英文分手信

英语分手信模板Dear John,I have been seriously looking back upon our relationship and getting very clear on what I need and desire out of a relationship.The conclusion I have come to is that we are toodifferent in both our personality and our desired lifestyles to be able to successfully live together with joy, bliss, good communication, and interaction.This is not about you or about me "winning or losing", or about one of us being wrong -- it is about two ways of being... which do not fulfill each other, or go together. Though I had been open to having you visit with the thought that possibly we could 'try' again, after thinking about it a lot, I realize that it is not a good idea. I am very clear that we are not the 'right' people for each other at this time in our lives.Please forgive yourself, and me, for any 'mistakes' we made along the way... and remember that we both have grown immensely through being together... but the time has come to move on.So basically what I am saying is that I would like to'cancel' my invitation for you to visit. I feel at this time, that I need to move on with my life, and having you come and visit would not serve any positive purpose. You need to accept that this relationship is over and open yourself up to receiving the blessings of the universe...I think we both need to let go of the past, be grateful for what we had for a time, learn from our experiences, and move on from there.Dearest John, we have been through a lot together (I)have a learned a lot about myself, as you have learnt a lot about yourself. At this point, we are both ready to graduate to the next level in a relationship...What we have learned, whether while we were together, or whether after, through looking back on how we 'operated' together, will serve us in our future relationships.It has been my experience, that all relationships that end are simply opening the door to another level of joy, and a better relationship built on what we have learnt in the past. So I know and trust that there is someone out there who will support you in your growth while loving you exactly the way you are... which is something that we were not doing for each other. I constantly judged and criticized you, in the same manner that you judged and criticized me... Out there is the perfect person for you that will love you and not find a single thing to criticize about you in the same way that you will not find a single thing to criticize about them... You will accept her as she is, even while seeing that she is not "perfect".Do not see this as losing something, but rather as having gained knowledge and wisdom... Everything that you learned from us being together, as well as from us being separated, you will be able to put in practice in your next relationship to avoid the traps that we got into.EVERYTHING ALWAYS WORKS OUT FOR THE BEST, and this is no exception. Trust in yourself, trust in the Universe, trust in the power of Love that rules our lives. Please don’t getinto feeling sorry for yourself and wanting to 'end it all'. Rather, thank God for the learning experience, and ask forthe openness to recognize the blessings in your life. Theyare there... open yourself up to being you, acceptingyourself completely without judgment, and loving yourself unconditionally.I wish you joy, I wish you happiness, I wish you heaven on earth. Please trust in yourself and the Universe enough to take some deep breaths, and start looking to find and create joy in your life. It is there... simply step out and claim it.Blessings to you... Be the light!。

英语分手信Dear John,I have been seriously looking back upon our relationship and getting very clear on what I need and desire out of a relationship.The conclusion I have e to is that we are too different in both our personality and our desired lifestyles to be able to successfully live together with joy, bliss, good munication, and interaction.This is not about you or about me winning or losing, or about one of us being wrong -- it is about two ways of being... which do not fulfilleach other, or go together. Though I had been open to having you visit with the thought that possibly we could try again, after thinking about it a lot, I realize that it is not a good idea. I am very clear that we are not the right people for each other at this time in our lives.Please forgive yourself, and me, for any mistakes we made along the way... and remember that we both have grown immensely through being together... but the time has e to move on.So basically what I am saying is that I would like to cancel my invitation for you to visit. I feel at this time, that I need to move onwith my life, and having you e and visit would not serve any positive purpose. You need to accept that this relationship is over and openyourself up to receiving the blessings of the universe...I think we both need to let go of the past, be grateful for what we had for a time, learn from our experiences, and move on from there.Dearest John, we have been through a lot together... I have a learned a lot about myself, as you have learnt a lot about yourself. At this point, we are both ready to graduate to the next level in a relationship...What we have learned, whether while we were together, or whether after, through looking back on how we operated together, will serve us in our future relationships.It has been my experience, that all relationships that end are simply opening the door to another level of joy, and a better relationship builton what we have learnt in the past. So I know and trust that there is someone out there who will support you in your growth while loving you。

英文小作文分手文案英文：Breaking up is never easy. It's a decision that requires a lot of thought and consideration. Sometimes, even when you love someone, it's just not enough to make a relationship work. That's what happened with my ex-partner and me.We had been together for three years, and things were great in the beginning. We had a lot in common, and we were both very happy. However, as time went on, we started to realize that we had different goals and priorities in life. We tried to work through our differences, but it justwasn't working.In the end, we both knew that it was time to go our separate ways. It was a difficult decision, but we knew it was the right one. We both deserve to be with someone who shares our values and goals in life.中文：分手从来都不容易。

这是需要考虑和思考的决定。

有时候，即使你爱一个人，也不足以让一段关系持续下去。

英文分手信（精选6篇）英文篇1Dear John,I have been seriously looking back upon our relationship and getting very clear on what I need and desire out of a relationship.The conclusion I have come to is that we are too different in both our personality and our desired lifestyles to be able to successfully live together with joy, bliss, good communication, and interaction.This is not about you or about me "winning or losing", or about one of us being wrong -- it is about two ways of being... which do not fulfill each other, or go together. Though I had been open to having you visit with the thought that possibly we could 'try' again, after thinking about it a lot, I realize that it is not a good idea. I am very clear that we are not the 'right' people for each other at this time in our lives.Please forgive yourself, and me, for any 'mistakes' we made along the way... and remember that we both have grown immensely through being together... but the time has come to move on.So basically what I am saying is that I would like to 'cancel' my invitation for you to visit. I feel at this time, that I need to move on with my life, and having you come and visit would not serve any positive purpose. You need to accept that this relationship is over and open yourself up to receiving the blessings of the universe...英文分手信篇2：I think we both need to let go of the past, be grateful for what we had for a time, learn from our experiences, and move on from there.Dearest John, we have been through a lot together... I have a learned a lot about myself, as you have learnt a lot about yourself. At this point, we are both ready to graduate to the next level in a relationship...What we have learned, whether while we were together, or whether after, through looking back on how we 'operated' together, will serve us in our future relationships.It has been my experience, that all relationships that end are simply opening the door to another level of joy, and a better relationship built on what we have learnt in the past. So I know and trust that there is someone out there who will support you in your growth while loving you exactly the way you are... which is something that we were not doing for each other. I constantly judged and criticized you, in the same manner that you judged and criticized me... Out there is the perfect person for you that will love you and not find a single thing to criticize about you in the same way that you will not find a single thing to criticize about them... You will accept her as she is, even while seeing that she is not "perfect".英文分手信篇3:Enthusiasm is true love,isn't it ?As you said so.OK,different people have different ideas.And there won't be any answer true or false.I always hold it to myself thattoleration,understanding,trusting can lead to true love.Anyway wateriness is the right truth!Life won't always turn out to be romantic and ideal!We must face the reality!Well ,this is all what I want to talk to you!Maybe one day you will find something in what I have said.You don't need to feel guilty now!You have at last found your princess ,your true love ,that is a good thing!Congratulations!What I can say is just best wishes to you.I have given up so much for you! I have lost myself!So much so that I even don't know my own feeling!Maybe sepration can help me to find back the real myself!Heartbreaking because I have paid out so much wholeheartedly!Let me alone then.I need some time to calm down , think it over well and heal the wound!Finally,Gook luck to you ! And bless you that your dream will come true!I sent an E-mail that night.That was what I felt after you told me the truth.If you want to know more,you can download and read it.Whether we can still be good friend,I am not sure.That isn't a question that I can answer off the cuff .Time will justify that!英文分手信篇4baby:Please allow me the last time so call you! When you see this letter I've been on a trip back home because I know I never has no chance to say these two words with you, this is the last letter I wrote to you, at this moment my heart ached, but for the sakeof your choice I still want to write this letter brimming with tears.In you leave me these two days I thought a lot also understand a lot, I find you just want to keep you mean there is no other hope you don't want to wrong, as you said in the monitor our family you I can assure you that there is absolutely no, right now I will never in bother you. I wish you would give me the last time we have the opportunity to, until the morning, and I said you let me understand the lost love, many people know that the lost love is hard to turn back! But even in together also can't be like before, because I love you, I still choose no longer entwine you, maybe I just a traveler in your life! I hope the afterlife I door will continue to this period of bitter love! Perhaps this love should be sweet, then think about it. Many things are all my own ignorance of mistakes... but I really don't want to break up with you, I know I am a bad temper.Countless times to quarrel with you for little things, can be a little absurd, looking back now forget it, all over now ` everything in the past with the wind. Forget may be a good thing! Hope everyone happy even break up will break up, I know this is easier said than done. It's hard to do! When I think about being with you together happy tears can strike down. Let it gone, lost love heart let time slowly wound it forget perhaps very difficult, but I will learn to slowly try! I hope one day, I really can really learn, instead of sad. Meeting you was fate of traction, leave you may be hit the doomed, perhaps the fate will become more! The past sweet aftertaste now can only use crying instead, everything can only cause destruction in miss yourself!With all my happiness and hope to be with you is nearly eight months, many others did not experience the pain.. We have learned. Again the injustice of the deepest heart, tears of failure,is a very simple word "love" to cover. Maybe I have to break up to you to say, maybe I don't believe that we have come to an end; But your rude words made me sad, maybe everybody is sad, but I think it's time we say break up to you. Today we finally have the courage to face the regret of the past, I have the courage to face you should be, in addition to regret in the face of such result can only say that I don't know about you.I think with you together of days is happy and happy, is you let me know what call love? How to care about a person, love a person? How to be a good boyfriend? How to make a girlfriend happy? All this is all you taught me, thank you for let me know the many, many I did not know and done before, in my memory, you also once many times said broke up with me, how many times we are through the tears, in retrospect, also many times with you quarrel, I am really sorry you, let you involvement, let every time you are very pain, also let your character became mania and throw things, I know I in your eyes is always a long small children don't mature, because of my ignorance and immature for heart and tired.Maybe I said promise, for you never not achieve them, but for me I have to go to do, but a commitment not to implement two or three days, after all, the relationship to the future happiness, and may also be because our personality are caused by the impatient, has already passed, however, will not start again from today, because you are tired, tired you should let go, have a word, love you will make you happy, you and I can't find happiness together, only leave you let you find happiness in the heart, this is also one of the biggest cost love, though you find happiness is no longer I, but I still want to bless you, hope you later life happy happy, also wish you good health! If love a personis so silently selfless dedication, whether spiritual or material, all I want, that is why I will change my position, for the sake of your happiness, I will accept, because the reality is cruel, love is selfish! It's hard to avoid damage.I was a boy of reluctance to debt, more reluctant to carry debt, so I don't want to see you sacrifice their all stay with me, do you think is the love me, but you forget that I love you too, don't want to see you more sacrifice. Leave only heard silence, in addition to silence to leave you I still have what choice? There is a love called to give up in the world and fall in love with you is a wrong, but I have no regret. It is good to have memories with you my life. I will be happy, so you rest assured, because my life's biggest sorrow is away from you, again sad again difficult?Take good care of yourself, if you forget me you will happy, so forget me, don't blame you, you always like a child let me love and chi, now that I can't give you happiness, so I have to let go hold your hand, my can let you go looking for happiness...Baby, again say to you that the two profound words, it could also be the last time I have ever told you so, I'm gone...英文分手信篇5:I am not used to condemn the others for what they have done to me,however bad and harmful to me.But I do feel woeful!!Several days ago ,when I knew that one of my classmate denigrated me ,stepped on me and climb to the upper level to achive so-called honour.I was stunned!I was very sad!Not because she had deprived what should belong to me,but just I thought I could never trust her any longer,and I would lose a friend forever!We human being are always selfish.We would take anymeasure to gain our goal!Surely,I don't necessarily mean that the affair between us is the same as that.Though you did make me feel awful ,too.How long is "forever"?What is so-called "undivided attention"?What is true love?I just wonder!英文分手信篇6:First of all,I want to make out that you don't necessarily apologize to me.Well if apology could make any sense,there would not be any court in the world.Of course, it dosen't mean that I want to take you to court.But you should know what you have said and done to me really make me sick!You have deeply hurt me!You have hurt a girl's self-esteem!Maybe she is more charming,more capable,and more excellent than me.I am not sure.But I suppose so.If not ,I think you should not break your word!These two days,I look back upon what have happened to us in the passing year.I felt really heartrending .Though it wasn't a nightmare,it couldn't be a beautiful dream.When I was still in ZH, I held the notion to myself if we both try our best,trust each other,we could reach a happy end.But when I came to GZ,I found all things didn't turn out to be what I had wished to.Even you ,I can say,were quite differnt.We didn't have much in common any more.We have differnt education background,differnt lifestyle,and the most important,we don'thave the same faith.You are active, exhilarating, and outstanding .All these character are what I appreciate.However,you are not so considerate.You always took it for granted that I could accept what you thought should be right.Have you ever imagined that I also have my own opinion?!I am not so dependent as you maybe think I should be!I don't want to waste time justifying that.Some times I couldn't bear your words and behavior,and I could feel the great pressure to stay with you .But I always thought that I could live up with that.It was just a matter of time.However it won't be possible any more.You have the right to make your own choice.I won't reproach you for that. All of us just want to aspire after the best ,don't we?。

dear john中的分手信范文dear john电影中，最后双方没有走下去，从此dear john也成了分手信的代名词。

今天，店铺为大家带了dear john中的分手信，请大家欣赏!dear john中的分手信Long were the nights还记得那些漫漫长夜When the days once revolved around you那些都围绕着你转的日子Counting my footsteps,数着自己的脚步Prayin' the floor won't fall through,again祈祷着这次别再成为泡影My mother accused me of losing my mind妈妈说我疯了But I swore I was fine但我发誓我很好You paint me a blue sky and go back你为我画出一片蓝天And turn it to rain却又让它下起雨And I lived in your chess game我成了你的游戏里的棋子But you changed the rules every day而你却不断改变游戏规则Wonderin which version of you想着到底什么样的你I might get on the phone,tonight,会在今晚打电话给我Well I stopped pickin' up于是我不再回应你And this song is to let you know why 这首歌会让你知道原因Dear John,I see it all now that you're gone.我现在看清了你已彻底离开Don't you think I was too young难道你不觉得我当时太年轻To be messed with不应该被你玩弄感情么The girl in the dress那个穿着裙子的女孩Cried the whole way home一路哭着回家I shoulda known.我早就应该知道的Well maybe it's me可能是我的错And my blind optimism to blame可能是我盲目乐观Maybe its you and your sick need可能是你和你的病态需求To give love then take it away你爱了却又把它收回And you'll add my name你将把我的名字To your long list of traitors加到你那长长名单上Who don't understand名单上满是那些不懂你的背叛者And I'll look back in regret我现在回想起来满是后悔How I ignored when they said我怎么忽略了他们对我的告诫Run as fast as you can让我离你越远越好Dear John,I see it all now that you're gone.我现在看清了你已彻底离开Don't you think I was too young难道你不觉得我当时太年轻To be messed with不应该被你玩弄感情么The girl in the dress那个穿着裙子的女孩Cried the whole way home一路哭着回家Dear John,I see it all now it was wrong我现在看清自己做错了Don't you think nineteen's too young难道你不觉得19岁的我太年轻To be played by your dark twisted games 不应该被你黑暗扭曲的友情游戏玩弄么When I loved you so我曾那么爱你I shoulda known我早就应该知道的You are an expert at sorry你是一个And keeping lines blurry不懂得划清界限And never impressed by me也从没真正欣赏过我Acing your tests一直想着玩你的游戏All the girls that you run dry那些被你伤透了心的女孩们Have tired lifeless eyes她们的眼睛都已无神Cuz you burned them out因为你让她们绝望But I took your matches我在你的火烧着我之前Before fire could catch me就拿走了你的火柴So don't look now所以现在看我(字面上：别看)I'm shining like fireworks我像烟花一样耀眼Over your sad empty town而你处在空荡的城市却很可悲Oh woah ohDear John,I see it all now that you're gone. 我现在看清了你已彻底离开Don't you think I was too young 难道你不觉得我当时太年轻To be messed with不应该被你玩弄感情么The girl in the dress那个穿着裙子的女孩Cried the whole way home一路哭着回家I see it all now that you're gone.我现在看清了你已彻底离开Don't you think I was too young难道你不觉得我太年轻To be messed with不应该被你玩弄感情么The girl in the dress那个穿着裙子的女孩Wrote you a song写了一首歌给你You should've known你应该早就知道的You shoulda known你应该早就知道的Don't you think I was too young难道你不觉得我当时太年轻么You shoulda known.你应该知道的给女友的分手信范文1我们分手吧。

分手信英文原版篇一：英文分手信情人们互递情书本来是一件浪漫的事情，不过人人都害怕上面写的是：我们分手吧！这一定令人伤心欲绝。

在英语的分手信里，被甩的人都有一个共同的称谓John.DearJohnletter（分手信）源自第二次世界大战的时候，由于美国成千上万的士兵都驻守在异国，他们和女友或妻子的距离造成了感情上的隔阂，当这些隔阂在信纸上交流的时候就变成了：DearJohn,IhavefoundsomeoneelsewhomIthinktheworldof.Ithinkth eonlywayoutisforustogetadivorce.2.macaroni意大利空心面，通心粉3.--john:youarestartingtomakemealittleneverous.--savannah:whyamistartingtomakeyounervous?---john:becauseiamstartingtothinkyoumightbetoogoodofaperson forme,---savannah:iamnotthatgoodofaperson.4.sneakofftodosth.偷偷做某事5.filthy污秽的，肮脏的6.retardedn.智障v.推迟，阻塞：（retard)7.autisticn.孤独症患者adj.孤独的，自闭的8.leftovern.残余物，剩下的饭菜adj.残留的道歉的话：sorry.ididn’tmeantomakeyoufeelthat..ihavenoideawhatiwastalkingabout. 9reenlistv.延长服役篇二：读书报告分手信英文thesilentlovedearjohnisoneoftherepresentativebookswrittenbythefamousamer icanauthorwhosenameisnicholassparks,andthisnovelhasbeenadaptedtoafilm.thenovel?smainlineisthelovebetweentheherojohnand theheroinesavannah,goingwithitshappeningandmissing.asanothe rinvisiblelineinnovel,john?sfather?sfigureischanginganddeve lopingcrisscrossinjohn?seyes.andit?sallaboutlove.whatiwilld iscussisjohn?sfather?slovetohisson.onceonthebus,ioccasionallysawanoldmanworkinghardforthiscity undertheflyover,lookingpoor.timehasleftlayersofwrinklesonhi sfaceandtheburningsunmakeshisskindark.itreallystrokemyheart .themanisoldenoughtoliveouttheirlifeinretirement,buthestill workonthebottomofsocietyforhisfamily.allwecansee,onthewayto theurbanization,somanyoldpeoplesacrificetheirsunsetinlifewh ilemanysonsanddaughtersarenotresponsibletosupportthewholefa mily.thecitywillbeemptywithoutthelovebetweenparentsandchild ren.英语1mymomwouldtellme,dontgiveup,justbeyou,causelifestooshorttob eanybodyelse.妈妈对我说不要放弃做自己就好了因为人生很短根本没时间模仿别人。

英文分手信
情人们互递情书本来是一件浪漫家书的事情，不过人人上面都害
怕上面写到的是：“我们分手吧!” 这一定令人伤心欲绝。

在英语的“分手信”里，被甩的人都有一个共同的称谓——John.
“Dear John letter”(分手信)源自二次大战的源自时候，由于
数百万美国数以千计的士兵都驻守在异国，他们和女友或妻子的距离
造成了感情上的隔阂，当这些隔阂在信纸上交流的时候就变成了：“Dear John, I have found someone else whom I think the world of. I think the only way out is for us to get a divorce.”(亲
爱的约翰，我想我找到了我的挚爱，只不过他不是你，我想唯一的解
决不想方法就是我们离婚吧。

)
收到这样的来信，战士们一个个都伤心欲绝，到了后来，这些人
就有了一个代指Johns,那么为什么一定是“John”呢?
当时有一首非常知名的歌中唱到“Johnnie get your gun”，由此，John常用来指代大兵。

并且，在欧美国家，“John”是一个更为
普遍的名字，后来在很多俚语当中，“John”也用来通指男性。

近年，随着男女平等男女平等的呼声更为浓厚，也诞生了“Dear Jane
letter”来指女性写给女性的绝交信。

英语分手信英语分手信simpl step out and laim it. Blessings to ou... Be the light!内容简介：老公：一直以来我都是个懦弱的女孩。

我用尽心力的守着我们的恋爱，为你把一切都弄得很好，给了你我所能给的幸福。

而我从未和你提过任何要求...那真是一个可爱的女孩。

我偷看了你给她写的话，里面的每一句话真的好甜蜜，好感人。

我看着看着就哭了，我骗自己，这是你写给我的，你永远是爱我的，你怎么可能和别人爱得那么深呢?是啊!你没有提分手，我怎么敢说，我怕说了就真的，永远永远都没有你了。

老公，我真的很爱你，很爱这个家。

所以你不说，我也什么都不问。

只是在你睡了以后我一个人在哭。

你知道吗?我想谢谢你，谢谢你陪了我那么多年，我知道你很爱她，就向我爱着你那样。

你没说过分手，我已经很庆幸了，至少你还是知道回家陪我，回陪我一起吃饭，傻傻的笑。

至少你还记得回家给我一个拥抱，记得我的生日!我觉得够了，真的。

我爱着你，包容着她。

我以为我们可以就这样相安无事的永远相处下去。

直到你昨晚和我讲了一个故事。

你说：我有一个朋友，他和他的女朋友已经恋爱2年了。

他有个很好的女朋友，一直以来他都爱着他的女朋友，可他遇到了一个可爱的女孩。

女孩对他很好，给了他女朋友所没有的快乐和幸福。

于是他们恋爱了，偷偷摸摸却又热烈的爱着。

女孩很懂事，和他在一起从来没有提过叫他和他的老婆分手之类的事。

他依旧爱着他的老婆，只是那已经是属于2个女人的爱了。

他不会抛弃他的老婆，因为他的老婆对他太好了，好得找不到分手的理由，找不到伤害她的借口。

那个女孩把最美好的东西都给了他，他没办法拒绝女孩，可又无法抛弃爱他的老婆。

故事到这就结束了，你问我：你说他该怎么办? 我没有说话。

我知道这是你和他之间的故事。

这是你最无奈的选择。

昨晚你睡觉之后，我在旁边看着你，看着你好看的脸。

看着你熟睡的样子，你睡得真甜。

我吻了你，在你身上小心的留下几百个吻，我知道这是最后一次了。

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致力于打造高品质文档英语分手信Dear John,I have been seriously looking back upon our relationship and getting very clear on what I need and desire out of a relationship.The conclusion I have come to is that we are too different in both our personality and our desired lifestyles to be able to successfully live together with joy, bliss, good communication, and interaction.This is not about you or about me "winning or losing", or about one of us being wrong -- it is about two ways of being... which do not fulfill each other, or go together. Though I had been open to having you visit with the thought that possibly we could 'try' again, after thinking about it a lot, I realize that it is not a good idea. I am very clear that we are not the 'right' people for each other at this time in our lives.Please forgive yourself, and me, for any 'mistakes' we made along the way... and remember that we both have grown immensely through being together... but the time has come to move on.So basically what I am saying is that I would like to 'cancel' my invitation for you to visit. I feel at this time, that I need to move on with my life, and having you come and visit would not serve any positive purpose. You need to accept that this relationship is over and open yourself up to receiving the blessings of the universe...I think we both need to let go of the past, be grateful for what we had for a time, learn from our experiences, and move on from there.Dearest John, we have been through a lot together... I have a learned a lot about myself, as you have learnt a lot about yourself. At this point, we are both ready to graduate to the next level in a relationship...What we have learned, whether while we were together, or whether after, through looking back on how we 'operated' together, will serve us in our future relationships.It has been my experience, that all relationships that end are simply opening the door to another level of joy, and a better relationship built on what we have learnt in the past. So I know and trust that there is someone out there who will support you in your growth while loving you exactly the way you are... which is something that we were not doing for each other. I constantly judged and criticized you, in the same manner that you judged and criticized me... Out there is the perfect person for you that will love you and not find a single thing to criticize about you in the same way that you will not find a single thing to criticize about them... You will accept her as she is, even while seeing that she is not "perfect".Do not see this as losing something, but rather as having gained knowledge and wisdom... Everything that you learned from us being together, as well as from us being separated, you will be able to put in practice in your next relationship to avoid the traps that we got into.。