九年级英语全册Unit10You’resupposedtoshakehands学案5无答案新版人教新
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得阅读者得高分九年级全册同步话题阅读理解与答案详解Unit 10 You are supposed to shake hands话题阅读阅读话题:风俗习惯。
语言目标:说明你应该做什么。
阅读提示:与“风俗习惯”相关的题材多为“人际关系”,不同的地区有不同的人交往习俗;人们的社会交往必须遵循这些习俗。
AAround the world, people have different ideas about what good manners are. When you go to restaurants in different parts of the world, it is important to know the right and wrong things to do. For example, in China it is OK to make noise in a restaurant. In fact, if a restaurant isn’t noisy and lively, you may think there is something wrong with it. However, in many Western countries, restaurants are quiet places. If a table is too loud, other people who are eating there might even complain to the owner of the restaurant.Paying the bill is also different from country to country. In China, one person usually pays for everybody. In Western countries, one person pays if he or she is entertaining clients. But when friends eat together, they usually share the cost. This is called going Dutch. Also, when Westerners pay the bill, they usually leave some extra money for the waiter. This is called “leaving a tip”. Leaving a tip is thought to be polite. In the U.S., it’s common to leave tips of 10%, 15%, or 20% of the bill; the amount is decided by how good the service is. Good waiters can make a lot of money!The way people eat food is different around the world, but you can find the same kinds of food in many countries. Chinese and Italian food, for example, are popular all over the world.1.In China, you _________ make noise in a restaurant.A. aren’t supposed toB. canC. can’tD. allowed to2.In many Western countries, restaurants are _________ places.A. quietB. livelyC. noisyD. secret3.The underlined words “going Dutch” mean _________ in Chinese.A. 宴请宾客B. 均摊费用C. 去荷兰D. 免费用餐4.When Westerners pay the bill, they usually leave some money as a tip for the _________.A. sellerB. waiterC. visitorD. boss5.What is the main idea of the passage?A. People have different ideas about what good manners are.B. Chinese food is popular all over the world.C. Paying the bill differs from country to country.D. It is polite to give tips to the restaurant waiters or waitresses.BThe customs in different countries are rather different.If I have dinner with a Chinese host, he always puts more food onto my plate as soon as I have emptied it. That often discomforts me greatly.I have to eat the food even if I do not want to because it is considered bad manners in the west to leave one’s food on the plate.I have also noticed that when a Chinese sits at an American’sdinner party, he often refuses the offer of food or drink though he’s in fact still hungry or thirsty.This might be good manners in China but is not in the West at all.In the United Sates, it is impolite to keep asking someone again and again or insist on his accepting something. Americans have a direct way of speaking. If they want something, they will ask for it. If not, they will say, “No,Thanks.” When an American is served with beer by host, for example, he might say, “No, thanks.I’ll take some orange juice if you have it.” That is what an American will do. So when you go to the United States, you’d better remember the famous saying: “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.”1.From this passage we can see that the writer is ___________ .A.ChineseB.AmericanC.RomanD.European2.When a Chinese host kept putting more food onto his plate, the writer felt _____.A.happyB.sadC.badD.great3.In the West, people consider it bad manners ____ .A.to refuse an offer at a dinner partyB.to keep asking someone to accept somethingC.to eat much at a dinner partyD.to ask for something directly at a dinner party4.A guest at all American’s dinner party shoul d show his politeness by___________.A.eating up all the food offeredB.putting more food onto his plate as soon as he emptied itC.refusing the offer of food or drinking though he is still hungry or thirstyD.refusing to drink anything5.“When in Rome, do as the Romans do.”means ___________ .A.the Romans are people of good mannersB.Americans always do the same things as the Romans doC.you should do things like Romans doD.you should get used to the local customs where you goCWhen we want to tell other people what we think, we can do it not only with the help of words, but also in many other ways. For example, we sometimes move our heads up and down when we want tosay“Yes”, and we move our heads from side to side when we want to say “No”.People who can neither hear nor talk to each other can communicate with the help of their fingers.People who don’t understand each other’s language have to do the same.The following story shows how they sometimes do it.An Englishman who couldn’t speak Italian was once travelling in Italy. One day he entered a restaurant and sat at a table. When the waiter came, the Englishman opened his mouth, put his fingers in it, took them out again and moved his lips. In this way he meant to say,“Bring me something to eat. ” The waiter soon brought him a cup of tea.The Englishman shook his head and the waiter understood that he didn’t want tea, so he took it away and brought him some coffeeThe Englishman was very hungry at this time and looked very sad. He was just going to leave the restaurant when another traveller come in. When this man saw the waiter, he put his hands on his stomach. That was enough. After a few minutes there was a large plate of bread and meat on the table for him..11.How do people who don’t understand each other’s language usually express themselves?A.Look for help of words.B.Move their heads.e body language.D.Move their fingers from side to side.12.What did the Englishman want the waiter to bring him?A. A cup of tea.B. A cup of coffee.C. A glass of water.D. Something to eat.In this way he meant to say,“Bring me something to eat. ”可知答案应为D。
Unit10 Section B综合能力训练新词对对碰:重点词语达达标I. 根据句意及首字母或汉语提示完成单词。
1.She wants to be an e _____________student to Australia.2.The old man loves his g _____________very much and he often buys gifts for her.3.Everyone else was invited e _____________me, and I don’t know why.4.On the first day, the coach driver taught us some b _____________skills about driving.5.Lin Yue has gradually g _____________used to the life here.II. 根据中文写出单词或短语。
1.使某事感到宾至如归____________2.格外努力____________3.习惯于____________4.值得麻烦____________5.指着____________要点跟踪练:重点知识演练场I. 单项选择。
1.________it’s summer________ winter, Mount Huang is well worth visiting.A.Both; and B.Not only; but also C.Neither; nor D.Whether; or 2.—Do you know when they will hold their wedding party?—No, I don’t. Their wedding date is a ________ and nobody knows it.A.message B.secret C.suggestion D.request3.The teacher's words were encouraging and ________ me, so I decided to plan my life carefullyand have a new start.A.get on well with B.had an influence onC.took pride in D.got used to4.Today many people give out and receive ____________ red envelopes (红包)on mobile phones. A.natural B.electronic C.national D.basic5.—I don’t know what to do. I need some ___________.—No problem.A.information B.advices C.news D.suggestionsII. 从(II)中选择合适的句子补全(I)对话,有两个选项多余。
九年级英语全册Unit10Youaresupposedtoshakehand笔记重点大全单选题1、–Could you give me a few ______ on how to spend the coming summer holiday?--OK. Let me see.A.hobbiesB.knowledgeC.suggestionsD.information答案:C句意:﹣﹣你能给我一些关于如何度过即将到来的暑假的建议吗?﹣﹣好吧,让我看看吧。
hobbies兴趣;knowledge知识;suggestions建议;information消息。
根据on how to spend the coming summer holiday可知关于如何度假,这是一种建议,故选C。
2、—This room is too small. I’d like to ask for .—Sure.We have rooms available here.A.anotherB.the otherC.oneD.it答案:A句意“这个房间太小了,我想索要另一个。
-好的,我们这里有一个可用的房间”。
A.(无范围)另一个;B.(两者中)另一个;C.一个;D.它(代指上文中出现的同一个事物)。
根据句意可知,表示换一个房间,而不是上文中出现的房间;且本句话中,没有说是两者中的一个,用another,译为“另一个”,故选A。
3、Hello, Joe. I didn't _________ to see you today. I thought you were away on holiday. A.wantB.prepareC.expectD.agree答案:C句意:你好,乔。
我没预料到今天会看到你。
我以为你出去度假了。
考查动词辨析。
want 想要;prepare 准备;expect 预料,预计;agree 同意。
由“I thought you were away on holiday.”可知问句表示“没有想到会见到你”。
九年级英语全册Unit10Youaresupposedtoshakehand知识集锦单选题1、The wedding will ________ in the church.A.take offB.take outC.take placeD.take away答案:C句意:婚礼将在教堂举行。
考查动词短语。
take off起飞;take out取出;take place举行,发生;take away带走。
根据“The wedding will ... in the church.”可知应是在教堂举行婚礼。
故选C。
2、—Sorry, I didn't do a good job.—Never mind. ________, you've tried your best.A.As forB.In totalC.In that caseD.After all答案:D句意:——很抱歉,我没有做好工作。
——不要紧,毕竟,你尽了你最大的努力。
考查短语。
as for对于;in total总共;in that case在那种情况下;after all毕竟。
根据“Never mind”可知回答在安慰对方,根据“you've tried your best”可知此处用短语after all表示“毕竟,你尽了最大的努力”。
故选D。
3、– Jimmy, I don’t like my classmate Bob. He is so noisy.– Oh, so he is. But you cannot avoid him. He sits next to you.A.meetB.to meetC.meetingD.to meeting答案:C句意:——Jimmy,我不喜欢我的同学Bob,他太吵闹了。
——哦,的确是这样,但是你不可能避免见到他,他就坐在你旁边。
meet遇见,动词原形;to meet动词不定式;meeting动名词;to meeting介词to后跟动名词。
洛阳市九年级英语全册Unit10Youaresupposedtoshakehands题型总结及解题方法单选题1、Excuse me, would you mind your voice down, please?A.to keepB.keepingC.keepD.kept答案:B句意:打扰一下,你介意你的声音小一点吗?to keep动词不定式;keeping动名词形式;keep动词原形;kept 是过去式。
这句话中使用的句型是mind doing sth.介意做某事,故选B。
点睛:这个题目考查动词mind的句型,它后面要求跟动名词形式做宾语,记住这个句型就可以帮助我们做题。
平时要积累一些跟动名词做宾语和跟动词不定式作宾语的动词。
2、—What film do you like best?—The Martian. It ________ shows a lot of imagination, ________ has a sense of humor.A.too; toB.neither; norC.either; orD.not only; but also答案:D句意:——你最喜欢哪部电影?——《火星救援》。
它不仅展现了丰富的想象力,还具有幽默感。
考查连词辨析。
too ... to ...太……而不能……;neither ... nor ...既不……也不……;either ... or ...要么……要么……;not only ... but also ...不但……而且……。
根据“The Martian. It ... shows a lot of imagination, ... has a sense of humor.”可知最喜欢《火星救援》,此处应该讲述其优点,不仅展现了丰富的想象力,而且有幽默感,用not only ... but also ...符合语境。
故选D。
3、In China, people greet each other by ________.A.kissingB.shaking handsC.huggingD.looking答案:B句意:在中国,人们互相握手问候。
洛阳市九年级英语全册Unit10Youaresupposedtoshakehands经典大题例题单选题1、Neither Jim nor Tom _______ Australia before, but they know the country very well.A.has gone toB.has been toC.have gone toD.have been to答案:B句意:Jim和Tom以前都没有去过澳大利亚,但是他们对那个国家非常了解。
考查现在完成时和主谓一致。
has gone to去了某地,主语为第三人称单数;has been to去过某地,主语是第三人称单数;have gone to去了某地,主语为第一人称或者是复数;have been to去过某地,主语为第一人称或者是复数。
根据句意可知,这里表示“去过某地”,先排除A和C。
主语是有Neither…nor连接的,谓语动词的单复数形式应根据就近原则,与Tom一致,用单数,故选B。
2、--Alice , would you like to go hiking with us?--What a pity! I am free every day today.A.forB.exceptC.besidesD.among答案:B句意:--Alice,请你和我们一块徒步旅行好吗?--真遗憾,除了今天之外,我每天都有空。
考查介词的用法。
A.for后跟时间段;B. except除了,在整体当中去除一部分;C. besides除了什么之外,还有;D. among在三者或三者以上之间。
本题意思是说除了今天没空,其它都有空,也就是指的是“在整体当中去除的意思”,except正是此意;故选B。
3、The boy found ________ easy to fly kites.A.thatB.itC.thisD.it’s答案:B句意:这个男孩发现放风筝很容易。
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Unit10You'resupposedtoshakehands原文与翻译SectionA1bListenandcheckyouranswersin1a.Yoshi:Whatarepeoplesupposedtodowhentheymeetinyourco untry,Rodrigo?Rodrigo:Doyoumeanwhenpeoplemeetforthefirsttime?Yoshi:Yeah.Rodrigo:InMexico,weshakehands.Yoshi:WhataboutinBrazil,Celia?Celia:Well,inBrazil,peoplesometimeskiss.HowaboutinJapan,Y oshi?Whatarepeopleexpectedtodowhentheymeetforthefirsttime?Yoshi:Webow.Kim:AndinKoreawealsobow.Mike:Well,IguessinmostWesterncountriesweshakehands.SectionA2astnightshehaddinneratanAmer icanfriend’shouse.Listenandcheck(√)themistakesMariamade.Daisy:Hi,Maria.HowwasPaul’sparty?Maria:Oh,Daisy,itwasterrible.Daisy:Itwas?Maria:Uh-huh.Daisy:Whathappened?Maria:Well,Iwassupposedtoarriveat7:00,butIarrivedat8:00.Daisy:Oh,soyouwerelate.Maria:Yeah,butinmycountry,it’sdifferent.Whenyou’reinvit edfor7:00,you’reexpectedtocomelater!It’sconsideredstranget oturnupontime.Daisy:Isee.Maria:ThenwhenImetPaul’smom,Ikissedher.Daisy:Oh…youweresupposedtoshakehandsinstead.Maria:That’sright.AndIworeafanc ydress.Daisy:What’swrongwiththat?Maria:Well,itturnedoutthatitwasanoutdoorparty,Daisy.Every oneelsewasinaT-shirtandjeans.Daisy:Iguessnexttimeyoushouldaskwhatyou’resupposedto wear.SectionA2bListenagain.Fillintheblanks.Daisy:Hi,Maria.HowwasPaul’sparty?Maria:Oh,Daisy,itwasterrible.Daisy:Itwas?Maria:Uh-huh.Daisy:Whathappened?Maria:Well,Iwassupposedtoarriveat7:00,butIarrivedat8:00.Daisy:Oh,soyouwerelate.Maria:Yeah,butinmycountry,it’sdifferent.Whenyou’reinvit edfor7:00,you’reexpectedtocomelater!It’sconsi deredstranget oturnupontime.Daisy:Isee.Maria:ThenwhenImetPaul’smom,Ikissedher.Daisy:Oh…youweresupposedtoshakehandsinstead.Maria:That’sright.AndIworeafancydress.Daisy:What’swrongwiththat?Maria:Well,itturnedoutthatitwasanoutdoorparty,Daisy.EveryoneelsewasinaT-shirtandjeans.Daisy:Iguessnexttimeyoushouldaskwhatyou’resupposedto wear.SectionA2dRoleplaytheconversation.Howwasthewelcomepartyforforeignstudentslastnight?Great!Imadesomenewfriends.Butafunnythinghappened.What?ImetaJapaneseboycalledSato,andassoonasIheldoutmyhand, hebowed.That'showpeopleinJapanareexpectedtogreeteachother.It'sim politeifyoudon'tbow.Ididn'tknowthat.SoIjuststoodtherewithmyhandout.Finally,Ire turnedthebow.IrememberwhenlfirstmetMarielastyear,Ididthesamething.Ihe ldoutmyhandandtomysurprise,shekissedmeonbothsidesofmyfac e!Iwouldn'tmindthat!terlfoundoutFrenchpeoplearesupposedtokissw hentheyseeeachother.SectionA3aReadthefollowingopinionsofaColombianandaSwissstudent.I nwhichcountryisitOKtobe15minuteslatefordinner?TeresaLopezCall.ColomblaWhereI’mfrom,we’reprettyrelaxedabouttime.Wedon’tlik etorusharound,sowedon’tmindifpeoplearealittlelatesometimes.Ifyoutellafriendyou’regoingtotheirhousefordinner,it’sOKif youarriveabitlate.Weliketoenjoyourtimeslowly.Wevaluethetimew espendwithourfamilyandfriendsinoureverydaylives.Weoftenjustdropbyourfriendshomesifwehavetime.Wedon’tusuallyhavetomakeplanstomeetourfriends.Whenweseeeachoth er,it’spoliteforboystoshakehandsandforgirlstokisseachotheront hesideoftheface.Weoftenjustwalkaroundthetowncenter,seeingasmanyofourfr iendsaswecan!Marcleblanclausanne.SwitzerlandInSwitzerland,it’sveryimportanttobeontime.We’rethecapi talofclocksandwatches,afterall!Ifsomeoneinvitesyoutomeethimo rheratnoon,thenyou’reexpectedtobethereatnoon.Ifyou’reeven15minuteslate,y ourfriendmaygetmad.SoImake anefforttobeontimewhenImeetmyfriends.Ialwaysleavethehousee arlytoavoidheavytrafficbecauseIthinkit’simpolitetokeepothersw aiting.Also,wenevervisitafriend’shousewithoutcallingfirst.Wealmo stalwaysmakeplanstoseefriends.Weusuallyplantodosomethingin teresting,orgosomewheretogether.SectionB1bSteveisgoingtoChinatostudy.HisfriendYangMingistellinghim aboutthetablemannersinChina.Listenandnumberthepicturesinth eorderyouhearthem.YangMing:YoumustbeexcitedaboutleavingforChinatomorro w,Steve!Steve:Yeah,butI’malittlenervous,too.YangMing:Why?Steve:Well,foronething,Idon’tknowhowtousechopsticksver ywell…andIdon’tknowhowtobehaveatthedinnertable.YangMing:Oh,Isee.Well,oneimportantthingisthatyou’renots upposedtostarteatingfirstifthereareolderpeopleatthetable.Steve:That’sinteresting.IntheUnitedStates,itdoesn’tmatter.YangMing:Yeah,Iknow.It’salsoimpolitetostickyourchopsticksintoyourfood.Youshouldn’tpointatanyonewithyourchopsticks, either.Steve:Oh,OK.YangMing:Oh,andthere’sonemorethingyouneedtoknow.Yo u’renotsupposedtotalkwhenyou’reeatingdinner.Onlyparentsa reexpectedtotalkatthedinnertable.Childrenarenotallowedtospea k.Steve:Wow!That’s…that’sunusual!YangMing:Haha,I’mjustkidding!SectionB1cListenagain.Matchthesesentenceparts.YangMing:YoumustbeexcitedaboutleavingforChinatomorro w,Steve!Steve:Yeah,butI’malittlenervous,too.YangMing:Why?Steve:Well,foronething,Idon’tknowhowtousechopsticksver ywell…andIdon’tknowhowtobehaveatthedinnertable.YangMing:Oh,Isee.Well,oneimportantthingisthatyou’renots upposedtostarteatingfirstifthereareolderpeopleatthetable.Steve:That’sinteresting.IntheUnitedStates,itdoesn’tmatter.YangMing:Yeah,Iknow.It’salsoimpolitetostickyourchopstick sintoyourfood.Youshouldn’tpo intatanyonewithyourchopsticks, either.Steve:Oh,OK.YangMing:Oh,andthere’sonemorethingyouneedtoknow.Yo u’renotsupposedtotalkwhenyou’reeatingdinner.Onlyparentsa reexpectedtotalkatthedinnertable.Childrenarenotallowedtospea k.Steve:Wow!That’s…that’sunusual!Yang Ming:Haha,I’mjustkidding!Readtheletterandanswerthequestions.DearLaura,Thanksforyourmessage.Yes,I’mhavingagreattimeonmystudentexchangeprograminFrance.IwasabitnervousbeforeIar rivedhere,buttherewasnoreasontobe.Myhostfamilyisreallynice.Th eygooutoftheirwaytomakemefeelathome.Thegrandmotherknow sthatImissChinesefoodalot.SosheactuallylearnedhowtomakeChi nesefood!Shealsohasateenagegranddaughteraboutmyagewhois reallykind.ShealwaystalkstomeinFrenchtohelpmepractice.Youwo uldn’tbelievehowquicklymyFrenchhasimprovedbecauseofthat.I’mverycomfortablespeakingFrenchnow.AlthoughIstillmak elotsofmistakes,itdoesn’tworrymeasitusedto.Mybiggestchallengeislearninghowtobehaveatthedinnertabl e.Asyoucanimagine,thingsareverydifferentfromthewaytheyareat home.Forexample,you’renotsupposedtoputyourbreadonyourpl ate.You’resupposedtoputitonthetable!Ithoughtthatwasprettyst rangeatfirst,butnowI’musedtoit.Anotherexampl eisthatyou’renotsupposedtoeatanythingwit hyourhandsexceptbread,notevenfruit.Youhavetocutitupandeatit withafolk.Anotherthingisthatitisimpolitetosayyou’refull.Ifyoudo n’twantanymorefood,youshouldjustsay,“Thatwasdelicious.”Al so,you’renotsupposedtoputyourelbowson thetable.Ihavetosayt hatIfinditdifficulttoremembereverything,butI’mgraduallygettingusedtoit.Idon’tfindFrenchcustoms sostrangeanymore,I’llwriteagainsoonandtellyoumoreaboutmylifeinFrance.Hopeyou’rehavingagoodschoolyear.Yours,LinYue翻译:凯蒂:昨晚为留学生举办的欢迎派对怎么样?约翰:真棒!我交了一些新朋友,不过发生了一件很有趣的事情。
Unit10 You’re supposed to shake hands.
(Section B 2a-3c)第五课时
学习目标: Knowledge aims:
1 Key Vocabulary:
table manners, behave, be/get used to, cut up, full, fork, be excited about 对…感到激动 give sb some suggestio ns and advice 给某人一些建议 look forward to doing sth期望做某事 show up 出现 knock on the door 敲门 make sb mad 使某人生气
Ability aims:1.Train students' reading ability.
2.Train students' writing ability.
学习重点难点Practise reading and writing using the target language.
教学过程 Step1 【lead in】
1.What do you know about customs in foreign countries?
2.What do you think is the biggest challenge when visiting a foreign country?
Step2单元重点短语
1.for the first time第一次
2.be supposed to do… 应该做…
3. be expected to do sth 被期望做…
4.shake hands with sb和…握手
5.ho ld out伸出
6.to one`s surprise令…意外的是
7 be relaxed about … 对…感到放松 8.rush around匆忙赶路
9. value the time珍惜时间 10.in one`s everyday life 在日常生活中
11.drop by 顺便拜访;随便进入 12.after all毕竟、终究
13.get mad with/at sb生…的气 14.make an/every effort to do sth 努力做…
15. heavy traffic繁忙的交通 16.It`s no big deal!小事一桩!
17. clean… off把…擦掉 18.take off脱下、(飞机)起飞、(事业)腾飞
19. as…as possible尽可能… 20.be worth the trouble 值得麻烦
21. be worth doing值得做 22.table manners餐桌礼仪
23.stick…into…把…伸进 24.point at指着
25.point to指向… 26. make sb. feel at home 使…感到宾至如归
27go out of one’s way to do sth 特地/努力做28.be comfortable doing sth自在地做…
29.feel good about doing sth做…感觉良好 30.behave well/badly表现好/不好 31.good/bad
behavior良好/坏举止/表现 32.Chinese customs中国的习俗
33. at the table在桌上 34.at table就餐
35.show up出现、赶到、显现、使…出丑
36.show off炫耀、显摆 37.show…around… 带…参观…
目标句型:be supposed to do
China is a country with a long history, so there are many customs in it.
Firstly, you are supposed to shake hands when you meet someone for the first time. Secondly, when you eat dinner with other people, it's rude to point at others with your chopsticks. Besides, if you are going to a party. you are supposed to arrive at the party on time, or a few minutes late. You are not supposed to give a clock or a watch to your friends as a pres ent, because it means "death" in Chinese. "When in Rome, do as the Romans do." If you are going to China, please follow the rules.
【新词自查】
一、根据句意和提示完成句子。
1. You are supposed to learn some______ (基本的) talking skills before starting work.
2. I decided to have an ______ (交换) with your collections.
3. Mary is the______ (外孙女) of the old m an who taught us to play g ames.
4. Jack is down because he ______ (表现) badly at his job interview.
5. You can take away anything in this room ______ (除…之外)that clock.
6. I gave the girl a beautiful gift with my bes t w .
7. Koreans use c when they have meals like Chinese.
8. The doctor gave us some s and advice about how to keep our eyes.
9. These visitors have to learn about the c about the country which they are traveling to.
10. It’s impolite to enter someone’s room without k at the door.
二.用所给词的适当形式填空。
(5分)
1. He (gradual)understood the text with the help of his teacher.
2. —Who can carry the big bag? —I can. It’s an (full)bag.
3. I have many difficulties in learning English. Who can give me some (suggest)?
4. —Is it worth (spend)much time to learn about the customs? —Yes, it is.
5. It’s(polite)for you to start eating first at the table.。