Differences between Sino-US relationship The United States is the world's largest developed country, national culture is very strong; China is the largest developing country, with five thousand years of civilization,the Chinese culture after long-term precipitation, rich heritage.In the United States, life or travel Chinese friends, on Sino-US cultural differences may all have more or less understanding.Sino-US relationship for me that here the difference.Chinese are very good at interpersonal relationships and forming universal friends, we all think that you have many friends good one.Therefore, whether the government work, or go shopping, find a friend want to do business,not a friend asked a friend to find friends of friends.Why?Because the Chinese believe that friends, emphasis on human relationships, and even advertising are more and more emphasis on the word of mouth publicity.Haveing friends in the government sector, you go to work on the more will be convenient, commissioned work friends a warm reception not only less at running, acting quickly, you can offer less money, you can not go by the normal process on everything.Y ears ago we returned home for marriage registration in the civil affairs departments in the past twenty minutes waiting, the staff as their friends for a marriage certificate, fee exempt, but also warm and send them out, until we obtain a permit when acold face, there is no trace of a smile, the same as the interrogation of prisoners, fees collected ter in the administrative service center, a student told me that for a marriage license was charged 10 yuan each.Unfortunately, we were happy, eager to shoot wedding, and even forgot to obtain a copy of the receipt of complaints have nowhere to turn.This is a friend and stranger things work the difference between similar examples that readers can cite a lot of friends.Overall, Americans are relatively simple relationships, human relatively short, people heavier law.Canada is the United States, neighboring countries, some of the traditional culture and the U.S. close.Shenzhen, one of my friends emigrated to Canada a few years ago in Montreal, her husband's brother is a grass-roots city officials.She told me, many Chinese Canadians, but to find her husband's work friends little brother, why?She said no he would not help, butCanada is very strict supervision of the Prosecutor which, not to help; the other hand is that most people in Canada are descendants of British and French, the Chinese share of no more than 4%the Europeans a stronger self-consciousness, rather troublesome friends do not want to spend more, work through the back door will be looked down upon, is a manifestation of their own incompetence.Instead, we buy home appliances from China, buy a car, home buyers, to pay taxes, pay fines, do business, as long as they can find friendships, many of us will do anything to find a friend, came forward, you do not find the relationship betweendisadvantage, there is not easy to be friend of the joke, laughing at you foolish.If you find friends, friends have the power and ability without help, friends can not direct refusal, which is our Chinese complex relationships.Friends difficult to do it?Difficult, more difficult to make friends, is the truth.In addition, as I said before, Americans will work with the private relationship between the comparison points to open, they think there are differences in the work, there are contradictions normal, but the work does not affect the differences between their private relationship,they will not conflict with workto lives.F or example, members of Congress often bickered for a number of bills and uncompromising, but they struggle in the face, the back is not gloating, just leave the room to play down differences and work through the problem will not engage in personal attacks,retaliation.Of course, in turn, they are difficult to use personal feelings to affect their work, and not because we are friends, work, I support your point of view, to give up their position.Y ears ago,when I work in corporate America, he would often encounter a similar case, I once saw two U.S. executives pound the table in the conference room, a throw files all over the floor, walked out the door while anotherto go, but I was surprised to see them together after the chat, drink coffee.This situation is almost impossible in China, why?Because we Chinese people working relationship and personal relationships get in a good personal relationship,working relationship to better get along and cooperate with each other easily, on the contrary, if the working relationship between the ruptures, it is difficult to maintain good personal relationships.This is Differences between Sino-US relationship.。
