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tracy mcmillan ted 演讲稿最好的结婚对象其实是你自己tracy mcmillan是一位闻名的情感专家，殊不知她离婚三次，她来到TED舞台上就想分享给大家的婚姻忠告，最好的成婚对象其实就是你本身，你希望别人怎样爱你，就要你先怎样爱本身。
tracy mcmillan ted 演讲稿最好的成婚对象其实是你本身(摘选）你将嫁给你本身，无论贫穷富贵。
你将无条件的爱本身，你不能说等你去过了好莱坞与藤街，我才嫁给你”，你也不能说等你瘦了10磅以后我才会爱你”，你更不能说假如你没有那些失败的婚姻，我才会爱你”。
当你嫁给本身的时候，你走过长廊，走到你所在的位置，你会发现，爱那个就在原地的本身，是你走向目的地的唯一途径。
你将嫁给你本身，无论环境好坏。
大部分人都会在更好的情况下爱本身，比如我今天发型很赞，我爱本身。
但是在更坏的情况下：当人生辜负了你的时候，可能你无家可归，可能你没有从事喜欢的事业，可能你没有顺利地大学毕业，可能你没有找到想要的感情，可能事情无法向你想要的方向进展，可能你和妈妈吵架了，可能你看了太多太现实的电视剧，无论发生了什么，都不重要，因为当你嫁给了本身以后，无论发生什么，你都将永远陪在本身身边。
你将嫁给本身，无论健康疾病。
你要原谅本身所犯过的错误，错误不代表失败，除非你不懂得吸取教训，除非你不成长。
有句话是这样说的，你想要耐心，得到的却是在银行长长的队列。
生活不会直接给你你想要的东西，它只会带给你那些能帮助你得到想要东西的人，事，物。
并且假如你第一次无法达成你所想要的，生活会再给你一次机会。
就像Tracy一样，在第一次婚姻中没有得到想要的，在第二次婚姻中也没有，但是她在糟心的第三次婚姻中，从”无论健康疾病中学到了很多。
她学会了坐在本身的床边，握着本身的手，照顾本身，安慰本身，她知道了她可以依靠本身。
嫁给本身，就要拥有并把握本身。
英语阅读：恋爱让你更聪明的5个理由（英汉对照）1. Marry someone similar to you, if a bit smarter找一个和你一样聪明、甚至更聪明的人结婚A Seattle Longitudinal Study found that the most stable relationships were those in which people were similar in intelligence, flexibility of attitudes, social responsibility, and education levels. Researchers also found that after 14 years together, spouses with the better grasp of verbal meanings and word fluency had pulled the lower-functioning spouses up to their level.一项西雅图纵向研究发现，那些在智力、态度灵活性、社会责任感以及教育水平方面相似的夫妻，关系最稳定。
研究人员还发现，共同生活14年后，夫妻双方中对语义和语言流畅性掌握得更好的一方，会将另一方的能力也提升到和自己相同的水平。
2. Hold hands whenever possible只要可能，牵住爱人的手In addition to creating feelings of warmth and closeness, holding hands can help inoculate you from stress. One study using brain scans found that when married women were told they were about to receive an electric shock, just holding their husbands’ hands minimized their brains’response to the threat. Women in the closest relationships experienced the greatest decrease in stress-related brain activity.手牵手不仅可以让人产生温暖和亲近的感觉，还可以帮助你减轻压力。
TED英文演讲：什么叫爱情Stacey素来很痴迷一对爱人的偶遇全过程。
她邀约了摄像师Alec帮助讨论这一议案，他们在情人节，一起到拉斯维加参与全世界最盛大游戏的迅速幽会，又来访内华达州较大的离休人员小区，他们解除了一个谜，便是一对爱人如何由第一次偶遇到一起一同日常生活的过程。
下边是我为大伙儿搜集有关TED英文演讲：什么叫爱情，热烈欢迎参考参照。
演讲题目：什么叫爱情?择一城终老，遇一人相守!演讲人：Alec·Soth & Stacey·Baker发言稿Alec Soth: So about 10 years ago, I got a call from a woman in Texas, Stacey Baker, and she'd seen some of my photographs in an art exhibition and was wondering if she could commission me to take a portrait of her parents. Now, at the time I hadn't met Stacey, and I thought this was some sort of wealthy oil tycoon and I'd struck it rich, but it was only later that I found out she'd actually taken out a loan to make this happen.Alec Soth: 大约十年前，我接到德州市一位女性的电話，便是她，Stacey Baker。
她在一场艺术展览上看了我的一些摄影图片，随后想问是不是能够请我来为她的爸爸妈妈照相。
那时候，我都沒有看到Stacey，我曾认为她会是一位石油大亨，要我一夜暴富。
ted kcs 你的大脑会做它认为你想让它做的事情原文演讲稿标题：你的大脑会做它认为你想让它做的事情——TED演讲稿解读引言：TED（Technology, Entertainment, Design）是一个致力于“传播思想”的非营利性组织，其演讲者包括各行各业的精英人士。
其中，Ted Kcs的一篇名为“你的大脑会做它认为你想让它做的事情”的演讲稿备受关注。
这篇演讲稿以独特的视角揭示了大脑的工作机制，引发了我们对自身思维模式和行为方式的深思。
正文：首先，让我们从神经科学的角度理解这个观点。
人类的大脑是极其复杂的器官，它控制着我们的思考、感知和行动。
在这个过程中，大脑会根据我们过去的经验和当前的情境做出预测，并根据这些预测调整我们的行为。
这就是所谓的“大脑预测”。
然而，大脑的预测并不总是准确的。
有时候，我们的大脑可能会误解我们的真实意图，导致我们的行为与我们的初衷不符。
这就是Kcs在演讲中所强调的观点：“你的大脑会做它认为你想让它做的事情。
”例如，当我们面对压力时，大脑可能会错误地预测我们需要逃避或对抗，从而引发不必要的紧张和焦虑。
或者，当我们试图改变某种习惯时，大脑可能会因为过去的经历而坚持旧的行为模式，使我们难以实现改变。
那么，如何避免这种情况呢？Kcs给出了一个建议：通过有意识地引导我们的注意力和情绪，我们可以影响大脑的预测，进而改变我们的行为。
具体来说，我们可以通过正念冥想、积极思考和自我反思等方式，提高我们对自己思维模式和行为方式的认识。
这样，当大脑的预测出现偏差时，我们可以及时发现并纠正它，从而更好地掌控自己的生活。
结语：总的来说，“你的大脑会做它认为你想让它做的事情”这一观点为我们提供了一个全新的视角来看待自己的思维和行为。
通过了解大脑的工作机制，我们可以更好地理解和控制自己的心理状态，从而实现更好的生活品质。
同时，这也提醒我们，我们应该更加重视自我认知和自我管理的重要性。
只有真正认识自己，才能更好地掌握自己的生活。
T ED英语演讲稿：解密爱情与出轨演讲稿英语演讲稿 TED英语演讲稿：解密爱情与出轨T ED英语演讲稿：解密爱情与出轨2017-04-22 i d like to t alk t oda a boutthe t o big gestsoial tren ds in theing e ntur, andperha ps in thenext10,000 ear s. bu t i a nt to star t ith m or k onroman ti lo ve, b eause that s mmostreent ork. hati and m ol leagu es di d asput 32 peo ple,ho er e mad l inlove, into a fu ntion al mr i bra in sa nner. 17 h o ere madl in l ove a nd th eir l ove a s aep ted;and 15 hoere m adl i n lov e and thehad j ust b een d umped. and so i antto te ll ou abou t tha t fir st, a nd th en go on i nto h ere i thin k lov e isgoing. hat tisto lo ve? s hakes peare said. i t hinkour a nesto rs -- i th ink h umanbeing s hav e bee n ond ering abou t thi s que stion sine thesat a round thei r amp fires or l a and athe d the star s a m illio n ear s ago. i s tarte d out btr ing t o fig ure o ut ha t rom antiloveas blooki ng at thelast45 ea rs of rese arh o n --justthe p sholo gialresea rh -- andas it turn s out, the re sa ver spei fi gr oup o 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thi s gir l togo of f ona rik sha r ide i th hi m. an d sur e eno ugh -- i v e nev erbe en in one, butappar entlthe g o all arou nd th e bus es an d the truk s and it s razand i ts n ois a nd it s ex iting. and he f igure d tha t thi s oul d dri ve up thedopam ine,and s he ou ld fa ll in love ithhim.so of f the go a nd sh e s s queal ing a nd sq ueezi ng hi m and laug hingand h aving a on derfu l tim e. an hour late r the getdon o ff of theriksh a, an d she thro s her hand s upand s he sa s, as n t t hat o nderf ul? a nd, a sn tthatriksh a dri ver h andso me! t heres mag i tolove! buti ill endb sai ng th at mi llion s ofearsago,e evo lvedthree basidriv es: t he se x dri ve, r omant i lov e and atta hment to a long-term part ner.these irui ts ar e dee pl em bedde d inthe h umanbrain. the re g oingto su rvive as l ong a s our spei es su rvive s onhat s hakes peare alle d thi s mor tal o il. t hankou. 【中文翻译】我今天要讲俩个下世纪的大趋势也很有可能是未来10,0XX年的趋势但是，我想首先从我对爱情的研究讲起因为这是我最近的工作。
ted演讲inside the mind of中英对照作为一个十几岁的少年，我的父母晚上会出去参加聚会或晚餐，我会对自己承诺利用这个时间来学习。
但一旦他们离开，我就发现自己被电视机粘住了，看着情景喜剧和肥皂剧的重播。
When I was in college, I'd tell myself that I'd start working on a paper weeks before it was due. But instead, I'd wait until the last minute, cramming all my research and writing into a single all-nighter.当我上大学时，我告诉自己要在作业到期前几周开始写作。
但我会等到最后一刻，将所有研究和写作都挤在一个通宵之内。
Even now, as a successful writer and speaker, I still struggle with procrastination. In fact, I'm doing it right now as I write this article. I've been putting it off for hours, checking emails and social media instead.即使现在，作为一名成功的作家和演讲者，我仍然在与拖延症作斗争。
事实上，当我写这篇文章时，我正在拖延。
我已经拖了好几个小时，而是去查看电子邮件和社交媒体。
So why do I procrastinate so much? And why do so many others struggle with it too?那么，为什么我这么拖延呢？为什么其他人也会有这个问题呢？ To answer these questions, I started doing some research on the science of procrastination. I read books and articles,I watched TED talks and YouTube videos. And what I discovered is that procrastination isn't just a bad habit or a lack of willpower. It's a complex psychological behavior with deep roots in our brains.为了回答这些问题，我开始研究拖延症的科学。
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Helen Fisher在Ted演讲中英对照I and my colleagues Art Aron and Lucy Brown and others, have put 37 people who are madly in love into a functional MRI brain scanner. 17 who were happily in love, 15 who had just been dumped, and we're just starting our third experiment: studying people who report that they're still in love after 10 to 25 years of marriage. So, this is the short story of that research.我和阿尔特.阿伦、露西.布朗还有其他同事对37位处在恋爱不同阶段的人的大脑进行了核磁共振测试，其中17位正享受爱情带来的幸福，而15位则刚刚被甩。
我们刚刚开始第三项实验：研究那些在10到25年后仍然处在爱恋中的人们，接下来是关于这项研究的一些介绍。
In the jungles of Guatemala, in Tikal, stands a temple. It was built by the grandest Sun King, of the grandest city-state, of the grandest civilization of the Americas, the Mayas. His name was Jasaw Chan K'awiil. He stood over six feet tall. He lived into his 80s, andhe was buried beneath this monument in 720 AD. And Mayan inscriptions proclaim that he was deeply in love with his wife. So, he built a temple in her honor, facing his. And every spring and autumn, exactly at the equinox, the sun rises behind his temple, and perfectly bathes her temple with his shadow. And as the sun sets behind her temple in the afternoon, it perfectly bathes his temple with her shadow. After 1,300 years, these two lovers still touch and kiss from their tomb.在危地马拉的丛林深处的提卡尔，矗立着一座神庙。
TED演讲双语演讲稿：我们能摆脱爱情吗？（精编word打印版）演讲时间：2018年讲者简介：Dessa：作家演讲简介：克服心碎的最佳方法是什么？说唱歌手和作家戴莎（Dessa）在偶然地观看了海伦·费舍（Helen Fisher）的TED演讲中关于恋爱的大脑的想法后，提出了一种非常规的方法。
在一个有趣而有趣的谈话中，她描述了自己与神经科学家的合作方式，以使自己的大脑与前任失去恋爱-并分享了她在此过程中获得的关于浪漫的智慧双语演讲稿Hello, my name is Dessa,大家好，我叫黛莎，and I'm a member of a hip-hop collective called Doomtree.是一个名为Doomtree 的嘻哈团体的成员。
I'm the one in the tank top.我是穿背心的那个。
(Laughter)（笑声）And I make my living as a performing, touring rapper and singer.以巡演表演为生——是一位独立歌手，也是说唱歌手。
When we perform as a collective, this is what our shows look like.我们的集体表演就是这样子。
I'm the one in the boots.我是其中一人着靴子的。
There's a lot of jumping. There's a lot of sweating.表演中有很多地方要跳跃和出汗；It's loud. It's very high-energy.是非常高能量的消耗和喧闹。
Sometimes there are unintentional body checks onstage.偶尔在舞台上身体会互相阻挡。
Sometimes there are completely intentional body checks onstage.又有时候会有身体的故意互相碰撞。
ted中英文对照TED (Technology, Entertainment, Design) 是一个国际性的演讲和会议平台，旨在分享和传播创新思想、理念和科技。
以下是一些 TED 演讲的中英文对照：1. "The Power of Introverts"（内向的力量）中文：内向的力量2. "The Happy Secret to Better Work"（快乐工作更高效）中文：快乐工作更高效3. "How to Speak Up and Be Heard"（如何表达并被听到）中文：如何表达并被听到4. "The Danger of a Single Story"（单一故事的危险性）中文：单一故事的危险性5. "The Surprising Science of Happiness"（幸福的惊人科学）中文：幸福的惊人科学6. "The Real Reason to Quit Your Day Job"（真正辞职的原因）中文：真正辞职的原因7. "The Beauty of Failure"（失败之美）中文：失败之美8. "The Happy Secret of the Winners"（成功者的快乐秘诀）中文：成功者的快乐秘诀9. "The Power of Vulnerability"（脆弱的力量）中文：脆弱的力量10. "How to Win at the Game of Life"（如何在生活中获胜）中文：如何在生活中获胜以上只是部分TED 演讲的中英文对照，如果您需要其他演讲的中英文对照，可以告诉我。
ted有关爱情的演讲稿五篇爱情，是缺舵的诺亚方舟，随波飘荡。
本来就无始无终，不知哪一天悄然爬上心头。
也不知道哪一天，除去心中所谓恒永的烙印。
大家一起来看看ted有关爱情的演讲稿五篇，欢迎查阅！ted有关爱情的演讲稿1尊敬的老师同学们：大家下午好，我是来自电子商务的!我平常没什么爱好，一般就喜欢看书看小说。
今天我站在这上面主要是想和大家谈一谈有关爱情的一些问题。
因为前面有听过物流班同学无稿演讲过宿舍友情和我们班兆青同学讲过的父母亲情，都获得了同学们不少的掌声，所以我想延续他们两位的情感之谈，谈谈爱情，同时也希望不会丢了他们的脸。
爱情，也许某些人闭上眼睛就可以想到是两个人在那边卿卿我我，揉揉抱抱，然后旁人走过去，两眼一斜，嘴角一咧，OH，SHIT，眼不见为静。
走为上计。
(呵呵，开个玩笑。
)总是有很多事情让我矛盾，父母不让我谈恋爱的时候我总是傻不拉及地死了劲的去追小女生，结果大家看我这幅德行，当然是一个也没追到。
呵呵。
现在父母开始允许我恋爱了，并且说要偶尔也带带女朋友回去给他们看，我却觉得这事还得从长计议，不是一朝一夕可以解决的事。
也可能我只是在等一个人，一个能真正了解，我风中的沉默。
(我就纳闷了，最后那句说得那么深情，居然没点掌声?)前几天看了电影《山楂树之恋》，张艺谋导演的，据说张导本想把此片拍成一片最纯洁最纯真的爱情片，可看过这影片的人都知道，哎呀妈呀，里头的老三整一个泡妞高手，带静秋去河边游泳好方便脱衣，带静秋去医院，还开免费房间。
你们说他高不高手?高手啊令吾等自叹不如啊。
当然，凭良心话，这片影片的确是很纯洁的一片恋爱片。
可生活不是山楂树之恋，大家都别装。
底下这话是对女生说的：这个世界有两种男人，一种是把你放心上，目的是把你放床上;另一种是他想带你飞到天上，可往往还是掉回到了床上。
当然当然，不排除有第三种男人的可能。
自己也长了这么大，时常在以前班上看到大多数男女的调情，女的嗔怪男的坏，在这里请允许我以唱歌的形式引用张韶涵的那歌的一句歌词：(唱)但亲爱的那并不是爱情，(正经地说出)是暧昧。
15.Around the world people love.世界各地的人都有不同的爱情。
16.They sing for love, they dance for love, they compose poems and stories about love.人们为爱情歌唱，人们因爱情起舞，人们通过诗赋和故事来抒发爱情。
17.They tell myths and legends about love.人们讲述关于爱情的神话和传说。
18.They pine for love, they live for love, they kill for love, and they die for love.人们渴望爱情，因爱而生，人们为爱着迷，甚至为爱而死。
19.As Walt Whitman once said, he said,"Oh, I would stake all for you."沃尔特.惠特曼曾说过：“我愿意为你赌上我的一切！”20.Anthropologists have found evidence of romantic love in 170 societies.人类学家在170个社会中发现了爱情存在的证据。
21.They've never found a society that did not have it.爱情普遍地存在于每一个人类社会。
22.But love isn't always a happy experience.但爱情并不总是愉快的经历。
23.In one study of college students, they asked a lot of questions about love, but the two that stood out to me the most were, "Have you ever been rejected by somebody who you really loved?"在一项针对大学生的调查中，他们提出了很多关于爱情的问题，其中的两个特别让我印象深刻，一个是“你曾经被你真心爱着的人拒绝过吗？”24.And the second question was, "Have you ever dumped somebody who really loved you?"而另一个则是“你曾经拒绝过真心爱着你的人吗？”25.And almost 95 percent of both men and women said yes to both.对于这两个问题，有95%的人作出了肯定的答复。
26.Almost nobody gets out of love alive.要活着走出爱情几乎是不可能的。
27.So, before I start telling you about the brain, I want to read for you what I think is the most powerful love poem on Earth.那么，在开始讲述关于大脑的事情前，我要读一段在我看来最富深情的情诗。
28.There's other love poems that are, of course, just as good, but I don't think this one can be surpassed.当然，很多情诗都很不错，但我认为它们都无法超越这首。
29.It was told by an anonymous Kwakutl Indian of southern Alaska to a missionary in 1896, and here it is.在1896年的南阿拉斯加，一位不知名的夸扣特尔印第安人把它讲述给了一名传教士。
30.I've never had the opportunity to say it before.这是我第一次当众读它。
31."Fire runs through my body with the pain of loving you, pain runs through my body with the fires of my love for you.“爱你之痛如熊熊烈焰穿透我的身体；对你如火一般的热恋让疼痛贯穿我的身体。
32.Pain like a boil about to burst with my love for you, consumed by fire with my love for you, I remember what you said to me.痛楚如沸水，饱含我对你的爱，爱的火焰将其蒸发殆尽。
我仍记得你对我说的话，33.I am thinking of your love for me, I am torn by your love for me.我想着你对我的爱，它将我的躯体撕裂。
34.Pain and more pain, where are you going with my love?疼痛，更多的疼痛，你要把我的爱带至何处？35.I am told you will go from here.你对我说，你将从这里出发；36.I am told you will leave me here.你对我说，你将在这儿把我遗弃。
37.My body is numb with grief.我因此悲痛，因此失去知觉。
38.Remember what I said, my love.带上我的只言片语，我的爱人！39.Goodbye, my love, goodbye."再见，吾爱，再见！40.Emily Dickinson once wrote, "Parting is all we need to know of hell."艾米莉.狄金森曾写道，“人因离别而品尝地狱”41.How many people have suffered in all the millions of years of human evolution?在人类百万余年的进化过程中，有多少人曾遭受这样的痛苦？42.How many people around the world are dancing with elation at this very minute?而此时此刻，世界各地又有多少人在尽情跳舞？43.Romantic love is one of the most powerful sensations on Earth.爱情是世上最有力的感情。
55.Romantic love is an obsession. It possesses you.爱情萦绕于心，占据着你。
56.You lose your sense of self.你失去自我意识，57.You can't stop thinking about another human being.不能自主地去想他58.Somebody is camping in your head.——他一直盘踞在你脑中。
59.As an eighth-century Japanese poet said, "My longing had no time when it ceases."就如8世纪的一位日本诗人所说，“我的渴求永不停止。
”60.Wild is love.爱情是狂热的。
61.And the obsession can get worse when you've been rejected.当你被抛弃之后，牵挂会更深。
66.What a bad deal.这是多么坏的事情啊！67.You know, when you've been dumped, the one thing you love to do is just forget about this human being, and then go on with your life,当你被甩之后，你会想着要忘掉他，并继续你的正常生活，68.but no, you just love them harder.但事与愿违，你只会更爱他了。
69.As the poet Terence, the Roman poet once said, he said, "The less my hope, the hotter my love."就像罗马诗人特伦斯曾说过的：“我的祈求越少，我的爱情便越炽烈。
”83.No wonder people suffer around the world and we have so many crimes of passion.难怪世界各地的人们都遭受着痛苦，难怪我们中这么多人被负心的情人伤害84.When you've been rejected in love, not only are you engulfed with feelings of romantic love, but you're feeling deep attachment to this individual.当你被爱抛弃时，你不仅被对爱情的渴望吞没，而且感到对他深深的依恋。
85.Moreover, this brain circuit for reward is working, and you're feeling intense energy, intense focus, intense motivation and the willingness to risk it all 此外，大脑的奖赏回路开始工作，这使得你感到强烈的精力，强烈的专注，强烈的干劲，和想要不顾一切地86.to win life's greatest prize.赢得生命中最高奖赏的愿望。
87.So, what have I learned from this experiment that I would like to tell the world?那么，关于这次实验，我又有什么样的体会要分享给全世界呢？88.Foremost, I have come to think that romantic love is a drive, a basic mating drive.最重要的一点，我的结论是爱情是人类最基本的寻求配对的冲动。
