Abstracts : This paper discusses elements for a woman to marry well in modern society, using the five marriages (Bingley and Jane, Darcy and Elizabeth, Collins and Charlotte, Wickham and Lydia, Mr. and Mrs. Bennet) described in the novel as thread and combining the current marriage embarrassments in China to make a statement that the four core elements for a woman to marry well and happily are material background, spiritual affection, actual need and punctual action.
Key words: marriage; material background; spiritual affection; actual need; punctual action
摘要：这篇论文主要通过对《傲慢与偏见》中所描述的五桩婚姻（宾利和简，达西和伊利莎白，科林斯和夏洛特，威科姆和莉迪亚以及班讷特夫妇）的分析，来讨论现代社会女性如何嫁得好的问题。论文以小说为线索，结合当下中国的婚姻状况，得出结论女人幸福婚姻的四要素：经济基础、精神爱慕、实际需求和及时行动。
关键字：婚姻；物质背景；精神爱慕；实际需求；及时行动