中西方爱情观比较英文PPT

Comparisons Of Chinese And Western Views On LoveDefinition and place of loveWestern countries:•Love is the first, and men in love can sacrifice（牺牲）everything, and the woman in love also will give up everything.•In western literature（文学）love is a kind of irresistible(不可抵制的）power. •The admired（羡慕，赞美）is a perfect angel.China: Chinese people pay attention to marriage and despise(轻视）love。

love is more than the relationship of two persons.even if the special felling disappeared between them ，there is still a greatchance that they choose to live togethertheir relationship is not just about themselves, but the whole family includingthe child, parent, relatives, etcThe choice of marriage partnerWestern countries:•The choice of the sexes and marriage partner is based on love, regardless of background（背景）, family, age, social status and other considerations. •With emotion（情感，情绪）get close together. Without it ,they are divided （分裂的）.China : Many factors are consideredEg：•The Romance of Western Bower（西厢记）•Impressive Plot（情节）: Zhang Junrui had to meet secretly with Yingying, who was waiting for the moon over the Western Bower, by climbing over thewall into the garden. yingying is the daughter of a rich businessman ，however,zhang is a poor intellectual.•Their love was enthusiastic（热烈的）and sincere（真诚的，诚实的）, but unacceptable.Love collide（碰撞）Western countries:•Westerners pay more attention to the external beauty, namely the “lust”（欲望）in human nature.Example: Romeo and JulietRomeo and Juliet falling in love at first sight is based on both sides of the beauty. They don’t have deep communications. They make judgments according to the impressions（观感）of the opposite（对面的）person’s looks.China:The Oriental（东方人的）pay more attention to the inner beauty, namely “passion"（激情，热情）side in human nature.Example: Liang Shanbo and Zhu YingtaiLiang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai have quite a long time for communications such as three years’classmates reading. In daily contact, Zhu Yingtai was attracted by Liang’s talent and connotation（内涵）and gave him her heart.The expressions of loveWestern countries: Direct and straightforward（坦率的）frankly、open、romantic 、egardless（不注意的）of everything Eg：'I loved you. I never shall. That's the truth, Roy. I never shall.'‘我爱你，从未爱过别人，永远不会，这是真的，罗伊，永远不会。

The comparison between the west and east about the notion of love and marriageThe love of chinese style pays attention to the implicit. That women are bashful and men are straightforward and good-natured is conforming to moral sense according to the love notion of chinese love ,otherwise it will do harm to custom.however in the west,people persue romance and freedom,aiming at realizing self-value. As far as the west people are concerned,falling in love with each other is the result of animated and romantic contribution between two persons,love should not be tied by family background ,social position and so on,which has nothing to do with love.all feelings should comply with nature,if two persons fall in love with each other ,they should be together, or they leave each other,caring about liability and morais will do harm to the love at that moment.they should enjoy the sweet love instead of caring about .on the contrary ,chinese people think that marriage,which is required to be well-matched in social and economic status, is the business of two families,the youngers are not allowed to get married without the permission of the elders. On the other hand,the west people have the idea that sex is what each side takes something that he or she needs,in terms of the love notion,women think that their love must be given to their loves according to their own desires ,while chinese people believe that sex is the contrat of liability and ethics,women pay more attention to that whether it conforms to social ethics and morals and men must givewomen the enough security.Maybe a recent survey can show something.when carrying out a long-term relationship based on love,The general situation is that someone who invites firstly pays the bill,as the cases like this,most western women look forward to men paying the bill initiatively, for men ,it is gentle and generous . If they feel good with eath other,the following days they go dutch.they take the economic difference into consideration at the same time .The survey of chinese college students shows that in most cases ,bills should be payed by boys single,and it is occupied 76.5% by girls,60.6% by boys.Girls who think about go dutch take up a less part than boys.In the modernism society of China,college students prefer valentine'day and christmas day to traditional festivals.They have a great appetite for western romantic ,enthusiasm for the way they love. However, Chinese traditional idea imposes restrictiontions on the plato'love. The consumer concept like this reflects in the campus.In my opinion , love is the first step of marrige,with the reason of two persons living together all theirs lives ,marrige can not be lasting without love.with the premise of love,two people work hard for their future,only in this way can they cherish each other and all that they have.in my heart ,i look forward to the ordinary love and accept theso-called Naked marriage and Trial marriage,for the reason that marriage is the lifelong career ,we should not neglect it .we can find the problem and solve it in time,so we will not regret in life .it is performance of being responsible to ourselves and marriage.。