五个方法教你如何自信起来(英汉对照)
1.Vent to someone who knows you well.
向理解你的人倾吐心声
One thing I do for myself is I whine to people who know me about how
something isn’t working or I’m not getting the clients I want, or not
taking big strides toward my next goal, Capland says. And then they
remind me of what I bring to the table, and my gifts and talents, and look
how much I’ve done.
可能有些事情不如预期那么顺利,也可能是我没能搞定客户,或者是我在前进的路上踌躇不前的时候,我会做的一件事是向知道我难处的人倒倒苦水。开普兰说,然后他们会告诉我,我其实已经做了很多,给我指出我的禀赋,让我看清我已经做出的贡献。
Chances are, there are people in your own life who know how much
you’ve accomplished and can remind you what those accomplishments
are when you’re feeling frustrated or helpless. Talking to these people is
one of the best things you can do to give yourself the confidence you
need.
其实就是这样,当你无助而颓丧时,你生命中总会出现理解你的辛劳,告诉你你的成就的人。和这种人谈话能让你的自信感倍增。