在职场打拼的女性特别不容易，来看看女性的职场法则吧。
The career of women is not particularly easy, to have a look the female workplace rules.1、你要记住，在职场里可以不做坏人，但至少别那么善良;也可以善良，但至少别那么容易相信人。
1, you have to remember, can not do bad in the workplace, but at least not so good; also can be good, but at least don't believe a person easily.职场时一个利益交换的场所，品德好的人往往树敌众多，而坏人却顺风顺水。
你可以不学坏人那样去害人，但至少要有保护自己的能力。
The workplace is a place of interest exchange, good moral character often has many enemies, and the bad guys can sail with the wind. You can not learn bad to hurt, but at least you should have the ability to protect themselves.别人要来害你，最简单的方式是利用你的善良，其次是因为你轻信于人。
而在职场中，信任这种东西往往应该有尺度。
Others want to harm you, the easiest way is to take advantage of your kindness, and secondly because you rely on others. And in the workplace, trust such things tend to have scale.站在自己的立场上，守住应该有的利益，相信应该相信的话，这才能活的更好。
Stand in their position, defend should have interest, that should believe, this can live better.2、你要记住，在职场上，伪善的人不是异类。
而像你这样，不会说假话伪装自己的，才是异类。
2, you must remember, the workplace, the hypocrisy of people not alien. And like you, don't lie to disguise themselves, is heterogeneous.很多女孩子都会觉得，身边同事都太假了，像是带着面具做人。
而实际上，这种伪善的人在职场中是主流，所以一个实话实说的人反而成了异类。
Many girls think, close colleagues are too fake, like with a mask. In fact, the hypocrisy of people in the workplace is the mainstream, so an honest man instead of a heterogeneous.别把职场中伪善的人当成怪胎，他们每说一句谎话，都是有好处的，而你做不到他们那么虚伪，是一种缺陷。
Don't put the workplace hypocritical as a freak, they each tell a lie, is good, and you can't do them so hypocritical, as a kind of defect.所以在职场中，你或者学会说谎话，或者学会沉默。
In the workplace, or you learn to lie, or learn to silence.3、你要记住，能干不能干自有公论，但最后升职加薪的，总是最有关系背景的那个人。
3, you must remember, do not do judge, but the final promotion and salary raise, that man is always the most relations background.女性在职场，往往很纠结别人对自己的评价。
我们也经常会听到，某人能干，或者某人不能干的讨论。
以至于有人会问，究竟自己要多能干才能升职。
Women in the workplace, are often very entanglements evaluation of others on their own. We often hear, someone capable, discussion or someone not to do. That some people may ask, what more ability promotion.事实上，能干不能干是人们口头的评价，在职场中并不能起到多大的作用。
看看周围，真正升职加薪捞到好处的，往往不是最能干的，而是最有手腕、最有背景的人。
In fact, able people oral evaluation, and can not play a big role in the workplace. Have a look around, the real promotion and salary raise profit, is often not the best, but the wrist, the background.4、你要记住，说了不一定做的都是领导，做了还不懂得说的都是小人物，所以，做的多不如说的多。
4, you have to remember, that will not do is leadership, do not know about it is little, so, do more than say a lot.为什么有些人没做什么，却偏偏能得到上司青睐?为什么有些人，说话不算数，却能手握大权?Why do some people didn't do anything, but it can get the boss favor? Why do some people, speak not count, but it can wield great power?在职场里，有些人明明做了很多，却不懂表现，以至于没人知道，甚至功劳被人抢走，这种人就算累的半死，也是不会有半分功劳的，因为上司压根看不见她。
In the workplace, obviously some people do a lot, but do not understand, that nobody knows, even the credit was robbed, even tired half dead, also won't have half the credit, because the boss don't see her.而另一些人，事情还没做，就先说的天下皆知。
于是不管她们做不做的成，有没有做，都成了领导眼里的红人。
While some people, things haven't known all over the world, to say. So whatever it is they do not do, do, has become a leading eye.职场的现实就是这样，做的多不如说的多，做的好不如说的好。
Your reality is such, do more than say more, do better than say well.5、你要记住，为小事情生气只会让你得罪人，却不可能得到任何好处。
5, you must remember, small things angry will only allow you to offend people, but could not get any benefit.女性在职场里，很容易为小事情生气。
然而，小事情往往是最难分出对错的，所以就把大量的精力纠结于此，弄的天怒人怨，最后还不了了之。
Women in the workplace, it is easy for the little things. However, the little things are often the most difficult to distinguish right from wrong, so we put a lot of effort struggling with this, get the outrageous, finally settle a matter by leaving it unsettled.实际上，小事情并不会改变你的职场命运，就算争赢了也不会让你得到什么好处。
相反，过于纠缠细节，会令你得罪许多人，也会让同事对你的好感降低。
In fact, the small things will not change your fate in career, even if the win alsowon't let you get any benefits. On the contrary, too much details, will make you offend many people, also can let your colleagues to favor lower.得罪人是有成本的，所以要有足够多的好处，才能够去做。
To offend people have cost, so have plenty of good, to be able to do.6、你要记住，所谓上司的责任就是折磨你，所以永远也别指望他会理解你。
6, you must remember, the so-called boss's responsibility is to torture you, so don't expect he will understand you.许多女性都会抱怨上司不理解自己。
上司能理解你么?永无可能。
因为每个职位上的人，都有表现自己的方式。
Many women complain about the boss does not understand their own. The boss will understand you? Never. Because each job, have demonstrated their own way.你是底层做事情的员工，那么多干活就是你表现的方法，也是你表明自己存在的模式。
