A:I was always thinking about a question,in the modern society,who should look after the family?
B:most of time ,is women.but it also have some exceptions.
A:Who should look after the family in your opinion, the wife or the husband?
B:for me ,i think women should look up the family and men should go outside to earn money!
A:you are so traditional!ok,please give me more reasons!
B:men are less doubted the ability to take more important work,and more easy to get success in the commercial community,that is mean they can get much money than the women who do the same thing!
A:so in your family,it must be your mother look after it,right?
B:yes!and my mother management the family’s financial.as women are more careful than men.what’s your opinion?
A:I agree with you most of the part.I think both of them should look after the family .but women do more .
B:why?
A:in today’s life,women go to work ,too.and even some of them do work better than men.men should share them housework with women.less money earn,more housework!
B:that’s sounds reasonable.a modem time man should caring and respect his wife like a gentleman.
A:that’s right.you are seemingly a modern gentleman!
2013年全国硕士研究生入学统一考试英语（二）试题解析 Section I Use of English 1.【答案】A(However) 【解析】空前作者讲到“鉴于电子货币的优势,你也许会认为,我们将快速步入非现金社会,实现完全电子支付。”而空后说“真正的无现金社会很可能不会马上到来”这两句话语义是转折的，因此答案A。B. moreover表递进C. therefore 表结果D. Otherwise表对比 2.【答案】D (around) 【解析】由空格所在句的“but”得知，句子前后是转折关系。事实上,这样的预测已经二十年了,但迄今还没有实现。A. off 停止B. back 返回C. over 结束，与后文均不构成转折，故答案选D. around出现。 3.【答案】B (concept) 【解析】空格所在的句子意思为例如, 1975年《商业周刊》预测电子支付手段不久将“彻底改变货币本身的____”将四个选项带入，能够彻底改变的对象只能是金钱的概念(定义)，而A“力量”,C“历史”,D“角色”，语义都不恰当，并且如果选择role的话，应该是复数roles, 因为是金钱的作用不止一个，故答案选B。 4.【答案】D (reverse) 【解析】空格填入的动词跟前面的动词revolutionize (变革)意思上应该是同义替换的，要选择含有变革，彻底改变意思的词汇，四个选项中A. reward 奖励B. 抵抗C. resume 重新开始，继续，都不合适，只有D选项reverse“颠覆”最为贴切，本句译为“电子支付方式不久将改变货币的定义,并将在数年后颠覆货币本身。” 5.【答案】C (slow) 【解析】根据前面的句意得知，早在1975年就预测了无现金社会将到来，而实际上作者讲到“真正的无现金社会很可能不会马上到来”，因此也得出这种变革是一个缓慢的过程，故答案选择C。A. silent沉寂的，B. sudden突然的，D. steady稳定不变的。 6.【答案】B (against) 【解析】上一段末句提出本段的论点，即人们进入无现金时代的速度缓慢的原因。因此本段应围绕纸币系统不会消失来阐述。而且由句首的Although得知，空格所在句与前一句是转折关系。尽管电子支付手段可能比纸币支付方式更加高效，然而以下几个方面解释了纸币系统“不会”消失的原因，故答案选B，work against妨碍，对…产生消极影响。A. work for 为…而工作C. work with 与…共事，对…起作用D. work on 从事…工作，对…起作用，都不合适。 7.【答案】B (expensive) 【解析】本句陈述的原因都是关于上句提到的传统支付方式的优点，即推广电子支付方式不利之处。所以根据这个基调，得出选项productive不对，最后根据空后的内容推理出消极意思的选项expensive，其他选项意思放到空格处不合理，imaginative，意思是“虚构的、富于想象力的”;sensitive，意思是“敏感的、容易受伤的”。故本题正确答案为B。 8.【答案】D(dominant) 【解析】空格所在句译为...使得电子货币成为____支付方式，将四个选项带入，C, D是比较恰当的，再结合本文章的主旨，应该选择“占主导地位的，支配地位”这层意思的D 选项。A. similar 相似的B. original原始的，独创的,都不合适。 9.【答案】B (provide) 【解析】纸质支票支付能够____收据,这是和电子支付相比的一大优势，A. collect 收集收据，C. copy 复印收据，D. print打印收据都和实际生活不符合。应该是B. provide提供
研究生英语口语自我介绍(2) 研究生英语口语自我介绍 1 Introdu ___ yourself 介绍个人信息 2 Introdu ___ your college 介绍你的大学 3 Introdu ___ your family 介绍你的家庭 4 Introdu ___ your hometown 介绍你的家乡 5 Introdu ___ your reasons for preparing the postgraduate exam 介绍自己为何要考研 6 Why do you choose to study in our department? 讲述报考该院校的`原因 7 About your future plans 你的未来计划 8 Do you have any hobbies? 个人爱好
Good morning, teachers, I am honored to be informed to have this interview. Good morning. I am glad to be here for this interview. First let me introdu ___ myself. Good morning. It’s my great honor to attend this interview. Good morning. I’m very glad to have this opportunity for this interview. Good morning. I’m so glad to attend the interview. I’m so glad to attend this interview today. This opportunity of interview is precious to me. In fa ___ of it, I feel the wish to enter this university is so urgent. It seems that my dream will soon e true. I sin ___rely hope all professors here can give me this opportunity to realize my dream. In a word, if luckily I get the chan ___ to learn MBA in Dalian University of Technology, I will do my best on the study and research in my graduate time, and I hope I
Unit One Text: You Are What You Think And if you change your mind-from pessimism to optimism -you can change your life Claipe Safran [1] Do you see the glass as half full rather than half empty? Do you keep your eye upon the doughnut, not upon the hole? Suddenly these clichés are scientific questions, as researchers scrutinize the power of positive thinking. [2] A fast-growing body of research—104 studies so far, involving some 15,000 people—is proving that optimism can help you to be happier, healthier and more successful. Pessimism leads, by contrast, to hopelessness, sickness and failure, and is linked to depression, loneliness and painful shyness. "If we could teach people to think more positively," says psychologist Craig A. Anderson of Rice University①in Houston②，"it would be like inoculating them against these mental ills." [3] "Your abilities count," explains psychologist Michael F. Scheier of Carnegie Mellon University③in Pittsburgh④, "but
2020年全国硕士研究生入学统一考试英语（二）试题及答案 【完型填空答案解析】 今年完形填空的难度系数很小，基本无生词，长难句也很少。讲的是家长对孩子要有耐心，属于比较生活的话题。下面我们一起来看一下答案及解析。 1.【答案】D tricky 【解析】此处考察词义辨析+上下文语境。文章首段首句为主题句：每位父母都想成为好的父母。空格句开头为but，句意上出现了转折，“但是如何定义好的父母是个难题”，since后给出了原因，“因为不同的孩子对待同样的养育方式反应也是不同的”。tricky意为“棘手的，困难的”，符合句意。 2.【答案】B for example 【解析】此处考察上下文逻辑关系。前面说了不同的孩子对待同样的养育方式反应也是不同的，此句为例证，如果换一种养育方式，一个冷静而听话的孩子可能会比他的弟弟或妹妹反应更好些。所以用表示举例分析的for example最合适，其他选项另外、偶尔、意外地都不合适。 3.【答案】A Fortunately 【解析】此处考察副词词义辨析+上下文语境。空格所在句指出：还有一类父母描述起来会容易一些，这类就是非常耐心的父母。第一段告诉我们如何定义怎样才是好的父母是个难题，这里在上下文文义上是个转折，幸运地是/还好，有一类父母比较容易定义，并且各个年龄段的孩子都可以从他们的养育方式中获益。故选Fortunately，其他选项偶尔，对应地，最终地都不合适。 4.【答案】C describe 【解析】此处考察动词词义辨析+上下文语境。第一段告诉我们如何定义怎样才是好的父母是个难题，第二段出现转折说但是有一类父母很好描述/定义，describe与define相呼应，故选C符合句意。 5.【答案】A while 【解析】此处考察上下文逻辑关系。空格所在句指出：虽然每位父母都想成为耐心的父母，但这并不容易。逗号前后为转折关系，四个选项中while表转折，选A符合句意。 6.【答案】B task 【解析】此处考察名词词义辨析。虽然每位父母都想成为耐心的父母，但这不是个容易的差事/任务。task 意为任务，其余选项答案，选择，途径/权限都不合适，故选B符合句意。 7.【答案】A tolerant 【解析】此处考察形容词词义辨析。空格所在句指出有时父母会很累很沮丧，这时候对待孩子就很难沉着冷静(composed)和包容。tolerant意为包容的，故选A符合句意。 8.【答案】C push 【解析】此处考察动词词义辨析+上下文语境。你也不是圣人/你也只是普通人，而且有时候孩子会把你逼的很紧。push为催促/紧逼，此处move(移动，使感动)，drag(拖拽)，send(发送)均不符合句意，故选C。 9.【答案】D inevitable
2020年考研复试英语口语常见问题及答案 62. 复试英语口语的评价标准是什么? 1)语言准确性(语法和用词的准确性、语法结构的复杂性、词汇的丰富水准、发音的准确性); 2)话语的长短和连贯性(内容的连贯性、寻找合适词语而造成的停顿频率及长短、表达思想的语言长短等); 3)语言的灵活性和适合性(语言表达是否灵活、自然，话语是否得体，语言能否与语境、动能和目的相适合)。 63. 复试英语口语测试包括哪几个部分? 第一部分：考查学生理解并回答相关日常生活、家庭、工作、学 习等问题的水平(3-5分钟); 第二部分：考查学生连续表达的水平。考生从所给的问题中选择 一个话题，就此话题表达自己的看法(7-10分钟); 第三部分：部分院校复试中会加入专业英语的内容。 64. 复试英语口语如何评价成绩? 1) 优秀——能用外语就指定的话题实行口头交流，基本没有困难; 2)良好——能用外语就指定的题材实行口头交流，虽有些困难， 但不影响交流; 3)及格——能用外语就指定的话题实行简单的口头交流; 4)不及格——不具备口头表达水平。 65. 英语口语常问话题(一) 第一个经常问得话题是考研原因。通常我们能够从以下三个方面 来回答。
1) 兴趣，即强调对所报考的专业怀有极大的兴趣(have significant interest in…)。如果本科就读的专业与报考的专业一致，则能够说明想继续深造(further education)的愿望。如果不一致，则要说明报考专业对你的吸引力(…appeals to/attracts me a lot); 2) 优势，即强调研究生相对于本科生在知识、学术方面的优势，如：知识面更广(wider knowledge)，学术更专业(more professional)，眼界更广阔等(broaden one’s horizon); 3) 益处，即强调考研对你的未来的积极影响(have a positive effect on…)，能够从求职、职业规划、人生经历等方面入手实行说明。可参考的词汇、短语如下：be helpful, contribute to, be beneficial to, be conductive to, be a definite advantage, become a strong point when it comes to…等等。 此外，对于那些在职考生或有工作经验的考生来说，考官更倾向 于提问他们为什么(放弃工作而)重新学习。考生能够直言在工作发现 某些知识或技能很重要，希望能通过学习在这些方面实行提升(In my work, I found … is rather important. I always believe that one will easily lag behind unless he keeps on learning. So I choose to go back to school and improve myself。)。 66. 英语口语常问话题(二) 考官有时会询问考生对未来的一些规划，其目的在于试探考生是 否对时间、学习、人生有一定计划性和掌控水平。 1) 学习规划。关于这个话题，考官通常会以一种较婉转的方式提问，如：What do you expect to achieve during your study if you are enrolled into this university? 回答这个类的问题时，不 但仅要回答想学到什么样的知识、成为什么样的人，能够简述你会/计 划怎样学习(即学习方法)。无论是倾向于学术理论性的还是侧重于实 验研究性的，都要把握一个原则：理论联系实际，同时主次分明。
Language Points 1.Subtitle:Toxin sniffers，missile jammers,dirty-bomb detectors： The post-9/11security blitz is affecting more than public safety—it’s changing the course of science. Toxin sniffers:毒素嗅探器missile jammers:导弹人为干发射机 dirty-bomb detectors:放射性核弹探测器 全句可译为：毒素嗅探器、导弹人为干发射机、放射性核弹探测器：“9·11” 事件后闪电式的保卫行动不仅影响着公共安全——还在改变着科学的进程。 2.Par.[1]:In the race to prevent future9/11-style attacks—or worse—Washington has marshaled the U.S.science establishment on a scale not seen since Sputnik. 全句可译为：华盛顿以前苏联发射人造地球卫星以来所未有的规模对美国的科 学机构做了安排。 3.Par.[2]:“A lot of it is security theater technology designed to make you feel better,”says Bruce Schneier，author of Beyond Fear：Thinking Sensibly about Security in an Uncertain World. 全句可译为：《超脱恐惧：明智地考虑变幻莫测世界的安全问题》的作者布鲁 斯·施奈尔说：“这当中有许多都是做表面文章的保安技术，目的是让你感到 更安全。 4.Par.[6]:As the archive of visa applicants balloons，scans of all10 fingers will provide more fail-safe identifications. 全句可译为：随着护照签证申请人的档案急剧增加，对十指全部进行扫描将 使身份验证更加万无一失。 5.Par.[9]:Resembling a sleek outhouse，the$150,000walk-through machine sends a quick blast of air over your clothing to dislodge trace explosive particles. walk-through:（建筑物）从两端都可进入的 全句可译为：这种价值15万美元的从两端都可进入的机器像个造型优美的 户外小屋，它在你的衣服上面迅速地吹过一股气流，从衣服上吹下微量炸药 粒子， 6.Par.[10]:Still,building technology today already seems light-years beyond pre-9/11days． 全句可译为：然而，今天的建筑技术看来已经远远超过“9·11”事件以前的 日子了。 7.Par.[11]:GPS:Global Positioning System全球卫星定位系统 8.Par.[12]:A cyber-attack on the country’s financial networks or power and telecommunications grids could make other means of protecting our physical assets moot. 全句可译为：对国家的金融网或电力和电信网进行的网络攻击，可使我们保 护有形资产的其他手段变得无实际意义。 9.Par.[12]:Developers describe it as a“Google-esque”tool and predict
英语口语锦集（二） 261、【实用口语九字句（1）】①我不晓得在哪见过她。I don’t know where I’ve seen her before. ②我根本不是他的对手。I’m no match for him. ③我一个人哪做得完啊？I can’t do it by myself. ④我这样还不是为你好。I’m doing it for you. ⑤你一定可以撑下去的。You can do it. 262、脱口而出】1)Don't do this to yourself.别这么对你自己。2)Wish me luck.祝我好运。3)I'm married.我结婚了。4)What now?又怎么了？5)To be honest ,you are not my type.说实话！你不是我喜欢的类型（拒绝别人的时候可以派上用场）263、【实用口语八字句（7）】①朋友是做什么用的？What are friends for? ②有些人就是学不乖。Some people never learn.③我忘了要说什么了。I forgot what I was gonna say.④最糟的还不止这样。The worst is yet to come.⑤看什么看？没见过啊？What are you looking at? Never seen this before? 264、I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. ——Steve Jobs 我确信我热爱我所做的事情，这就是这些年来支持我继续走下去的唯一理由.（斯蒂芬·乔布斯） 265、【脱口而出】1)That makes no difference. 不都一样吗？2) You noticed that?你注意到了吗？3)That’s nice of you.你太好了。4)Stay/Keep away from me! 离我远一点5)You need to get used to being alone. 你应该学会习惯一个人生活。266、【谚语精华】1)Between friends all is common. 朋友之间不分彼此。2)Beauty lies in the love's eyes. 情人眼里出西施。3)A fall into a pit, a gain in your wit. 吃一堑，长一智。4)Don't claim to know what you don't know. 不要不懂装懂。 267、【实用口语八字句（6）】①怎么可能有这种事？How could that be?②什么风把你吹来啦？What brings you here?③一手交钱，一手交货。You give me the money. I’ll get you the goods.④如果我没搞错的话……If I’m not mistaken…⑤坐而言，不如起来行。Actions speak louder than words. 268、【美剧口语】1）I think I may be about to get involved with a married man.我想我和一个已婚男人暧昧不清了. 2）I can literally feel my heart thump when I see him.毫不夸张的说，当我见到他的时候，我真的听到我的心跳。-literally:不夸张地/实际地thump:砰然声【心跳的声音】——< 绯闻女孩> 269、 The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude. 自古至今人类最大的发现就是——一个人可以通过仅仅改变态度来改变他的未来。——Oprah Winfrey（奥普拉?温弗瑞） 270、"too much"在口语中的意思多是"过多；太过分了"。常用来表达恼怒、厌烦、不满等。例句：You really are too much , I can't stand that anymore 你真的太过分了，我无法再忍受了。 271、【实用口语八字句（5）】①只准早到，不许迟到。You are to be on time. Don’t be late. ②那有什么好奇怪的？What’s so weird about that? ③我可不是说着玩的。I’m not joking. ④这有什么大不了的？What’s the big deal? ⑤有种你给我试试看。I dare you to try. 272、【脱口而出】1）There you go again! 你又来了！2）We'll discuss it later! 回头再说吧！3）What happened to you? 你咋了？4）What's on your mind?/what are you thinking ? 你在想什么？5)That's going too far! 这太离谱了！
绝密★启用前 2018年全国硕士研究生招生考试 英语（二） （科目代码：204） ☆考生注意事项☆ 1.答题前，考生须在试题册指定位置上填写考生编号和考生姓名；在答题卡 指定位置上填写报考单位、考生姓名和考生编号,并涂写考生编号信息点。 2.考生须把试题册上的“试卷条形码”粘贴条取下，粘贴在答题卡的“试卷 条形码粘贴位置”框中。不按规定粘贴条形码而影响评卷结果的，责任由考生自负。 3.选择题的答案必须涂写在答题卡相应题号的选项上，非选择题的答案必须 书写在答题卡指定位置的边框区域内。超出答题区域书写的答案无效；在草稿纸、试题册上答题无效。 4.填（书）写部分必须使用黑色字迹签字笔书写，字迹工整、笔迹清楚；涂 写部分必须使用2B铅笔填涂。 5.考试结束，将答题卡和试题册按规定交回。 （以下信息考生必须认真填写） 考生编号 考生姓名
SectionⅠUse of English Directions： Read the following text.Choose the best word(s)for each numbered blank and mark A,B,C or D on the ANSWER SHEET.(10points) Why do people read negative Internet comments and do other things that will obviously be painful?Because humans have an inherent need to1uncertainty, according to a recent study in Psychological Science.The new research reveals that the need to know is so strong that people will2to satisfy their curiosity even when it is clear the answer will3. In a series of four experiments,behavioral scientists at the University of Chicago and the Wisconsin School of Business tested students’willingness to4themselves to unpleasant stimuli in an effort to satisfy curiosity.For one5,each participant was shown a pile of pens that the researcher claimed were from a previous experiment.The twist?Half of the pens would6an electric shock when clicked. Twenty-seven students were told which pens were electrified;another twenty-seven were told only that some were electrified.7left alone in the room, the students who did not know which ones would shock them clicked more pens and incurred more shocks than the students who knew what would8.Subsequent experiments reproduced this effect with other stimuli,9the sound of fingernails on a chalkboard and photographs of disgusting insects. The drive to10is deeply rooted in humans,much the same as the basic drives for11or shelter,says Christopher Hsee of the University of Chicago. Curiosity is often considered a good instinct–it can12new scientific advances, for instance–but sometimes such13can backfire.The insight that curiosity can drive you to do14things is a profound one. Unhealthy curiosity is possible to15,however.In a final experiment, participants who were encouraged to16how they would feel after viewing an unpleasant picture were less likely to17to see such an image.These results suggest that imagining the18of following through on one’s curiosity ahead of time can help determine19it is worth the endeavor.“Thinking about long-term 20is key to reducing the possible negative effects of curiosity,”Hsee says.In other words,don’t read online comments.
Hiolidays I like the Spring Festival most among various traditional festivals in China as it is the biggest and most exciting festival for Chinese. I like the Spring Festival also because I can eat a lot of delicious food and do a lot of interesting thing. For me, I have enough time to visit my classmates who isn’t in the same city with me and we can visit our teacher together. Everytime our teacher see us, she is very happy. The Spring Festival is the most important festival for the Chinese people and is when all family members get together, just like Christmas in the West. All people living away from home go back. Current customs to observe traditional Chinese festivals get more and more simplified and the old customs are gradually gone. For some people, festivals only mean the symbolic foods, such as moon cake for the Mid-Autumn Festival. The growing popularity of Western holidays in China might be one reason for the weakening cultural elements in China's traditional holidays. Another important reason I think is that many festivals, considered important days on China's lunar calendar, are not public holidays, especially in cities, as people have to work.
一、你认为自己是什么样的人，那你就是什么样的人 如果你改变想法——从悲观变为乐观——你就可以改变自己的生活 [1]你看酒杯是半杯有酒而不是半杯空着的吗？你的眼睛是盯着炸面圈，而不是它中间的孔吗?当研究者们仔细观察积极思维的作用时，这些陈词滥调突然间都成了科学问题。 [2]迅速增多的大量研究工作——迄今已有104个研究项目，涉及大约15 000人——证明乐观的态度可以使你更快乐、更健康、更成功。与此相反，悲观则导致无望、疾病以及失败它与沮丧、孤独、令人苦恼的腼腆密切相关。休斯敦莱斯大学的心理学家克雷格·A·安德森说：“如果我们能够教会人们更积极地思考，那就如同为他们注射了预防这些心理疾病的疫苗。” [3] “你的能力固然重要,”匹兹堡卡内基–梅隆大学的心理学家迈克尔·F·沙伊尔说，“但你成功的信念影响到你是否真能成功。”在某种程度上，这是由于乐观者和悲观者以截然不同的方式对待同样的挑战和失望。 [4]以你的工作为例。宾夕法尼亚大学的心理学家马丁·E·P·塞利格曼与同事彼得·舒尔曼在一项重要研究中对大都会人寿保险公司的推销员进行了调查。他们发现，在工龄较长的推销员中，积极思考者比消极思考者要多推销37%的保险额。在新雇用的推销员中，乐观主义者则多销了20%。 [5]公司受到了触动，便雇用了100名虽未通过标准化行业测试但在态度乐观一项得分很高的人。这些本来可能根本不会被雇用的人售出的保险额高出一般的推销员10%。 [6]他们是如何做到的呢？据塞利格曼说，乐观主义者成功的秘诀就在于他的“解释方式”。出了问题之后，悲观主义者倾向于自责。他说：“我不善于做这种事，我总是失败。”乐观主义者则寻找漏洞，他责怪天气，抱怨电话线路，甚至怪罪别人。他认为，是那个客户当时情绪不好。当一切顺利时，乐观主义者居功自傲而悲观主义者只把成功视为侥幸。[7]克雷格·安德森让一组学生给陌生人打电话，请他们为红十字会献血。当他们的第一、二个电话未能得到对方同意时，悲观者说：“我干不了这事。乐观主义者则对自己说：“我需要试试另一种方法。” [8]无论是消极还是积极，都是一种本身会成为事实的预言。安德森说：如果人们感到没有希望，他们就不会费事去获得成功所需的技能。” [9]据安德森看来，有无控制感是成功的试金石。乐观者能够掌握自己的命运。如果事情不顺利，他立刻做出反应，寻找解决办法，制定新的行动计划，并且主动寻求指点。悲观者则感到自己只能由命运摆布，行动拖拉。既然认为毫无办法，他便不去寻求指点。 [10]乐观主义者也许认为自己比事实能够证明的要强——有时正是这一点使他们充满生机。匹兹堡肿瘤研究所的桑德拉·利维博士对患晚期乳腺癌的妇女进行了研究。对那些通常持乐观态度的妇女来说，两次发病间隔的时间比较长，而这是生存下去的最好预兆。在一次对早期乳腺癌妇女的初步研究中，利维博士发现这一疾病在悲观病人身上复发更早。 [11]乐观态度不会使不治之症痊愈，却有可能预防疾病。在一项长期研究中，研究人员跟踪观察了一组哈佛大学毕业生的健康史。所有这些人都是班上的学生，并且健康状况良好。他们之中有的是积极思考者，有的是消极思考者。20年后，悲观者中患有中年常见病——高血压、糖尿病、心脏病——的人数要比乐观者多。 [12]许多研究显示，悲观者的无助感会损害人体的自然防御体系，即免疫系统。密执安大学的克里斯托弗·彼德森博士发现悲观主义者不能很好地照顾自己。他消极被动，无法避开生活中的打击，无论做什么都会担心身体不好或其他灾难将临。他大嚼不利于健康的垃圾食品，逃避体育锻炼，不听医生的劝告，还总是要再贪一杯。 [13]在多数人身上，乐观主义和悲观主义兼而有之，但总是更倾向于其中之一。塞利格曼说，这是一种早在“母亲膝下”就开始形成的思维模式，来自千万次警告或鼓励，消极的或积极的话语。过多的“不许”及危险警告会使一个孩子感到无能、恐惧以及悲观。 [14]随着年龄的增长，儿童能体会到许多小小的成就感，如学会系鞋带等。家长可以促使这类成功转变为控制感，从而培养出乐观主义。 [15]悲观是一种很难克服的习惯，但并非不能克服。在一系列具有重大突破的研究中，伊利诺伊大学的卡罗尔·德韦克博士对小学低年级儿童做了一些工作。她帮助那些屡屡出错的学生改变对失败原因的解释——从“我准是很笨”变成“我学习还不够努力”——因此他们的学习成绩提高了。 [16]匹兹堡的利维博士想知道把病人变成乐观主义者是否会延长他们的生命。在一次试验性研究中，两组结肠癌病人受到同样方式的治疗，但其中一些人还得到了鼓励乐观态度的心理帮助。试验结果表明这一做法有一定的效果。现在已在计划实施一项重大研究，以确定这一心理变化是否会改变病情的发展。 [17]因此，如果你是个悲观主义者，你完全有理由乐观起来。你能改变自己。以下就是范德比尔特大学的心理学家史蒂夫·霍朗指出的方法： [18]一、当坏事发生时，仔细留意自己的想法，把你最初的想法原原本本地记下来，一字不改。
We're having curry today. How soon can you get it ready? 还要多久才能做好呀? In about five more minutes.再有5分钟吧When will it be ready? How soon will it be done? Let's eat. 我吃了啊 Shall we begin? 可以吃了吗? Please go ahead. 请先吃吧 Please help yourself. 请便 This knife cuts well, doesn't it? 这把刀真快啊！ It sure does. 真挺好使的 The water is boiling! 水开啦! Come and get it! 开饭啦 It's time for dinner! 该吃晚饭啦! Breakfast/Lunch/Dinner is ready! It's time to eat. 该吃饭啦! Finally. 终于吃上饭喽! I'm coming. 这就来啦 I'll be right there. 我马上就去。 I'm on my way.
Did you wash your hands well? 手洗干净了吗？ Don't spill it! 别弄洒了（spill-_p发b音）Don't tip it over. 倾斜、倒出、打翻 Eat all of your vegetables.把碗里的菜吃光Finish your vegetables. Finish up your vegetables. Finish up your plate. 把碗里的饭吃光 I'm trying to. 这不吃着呢嘛。 I don't like asparagus. 不喜欢吃芦笋 Don't be picky. 不许挑食。 It was very delicious. Thank you. 谢谢款待 It was a wonderful dinner. Would you clear the table? 能帮我收拾盘子吗？ Would you put the dishes away? Do the dishes! 把盘子洗了！--I will. It's not my turn. 今天不该我洗。 Wash the dishes! I'll dry the dishes. 我擦盘子 What are you doing? --I'm watching TV.
2020年全国硕士研究生入学统-考试英语（二）试题 Section I Use or English Directions：Read the following text. Choose the best word(s) for each numbered blank and mark A. B. C or D on the A NSWER SHEET. (10 points) Being a good parent is what every parent would like to be. But defining what it means to be a good parent is undoubtedly very1particularly since children respond differently lo the same style of parenting. A calm rule-following child might respond better to a different sort of parenting than 2 a younger one. 3, there's another sort of parent that's easier to4; a parent. Children of every age benefit from patient parenting. Still ,5. every parent would like to be patient, this is no easy 6 . sometimes, parents gel exhausted and are unable to maintain a 7style with their kids. 1 understand this. You're only human, and sometimes your kids can 8 you just a little too far. And then the9happens: You lose your patience and either scream al your kids or say something that was too10and does nobody any good. You wish that you could 11the clock and start over. We've all been there. 12even though it's common, it's vital to keep in mind that in a single moment of fatigue, you can say something to your child that you may13for a long time. This may not only do damage to your relationship with your child but also14your child's self-esteem. If you consistently lose your15with your kids, then you are modeling a lack of emotional control for your kids.We are all becoming increasingly aware of the 16of modeling patience for the younger generation.This is a skill that will help them all throughout life. In fact, the ability to maintain emotional control when17 by stress is one of the most significant of all life's skills.