我眼中的婚姻英语作文

我眼中的婚姻英语作文

Those who can sail the ship of marriage safely all their

lives are masters with great perseverance; But no matter how

powerful the master is, it is impossible to drive the ship of

marriage peacefully all his life, because the climate of the

"sea" (external environment) cannot be controlled by human

beings. What we can do is to adjust the strategy of driving the

ship according to the different climate and the personal

conditions of the two sailors - but no matter which ship, there

is one thing in common: it must require the concerted efforts

of the two people, A small ship can run normally without one!

Even if one party feels tired, our other party should

understand and give her (him) an appropriate time to rest. It's

really a lucky thing to meet a partner who is willing to tolerate

you and give you time to rest. After we get a fundamental repair,

we should know to thank her (him), and invest in the "battle"

as soon as possible and redouble our efforts. It's extremely

selfish to blindly enjoy each other's tolerance and let each

other work alone without feeling distressed. The other party

is not Superman, she (he) will also be tired, will also be tired!

As a result of fatigue on both sides, the boat was allowed to

drift and sail by itself - when lucky, the wind was calm, and the boat could last for a few days; With bad luck, when

encountering wind waves and reefs, it seems that there is no

other result except capsizing.

After adding new crew members (children) to this small boat,

our two sailors have heavier responsibilities and more arduous

tasks. At this time, whether the two people treat the new crew

in the same way will become an important reason for whether the

boat can maintain balance. We should learn to compromise and

not go our own way. The key to driving the ship of marriage is

communication. If either party thinks it's right to go its own

way, it will cause the boat to lose its balance. If it is not

saved, it will capsize sooner or later.

When the "weather" is good and the "wind and waves" are

small, our two sailors are naturally free. They don't have to

spend much energy rowing, and they can enjoy the wind and the

moon at leisure; (at this time, I suggest that sisters seize

the time to recharge themselves, increase their market

competitiveness, and prepare for a rainy day so that they can

adapt to changes in any situation). When encountering a storm,

the two sailors must be calm and face it together. Never give

up a boat that can continue to run; If you really have to stop

and give up, you should also be calm, strive for a good reunion and separation, and think more about each other - after all,

we all boarded the same boat because of "love"! If you are

willing to think for each other, maybe everyone can get out of

it - the impulse of either party or the selfish act of abandoning

the ship will make the other party feel cold and do the same.

As a result, most of the boats were fragmented, and the sailors

were hurt by both sides, as well as the innocent crew!

I often think that a person's demeanor and temperament

can't be expressed in calm times; When you really encounter a

storm, you can keep calm, calm, not embarrassed, not hysterical,

that is the real demeanor and temperament!

I want to say - sisters, we can lose our marriage and career,

but don't lose our demeanor! Maybe many people will say that

I "certainly don't feel backache standing and talking!". But

I think that at any time, as long as we have this belief, when

the storm really comes in front of us, we can maintain our

demeanor; If you don't even have this belief at ordinary times,

there is no possibility of maintaining your demeanor. isn't it?