《祈祷、美食、爱》电影观后感

美食祈祷和恋爱观后感英语英文回答："Eat, Pray, Love" is a memoir by Elizabeth Gilbert that explores her journey of self-discovery after a difficult divorce. The book follows her travels to Italy, India, and Indonesia, as she seeks to find fulfillment and happinessin the wake of her loss.Gilbert's writing is both honest and engaging, and she does not shy away from sharing her struggles and triumphs. She explores themes of love, loss, and the search for meaning in life. The book has resonated with millions of readers around the world, who have found solace and inspiration in Gilbert's story.The themes of "Eat, Pray, Love" are universal, and the book has been translated into over 30 languages. It has been adapted into a film starring Julia Roberts, and has also been the subject of a stage play.中文回答：《美食祈祷和恋爱》是伊丽莎白·吉尔伯特创作的一部回忆录，讲述了她在经历痛苦的离婚后自我发现的旅程。

《祈祷、美食、爱》电影观后感我看的这部电影所想到的问题也是最近我自己一直在想的问题：我的自我，一说到找寻自我很容易让人联想到一句话：如果你不是读着书，那么就走在路上，因为身体和心灵我们需要有一个在路上，现在越来越多的人会在自己读完大学之后去进行一次间隔年“gap year”，这在外国是一个很早就流行的词语，而在国内大概是在近几年才有，在不用担心吃喝的年代，人们更倾向于在这个时代去寻找自己的内心，自己的声音，而间隔年这真的是一个挺不错的生活方式，同时这也是一种找寻自己我、认识自我的一个好的时间。

片中的女主角，不喜欢安于舒适的家庭，觉得自己的人生仿佛一直都是在谈恋爱找男人结婚之间，而从来没有为自己活过，也因为种种的原因她结束了她的那段婚姻，她下了一个很大的决心去意大利生活，去印度的修道院然后去巴厘岛学习，离婚这件事对她来说是是一件很心痛的事情，但同时她也为失去自我而在挣扎，所以尽管伤心，她还是勇敢的为自己做了一个据决定，整部电影差不多用了三个小时去讲女主角在寻找生活的平衡，寻找心灵的归属的过程，在这一路上她把她遇到的每一个人都当做老师，与他们交流，在他们身上学着积极乐观、又或者是坚持和爱，到最后帮助在路上遇到的有困难的人们，她的那种自由、不羁的性格真的很吸引我，现在的我，就是有点迷茫，大学的三年，我没有觉得自己白过，反而觉得自己拼足了努力去过好每一天，去做好自己，对于过去的自己我是认可的，而在面临快要毕业的时间，我本来对自己的打算却开始有点懦弱了，我看到了自己不敢再向前踏一步的那种小心翼翼。

在大学的期间太忙，忙于各种活动，认识很多的朋友，以此来丰富自己，没有时间读书，对于旅行，更加是慌慌张张，我想正因为这样，所以至今觉得自己缺少了一点信仰，懒是借口，害怕自己成为不了想成为的人，不敢前进才是真的，这部片就像是给我当头一棒，觉得什么事情都总会有第一次，我们想要决定去做一样东西的时候也许就需要放弃另外一些东西，其实这并不是不会珍惜，因为我觉得在你“拥有”前，你要知道自己是否真的已经确定好这件事了，例如一个人、一个梦、又或者是一种生活的态度，每天的混混沌沌和磨蹭也只是让事情变得更加消极、浪费时间，所以我觉得有时候一个狠心的决定是你需要做的，对自己狠一点，那么你才会进步，生活太安逸了容易让人迷失，想太多也是一种毛病，快刀斩乱麻，也许真的只有你这样做了，才会知道事情在改变。

内容：At 32 years old, Elizabeth Gilbert was educated, had a home, a husband, and a successful career as a writer. However, she was unhappy in her marriage and often spent the night crying on her bathroom floor. After separating from her husband and initiating a divorce, which hecontested, she embarked on a rebound relationship which continued for some time but did not work out, leaving her devastated and alone.Afterwards, while writing an article on yoga vacations in Bali, Gilbert met a ninth-generation medicine man who told her she would one day come back and study with him. After finalizing her difficult divorce, Gilbert spent the next year traveling around the world. The trip was paid for in advance with a book deal from the publisher.She spent four months in Italy, eating and enjoying life ("Eat"). She spent four months in India, finding her spirituality ("Pray"). She ended the year in Bali, Indonesia, looking for "balance" of the two and foundlove ("Love") in the form of a dashing Brazilian factory owner.作者简介Elizabeth M. Gilbert (born July 18, 1969) is an American novelist, essayist, short story writer, biographer, and memoirist. She is most known for her 2006 memoirs, Eat, Pray, Love, which as of December 2010, hasspent 199 weeks on the New York Times Best Seller list, and was also made into a film by the same name in 2010.The book’s Chinese edition--一辈子做女孩 did not grab my interest when I heard it for the first time. Because I guess it might be the kind of book which try it’s best to convince a girl o f some so called principles to behave more like a girl. Much to my surprise, I absolutely enjoyed its original edition. From the English title—eat pray love and the subtitle --one woman’s search for everything across Italy, India and Indonesia, we could find the slightly difference with the Chinese edition. Actually, the book is telling about a woman’s pursuit of worldly pleasure and spiritual devotion through traveling and meditation.At 32 years old, Elizabeth Gilbert was educated, had a home, a husband, and a successful career as a writer. However, she was unhappy in her marriage, did not want to have a child and often spent the night crying on her bathroom floor. After separating with her husband, she embarked on a rebound relationship which continued for some time butdid not work out, leaving her devastated and alone. To get a relief, she decided to have a gap year. Firstly, Liz went to Italy to hide herself fromthe failure of marriage, she was quite frustrated and puzzled of her futurelife. Thus she could only find her way out by eating all kinds of deliciouscuisines in Italy. Then, after finishing this sort of lower hierarchy of needs,she began to think deeper, about the truth of life. Then, she came to India,and learnt to meditate with Guru, figured out devotion and inner peace with her own experience. At last, in the paradise Bali, Liz eventually fell into a new relationship, and she managed to keep the balance between love and spirituality. The story is quite simple, but each place represents a kind of inner situation of Liz, which witnesses her growth on her way searching for the ultimate truth of life from tears to relief.Three things impressed me most when Liz was in Rome. As a person who has no resist to delicious food, I really envy the delicious cuisinesshe ate there. I remember as Luca Spaghetti’s birthday falls on Thanksgiving, they ate both American Thanksgiving roast turkey as well as Italy delicacy. The way she ate those spaghetti really makes me hungry. And at the party when they were giving their appreciation to life, one guy said he is so thankful for feeling scary because it is the first time he met a girl wh o makes him feel scared that she might left him first. It’s really a romantic confession, isn’t it? Another thing is that I got to learn the art of doing nothing from these Italian. Just like many modern people in thissociety today, we often spend our time to do everything in a rush way. We just ignored the beauty of doing nothing. Actually, the beauty of doingnothing is the goal of all our work, the final accomplishment for which we are mostly highly congratulated. The more exquisitely and delightfully w e can do nothing, the higher our life’s achievement. We don’t necessarily need to be rich in order to experience this, either.Because it’s the most common thing exists in everyone’s life.In India, Liz learned the way to get through hard times and she got to know the importance of controlling her thought. As her friend Richard told her, we need to learn how to select our thoughts just the same way we select what clothes we're going to wear every day. This is a power we can cultivate. If we want to control things in our life so bad, work on the mind. That's the only thing we should be trying to control. Drop everything else but that. If we can't learn to master our thinking, we're in deep trouble forever. Meditation really helps Liz a lot in finding out who she is and where she is going to. As for me, I’ve been meditate since I clearly got to know myself three years ago. Now I’m still on my way of living an inner balanced life. And I feel so grateful for what I own today, what is going to happen tomorrow, who appears in my life to do the whole life work with me. And I’m truly willing to regard everything that happens to me on my journey as a clue, and accept everyone I meet alone the way as a teacher. It’s much easier for me to understand Liz’sfrustration and I’m so pleased to see she finally find the way to keep balance. Just like Guru said to Liz, to find the balance we want, we mustkeep our feet grounded so firmly on the earth that it’s l ike we have fourlegs, instead of two. That way we can stay in the world. But we must stoplooking at the world through our head. We must look through our heart,instead.As for love, I got a brand new idea about soul mate. Almost everyone want to meet a true soul mate in order to be more secure about we are been loved in this world. We are not alone. And in desperate love we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding that they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place. Maybe that’s why people’s relationship always ended up unhappily. People always think a soul mate is our perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows us everything that’s holding us back, the person who brings us to our own attention so we can change our life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person we’ll ever meet, because they tear down our walls and smack us awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? No. that’s too painful. Soul mates, they come into our life just to reveal another layer of ourselves to us, and then they leave. And we should thank God for it. Sometimes all we need to do to go away from an obsession is to accept the fact that we are obsessed with it. Admitthat it takes time to go away. Never be ashamed of expressing nice feelings. Never be overly cool to fake feelings, especially those that willhurt people. Let it be and it will finally fade away, no matter how intenseit used to be.From Liz, I got to know the significance of treasuring every singlemoment of our lives and making every minute count with our ownexperience. Our life is full of ups and downs. W e must always be prepared for riotous and endless waves of transformation. It is better to live our own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else’s life with perfection. Just as Liz, I would rather seize every moment and enjoy it than complain or regret all the time. She also told us the importance to think positively and act energetically. In her another meditation, her friend, Richard, said that, “Someday you’re going to look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You’ll see that you were in mourning and your heart was broken, but your life was changing and you were in the best possible place in the world for it - in a beautiful place of worship, surrounded by grace. Take this time, every minute of it.” How beautiful and adorable these sentences are! It makes me feel so relaxed and renewed. I think it is not only a tourism memoir, but a spiritual bath as well.。

62外国电影评论Forein Film Review电影《美食、祈祷和恋爱》海报2010年电影《美食、祈祷和恋爱》在美国上映，该影片是根据美国作家、散文家伊丽莎白·吉尔伯特的同名畅销回忆录改编而成。

《美食、祈祷和恋爱》这部电影讲述了美国著名作家伊莉莎自·吉尔伯特在优质的生活中逐渐迷失自我，决心放下一切，开始环球旅行，进行心灵的探索，影片通过美食、恋爱和祈祷来对人生进行思考，洗涤混乱的身心，最终寻得理性和身心平衡的历程。

这部电影看似具有很强的女性主义基调，通过女主人公的婚姻、爱情和自我拯救进行讲述，其实质是解释了美国文化的核心价值观：个人主义。

一、 美国核心价值观体系中的个人主义美国著名学者萨姆瓦认为，从广义的方面来讲，个人主义就是指个人利益，应该是至高无上的。

个人主义强调的是个人的能动性、自由、独立的权利和利益，最为重要的是个人的尊严和价值。

西方文明的核心价值是个人主义。

韦森早在《文化与秩序》中就明确指出，不论是美国文化还是英国文化，或是欧洲大陆各国的文化，都可以理解为一种个人主义文化，但是美国自由、民主的个人文化的形成则是贯穿了美国历史形成的全过程。

在当今的社会，个人主义已经渗透到美国社会的方方面面，个人主义已经是美国文化的主要内容和基本特征。

法国思想家托克维尔将个人主义描述为一直只顾自己的却又心安理得的感情，但是美国著名的历史学家康马杰在其作品《美国精神》一书中，将个人主义几乎等同于美国主义，由此可以见得，个人主义在美国文化中所占有的地位是何等的重要。

二、 以个人主义价值观为影片的核心思想（一）伊莉莎白的自我拯救离婚前的女主角伊丽莎白是一位拥有成功事业温俊毅【作者简介】温俊毅，女，河南焦作人，河南理工大学外语学院讲师，英国伯明翰大学硕士，主要从事英语应用语言学及英语教学方向研究。

从电影《美食、祈祷和恋爱》看个人主义价值实现2016年第13期的女强人，且具有很大的勇气，在巨大的压力之下，毅然决然的选择摆脱令自己不快乐的婚姻生活。

从文学言语层面看《美食、祈祷、爱》《美食、祈祷、爱》是美国作家伊丽莎白·吉尔伯特的畅销作品，是作者的旅行实录，讲述了作者一路追求心灵自由和平衡的历程。

其语言不乏文学性和启发性，对复杂心理的刻画尤其细致入微而形象生动。

我惊叹于其语言运用的娴熟精准，被文学言语的艺术魅力所折服。

所以我选择就文学言语层面的三个特点对《美食、祈祷、爱》一书做分析，即内指性、心理蕴含性和阻拒性。

一、文学言语是内指性的。

文学言语不同于普通言语，它是指向文本中的艺术世界的，有时候不必遵循现实生活的逻辑，只要与整个艺术世界的氛围相统一就可以了。

例如，书中有一段描写作者为摆脱内心的痛苦而向神灵祈祷，“在我喘息的呜咽中，我和神的对话类似这样：‘哈罗，神啊。

您好吗？我是小莉。

很高兴认识您。

’没错——我和造物主打招呼，就好像在鸡尾酒派对上刚刚由人介绍认识。

”这在现实生活中不符合逻辑，但在文本世界里却是成立的。

因为文学言语是内指性的，即指向文本中的特定情境。

作者的婚姻疲倦给她带来了极大的痛苦，她左右为难，内心冲突剧烈，痛苦不堪。

而这个痛苦并不是外界加诸于她的，是她内心过不了自己那关。

她是一个感性动物，对知觉和情感极重视，极敏感。

她感觉到自己不愿待在婚姻中，但又不知如何面对丈夫和两人的爱。

“不离开比离开更难以想象，离开比不离开更不可能。

”正是这样复杂无解的心理困境使作者必须逃离现实世界，尝试以一种虚无的、想象的姿态进行指向内心的对话，从而达到心灵的暂时解脱。

而这与整部小说营造的心灵信仰和修炼的神秘而真实的艺术氛围是一致的，也符合诗意逻辑中显现的人类反应和体验的真实，所以没有必要受到现实世界唯物主义逻辑的局限。

二、文学言语具有心理蕴含性。

文学言语侧重于语言的表现功能，蕴涵了作者丰富的知觉、情感、想象等心理体验，因而比普通言语更富于心理蕴涵性。

例如：作者描写她们游览威尼斯这座古城的时候，有如下表达：“某个雾蒙蒙的夜晚，我们经过一栋痛苦呻吟的老建筑”。

孤独而抑郁地走在找寻自我的路上-《美食、祈祷和恋爱》读后感说实话，曾经因为《一辈子做女孩》的书名而错过了这本书，直到朱莉娅罗伯茨主演《美食、祈祷与恋爱》的电影上映，而后再找到这本原著。

细细读来，与我最近几年正经历着的，正思考着的撞到了一起，于是感触颇深。

思索之一：我到底想从二人关系中得到什么？曾把“爱”当成我今生唯一的事业，每一段感情都是全情投入，（就像文中所写，外人的一句话惊醒梦中人，“有的狗会和主人越长越象”）。

但是，每一段爱总是由甜蜜缠绵开始，又终归以厌倦逃避结束。

全心全意地付出，带给二人关系的是压力，为什么？“你希望从二人关系中得到一切！？”作者母亲的话让我警醒：我，活在世上，到底是完整的，还是残缺的？如果是残缺的，便会想从另一半身上获得完整，如果残缺，便不能独立存在于世上。

所以免不了期待、依赖、、、那么如果我是完整独立的个体呢？不依赖于任何其他个体存在于世，我的快乐、忧伤、幸福、梦想，一切的一切，只是因为我自己，而不再是因为别人，其他的人都不过是我生命中的过客而已，来来去去，有的陪我走很长的路，有的也只是擦肩的缘分。

独立完整的个体，注定是要孤独的来，孤独的去。

思索之二：找寻自我的路上躲不开孤独与抑郁的骚扰吗？接着上一个思索，如果我们是完整的个体，注定要孤独地来，孤独地去，那么孤独，到底是我们的朋友，还是敌人呢？有说把孤独当朋友，和平相处，享受孤独；有说把孤独当敌人，如果躲不过，就用快乐去对付它。

我觉得孤独与害怕孤独，是人的本能，尤其我们生活在一个越喧嚣，越孤独的城市，到底如何与孤独和平相处呢？我很迷茫。

而抑郁，以前把它当成难以启齿的精神疾病，看了这本书后，我对抑郁有些释然了，它应该是那些在寻找自我的路上孤独前行的人无法避免的迷茫状态而已，也许迷茫不是什么值得炫耀的状态，但，至少我们是在探索，在用自己的智慧寻找光明，是对黑暗状态的一种自省，总比浑浑噩噩要好，“黑夜给了我一双黑色的眼睛，我用它来寻找光明” 即使终生走不出抑郁的.状态，起码也是倒在了寻找光明的路上，应该骄傲，而不是羞耻！思索之三：人生的初级意义就是努力享受生活的乐趣。

美食祈祷和恋爱观后感英语Reflections on "Eat Pray Love""Eat Pray Love" is a film that captured my attention with its unique blend of themes: food, prayer, and love. Directed by Ryan Murphy and based on the memoir of the same name by Elizabeth Gilbert, the film tells the story of a woman's journey of self-discovery and growth. As I sat through the film, I found myself deeply resonating with the protagonist's experiences and the lessons she learned along the way.The film opens with Liz Gilbert (played brilliantly by Julia Roberts) going through a period of personal and professional crisis. She feels stuck in her life, unhappy with her job, and unfulfilled in her relationship. In a moment of clarity, she decides to take a year off and embark on a journey of self-discovery, dividing her time between Italy, India, and Bali.In Italy, Liz indulges in the rich cuisine and culture, finding solace in the simple pleasures of life. She learns to appreciate the art of cooking and the joy of sharing meals with others. This segment of the film is particularly poignant, as it reminds us of the importance of savoring life's simple pleasures and connecting with others through shared experiences.In India, Liz turns to prayer and spirituality, seeking answers to the questions that have been plaguing her. She immerses herself in the rich traditions and practices of yoga and meditation, finding a sense of peace andtranquility that she had been lacking in her life. This segment of the film is particularly poignant as it explores the power of prayer and spirituality in helping us find inner peace and clarity.Finally, in Bali, Liz embarks on a journey of love and self-acceptance. She meets a local man who challenges her preconceptions about love and relationships, teaching her to love unconditionally and embrace her own flaws and imperfections. This segment of the film is perhaps the mostpowerful, as it reminds us of the transformative power of love and the importance of embracing our true selves.Throughout the film, Liz's journey is paralleled by her writing process, as she documents her experiences in a book she is writing. This adds another layer of depth to the film, as it explores the role of creativity and self-expression in the process of self-discovery.As the film comes to a close, Liz returns to her life in the United States, a changed woman. She has grown and learned from her experiences, and is now ready to embrace the next chapter of her life. The film leaves the audience with a sense of hope and optimism, reminding us that it is possible to overcome challenges and find happiness and fulfillment in life."Eat Pray Love" is not just a film about food, prayer, and love. It is a film about self-discovery, growth, and transformation. It encourages us to take risks, to embrace our flaws and imperfections, and to seek happiness and fulfillment in whatever path we choose. The film is atestament to the power of personal growth and the transformative power of travel, culture, and love. It is a film that will stay with me for a long time, inspiring me to continue on my own journey of self-discovery and growth.。

影片：Eat Pray and Love (中文名：美食、祈祷和恋爱）上映时间：2010年主演：Julia Roberts(茱丽娅.萝卜茨)已观看次数：3次Sometimes to lose balance for love is part of living balanced life.有时候，为爱失去平衡也是生命的一部分---题记。

感言：比起1990年上映的pretty woman（风月俏佳人）里年轻而又紧致的大嘴美女主角茱丽娅，20年的时间，足够岁月有痕到如今眼角的皱褶与满身心的苍老。

好在本色演出弥补了心路历程片的缺憾、整个色调沉浸在一位离异单身大龄女Liz Gilbert，在经历一段情感破产后，寻觅自我意义最终找到平衡自我解脱的过程。

旅行，会是很多人在受到创伤后，唯一会选择的一件事，它会让人在感受世间一切美好的过程中，重新唤起自己内心的生活希望与真实的自我。

开片大量使用意大利语，很有风味。

追寻路线：意大利罗马美食---印度瑜珈冥想----巴厘岛恋爱。

以下内容不是原创，略有改动：300多年前的David Hartley说“我们一直都生活在一个靠共鸣去感知，交流，寻觅的世界中”那些玄之又玄的契合，心与心的震颤，灵魂和灵魂的交融。

>>>>“只有当你敢于放弃你所留恋和憎恨的东西，从逃避中学会面对，才能最终接受那部分并不讨人喜欢的自己”-------不去关注内在导致我们忽视了这些共鸣，“美食、祈祷和恋爱”这样一部电影，它让你随着主人公跳出原有的圈子，去审视自己，学会认真的生活，>>>>“你们知道什么是快乐吗？不，你们只知道娱乐，不知道快乐”我想，没有一个地方的理发师会像意大利人一样准许客人一边刮胡子一边手舞足蹈的聊天，凶杀电影才这样，导演Ryan用这种方式表达对所谓追求“高效率”观念的抨击。

每天看着各种各样的视频，打着不同的游戏，却仍旧抱怨无聊，我不是不能理解这种感受，有很多人提到过，也想放弃一切，去改变自己的生活,>>>>但是“我们踏上旅程，常常不是明白要去哪里，而是为了寻找一个方向”“用一个词来形容你的城市吧” --或者我们正在找一个适合自己的词语的途中。

72Food and Life 食品与生活电影《享受吧，一个人的旅行》的原著一度因被奉为“美国女孩的圣经”而风靡一时，我更喜欢英文直译的名字《美食、祈祷和恋爱》。

许多人初看时只觉主人公无病呻吟，然而当经历了时光洗礼之后再来看这个故事，或多或少会产生一些共鸣。

年过三十的伊丽莎白已婚、无子，社会地位显赫，喜欢旅行并以此为生，生活是许多人羡慕的样子。

然而，她在与丈夫一次次南辕北辙的交流中渐觉疲惫，仓促间她跳入下一段感情寻求解脱，却越发失去自我，并在漫长的离婚拉锯战中倾尽所有财产才得以脱身，近乎狼狈。

或许冥冥之中的指引，她动了旅行一年调整自己的念头，不顾亲友阻拦，和新男友告别，收拾了简单的行囊便踏上旅程。

她在意大利放下对身材管理的焦虑，尽情享受美食，并交到一群有趣的朋友，学习意大利语，直到能坐在街边流利点菜。

临行前，她与当地朋友共度感恩节，在这里她开始探索自我，渐渐活出了有主见的样子。

在印度进入灵修班修行时，发现这里的人大多为自我救赎而来，她对经书不求甚解，不理解当地人顽固的婚俗，当认识了同样来自美国的同修后，大家彼此剖析自己的过去和灵魂，不执著于形式和表相，最终原谅自己并走出桎梏。

带着这种解脱的心情，她离开印度抵达巴厘岛，开始了身心放松的旅程。

一年多以前她曾来此拜访一位百岁巫医，巫医嘱咐她：“要脚踏实地，不要用眼睛观察世界而要用心。

”如今她回皮 皮曾任专业电影记者，新闻生涯二十余载。

看过的影碟比人儿高，见过的明星比花儿多，梦想执笔天下，吃遍美食，长歌当啸，煮酒论英雄。

美食、祈祷和爱732022-05管理的人甘愿被碳水炸弹包围又能迅速调整回去。

对于品尝这件事本身，美食并不是主角，而是共享美食的人。

当伊丽莎白和朋友面对两大盘比萨放肆享受并洒脱地谈论时，会心的笑容才是快乐生活的源泉。

如果你有能力在米其林餐厅里举杯高谈阔论，也应当能在街边排档做一个安静倾听的人。

一个固守于身前一碗米饭的人，必定无法听见远行人抑扬顿挫的音调。

《美食，祈祷，恋爱》精选读后感500字《美食，祈祷，恋爱》_精选读后感500字
我不是一个虔诚的宗教信徒，我也对美食没有太大兴趣。

然而这
本书赚足还是很大程度的吸引了我，并读完。

吸引我的是书名这样的
随心而欲的态度。

因为现在社会似乎又太少人能这样忠于自己忠于内
心了。

大家都都在过约定俗成的相差无几的生活。

很少有人去走自己
想走但人迹罕走的路。

人则作为对婚姻恐惧对大多数人的选择和生活尊重却不百分百认
同的我来说，似乎十分理解作者为何离婚。

如果我是她的朋友，我会
很赞同她离婚。

因为，不是所有人都适合结婚都结婚都必须结婚的。

想结婚的时候结婚，享受过常人的日常生活，觉得不适合待在再
婚里就离婚，不是未尝不可。

只是想说，宽容如果对自己的认知足够
深刻和理性，其实是没有必要让自己非要去走一遭婚姻的。

不能说是
以身试错，作为一种对人生的体验，对又爱生恨的领悟，或许也不错。

表面上才是一路旅行，实际上是节节朝圣。

救赎自己的心，然后
让自己有更强大的力量去那颗初心。

一条太少有人走的路，如果能抵得住不得已的流言蜚语，走到底
看到光，那束光照亮了自己也让自己看到了，就算成功了。

别人对待
你的态度旁人会有很大转变，内心足够坚定的话其实是没必要在意的。

每天路上的风景也不一样，看自己的风景，尽心去enjoy，即可。