a comfortable feeling about their body10.Parents owe their children privacy【隐私】and respect【尊重】 for theirpersonal belongings【财产】.12. No child asks to be born. If you bring a life into the world,you owe the children something.Lesson34（重点文章，语法为主）1. On the night of August 17,1959,at about 20 minutes before midnight,the ground in the vicinity【附近】 of Yellowstone National Park began shaking violently【猛烈地】.2. What was even more frightening【可怕的】 was the sound ofhuge boulders【巨石】which began rolling down the steep【险峻的，陡峭的】 mountain. In one part of the upper reaches【上游河段】 of the Madison River,a whole mountain began shifting【移动】,6. It is the earth's 40 -mile deep crust with which we are concerned when we seek the cause of earthquake. The earth's crust is formed of many different layers【层】 of rocks./forum-346-1.htmlBecause of the great weight pressing down on them,these layers tend tofold【折叠】 downward at weak spots, 7.The tremor may even be so light that only the most delicate【精密的】 machine will record it.8. Some Parts of the earth are more likely to have quakes than others. Lesson35（重点文章，阅读文章）1. Life insurance【保险】is not really betting although it can be compare d to it. You pay the money just in case.4. This system of trading services with each other has beenwith us for quite a while.The trouble was that the reward was not always given to everyone,nor was it given to those who deserved【应得】it most.5.He found that he could no longer support himself by growing his own food.6. These companies were some of the first to accept payment for insurance.8. Lloyd’s has become famous for some of the unusual things it has insure d. For instance Lloyd has insured against the birth of twins. If twins had been born to the family insured,the company would have had to pay a certain amount of money to the parents. You can see in this example that someinsurance is a little like gambling【赌博】. There have also been many cases of famous performers or athletes who have insured themselvesagainst accidents.Suppose【假定，猜想】/forum-346-1.htmla very good actor feared that his looks could be injure d. If they were,he would not be able to make a living as an actor. Therefore,he mightattempt【试图，尝试】 to insure himselfagainst that possibility 【可能，可能性】.Lesson36（重点文章，语法为主）1. To avoid the various foolish opinions to which mankind is prone 【易于..的】,nosuperhuman【超人的】 genius【天才】is required【需要】.A few simple rules will keep you,not from all error,but from sillyerror 【错误】.5.this one advantage is that the method is not subject to the same limitations of time and space.6.Be very wary【谨慎的】 of opinions that flatter【奉承】 yourself-esteem 【自尊】.7. Seeing that each nation has itscharacteristic【典型的】merits 【优点】and demerits【缺点】,we adjust【调整】 our standard【标准】 of values so as to make out that the merits possessed【具有】 by our nation are the really important ones,while its demerits arecomparatively trivial【不重要的】.Lesson37（重点文章，语法为主）3.From the moment I saw you smile,as you opened the door forthat young mother and her newborn【新生的】baby. I knew. I knew that I wanted to share the rest of my life with you.1as I shook and trembled【颤抖】uncontrollably【无法控制地】 in thetrenches【战壕】, did I forget your face.2cannot tell you how strong my love for you was back then,when I returned to you on leave in September,feelingbattered【憔悴的】,bruised【瘀伤的】and fragile【脆弱的】. We held each other so tightＩthought we would burst【破裂】.15.As we grew old together,I would tease【取笑，戏弄】 you that you had not changed since we first met.19.I am too old and too empty now to live much longer without you./forum-346-1.htmlLesson38（重点文章，翻译，阅读文章 2.3.4.段）2.World oil production is about to reach a peak【高峰，山顶】 and go into its final decline【下降】.3.Finding oil is like fishing in a pond. Recent discoveries aremodest【适中的，谦虚的】at best.Lesson39（阅读文章） Lesson40（阅读文章）6.His third grade teacher wrote,"His mother's death has been hard on him.Lesson41（重点文章翻译文章 2.3.4.5.6.7）1. The petroleum era【时代】was ushered【引进】in by the 1859finding at Titusville,Pennsylvania, Natural gas is quite variable 【易变的】 in composition【成分】,but the major constituent【成分】 (>60%) is methane【甲烷】.In terms of volume【数量】,most of the natural gas produced is used for fuel,2. The chemical industry depend s very heavily on petroleum,natural gas,and natural gasliquids【液体】 as sources of raw materials. It is likely that in excess【超过】of90% of the literally【真正地】 thousands of different basic【基本的】organic【有机物的】 chemicals employed today are derive d【源于】from these sources.6. Petrochemicals【石化产品】 are generally chemical compounds【化合物】derive d from petroleum either by direct manufacture or by indirect manufacture9. The manufacture of chemicals from petroleum is based on the ready response of the various compound types to basic chemicalreactions【反应】Lesson42（非重点文章） Lesson43（重点文章，阅读文章）1.On the morning of April 15,1865,Abraham Lincoln lay【lie】dying in a hall bedroom of acheap lodging house【招待所】 directly across the street from Ford's Theater,3.I studied the life of Abraham Lincoln for ten years and devote d all of three years to writing andrewriting【改写】 a bookentitled【给..提名，给..权利】 Lincoln the Unknown.6.Never again did he write an insulting【侮辱的】letter. Never/forum-346-1.htmlagain did he ridicule anyone. 8.Theodore Roosevelt said that when he,as President,was confront ed【面对】with a perplexing【令人困惑的】problem,he used to lean back and look up at a large painting of Lincoln which hung above his desk in the White House and ask himself,9.I am all in favor of it.10.When dealing with people,let us remember we are not dealing withcreatures【生物】of logic【逻辑】.Lesson44（语法为主）1.It is the simplest,most convenient【方便的】 and least expensiveof allwriting instruments【工具】.Lesson45（语法为主）2. One of the rules for being rich is to avoid frivolous【不重要的】temptations【诱惑】 . That is easier said than done,andwe do not necessarily【必要地】recommend【建议】that all people should lead a pureand joyless【不快乐】 life.3. Be ing able to save and accumulate【积累】considerable【相当多的】 wealth is notautomatic【自动的】.5. The first auxiliary【辅助的】 rule for becoming rich is to stay in school or,if out of school,go back to it.9.From our perspective【观点】 ,becoming rich is really a matter of choice.。

李阳疯狂英语培训手册第六部分第一篇：李阳疯狂英语培训手册第六部分如何做好助教一、助教要求1.遵守工作纪律，有特殊情况，应提前请假，并把工作安排妥当；2.对学生要非常熟悉：包括学生的姓名、年龄、爱好、特长、所在学校、特殊的经历等，做到知彼知己；3.平等、耐心对待学生，与学生多沟通学习、思想问题，有问题即时反馈解决；4.组织管理好本组成员，使团队具有凝聚力；5.教学设置多与主讲沟通，在课上与主讲配合好，一切以“教学”和“学员”为中心；6.考试严格，辅导耐心；7.保持积极心态，多微笑、沟通。

二、开营前的准备1.查看每个学员资料，掌握基本资料，并能看照片认识学员。

正确叫出每一个组员的名字是非常重要的。

不要让学员感觉到你在故意记他/她的名字。

要让他们感觉：你叫出他的名字就像叫出老朋友的名字一样简单。

2.对教学内容和集训营的安排有详细的了解；3.调整生活作息，以最好的身心状态迎接每位学员。

三、班会班会是助教和学员的第一次见面。

因此，以陌生人姿态出现的助教，其状态、面貌、实力、性格就很大程度上决定了学生对集训营的第一印象。

见面会中助教在自我介绍、分组、确定组名口号、组织组员、鼓舞士气等一系列活动中的表现，在很大程度上影响了本组组员以及其他学员对助教的印象以及本组的风格。

可以说，班会是助教的第一关，也是评价助教、控制集训营的一个重要依据。

因为此时集训刚刚开始，如果助教在自身方面存在问题（如性格、交际能力、行动力等方面），只要及时发现，就可以使整个集训处于可控局面。

（一）、自我介绍（根据情况，每人1－3分钟）1.重视：助教和学生真正的了解从助教的自我介绍开始，良好的第一印象是教学工作成功的关键。

教学管理人员、主讲老师和助教自己要非常重视，不断试讲，直到满意为止。

2.目的：营造出实力和活力并存的集训氛围，学员得以认识助教，并对助教留下积极印象，潜意识对集训表示满意（对集训一开始就萌生退费念头的学生影响更大）。

3.具体步骤：（1）上台：保持干练姿态跑上台或急速走上台（慢步走上台会给人以消极的印象）。

宁波英语培训机构内部资料——双语阅读：盘点历代迪斯尼公主个性语录迪斯尼历代公主大集合，现身说法好孩子守则：Snow White: Don't accept food from strangers。

白雪公主：别吃陌生人给的食物。

(小学生守则第"n"条)Cinderella: Don't stay out past curfew。

灰姑娘：别夜不归宿。

(大学宿舍守则第"n"条)Aurora: Refrain from touching sharp objects。

睡美人：别碰锋利的东西。

(年轻父母须知)Ariel: Be yourself。

小美人鱼：做自己。

(某运动品牌广告语)Belle: It isn't about beauty; it is about what's within。

《美女与野兽》中的美人：内在美才是真的美。

(大家好才是真的好……) Jasmine: Money isn't everything。

《阿拉丁神灯》中的茉莉公主：钱不是万能的。

Pocahontas: Stand up for what's right。

《风中奇缘》中的土著宝嘉康蒂公主：为正义站出来。

(地球版《阿凡达》) Mulan: one person has the power to save a nation。

花木兰：一夫当关万夫莫开。

Tiana: Dreams come true through hard work anddetermination。

《公主与青蛙》中的黑人公主：努力和决心能使梦想成真!沃尔得国际英语倡导全方位，系统化的英语学习氛围，整体、细化地打造他们的英语水平，使学员在通过一段时间的系统学习后，达到提笔就写，张口就说的母语程度。

传统学习方法往往需要学员经过几年甚至十几年的时间来熟练掌握英语这门语言，但是我们模拟如同置身国外的语言环境，运用高端专业的教学软件，配以大量辅助性教学活动，使得学员在我们的语言中心里可以在较短的时间内达到突破，体验英语水平迅速提高的快乐与自信。